FabSwingers.com forum: Profile

By *ountrysideguy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bournville

Hey Fab,

Without coming across all moany lol been on here ages and I don’t know if I am just totally hopeless lol but I hardly ever get to chat to anyone let alone get anyone visit my profile. Is it that bad, any advice all you fab fabbers could give me on how to improve it?

Rich

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By *tormQueenWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

Its not the worst ive seen by a long way

Check your spelling (discreet)

Maybe add something about the kind of person you would be interested in

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
4 weeks ago

The lost village

"Hey Fab,

Rich "

Your profile looks okay compared to many but fab is notoriously hard work for single guys.

The discrete comment can imply you are in a relationship but you do accomodate so that counters.

I'd say from the pics which look okay that your body type is average rather than curvy.

The bit I'd change is saying a little more about what you bring to the equation rather than what you want.

Then, as I said earlier, accept that fab can be a slog for guys. Get to socials and meet/make your tribe.

Bear

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

All your pics are taken from the same angle.

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By *itty FelouWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle

As the previous posters have commented with reference to discretion, maybe explain why you need this and I would definitely describe your body as average, not curvy.

You state you're into photography but your own photos do not reflect that. Maybe invest in a mobile tripod and take some from different angles?

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By *ountrysideguy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bournville

Hey, thanks to everyone so much for all the comments. Have updated my body type, was ill recently and have lost a shed load of weight and forgot to update this lol. I know my photos are boring too, I need to make some new ones, I am just not sure which angles work best and don’t look crap lol

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By *hortieWoman
4 weeks ago

Northampton

Bland.

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By *ountrysideguy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bournville

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By *ountrysideguy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bournville

"Bland. "

Harsh…but probably fair. That was a sucker punch to the self confidence right there.

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By *atch0101Man
4 weeks ago

The wrong place

Im not even going to look because im pretty sure there's enough info.

Christ. What do you all want? Favourite filmstar? If they like marmite?

How many qualifications to prove intelligence?

Just bloody ask or gauge what people are like on this forum.

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By *ountrysideguy OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bournville

"Im not even going to look because im pretty sure there's enough info.

Christ. What do you all want? Favourite filmstar? If they like marmite?

How many qualifications to prove intelligence?

Just bloody ask or gauge what people are like on this forum.

What’s your favourite scary movie? lol…probably best not to ask that one!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
4 weeks ago

East Lincs

Your pics are generally the same.

Your profile name suggests you live in the countryside but you don’t.

It’s just a generic guys profile.

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By *atch0101Man
4 weeks ago

The wrong place

"Im not even going to look because im pretty sure there's enough info.

Christ. What do you all want? Favourite filmstar? If they like marmite?

How many qualifications to prove intelligence?

Just bloody ask or gauge what people are like on this forum.

What’s your favourite scary movie? lol…probably best not to ask that one!!

Too many. But love Pinhead.

Fella. Honestly. Asking for advise just looks shite in most eyes here. It is a "Swinging" site.

All going can do is just be patient and hope. You can make a huge list. A bloody bible if you wish.

Won't make a lot of difference. Im mean one description above.."Bland".

Not called for but not surprising

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By *atch0101Man
4 weeks ago

The wrong place

Your profile name suggests you live in the countryside but you don’t.

...or spends much of his time in the countryside. So the name would be perfect

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By *eyond PurityCouple
4 weeks ago

East Lincs

Your profile name suggests you live in the countryside but you don’t.

...or spends much of his time in the countryside. So the name would be perfect"

If I thought it was confusing then other people will think it is…

The OP asked why he’s not getting any traction on here. People will look at a profile and walk on by instead of asking questions if there’s nothing to grab them.

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By *ouno2muchMan
4 weeks ago

far away

OP, I don’t think anything unusual about your profile, and this is your personal space which you should feel most comfortable with being yourself.

Engaging in conversation in messages or page views aren’t just profile related, it’s to do with your engagement as well. Try to join on forums thread, most are really fun and entertaining, it’s the best channel to connect with likeminded and it’s a brilliant conversation opener.

All the best!

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