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By *ickie_Ranking OP   Man
11 weeks ago

London

So I've recently taken going to gym seriously and I usually focus on the job at hand but last week I noticed a lady and cant keep my eyes off her. I know for a lady at the gym being approached by a man doesn't go down well but..

This is where the Fab family help, what would be my chat up line?

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By *d mirerMan
11 weeks ago

lost

I reckon your best possible chat up line would be best kept to yourself 😂

It saves on that whole coming across as a space invading knobber which isn’t a great look 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I've been weighting patiently until I could bodybuild the courage to try a pick up line on you.

Would love to say Gym will fix it but, that phrase has been ruined forever.

Squat on my face is too forward too, ignore that.

Say she has a lovely set on her.. Then point to the machine she's on.

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By *hinstrapMan
11 weeks ago

sheffield

I'm absolutely shite when it comes to chatting up. Or being chatted up.

I'm just here for the tips and maybe cracking chat up lines

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By *couseBaldyMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

I would clock an exercise which you both have in common e.g. training traps ... then engineer a "bump into her" moment at the water refill station or if you're training on a bench next to her just say "excuse me, i'm having trouble with my posture/form and don't feel like i'm getting anywhere with it, do have any advice on best form and repitions?"

Most likely shes not a knobhead and will either say she struggles with it too and there is your conversation ... or she will give you some advice.

Say thank you and leave her to her workout .. If you cross paths when leaving you will have a "bye and thanks for the advice" quick second chat.

You've now got at minimum a hello, hows your workout going/what body parts you doing today/your advice worked and i can feel it much better conversation and develop it from there.

This is just something quick which come to my head, hope it helps.

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By *hortieWoman
11 weeks ago

Northampton

Just.. don't.

Biker nod, that's it.

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By *uttercupWoman
11 weeks ago

Borders

My advice is leave her alone.

But if you really plan on approaching her then just have small general chats.

Us women like to be spoken to nicely with politeness & remember to smile

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By *pace cowboy05Man
11 weeks ago

wales/london/ southwest

Tread carefully on this one, if shes interested you'll catch each other's eyes, just smile, look away and look back. If she is still looking and smiling suggest a friendly hello is in order. And if that progresses to a poditive response, maybe I've seen you here a few times, training for anything, etc. If shes responding and smiling then its either bite the bullet and ask her out or a friendly see you again and keep the conversation flowing next time you see her.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Hi love does this rag smell of cloraform to u 👀

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire

Don't 'engineer' anything.

Unless I'm in a life-threatening situation I don't want anyone approaching me during my workout. Though of course if I'm resting between sets it's ok to ask me how many more sets I've got to do if you want the machine I'm using.

If you happen to bump into her in one of the social areas in the gym, then you could strike up conversation, but keep it very bland and vanilla. Her reaction will let you know if she'd like to engage further. Remember women have very few safe spaces where they can just 'be' and you have no idea what she may have had to go through just to get into the gym every time you see her there, so be mindful that she may not view interaction with you (or anyone else) as welcome.

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By *couseBaldyMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

This is true and apologies if "engineer something" sounds terrible .. didn't mean it to come across like that .. bas choice of words.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire


"This is true and apologies if "engineer something" sounds terrible .. didn't mean it to come across like that .. bas choice of words. "

That wasn't aimed at you specifically. I was simply trying to emphasise that if any approach is to be made it needs to be done naturally and without any obvious intent. Clearly OP has observed the individual in question so may well already understand whether (and how) they interact with others in the gym environment, so will hopefully factor that in to his decision over when/how/if to approach the object of his desires.

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By *uaveNightsMan
11 weeks ago

Canvey Island

“Hello” usually works.

I got talking to a, now great friend, at the gym just by giving a slightly sarcastic clap and well done after she dropped a weight. 😅

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By *inkPomPomWoman
11 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Ive had a few guys throw out some classics lately and it definitely has a cheesy charm to it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex


"So I've recently taken going to gym seriously and I usually focus on the job at hand but last week I noticed a lady and cant keep my eyes off her. I know for a lady at the gym being approached by a man doesn't go down well but..

This is where the Fab family help, what would be my chat up line?"

You know it won't go down well but you still want to do it?

Have a think around that for a minute or two.

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By *isterBlondMan
11 weeks ago

weston

“How many sets you got left?” Usually does the trick

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Just keep staring at her to make her so uncomfortable she cancels her gym membership.

You won't need advice after that

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By *offiacoolWoman
11 weeks ago

Alsager


"So I've recently taken going to gym seriously and I usually focus on the job at hand but last week I noticed a lady and cant keep my eyes off her. I know for a lady at the gym being approached by a man doesn't go down well but..

This is where the Fab family help, what would be my chat up line?

You know it won't go down well but you still want to do it?

Have a think around that for a minute or two."

As I was scrolling, I was thinking how to formulate a reply. You typed it succinctly 😊

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By *ickie_Ranking OP   Man
6 weeks ago

London

Sad to say, after typing this I haven't seen her in the gym again but dont worry people im still motivated. 4/5 days a week gym sessions.

Ill keep you updated 😆

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By *thsinnerMan
6 weeks ago

belfast

Think this is where autism changes are noticed...what is wrong with just saying hello, I like you and can't keep my eyes off of you...

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By *exxyyDy11Man
6 weeks ago

North West


"Sad to say, after typing this I haven't seen her in the gym again but dont worry people im still motivated. 4/5 days a week gym sessions.

Ill keep you updated 😆 "

I was expecting this to be the beginnings of something romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

“That’s a smashing blouse you are wearing”

Never fails

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By *ornucopiaMan
6 weeks ago

Bexley

Good thread for reminding me not to go anywhere near gyms!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Think this is where autism changes are noticed...what is wrong with just saying hello, I like you and can't keep my eyes off of you...

"

That would be likely to make the woman feel extremely self conscious while working out.

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By *thsinnerMan
6 weeks ago

belfast

Well thats a reflection on her not me. People get to choose how they respond to things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Well thats a reflection on her not me. People get to choose how they respond to things. "

You might consider how your words might make people feel under certain circumstances and when it's appropriate to voice them. It's worth remembering that people also have a choice in what they say.

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By *thsinnerMan
6 weeks ago

belfast

"when it is appropriate" has changed about 15 times in your life time...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


""when it is appropriate" has changed about 15 times in your life time...

"

it certainly has, a lot of things are seen as less appropriate than they once were

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By *thsinnerMan
6 weeks ago

belfast

And you don't see how all of these so called rules are only put in place to control peoples ability to connect to each other?

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Slough

Focus man (get yourself in a zone).

Simples.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"And you don't see how all of these so called rules are only put in place to control peoples ability to connect to each other?

"

It's not a rule.

There's nothing wrong with saying hello to people in almost any situation. It's what you say afterwards.

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By *axtanMan
6 weeks ago

Wimborne

Try and I know it's old fashioned but a hello!!

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By *actile TensionMan
6 weeks ago

Sussex

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By *ornucopiaMan
6 weeks ago

Bexley

As mentioned earlier, I am not a gym goer but I can offer a suggested chat up line:

"Your tatts look tatty"

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
6 weeks ago

London

Avoid. Not worth the risk. If you happen to make eye contact just do a gentle nod or a smile. Then continue your workout.

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By *lirtyFilthWoman
6 weeks ago

Laughterton


"Hi love does this rag smell of cloraform to u 👀"

Laughed way too much at this.

Knowing me is probably smell it to be polite too 🤣

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By *ulldog_71Man
6 weeks ago

Sedgefield


"Hi love does this rag smell of cloraform to u 👀

Laughed way too much at this.

Knowing me is probably smell it to be polite too 🤣"

Taking note of that

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