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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs

After taking some time out… I’ve rekindled my profile a bit and hit my inbox with an open mind.

So far, I’ve had to report 3 profiles for lying about their age to get around preferences, been contacted by multiple couples despite being straight and not looking for them, been abused over a dozen times for saying no thanks, asked if I’d consider fucking an immediate relative (can’t use the word), and the crown jewel… asked if I’d consider meeting a paedophile!! In the context of a woman who meets alone… what I’ve seen/read in the last 12 hours has genuinely shaken and disturbed me.

Seriously, I ask with an open mind and open heart… what the fuck happened while I was away?!?

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

That's an unfortunate amount of nonsense for a 12 hour period.

I suspect it's men with too much alone time over the holiday weekend

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"That's an unfortunate amount of nonsense for a 12 hour period.

I suspect it's men with too much alone time over the holiday weekend "

Never thought of it that way. Too much anonymity and free time

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By *east with 2 backsCouple
2 weeks ago

near Whalley

So far I have experienced none of this.. maybe because they know my husband is watching… really don’t know.. sorry to hear your terrible experience, but it is truly nothing that I have experienced… not sure what to suggest. Good luck, hope it changes for you x V

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"asked if I’d consider meeting a paedophile"

I'm hoping that was just some sick trolling and they weren't actually serious.

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By *aptivating24Man
2 weeks ago

castleford

Just start hitting the block button, I've been told its good for your thumbs.

But its a lot in 12 hours

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Nothing has happened, its always been like that on here, some people are lucky to never experience it, some are unfortunate that they do.

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"So far I have experienced none of this.. maybe because they know my husband is watching… really don’t know.. sorry to hear your terrible experience, but it is truly nothing that I have experienced… not sure what to suggest. Good luck, hope it changes for you x V "

I’m lucky my husband also vets everything xx

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We have had some vile sick messages on here too and we are a couple, dread to think what the ladies get. Sorry to hear this OP, for every nice person there tends to be a few more idiots x

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


""asked if I’d consider meeting a paedophile"

I'm hoping that was just some sick trolling and they weren't actually serious. "

No when I questioned it it was deadly serious x

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"We have had some vile sick messages on here too and we are a couple, dread to think what the ladies get. Sorry to hear this OP, for every nice person there tends to be a few more idiots x "

Thankyou xx

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"Nothing has happened, its always been like that on here, some people are lucky to never experience it, some are unfortunate that they do."

If you have personally, then I’m so sorry to read that x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Blimey thats more than ive recieved in 20 years

Have you thought about blocking everyone and do your own searching

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

It’s about time this site started requiring ID be provided when joining. Some people on here need a police visit.

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"Blimey thats more than ive recieved in 20 years

Have you thought about blocking everyone and do your own searching"

Honestly. Consider it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Jesus that’s grim

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By *angled up in twoCouple
2 weeks ago

West Mids


"After taking some time out… I’ve rekindled my profile a bit and hit my inbox with an open mind.

So far, I’ve had to report 3 profiles for lying about their age to get around preferences, been contacted by multiple couples despite being straight and not looking for them, been abused over a dozen times for saying no thanks, asked if I’d consider fucking an immediate relative (can’t use the word), and the crown jewel… asked if I’d consider meeting a paedophile!! In the context of a woman who meets alone… what I’ve seen/read in the last 12 hours has genuinely shaken and disturbed me.

Seriously, I ask with an open mind and open heart… what the fuck happened while I was away?!?"

You need to find the "when Pumpkin comes back" thread.

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over


"Blimey thats more than ive recieved in 20 years

Have you thought about blocking everyone and do your own searching

Honestly. Consider it xx "

This is exactly what I thought and always surprised to see threads like this as we have all come across a few nutters but this is a tad extreme. Filters up and choose who to message yourself

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

Wtf, that's horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

How did you know people were lying about their age ?

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"How did you know people were lying about their age ?"

Because each of them said ‘by the way I’m not x I’m y age… I’m their opening messages’ and openly said they do it to bypass filters. The most extreme was a 76 year old who had 36 on his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"How did you know people were lying about their age ?

Because each of them said ‘by the way I’m not x I’m y age… I’m their opening messages’ and openly said they do it to bypass filters. The most extreme was a 76 year old who had 36 on his profile "

Hmmmm 🤔

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
2 weeks ago

Didsbury

Jeez, this has got way beyond a joke. Whoever the paedo is needs their details passing to a paedo hunter ASAP.

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"Jeez, this has got way beyond a joke. Whoever the paedo is needs their details passing to a paedo hunter ASAP."

I screenshotted it, reported to admin, and blocked

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By *ontyboi76Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Between me and my partner had some right sick ones. There is a problem as sites like this mature and the political climate of what's accepted bring out the sick ones. Seen skin colour lies, age lies, pics clearly so old they must have been scanned in. A guy who asked if I liked younger and can we swap daughters . Partner has had men want to do unmentionable things to her. Has put her right off opening her inbox often.

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet


"How did you know people were lying about their age ?

Because each of them said ‘by the way I’m not x I’m y age… I’m their opening messages’ and openly said they do it to bypass filters. The most extreme was a 76 year old who had 36 on his profile "

That is just weird. What do they hope to get out of it. It's always going to end badly.

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"Between me and my partner had some right sick ones. There is a problem as sites like this mature and the political climate of what's accepted bring out the sick ones. Seen skin colour lies, age lies, pics clearly so old they must have been scanned in. A guy who asked if I liked younger and can we swap daughters . Partner has had men want to do unmentionable things to her. Has put her right off opening her inbox often. "

Sorry to hear that x

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By *offiacoolWoman
2 weeks ago

Alsager


"Blimey thats more than ive recieved in 20 years

Have you thought about blocking everyone and do your own searching

Honestly. Consider it xx

This is exactly what I thought and always surprised to see threads like this as we have all come across a few nutters but this is a tad extreme. Filters up and choose who to message yourself"

I agree, filters are your friend. Block couples from mailing you etc.

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By *ayBeeTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Winchester

I would report the pedo one to the police

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Seems a bit dramatic

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

That’s grim and very worrying especially for a newbie, but I’m guessing as a single male I’m not going to to get any sick shit in my inbox.

But I do worry about what kind of world we live in sometimes

Hope you’re ok op

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There's a lot to be said for filters

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"I did start a thread a few months ago on a similar vein, about the moral decline and lack of respect on here.

To quote myself from another thread

" this site is like a load of lads sitting round a park bench drinking cider bragging about how many wanks they've had today and how many hours they can eat pussy "

Unfortunately this is just the tip of the iceberg, it seems as far away from swinging as riding a hobby horse is to horse racing.

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"I did start a thread a few months ago on a similar vein, about the moral decline and lack of respect on here.

To quote myself from another thread

" this site is like a load of lads sitting round a park bench drinking cider bragging about how many wanks they've had today and how many hours they can eat pussy "

Unfortunately this is just the tip of the iceberg, it seems as far away from swinging as riding a hobby horse is to horse racing.

"

Love that x

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By *aughtyNymphsCouple
2 weeks ago

Gosport

Absolutely disgusting, some of the messages we have had have been absolutely yarn dropping , and we are definitely open minded lol , absolutely no respect whatsoever, half the time they don’t seem to be able to read your profile, for a woman on there own , meeting on her own , it must be extremely disturbing, mostly men i have learned pretending to be a couple

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By *aughtyPumpkin OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

North Lincs


"Absolutely disgusting, some of the messages we have had have been absolutely yarn dropping , and we are definitely open minded lol , absolutely no respect whatsoever, half the time they don’t seem to be able to read your profile, for a woman on there own , meeting on her own , it must be extremely disturbing, mostly men i have learned pretending to be a couple "

Sorry to hear that x

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
2 weeks ago

belfast

You say that as if youre shocked.

Read some of the forum posts snd you will see men being quite oprn about being paedophiles.

There are quite a lot of absolute scumbags on here.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
2 weeks ago

Didsbury


"You say that as if youre shocked.

Read some of the forum posts snd you will see men being quite oprn about being paedophiles.

There are quite a lot of absolute scumbags on here."

I spend a lot of time on the forums and have never seen one.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"what I’ve seen/read in the last 12 hours has genuinely shaken and disturbed me.

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You have seen more in twelve hours than I have in ten years on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"You say that as if youre shocked.

Read some of the forum posts snd you will see men being quite oprn about being paedophiles.

There are quite a lot of absolute scumbags on here."

Wrong on both counts.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA


"You say that as if youre shocked.

Read some of the forum posts snd you will see men being quite oprn about being paedophiles.

There are quite a lot of absolute scumbags on here."

Would you like to point out these men. As ive never seen them and im always here. Im sure fab would do something about it

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I have all men blocked from messaging now as I found I was blocking so many that messaged anyways. It’s a shame as there are some decent guys on here, but I think the opportunity for anonymity really brings out the worst in some people.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I spend far too much time each day in the forums and I have never once seen anyone expressing paedophile preferences. If I did I would immediately report them.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I spend far too much time each day in the forums and I have never once seen anyone expressing paedophile preferences. If I did I would immediately report them. "

I haven’t witnessed that either and would also immediately report.

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I spend far too much time each day in the forums and I have never once seen anyone expressing paedophile preferences. If I did I would immediately report them. "

I've seen some questionable things that walk the line but definitely not to the extremes of the comment above states.

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It seems all is now well

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"It seems all is now well "

Hmmmmm 🤔

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By *lack King DomMan
2 weeks ago

London


"After taking some time out… I’ve rekindled my profile a bit and hit my inbox with an open mind.

So far, I’ve had to report 3 profiles for lying about their age to get around preferences, been contacted by multiple couples despite being straight and not looking for them, been abused over a dozen times for saying no thanks, asked if I’d consider fucking an immediate relative (can’t use the word), and the crown jewel… asked if I’d consider meeting a paedophile!! In the context of a woman who meets alone… what I’ve seen/read in the last 12 hours has genuinely shaken and disturbed me.

Seriously, I ask with an open mind and open heart… what the fuck happened while I was away?!?"

It makes you regret being on here tbh

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By *Rule_DFILMan
2 weeks ago

side you


"After taking some time out… I’ve rekindled my profile a bit and hit my inbox with an open mind.

So far, I’ve had to report 3 profiles for lying about their age to get around preferences, been contacted by multiple couples despite being straight and not looking for them, been abused over a dozen times for saying no thanks, asked if I’d consider fucking an immediate relative (can’t use the word), and the crown jewel… asked if I’d consider meeting a paedophile!! In the context of a woman who meets alone… what I’ve seen/read in the last 12 hours has genuinely shaken and disturbed me.

Seriously, I ask with an open mind and open heart… what the fuck happened while I was away?!?"

The amount fake profiles on here lately is shocking!

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By *atiekisskissWoman
2 weeks ago

London


"After taking some time out… I’ve rekindled my profile a bit and hit my inbox with an open mind.

So far, I’ve had to report 3 profiles for lying about their age to get around preferences, been contacted by multiple couples despite being straight and not looking for them, been abused over a dozen times for saying no thanks, asked if I’d consider fucking an immediate relative (can’t use the word), and the crown jewel… asked if I’d consider meeting a paedophile!! In the context of a woman who meets alone… what I’ve seen/read in the last 12 hours has genuinely shaken and disturbed me.

Seriously, I ask with an open mind and open heart… what the fuck happened while I was away?!?"

Been on and off here since it started and I've received about 4 or 5 bad messages in all that time. You get that amount in 12 hours????

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