FabSwingers.com forum: Assumptions

By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

So because of my profile status (something about a sale at Ann Summers), a guy just messaged me to not "spend all my husband's money on it". This assumption really pissed me off to the core. I'm the breadwinner.

What would be an assumption about you that would really annoy you?

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By *onko the SaneMan
2 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

That I care what happens here

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

That I’m a biscuit obsessed twat

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

That im on here for sex

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

That I’m d*unk everytime I’m on here! I hate those assumptions that are obvious facts!

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

"That I’m d*unk everytime I’m on here! I hate those assumptions that are obvious facts! "

Lol they are the worst!

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By *ermite12ukMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull and Romford

I don't really care what people I've met have assumed about me. So there's not a chance in hell I give a flying one about some random sending me a message. (No better example of a block & forget imho.)

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
2 weeks ago

his Birthday suit x

Being single and not accommodating makes me a cheat. Maybe my adult kids live with me and I don't get my home to myself ever.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

That I'm nice or fun

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By *uonline69Man
2 weeks ago

Saddleworth, UK

That because I'm a gentleman and write actual messages and have actually read a profile that I'm just like everyone else. Maybe, just maybe, don't assume I'm looking for sex straight away. Maybe I actually want to meet you and work out if we have some chemistry ... Wait, this is turning into a rant isn't it. Sorry.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

"That I'm nice or fun"
Don't think anyone would make that assumption

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

"Being single and not accommodating makes me a cheat. Maybe my adult kids live with me and I don't get my home to myself ever."

Yep, had that one, although mine aren't adults. And even when I do get a night to myself maybe I don't want to invite a stranger from the internet to the place where my children live.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes, I think it's so hard for a guy on here. I would not accommodate ever again, even if I could. Just enjoy a hotel!

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
2 weeks ago

his Birthday suit x

"Being single and not accommodating makes me a cheat. Maybe my adult kids live with me and I don't get my home to myself ever.

Yep, had that one, although mine aren't adults. And even when I do get a night to myself maybe I don't want to invite a stranger from the internet to the place where my children live. "
you know it and have the dog ranting at them to scare them off lol

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"That I'm nice or funDon't think anyone would make that assumption

Me either but some do! I mean, I couldn't make it any more obvious.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Oh yes one that really annoyed me was someone making the assumption I was in denial as I dont want sex

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

"That I'm nice or funDon't think anyone would make that assumption

Me either but some do! I mean, I couldn't make it any more obvious.

You really couldn't

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By *utsackerMan
2 weeks ago

north east

Doesent annoy me I find it amusing but people assume I’m a bum due to always being in work clothes and going everywhere in my work van

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
2 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

I hate it when women assume I'd be shit in bed. Only because it's my tagline on here. Now I'm confused, am I shit in bed or not??! Who knows 🤷🏼‍♂️.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

That if I mention a sexual thing on here, I a) definitely want to do it and b) definitely want to do it with them and c) definitely want to do it with them right now.

This goes doubly for my fiction. Writing a story means I want to write a story.

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By *luebell888Woman
2 weeks ago

Glasgowish

People presume I am Scottish because I live in Scotland.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

That because I'm fat I'm desperate and will fuck anything

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

"People presume I am Scottish because I live in Scotland. "

Wait what!?!

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

"People presume I am Scottish because I live in Scotland. "

Well duh! Who else would choose to live in Scotland other than the Scottish!

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
2 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

That my idea of fun is the same as theirs.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

"That because I'm fat I'm desperate and will fuck anything "

You said exactly what i was going to put..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

"People presume I am Scottish because I live in Scotland. "
I thought you where scottish

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Oh and if I actually want to get to know someone first that I'm a time waster.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

People often assume that because I'm not very tall I'm helpless. It annoys me because they frequently tell me what I should be doing or think I'm incapable of carrying out fairly basic things 🤦

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
2 weeks ago

Gravesend

Guys who assume that sending 'Hi gorgeous' or similar to a joint profile is going to get a serious and non sarcastic response. As clearly the male half of the profile would never maybe read the messages lol.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

That because I'm South Asian, I would be really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
2 weeks ago

Gravesend

"Guys who assume that sending 'Hi gorgeous' or similar to a joint profile is going to get a serious and non sarcastic response. As clearly the male half of the profile would never maybe read the messages lol."

Although just for the record......I am absolutely gorgeous lol. (Male obviously typing) lol

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By *ercuryMikeMan
2 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

That I haven’t got a beautiful rich baritone singing voice.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I had a guy assume i was stupid as i couldn't fry a sausage. He admitted he changed his mind once he met me

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

"That because I'm South Asian, I would be really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex"

Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here

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By *ercuryMikeMan
2 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here "

ASSUMPTION ALERT!!!

(Although you’re probably not far off)

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"That because I'm South Asian, I would be really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex

Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here "

But it's a wider society issue as well in how South Asian men can be stereotyped when it comes to approaching women that has also found its way here. Not that it's the thread for a discussion on that, anyway.

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here

ASSUMPTION ALERT!!!

(Although you’re probably not far off)"

Ha ha, it sort of annoys me that people might assume I'm like that but my annoyance is directed at the thousands of men who are like that not the person making the assumption

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

That because we are a couple, he must be a cuck. No, don't be lazy, read the profile.

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

The assumption that all ladies on fab are Bi. It really annoys me wife pointing out that she's straight.

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
2 weeks ago

Pentney

"Being single and not accommodating makes me a cheat. Maybe my adult kids live with me and I don't get my home to myself ever.

Yep, had that one, although mine aren't adults. And even when I do get a night to myself maybe I don't want to invite a stranger from the internet to the place where my children live. "

THIS

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

That just because you like bumming people, you automatically want to be bummed. I dont

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

"That because I'm South Asian, I would be really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex

Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here

Yeah, probably not for here but racial stereotyping is pretty much just racism, maybe with a little less hatred thrown in there.

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By *ercuryMikeMan
2 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

"That just because you like bumming people, you automatically want to be bummed. I dont"

Let’s just go back to the first half of that quote…….

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

That because I’m gay I have an interest in ‘turning’ straight men. I don’t.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

"That just because you like bumming people, you automatically want to be bummed. I dont

Let’s just go back to the first half of that quote……."

Yes?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"That just because you like bumming people, you automatically want to be bummed. I dont"

What a bummer

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

"That because I’m gay I have an interest in ‘turning’ straight men. I don’t."

Turning them fab straight? 😂

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

People assume that I’m a people pleaser just because I like to see others being themselves and happy, I’m not doing it for people to like me, I genuinely like to see people living their best life.

Oh and people assume I’m a disgusting old pervert, and I’m not disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I’m comfortable enough to not allow others assumptions to bother me. It’s actually a fun and reassuring feeling when someone assumes incorrectly and you don’t even feel the slightest urge to correct them. Very rewarding.

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