FabSwingers.com forum: The worst timing...

By *agnbonerman OP Man
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Anyone else have the worst timing messaging people?

I always find I message someone who appears online and soon as I've hit send and gone back to their profile they've logged off a few moments before and then I figure the message is lost to the æther under a pile of other messages, Then I feel awful messaging again because it's looks pushy.

Ah well, c'est la vie, (not quite a) rant over and all that jazz

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By *elix SightedMan
4 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Logistics letting you down there big man.

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By *agnbonerman OP Man
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Logistics letting you down there big man."

Damn skippy they are. haha I really need to change that since I'm not in that game anymore

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Happens to me all the time.

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

That's why many people would prefer if the site didn't show they were online because for some that's often the only reason they message.

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By *d mirerMan
4 weeks ago

lost

I time it by tracking online movement , creating a spreadsheet detailing the most likely times of logging on by recent activity and timing the message precisely about 37 seconds before login .

To be honest though , I’m actually rather impressed at how my friends and people I interact with privately find and respond to my messages under the deluge they must get at times .

I could take this opportunity to firmly poke the ribs of one particular friend replies on average about three weeks later but I won’t 😂😂

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By *earditallWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancaster

I have my messages set so friends messages come up first as they are the people i interact with

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By *d mirerMan
4 weeks ago

lost

"I have my messages set so friends messages come up first as they are the people i interact with

I didn’t know that was a thing !

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

It used to bother me massively, but now, I realise people actually have things to do other than chat to me.

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By *earditallWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancaster

"I have my messages set so friends messages come up first as they are the people i interact with

I didn’t know that was a thing ! "

Yeah if you click at the top of your messages you can tap it to see friends messages first...I still lose the odd one though but works well x

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

I never log out but show online but sometimes busy for hours before I get chance to actually check something and sometimes if beast has briefly logged in it will show as online even if he’s not actively checking it. If it’s meant to be they will message back and if not it’s just one of those things x

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
4 weeks ago

South glos

If I want to talk to someone, I don’t lose their messages. Just saying

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By *ontyboi76Man
4 weeks ago

Pontypridd

"Logistics letting you down there big man.

Damn skippy they are. haha I really need to change that since I'm not in that game anymore"

If it helps, there is a huge time lag and often incorrect statuses on here. So likely missed by 20 mins or more. But yes timing seems to hit me too.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancashire

"I have my messages set so friends messages come up first as they are the people i interact with

I didn’t know that was a thing !

Yeah if you click at the top of your messages you can tap it to see friends messages first...I still lose the odd one though but works well x"

Whaaaatt? Thats so useful. Thank you 🤩

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By *atch0101Man
4 weeks ago

The wrong place

Im about 5 years behind.

My timing is so buggered, I cant even hire company

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By *007ManMan
4 weeks ago

Worthing

Maybe don't message op unless they send one first.

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Hiding

This is not an instant messaging website. Just because someone is online, it doesn't mean they're going to open your message and reply there and then. I really wish there was a way of being able to switch off the "online" option and only showing as offline, without the need to log off.

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