FabSwingers.com forum: People who don’t like kissing

By *froale OP Man
3 weeks ago

oldham

I was speaking to a girl recently who said she doesn’t like kissing at all but loved having sex with her boyfriend.

It blew my mind because for me kissing is the gateway to sex. If you don’t allow your partner to kiss you then how is sex initiated? Do you put in a request?

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

This is more common than you may think.

I'd find it weird not to kiss, but each to their own.

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By *froale OP Man
3 weeks ago

oldham

Not hating on people who don’t like it all, just for me that is how sex is initiated. Im more intrigued as into how it happens without the buildup of kissing etc

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By *007ManMan
3 weeks ago

Worthing

I only kiss women I have spritual feelings for. If I had a partner and she suddenly refused to kiss I'd think again about our relationship.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

I can only kiss someone I really like

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By *erfectpair18Woman
3 weeks ago

lytham

I rarely kiss

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By *a LunaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wales

There are lots of ways to initiate sex, sex is just one of them.

I can understand why some might not enjoy kissing, sadly some just aren’t very good at it and it can put you off.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I love a good snog

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
3 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire

"I can only kiss someone I really like"

Yes, I agree, me too.

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
3 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Non kissers blow my mind

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By *lrightthenMan
3 weeks ago

Bradford

I don't enjoy kissing cos it makes my lips feel like they're burning for a while after

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

Personally I think kissing is an important part of sex but understand that in a hook up type situation people may not want to do it, not kissing someone you're in a relationship with though, that's just weird.

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By *elSpiceWoman
3 weeks ago

Wicklow, Wexford

I love kissing, can't imagine fun without it tbh 💋

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By *moothpussyMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

I agree, kissing is important but in saying that I can only kiss a man that I really, really like. It's not about attraction per se..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

We only kiss people we love. A lot of people understand that and a lot don't.

We kiss each other obviously but it isn't the only way we initiate sex, we use our imagination for that.

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By *addy bareMan
3 weeks ago

southend

Love kissing when your fucking.

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By *moothpussyMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"We only kiss people we love. A lot of people understand that and a lot don't.

We kiss each other obviously but it isn't the only way we initiate sex, we use our imagination for that. "

Absolutely this!

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By *aster N NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

deal

Im really not much of a kisser rarely even kiss hubby

But mr is a big kisser he loves kissing

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By *eniaCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

LIVE NEAR BENIDORM, SPAIN

Omg Kissing someone im attracted to is going to get me ready right away! 🫠😈

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By *yrdsisWoman
3 weeks ago

Gleam Street

Its such an easy thing to put you off immediately.

I'll just stick to kissing my husband.

Randos no ta.

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By *arialoueWoman
3 weeks ago

Doncaster

I love kissing it's the connection that can start sex,I also love some type of connection to the person after sex too weather it's a cuddle or a kiss but I'll only kiss a person ifvl really like the person

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By *yprusdreamWoman
3 weeks ago

Cyprus

I love kissing and wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't want to kiss

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By *onin25Man
3 weeks ago

Durham

I love kissing, but people are entitled to not like something for whatever reasons they have.

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By *elix SightedMan
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Non kissers blow my mind "

Through your ears? That’s another way to get going.

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By *umfun24Man
3 weeks ago

wilmslow

For me, it’s like gateways, the more that I’m engaged by someone, the more I feel the urge to kiss them and then if the kiss is consuming, then everything seems to move on from there, but I do understand how swingers may choose to save that most intensely personal act for their own relationship.

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By *KTim61Man
3 weeks ago

Tipton

When I had a 3sum, I didnt get the chance to kiss her, but kissed & licked her other lips instead

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By *F25Man
3 weeks ago

kent

love a good kiss

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Round the bend

I don't understand it at all, but each to their own. Kissing is a major role of foreplay for me.

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By *abman82Man
3 weeks ago

worcester

I’m bi, but I won’t kiss a man. Women only.

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By *lackchiefMan
3 weeks ago

Yeovil

Maybe she’s got mouth odour

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

I personally haven't encountered any profiles that stipulate a 'no kissing' arrangement but I'm aware some people prefer this. Each to their own but it's not for me.

For me sex without kissing is simply too hollow, empty and emotionless, and lacks any substance.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
3 weeks ago

ashford

I dont kiss strangers far to intimate!

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By *r Jason KingMan
3 weeks ago

Layton,Blackpool.

Not kiss?!, but that's the best part

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By *atangMan
3 weeks ago

bolton

love kissing, defo a must

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By *ad4ladys1973Man
3 weeks ago

Southport

I love kissing, sadly my ex wasnt much for it after marriage…but love to with a new fuckbuddy or friend with benefits at some point

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
3 weeks ago

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Love kissing, sex without it certainly isn't sex!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester

I am not really bothered with kissing tbh maybe in a dating relationship yes it’s better but random fucks. Not really my bag at all though I’ll do it if it gets the other person off abit before fucking

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

Absolutely love kissing. It's difficult to connect with someone without it, for me.

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

I couldn't have sex without the kissing I don't think

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

Love kissing, especially that first one, the nervous energy building up before and the fireworks of the moment your lips touch.

And if a woman kisses my neck, I’m putty, you could ask me for just about anything while kissing my neck and I don’t stand a chance

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

No kiss...no sex.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

I love getting lost in a passionate kiss, and for me it's an integral part of intimacy. ❤️💋

It's also about the close eye contact, you can hear their breathing getting heavier and it allows for wandering hands to caress the back of the neck or run your hands through their hair.

There might be certain situations where the dynamics don't call for kissing, Like playing in a group or in a swingers club?

Each to their own though

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not keen - it wrecks my foundation

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I absolutely love kissing, can quite happily snog the face off TheHusband and TheBF all day long

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By *ray_BTWMan
2 weeks ago

Worcester

No kissing, no chance of meeting for me.

Kissing is a must for me.

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

I would find it awkward not kissing the person i was naked with. I doubt i'd be able to not kiss them. I do like a good snog 💋

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

kissing is a must for me

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

We only kiss each other (on the lips). When were with others kissing neck, body, wherever is fine but not lips, it's something we keep for us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"We only kiss each other (on the lips). When were with others kissing neck, body, wherever is fine but not lips, it's something we keep for us "

The same for us.

There are quite a lot of people who don't kiss, when we're meeting we note it on our profile. We still get a lot of offers to meet despite that

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
2 weeks ago

Didcot

I can understand that in a swinging/hook up situation people may not want to kiss for various reasons, however in the case of the opening post that situation is weird, not kissing someone you are in a relationship with, doesn't seem like it's destined to last.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

We ardore kissing. It's actually probably one of our favourite bits of the lifestyle. It's also how we gauge sexual chemistry for the bedroom. It's a bit of a deal breaker for us.

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By *hisIsMe58Man
2 weeks ago

Winchester

I must admit that I enjoy kissing as a precursor to more intimate assignations.

But each to their own and I fully understand why couples may stipulate no kissing as in it's way is more intimate than the sex itself.

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