FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM - Paddle, Cane or Whip for fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
9 weeks ago

For a little bedroom fun and a backside tingle do you prefer a light paddling, gentle caning or soft whipping?

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
9 weeks ago

Shefford

All of the above please, thank you

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Every time I post on a thread about impact play someone reports it and it gets deleted

I like impact, my absolute faves are floggers of varying materials and density, I love the different sensations they can produce, but I can also enjoy a paddle, or a dragontail. Less fond of canes/rulers and the real stingy stuff.

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By *aughtyblonde98Woman
9 weeks ago

Merseyside

Prefer to use the paddle or cane on the hubby , but its certainly not light lol xx

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By *earditallWoman
9 weeks ago

Lancaster

I like floggers for sensual play but I quite like a cane

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By *de1980Man
9 weeks ago

Redcar

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By *iverstMan
9 weeks ago

Rossendale

Floggers for sensual teasing fun. I made one from chain, which when kept in an ice bucket, was good fun.

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By *earditallWoman
9 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Floggers for sensual teasing fun. I made one from chain, which when kept in an ice bucket, was good fun."

Ive experienced the cold chain ones

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Big heavy thuddy impact 💜

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I prefer a thuddy flogger or a nice heavy paddle over the cane or similar implements.

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'm happy to use whatever the receiver wants. Personally I like to use a selection of floggers to get different sensations, from heavy thuddy suede, a medium width firm leather and a stingy rubber flogger interspaced with paddles and a very sharp cane or crop.

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By *ominantWhisperMan
9 weeks ago

The North West

I prefer to use paddles for ease of control. They’re very material dependent though

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By *iverstMan
9 weeks ago

Rossendale

"Floggers for sensual teasing fun. I made one from chain, which when kept in an ice bucket, was good fun.

Ive experienced the cold chain ones

Teasing on the cross can be so much fun 😈

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By *rincipessaWoman
9 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

I prefer heavy thuddy rather than stingy like a cane. But would always choose a hand over anything else. Way more intimate

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By *uonline69Man
9 weeks ago

Saddleworth, UK

Paddle - the other two can, in the wrong hands, go easy beyond fun a little too quickly.

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By *unnyandthebookkeeperCouple
9 weeks ago

bristol

Floggers, a crop and some paddles. Cane is only for bad girls. 😉

Have quite the selection. And love the gasps cold chain on skin can cause.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

Paddle feels great. Not used our for ages. Adult kids always around and they'd hear it ricocheting off my massive arse

Katie

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I like floggers and paddles used on me

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By *EriversidecplCouple
9 weeks ago

Sunderland

All of them please, and thank you

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By *eyond PurityCouple
9 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire

A paddle or whip…but much prefer to use a hand, every time. Much more hotter have skin to skin contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Paddles and floggers but definitely not to soft please

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By *arkstaffsMan
9 weeks ago

Rugeley

Hand followed by a heavy paddle...

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By *ust_us999Couple
9 weeks ago

Somewhere

I like using a mix of the 3... And various intensities 😈

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By *estiswestMan
9 weeks ago

glasgow

Love all 3

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
9 weeks ago

a hood with a sprinkle of kink

Giver not a taker, use all three but prefer the open hand spanking more. Just a little bit more intimate

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By *ack and MiriCouple
9 weeks ago

Portsmouth

1, flogger

2, hand

3, paddle

4, crop

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By *igbadlad100Man
9 weeks ago

witney

Cane strap paddle whip sjambok very hard !

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By *heStoryofOTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Bibury

Paddle, cane xxx

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By *icentiousCouple
8 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

Floggers, you can change the intensity of how they are used.

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By *eglegMan
8 weeks ago

Telford

"1, flogger

2, hand

3, paddle

4, crop

Is the other you use them in?

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By *eglegMan
8 weeks ago

Telford

"For a little bedroom fun and a backside tingle do you prefer a light paddling, gentle caning or soft whipping?"

I love a mixture of all three though floggers do have the most versatility and variety.

When get the chance will start with floggers and end with cane

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

We use on of those little silicone stranded whips, can both tease and cause great pain. Also have a double ended paddle and feather combination. But the paddle is barely used, it's a bit boring to us compared. A good hand feels more intense.

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
8 weeks ago

marlborough

Whip, nails and biting please.

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
8 weeks ago

The Ramtops

Crop

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
8 weeks ago

Cheshire

Flogged on my back , caned on my buttocks only by the experienced though

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By *ittle miss sunshineWoman
8 weeks ago

south sheilds

I miss impact play 🙈

Never done it for age...

My favourites were paddles, and the whip and my ex Dom's hand..

I never liked the cane for me it was not pleasureable.

But omg we had a wooden spatula and mmm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I don't like being slapped, paddled , whipped or whatever else and I don't like to punish others - BUT ...... If I had to choose... maybe one of those big sponge hands like Kenny Everett used to have

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By *ourpornfixMan
8 weeks ago

East Cheshire

My favourite is the flogger, provided the user knows how to use it properly!

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By *cKinkyboyMan
8 weeks ago

Whitley

Hand, paddle or a riding crop for me.

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By *ensualMan
8 weeks ago

Sutton

I don't do bedroom bdsm/bondage.

Any implements used are those agreed to or requested by the bottom after a full discussion of the elements of the scene.

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By *endy CTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Huntingdon

I cane naughty boys and girls x

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
2 weeks ago

Telford

Paddles are my preference, I'm not the biggest fan of whips myself.

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

"A paddle or whip…but much prefer to use a hand, every time. Much more hotter have skin to skin contact.

Agreed.

I just want his hand on me.

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By *lack King DomMan
2 weeks ago

London

"For a little bedroom fun and a backside tingle do you prefer a light paddling, gentle caning or soft whipping?"

Caning and whipping. The degree to which I'll know after a social tbh

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Paddles floggers or whips mrs loves them all

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By *thsinnerMan
2 weeks ago

belfast

I've been making all of the above and more for about 30 years, safe to say I like using em.

Favorite is probably a custom design, similar to a dragon but hits like a meteor. It has a penchant for little kisses that taste of copper oxidized plasma.

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By *asquatch43Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

"Prefer to use the paddle or cane on the hubby , but its certainly not light lol xx"

i struggle to find a playmate that will use it forcefully enough

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