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What to do if you recognise someone. I have seen a female who I think I know 100% . Not sure to message or just enjoy her pics. I know she is married. What would you do?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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3 weeks ago

Central

Most people value discretion. I would not contact any one I know from outside of swimming

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By *hesblokeMan
3 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

I wouldn't, personally, leave her be.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

I wouldn't even bother messaging. You sure you want to open that can of worms OP?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
3 weeks ago

North Angus

Anyone I’ve thought I recognised gets a big ol block and I move along. The potential of ruining the site for them is high enough that I wouldn’t want to be responsible for that

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"What to do if you recognise someone. I have seen a female who I think I know 100% . Not sure to message or just enjoy her pics. I know she is married. What would you do?"

Block and forget you’ve seen. They’re entitled to their life without you interfering.

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By *hebusybuilder74 OP Man
3 weeks ago

warwick

Yeah I guess, bloody horny though seeing her pics, will definitely have a smile on my face when I see her next . But would be to messy if I said anything. So might just enjoy the show lol

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By *weets69Woman
3 weeks ago

Nr almondsbury interchange

I had some messages the other day that clearly had mistaken who I was.

I was definitely NOT who they thought, it was still creepy. I felt for whoever they thought I was.

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By *hisIsMe58Man
3 weeks ago

Winchester

I would definitely not let on if I saw someone I knew. Discretion is key.

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By *ew2buryMan
3 weeks ago

Newbury

I'm going to provide a different answer. I feel less comfortable with the asymmetry of me knowing they are here and them not knowing that I know. Where I have recognised someone, I have tended to send a polite message along these lines, not personally, not expecting anything, just let them have the same information as I do.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I would leave well alone xx 😘

I get a a lot of messages from people convinced that I’m someone else so you could be mistaken xx

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By *onin25Man
3 weeks ago

Durham

"Most people value discretion. I would not contact any one I know from outside of swimming "

Is that because all swimmers are into breast strokes 😁

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By *ordladMan
3 weeks ago

wrexham

Leave them get on with it .as long as they dont bother you .. not unless they want to meet up

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Block and forget you’ve seen. They’re entitled to their life without you interfering."

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Eva summed it up perfectly. ✔️

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By *he MinionMan
3 weeks ago

Block and forget OP. The likelyhood is, if you were to reveal yourself to them, they would possibly block you anyway.

Or are you hoping to meet with her ?

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Round the bend

I had one guy convinced that I was the woman who worked in his local sandwich shop and refused to take no for an answer. I told him to go in and ask me to my face then, and he did.

Ooops.

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Block and forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"Most people value discretion. I would not contact any one I know from outside of swimming "

Don't want to give them a stroke

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By *uliette500Woman
3 weeks ago

Hull

"I'm going to provide a different answer. I feel less comfortable with the asymmetry of me knowing they are here and them not knowing that I know. Where I have recognised someone, I have tended to send a polite message along these lines, not personally, not expecting anything, just let them have the same information as I do. "

Someone once did this to me saying how they really wanted to meet with me and was surprised I was on here. However, I was not the person they thought I was. They got very annoyed with me for telling them they were wrong as they fully believed they were right. They then blocked me after telling me they would discuss it in person the next day at work.

I really hope he did not upset this poor lady whoever she may be.

I would always say it's best to block and move on without saying anything.

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By *orny PTMan
3 weeks ago

Peterborough

Beware of the doppelgangers.

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By *artorialMan
3 weeks ago

weymouth

Perusing who's near and I came across a fellow tradie, don't know if they've come across me yet - could be interesting at the merchants

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By *elix SightedMan
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"What to do if you recognise someone. I have seen a female who I think I know 100% . Not sure to message or just enjoy her pics. I know she is married. What would you do?"

Would it make any difference if you thought you only knew her 75%? We all have secrets….

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I really hope he did not upset this poor lady whoever she may be.

I would always say it's best to block and move on without saying anything. "

I've had this. Particularly when I had my first initial up.

"Hi Alison, you dirty dirty girl, I'm going to tell Keith all about you and what you look like if you don't reply" sort of thing.

Whoever Alison is, I hope she's ok, and I hope Keith was a reasonable manager and didn't punish this woman because his subordinate thought I was her.

* Names changed to protect the stupid

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By *oltoncouple29Couple
3 weeks ago

Bolton

Happened a few times

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

You 'think' you know her 100%

If you have the faintest doubt in your mind do nothing.

If you are definitely 100% sure do nothing.

Many women find this sort of thing deeply creepy

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I had one yesterday from someone who clearly mistook me for someone else saying……’not another account (name), you might as well go into porn!’

Followed by some other nonsense that got reported xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

We've had guys claim to have met us at various places or been in contact with us on other sites

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By *inkPomPomWoman
3 weeks ago

Isle of Man

I would freak out if someone messaged me like that

Just dont dude

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By *inkPomPomWoman
3 weeks ago

Isle of Man

"You 'think' you know her 100%

If you have the faintest doubt in your mind do nothing.

If you are definitely 100% sure do nothing.

Many women find this sort of thing deeply creepy "

Thisssss

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By *inkPomPomWoman
3 weeks ago

Isle of Man

"I had one guy convinced that I was the woman who worked in his local sandwich shop and refused to take no for an answer. I told him to go in and ask me to my face then, and he did.

Ooops. "

😂😂

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By *izzy.Woman
3 weeks ago

Stoke area

I had a horrid experience when someone said they recognised me and kept dropping hints about my identity. It was quite scary.

Eventually they explained they were a mechanic where I had taken my camper van in for a service a few weeks earlier.

I suggest you block them and forget it. Whether they are on here or not, you really shouldn't interfere, it can be disastrous and really unpleasant being outed.

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By *ontyboi76Man
3 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Block to hopefully prevent awkwardness. I know people on her, 3 in total, not my business to creep them out.

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
3 weeks ago

Cardiff

I agree on the block.

I know some people on here IRL and I'd hate the thought of them looking at my profile:/ I think they'd feel the same.

Mrs

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By *otsossieMan
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield / Sheffield

"Block to hopefully prevent awkwardness. "

This.

I’ve seen a couple of friends of friends and blocked them as it’s not my business.

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By *igtitseve8Woman
3 weeks ago

stratford

Had the same someone who thought I was someone else. Was very rude when I said I wasn’t. To many men on here get aggressive and horrible if they don’t get the answer they want, makes you realise a lot of weirdos on here who are prob dangerous. But your post prob wouldn’t message, just enjoy your views if they are showing in here must want to be seen. Probably not want contact unless they make the approach

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By *layfull pairingCouple
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Been swinging for a long time now at clubs and parties etc... have bumped into quite a few people that we know in “real life” (Workmates, family, friends, etc) .. just never acknowledge the fact or mention anything at all unless they do first..

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By *ilmissleopardprintWoman
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury, West Midlands. not wales!!

I hate when guys I know message me, especially when they don't tell me who they are.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

So a bit ago. Some lady on here. Actually I don't even know if it was a lady, could have been a bloke for all we know. Messaged me to say they recognised me from the local gym. They got my local gym right and then they said they've seen me in the local Lidl. It did make me paranoid and was a bit creepy.

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By *EAT..85Woman
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

I've been recognised multiple times (tats and bright hair will do that) and It doesn't bother me - but I am ethically non monogamous. If someone is married or in a job/position that requires anonymity they aren't going to want locals calling them on thier presense here.

Plus some people can come across very creepy whilst trying to prove that they recognise me 🙄

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By *inkie_bearMan
3 weeks ago

Faringdon

I wouldn't have a problem I don't think, if I was recognised (though given the pic on my profile that would be suspicious). We're all on here for adult fun, no reason to be embarrassed....?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Coventry

Chances are it won't be welcomed and will make her feel very uncomfortable. You've had a look. Now be a gentleman, block her and forget you've ever seen it. She deserves to enjoy this lifestyle as care free as you or anyone else. Acts like this are the best way we can respect each other and keep this lifestyle feeling a safe environment to play.

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