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By *uncouplerk40 OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

TD

This feels like a weird topic to drop on here but we know because of our children it impacts the fun we can have and wondered if there were others who have the same challenge and so cancelling at short notice sometimes is seen as okay not rude.

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

We have an adult son with send needs so yes sometimes we've had to cancel at last minute lucky we've always had understanding people

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By *Jay19Couple
4 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

We are in the same boat with a 10 year old. Can be difficult to get free time and had to cancel couple of times

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By *averick029Man
4 weeks ago

Heathrow London

I think it can sometimes be difficult for those not in the same situation to understand at times especially given the excitement and build ups but being in that boat myself it does always leave a little anxiety as to whether i will need to cancel or not.

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By *arierWoman
4 weeks ago

birmingham

I’m exactly the same boat. It’s tough. Sending hugs 🥰

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

We aren't currently meeting so it doesn't apply but as a mum of a Sen child I know how difficult it is.

There's so much going on not just the child and appointments life in general I've no headspace to meet anyone.

I do go to the ladies only socials which are lovely but even had to cancel that last time as the little one was poorly.

Mrs

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By *uncouplerk40 OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

TD


"We aren't currently meeting so it doesn't apply but as a mum of a Sen child I know how difficult it is.

There's so much going on not just the child and appointments life in general I've no headspace to meet anyone.

I do go to the ladies only socials which are lovely but even had to cancel that last time as the little one was poorly.

Mrs "

Hey yes we know what you mean x

Thanks for commenting and we hope all is well x

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By *uncouplerk40 OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

TD


"I’m exactly the same boat. It’s tough. Sending hugs 🥰"

Thank you x hugs back at you

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By *apua New GuineaMan
3 weeks ago

nearby

Morning OP, yep, I hear you. Almost invisible to the outside world.

I imagine you and others are fighting the good fight.

Take care.

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By *irminghamlady08Woman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

I have a SEN son, and totally get where you're coming from. People who've never experienced it, don't get.

Hoping thing's change,sending hugs xx

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By *lectrictouchMan
3 weeks ago

inverarary

I don’t have children but anyone that doesn’t understand if you have to cancel short notice

Maybe weren’t worthy of your attention after all

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds


"We aren't currently meeting so it doesn't apply but as a mum of a Sen child I know how difficult it is.

There's so much going on not just the child and appointments life in general I've no headspace to meet anyone.

I do go to the ladies only socials which are lovely but even had to cancel that last time as the little one was poorly.

Mrs

Hey yes we know what you mean x

Thanks for commenting and we hope all is well x"

You too OP.

I think people not in the same situation don't/can't understand at all.

Mrs

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By *ubtleRebelWoman
3 weeks ago

wiltshire

Yep single mum to SEND twins! Can only play in the day when they are at school, can't travel too far and plenty of times I've had to cancel or postpone because I've had a call from the school.

Can't have people over in the evening as they are still very young and don't do well always with new people in their home. I've one trusted friend I allow over when they are in bed. But yes can be limiting

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We make our family position known and that we may have to cancel last minute. These things happen.

For us, it encouraged us to meet solo, to avoid childcare issues. But still, its far from easy at times.

Mr always prefers daytime meets where possible, so he can be home after school hours.

Mrs.

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