FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it all messed up on here

By *eorgeC70 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Blackburn

Why do people make this site a nightmare for others, no shows, ghosting, nasty comments. If your going to behave like a child f*ck off and let the genuine people get on with it and enjoy themselves.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Noone has made this site a nightmare for me

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By *eorgeC70 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Blackburn

Unfortunately I'm looking from the single male point of view

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"Unfortunately I'm looking from the single male point of view"

If you keep experiencing what you say, maybe you need to change how you do things.

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
3 weeks ago

South glos

"Unfortunately I'm looking from the single male point of view"

Single women experience all of the above too

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

I'm going to say probably because so many single guys are in abundance on this site. That some people think it is perfectly acceptable to treat single guys like pieces of shit. I know a lot of guys are absolute idiots on here but doesn't take away. That a lot of single blokes get abuse too.

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By *sm265Woman
3 weeks ago

Perthshire

I quite like it. There are some lovely genuine people on here.

I find having zero expectations means far fewer disappointments.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm sorry to hear you're experiencing such issues and outcomes. There's good and not-so-good in similar sites like these, and with it comes a variety of people who will do whatever it takes to cause disruption versus those who are using the site for the betterment.

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By *eorgeC70 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Blackburn

Agree with all the above comments it's crazy. I've had personal conversations with couples and the amount of no shows is ridiculous

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By *kphooey43Man
3 weeks ago

Barnet

"Why do people make this site a nightmare for others, no shows, ghosting, nasty comments. If your going to behave like a child f*ck off and let the genuine people get on with it and enjoy themselves."

OP, maybe, just possibly, not wishing to cast any aspriations, could it be, even a tiny little bit, to do with your attitude - I mean, how does it come across to other users of the site when some one is pejorative in their first comment on a thread.

Other than that, life looks good, the site is a laught, and people I have met are absolutely brilliant (unless of course they aren't). Have a great day.

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By *ayBeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Winchester

Because you guys call every stranger gorgeous to get in their pants.... every! 😁

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Its a very difficult and slow lifestyle to navigate.

Leave high expectations outside of the website.

Ive had some lovely meets over the years on my solo journey and our couples account.

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By *kphooey43Man
3 weeks ago

Barnet

Because you guys call every stranger gorgeous to get in their pants.... every! 😁"

Some of us want them to take off their pants

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
3 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

Different strokes for different folks. If you don’t like village bikes or the racist profiles, block them and move on.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

Because you guys call every stranger gorgeous to get in their pants.... every! 😁

Some of us want them to take off their pants

No Pants Day is when? 🤔

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By *eorgeC70 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Blackburn

"Why do people make this site a nightmare for others, no shows, ghosting, nasty comments. If your going to behave like a child f*ck off and let the genuine people get on with it and enjoy themselves.

Because you guys call every stranger gorgeous to get in their pants.... every! 😁"

A lot might but not me, like to get to know people. If I wanted to turn up and shag I might as well pay for it🤣

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By *egnMaxCouple
3 weeks ago

East Midlands

Sorry to hear this site - and the people on it - are giving you a rough time.

We enjoy the positives and accept the work things sometimes need to progress. The negatives are far outweighed by the positives of being on here for us.

Though I’m mindful that it can be so much more difficult as a single (male or female.)

Everyone (couples too) have their trials, let downs and tribulations.

Let’s hope you find more of the latter soon.

Max

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By *ifelover999Man
3 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Iv found it ok here met a few great friends (female)

just go with it

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By *ercuryMikeMan
3 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

Not here long but apart from a few oddities, which I can’t really say were nasty or abusive, it’s been fine so far.

Anything on line is the same, the cult of the keyboard warrior makes some brave and some stupid.

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By *earditallWoman
3 weeks ago

Lancaster

I've just been asked if I'm up for getting pregnant!

Erm no thanks mate

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
3 weeks ago

Rochester, Kent

I haven’t found it a nightmare. I just don’t find anything at all now.

A few years ago I met several nice people, but now there’s nothing going on, and I’ve even stopped paying the £5 per month because nobody’s even chatting.

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By *ayBeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Winchester

"Why do people make this site a nightmare for others, no shows, ghosting, nasty comments. If your going to behave like a child f*ck off and let the genuine people get on with it and enjoy themselves.

Because you guys call every stranger gorgeous to get in their pants.... every! 😁

A lot might but not me, like to get to know people. If I wanted to turn up and shag I might as well pay for it🤣"

Then you don't need 5 dick pics to get to know about them...

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By *ifelover999Man
3 weeks ago

Eastbourne

"I've just been asked if I'm up for getting pregnant!

Erm no thanks mate "

Sure ill do night feeds

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

"I've just been asked if I'm up for getting pregnant!

Erm no thanks mate "

😂😂😂

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

Can't say I've found it to be a nightmare.

There are definitely some messed up individuals who are surrounded by enablers but in general it's been an ok experience.

I've never had a no show in 10 years or been catfished and like I've said on other threads, that's down to due diligence and nothing to do with luck.

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here.

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By *ifelover999Man
3 weeks ago

Eastbourne

"The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here."

Which is me

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By *artorialMan
3 weeks ago

weymouth

Been ok for me of late

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here.

Which is me

I have no idea.

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By *ifelover999Man
3 weeks ago

Eastbourne

"The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here.

Which is me

I have no idea. "

Supposed to say remarkable🤦

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Handbags at dawn, you unsightly lot.

You should all be ashamed of yourself.

The mr

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By *lym4realCouple
3 weeks ago

plymouth

Think we all have them especially no shows and main reason we now arrange to meet in a bar/pub so when they don't show ( we worked out we had about a 90% no show rate) up we can carry on and have night on the town aswell ? even managed to pick up a rather nice younger male after a no show and Mrs4 had a great time even broke our bed so it wasn't a wasted night but you get idiots etc etc where ever you go though ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here.

Which is me

I have no idea.

Supposed to say remarkable🤦"

The "blowing smoke up people's arses" department is across the street, sorry.

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
3 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

I'm having a blast on here 🥳

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Motherwell

Interesting thread 🤔 Mx 😈

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
3 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

Isn't this just a reflection on life in general? It's just more obvious in here because of the goldfish bowl effect.

Just be more selective who you chat to, do better due diligence ahead of meets, and grow a thicker skin...

Standard life advice isn't it?

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By *earditallWoman
3 weeks ago

Lancaster

Tbh this site is what you make it,the oddballs make me chuckle but they don't in anyway put me off making connections and meeting.

I love the site but use it to my own needs

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

"Tbh this site is what you make it,the oddballs make me chuckle but they don't in anyway put me off making connections and meeting.

I love the site but use it to my own needs

If I bad to sum up this site. It'd be. The good, the bad and the weird 😂

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
3 weeks ago

marlborough

Sadly there are a few that spoil it for the rest.

Don’t let it get you down. Dust yourself off and move on… oh, and block them.

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By *igBeardyDanMan
3 weeks ago

Bilston

This is why I only meet at xtasia, if their a no show them I'm already out chatting to people anyway.

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By *omeotherguyMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"I've just been asked if I'm up for getting pregnant!

Erm no thanks mate "

I was only asking.

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By *omeotherguyMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here."

Some are all.of them.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

Has anyone tried turning it off and on again?

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here.

Some are all.of them."

I'm sorry your experience has been so unpleasant, but it isn't universal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I really had a laugh with this , thanks O.P.

' If you are going to behave like a child f*ck off.' ........ so funny

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By *omeotherguyMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"The site is a microcosm of society as a whole.

Some people are lovely, many are unremarkable. Some are a nightmare. That's all represented here.

Some are all.of them.

I'm sorry your experience has been so unpleasant, but it isn't universal "

I've had nothing but good experiences from this site.

It doesnt help that they meant remarkable mot unremarkable.

I'm suggesting there are lovely, remarkable women that can be a nightmare. I enjoy the company of these women amongst other personality types.

But my overall point is that any person can sit in multiple buckets, it's not black and white.

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By *007ManMan
3 weeks ago

Worthing

Ignore all the ones that spoil it. They get fed up and move on.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

Always genuine people complaining.

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By *oelMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"I'm going to say probably because so many single guys are in abundance on this site. That some people think it is perfectly acceptable to treat single guys like pieces of shit. I know a lot of guys are absolute idiots on here but doesn't take away. That a lot of single blokes get abuse too."

Yep it's a self reinforcing loop, lots of idiot guys, treat more guys as idiots, result in more idiot guys. Which is more frustrating for couples and women.

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