FabSwingers.com forum: Is my vag big enough?

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Why is it we get the men questioning their cock size, length, girth, what counts as big and small, who prefers what....

We don't see the ladies asking if their vagina is tidy enough, right enough (like it's quantifiable) shaved enough, are my tits big enough, perky enough, hairy enough 😜

Just curious are the men folk just generally more obsessed with genitals overall?

Is it the porn influence that has many thinking they need a large dong when the reality is many women prefer average?

Or are we as women less bothered about what the opposite sex think of our genitals & boobies? Because we know they are amazing anyway?

Mrs

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By *ensuallover1000Man
4 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I always insist of measuring the vaginal dimensions with a trusty tape measure… 👍🏻😜

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

** tight enough - autocorrect

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By *ools and the brainCouple
4 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Well they don't need to ask really, it's a one size fits all attachment isn't it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

"I always insist of measuring the vaginal dimensions with a trusty tape measure… 👍🏻😜

If I drop a penny inside mine it takes 1.5 seconds to hear the drop, that's mt measuring tactic.

Mrs

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By *ensuallover1000Man
4 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I always insist of measuring the vaginal dimensions with a trusty tape measure… 👍🏻😜

If I drop a penny inside mine it takes 1.5 seconds to hear the drop, that's mt measuring tactic.

Mrs "

😂😂 Science for the win 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻😜

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I dunno, I often wonder if mine is good enough, tight enough, tempting enough, etc etc. I don't think I'm the only one, its jist we don't feel the need to show it off and have it rated!

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By *umalotagainMan
4 weeks ago

between OX26 & BH23

"I dunno, I often wonder if mine is good enough, tight enough, tempting enough, etc etc. I don't think I'm the only one, its jist we don't feel the need to show it off and have it rated! "

Whilst it is not on display for inspection I am sure it is just fine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

We can't really see it so we don't really get to compare.

I'm pretty sure it's on the 'big list of insecurities' that seems to be issued to a lot of women at birth

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By *aviniaCDTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Leeds (close to G.A.P.)

I'd say ladies just get on with whatever they're given. Men are more insecure!

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By *ephyr66Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol

This subject was covered on an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

I always worry about how mine looks, is it tight enough, is it appealing but then I remember that all of those things I can’t change and so long as I keep it neat and in A1 condition I should be fine. Women don’t tend to compare pussies like men do cocks, or at least if they do no woman has ever said anything about it.

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By *dventurousTraveller69Man
4 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

I’m sure men are just more obsessed with the whole dynamic …. Wherher things are too big too small… too long ….too short ….

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

I don't think women are less bothered as such.

I did a thread fairly recentish wondering the same thing. If other women have the same insecurities.

Maybe there's a difference because for men their penis is an external thing. They can see others. Compare and find themselves lacking. And men (not all men) put the penis as being the main thing for sex, a woman isn't satisfied without a "pretty penis" so on a sex site where a lot of cocks float around and give their opinions, I can see why they might openly question it a bit more.

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By *hilly1515Man
4 weeks ago

I prefer to use a quality set of digital vernier gauges for accuracy...

for nipples it's always a micrometer..

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By *onin25Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

Have you tried using a can of lynx to show how big it is?

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By *partharmonyCouple
4 weeks ago

Tonbridge

I think it's more that every hole's a goal. This is not true of cocks.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
4 weeks ago

Swansea

"Why is it we get the men questioning their cock size, length, girth, what counts as big and small, who prefers what....

We don't see the ladies asking if their vagina is tidy enough, right enough (like it's quantifiable) shaved enough, are my tits big enough, perky enough, hairy enough 😜

Just curious are the men folk just generally more obsessed with genitals overall?

Is it the porn influence that has many thinking they need a large dong when the reality is many women prefer average?

Or are we as women less bothered about what the opposite sex think of our genitals & boobies? Because we know they are amazing anyway?

Mrs "

Several reasons.

I've seen plenty of profiles that explicitly state the dimensions of acceptable cocks. I've never seen a profile that demands certain vaginal dimensions. I would imagine that men are more concerned about their genitals for the same reasons all people everywhere care about certain body shapes/looks - they pick up on cues from the society around them about what is and isn't considered attractive. I doubt anyone worried about a thigh gap in 1953, or desired a "thick" bum in 1990 because no one talked about it. Women, #notallwomen, have always talked about preferred penis size.

While men have similarly often made derogatory comments about women being too loose or wizard sleeve like, it is only something you'll find out after, there are no external clues - certainly not when clothed. By the time you find out, it's too late. A woman therefore doesn't need to worry about it in terms of attracting a man.

I suspect your last explanation also has a great deal to do with it. We have evolved many proxies for recognising fertility, virility and long term partner reliability (alongside social norms of what is attractive). The depth and width of a vagina has never been one. Penis size has for pretty much all of human society.

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By *hortieWoman
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I've got hairy, meaty scar covered flaps. Not had anyone recoil in horror (yet).

But once they've been drawn in by my charm, sparkling wit and modesty, it's game over man, game over.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
4 weeks ago

Swansea

"I always worry about how mine looks, is it tight enough, is it appealing but then I remember that all of those things I can’t change and so long as I keep it neat and in A1 condition I should be fine. Women don’t tend to compare pussies like men do cocks, or at least if they do no woman has ever said anything about it. "

"Tightness" absolutely is a thing that can be changed unlike penis size. Appearance obviously isn't (without surgery.

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By *eastCouple
4 weeks ago

down on you

How many profiles you came across saying that only fucks pussy if it in the right shape size or colour? Or asking for face and pussy picture before a meet?

Woman love to say how man are obsessed with their dicks, then act like this is all that matters, love to say how they are "fab" and all their insecurities it's the patriarch to blame.

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By *aszloandnadjaCouple
4 weeks ago

York

"I don't think women are less bothered as such.

I did a thread fairly recentish wondering the same thing. If other women have the same insecurities.

This is spot on ⬆️

Human beings are primarily visual creatures so we tend to focus on the things we can see. It's pretty easy to make a visual comparison of two cocks but much harder to do the same thing with two pussies.

It strikes me that women have just as many insecurities as men about their bodies but they also tend to be focussed on the bits that are easily visible such as breast size, bum size waist size etc. rather than pussy size.

Hopefully we can all find a whole bunch of other people in this lifestyle who find what we've got hot, then we can stop worrying about whether our cocks / pussies / breasts are the right size and focus on enjoying finding out how well the different bits fit together. Potentially in lots of interesting, fun combinations 😜

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By *agic.MMan
4 weeks ago

Orpington

Porn (and social media to an extend) + rejection = men doubting their attributes

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By *a LunaWoman
4 weeks ago

Wales

Oh I dunno, I wasn’t paranoid about having a hairy bush until I joined Fab! 🫣

I think men have a lot of reasons, social media, other men (you see the competitive threads on the forums and the digs), porn, the list goes on.

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By *egnMaxCouple
4 weeks ago

East Midlands

"I think it's more that every hole's a goal. This is not true of cocks. "

Every cock’s a block?

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By *appytojoininMan
4 weeks ago

derby

"I dunno, I often wonder if mine is good enough, tight enough, tempting enough, etc etc. I don't think I'm the only one, its jist we don't feel the need to show it off and have it rated! "

I think you’ll find most guys are happy regardless. I’m not bothered how tight you are, it’s more about the overall experience for me.

Think it’s more an over thinking thing. Guys like to have a big cock but from my experience most ladies are not in to length, width is more important.

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By *earditallWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancaster

I don't know i had mine referred to as a neatly packed ham butty this week so wasn't sure if thats a bad or good thing 🙈

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By *isterBlondMan
4 weeks ago

weston

Comparison is the thief of joy… but always carry a tape measure around, just incase.

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By *oodmessMan
4 weeks ago

yumsville

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I blame it on the porno's the women are watching like twitchy midnight muff maniacs. Wanting unrealistic big dicks, wanting made up bde, and unrealistic big dick fuckery.

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Us gents shouldn't put up with it and call it out. Respect goes both ways, and that kind of neg on schlong only divides us.

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say no to the wide on.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

As long as it's not a vagina dentata, I will sample all the delights of the coochie smorgasboard

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By *iaisonseekerMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I don't know i had mine referred to as a neatly packed ham butty this week so wasn't sure if thats a bad or good thing 🙈"

better than a badly packed kebab

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By *rchie300Man
4 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Most men do not care about what a fanny looks like ….. as long as it’s not like throwing a sausage roll down an alley way …. All will be good 😉

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By *aszloandnadjaCouple
4 weeks ago

York

"I don't know i had mine referred to as a neatly packed ham butty this week so wasn't sure if thats a bad or good thing 🙈"

Sounds like it's intended as a compliment. I mean neatly packed has got to be a good thing right? And who doesn't like to nibble on a ham butty? (apart from vegetarians / vegans and anyone who's religious beliefs preclude them from partaking in pork products 😂)

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By *ydaz70Man
4 weeks ago

Rotherham /newquay

"Why is it we get the men questioning their cock size, length, girth, what counts as big and small, who prefers what....

We don't see the ladies asking if their vagina is tidy enough, right enough (like it's quantifiable) shaved enough, are my tits big enough, perky enough, hairy enough 😜

Just curious are the men folk just generally more obsessed with genitals overall?

Is it the porn influence that has many thinking they need a large dong when the reality is many women prefer average?

Or are we as women less bothered about what the opposite sex think of our genitals & boobies? Because we know they are amazing anyway?

Mrs "
is it wall to walled carpeted in a wetherspoons stylie if not I ain't interested

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By *herry77Woman
4 weeks ago

North West

"I always insist of measuring the vaginal dimensions with a trusty tape measure… 👍🏻😜

Really wish I hadn’t misread that as rusty tape measure 😱

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By *ensuallover1000Man
4 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I always insist of measuring the vaginal dimensions with a trusty tape measure… 👍🏻😜

Really wish I hadn’t misread that as rusty tape measure 😱"

😂😂😱 That sounds like Silence Of The Lambs territory… 😵‍💫😱😱

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

When I shouted up it I got a really good echo...... faded into the distance but went on for ages......

So result = Vag big enough for a Fucking Fuck off enormous truck.

That's your vag not mine. Mine is squeaky tight ...

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"When I shouted up it I got a really good echo...... faded into the distance but went on for ages......

So result = Vag big enough for a Fucking Fuck off enormous truck.

That's your vag not mine. Mine is squeaky tight ... "

The echo test

VAG….vag….va….va……v = big enough

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

As a straight women I'm not a fan of vaginas and don't choose to look at others so I do question why anyone wants to go near mine? Not out loud obviously, I wouldn't want to put anyone off 😈

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By *uddlefuckleMan
4 weeks ago

Boston

If the growler is frothing at the mouth and ready to go, it's the most delicious dish anyone can put in front of me.

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By *oodmessMan
4 weeks ago

yumsville

"As a straight women I'm not a fan of vaginas and don't choose to look at others so I do question why anyone wants to go near mine? Not out loud obviously, I wouldn't want to put anyone off 😈

As a hetero gent and a fan of the vag, are you a grower or a shower

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By *ikerbttmguyMan
4 weeks ago

Huddersfield, Golcar

I'm not an expert on ladies bits but if you need a rope a miners lamp and a canary it might be a bit too big.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

"I don't think women are less bothered as such.

I did a thread fairly recentish wondering the same thing. If other women have the same insecurities.

Yes I get the external but ladies still don't post about boob size, it's generally the men that ask about that too, maybe we are generally more introvert regarding our insecurities?

Mrs

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