FabSwingers.com forum: What mistakes do you keep making?

By *eltCuteMightDelete OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Are there mistakes that you just keep making? How do you break that cycle?

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By *earditallWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancaster

Yeah i over share far too much,and i haven't figured the breaking it yet

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By *ude LawMan
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

I keep making tpyos

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

I keep posting without proof reading and I have no idea how to break that cycle. It involves self discipline which I don't have in that respect.

I guess self discipline is required to break any cycle

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By *hisIsMe58Man
4 weeks ago

Winchester

I'm unkind to myself far to often. Working hard to stop this but it is difficult.

I guess over sharing too much as well

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

An old acquaintance of mine repeated the same circle of issues with her partner for years. They had issues with each other which they repeated the same things in an attempt to solve them. Eventually she left him...cycle broken

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By *uttercupWoman
4 weeks ago

Borders

"I'm unkind to myself far to often. Working hard to stop this but it is difficult.

I guess over sharing too much as well

This is also me

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Round the bend

"I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums. "

I think this is what we've done. It's gone on longer than expected though.

Not the dishonesty part though. Just expected more from people and felt let down.

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
4 weeks ago

S.Wales

Not reading what I have written before sending 😬✨️

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums.

I think this is what we've done. It's gone on longer than expected though.

Not the dishonesty part though. Just expected more from people and felt let down. "

Sucks doesn't it.

I hope we both learn from it soon.

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By *he MinionMan
4 weeks ago

I pften hit "p" instead of "o" in messages.

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By *uttercupWoman
4 weeks ago

Borders

"I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums. "

I could of wrote this about myself.

Another problem i have is knowing deep down they are lying but pretending to myself i might be wrong. Hurts a little less each time i suppose

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By *am450Man
4 weeks ago

Sidcup/Bexley

Overthinking almost everything

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By *he MinionMan
4 weeks ago

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums.

I think many do the same. I know I do. Shut down all conversations that are going on and just want to curl up into a little ball.

But.... for me anyway, when i do get knocked down, i do get back up again.

🤍

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By *quirrel!Man
4 weeks ago

London

I keep coming on here when I’m horny!

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By *omeotherguyMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

"I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums.

I could of wrote this about myself.

Another problem i have is knowing deep down they are lying but pretending to myself i might be wrong. Hurts a little less each time i suppose "

Is this the more or less common view you have of people? It would be sad if this is the general way you feel toward folks 😔

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Thinking I'm funny when I'm actually hilarious

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By *uttercupWoman
4 weeks ago

Borders

"I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums.

I could of wrote this about myself.

Another problem i have is knowing deep down they are lying but pretending to myself i might be wrong. Hurts a little less each time i suppose

Is this the more or less common view you have of people? It would be sad if this is the general way you feel toward folks 😔"

It's called me been stupid & not standing up for myself more

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By *m just me 78Man
4 weeks ago

Preston

When it seems just to good to be true it usually is.

Ive always been low maintenance,never been expectant off my other half,and im hardwork when it comes to receiving something or having things done for me.im happy as a pig in shit, at the sight of my lunchbox done and ready for me,one day never mind all week😀

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
4 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Open a packet of Custard Creams in my office.

Promise myself I'll only have 1 or 2 but end up...

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By *utsackerMan
4 weeks ago

north east

Living in the past

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums.

I could of wrote this about myself.

Another problem i have is knowing deep down they are lying but pretending to myself i might be wrong. Hurts a little less each time i suppose "

Im sorry to hear its not just me. I hope you manage to break the cycle.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
4 weeks ago

Maidstone

Logging into fab.

Deleting profile.

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By *urry BlokeMan
4 weeks ago

I keep telling myself to take a break, but don't

So my site input ends up being a quick scan of the forums, a quick flick through the hot pics and then block a few locals

I don't actually 'swing' any longer

I guess my time here can be compared to a smoker who then goes on to vape but doesn't actually kick the habit altogether

Cos that's all it is, a habit with a sprinkling of FOMO

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By *uttercupWoman
4 weeks ago

Borders

"I make the mistake of believing in people, and thinking they are being honest.

Each time, its a painful lesson.

When it happens I take a backwards step, stop meeting and just browse the forums.

I could of wrote this about myself.

Another problem i have is knowing deep down they are lying but pretending to myself i might be wrong. Hurts a little less each time i suppose

Im sorry to hear its not just me. I hope you manage to break the cycle. "

Thank you. Same to you as well 😊

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

I keep accidentally eating too many calories.

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Jarrow

Thinking I’m going to get a meet on here

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By *herry77Woman
4 weeks ago

North West

Eating my feelings when I’m dysregulated 😩

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By *astMidsMInkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leicester

Overthinking

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
4 weeks ago

marlborough

Investing time in people who don’t care. Just need to give up and stop wasting time. If they can’t help themselves, I’m never going to be able to change anything.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

Going to bed late. It's something I really need to sort out before it starts affecting my everyday life even worse than does.

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By *imon_hydeMan
4 weeks ago

Stockport

Introspection to an unhealthy degree

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

"Overthinking"

Same! I am an over thinker too.

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By *onin25Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

I keep banging my right elbow on the french doors as I step outside

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By *etwife8230Couple
4 weeks ago

Newport

Thinking I don't have to track my wine calories

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By *olo180Man
4 weeks ago

Greater London

Deciding to spend time on Fab rather than do all the other things I need to get done. Fab is a time drainer but I don’t know how to break the cycle…maybe set myself some rules and stick to them!

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By *am450Man
4 weeks ago

Sidcup/Bexley

"Overthinking

Same! I am an over thinker too."

I bet I'm the best at it though!!

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

hexham

Responding to forum posts in the lounge and expecting someone to respond to the specific point that I am trying to present !

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Going out of turn in threads sometimes. I've been told off but still do it, only because I type slow. Plus I like rebelling

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

hexham

"Eating my feelings when I’m dysregulated 😩"

Sorry, I don’t even know what this means ?

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By *heekymattMan
4 weeks ago

Walsall

Getting rose tinted glasses exes and then getting itchy fingers! I try to stop myself messaging by reminding myself why we're not together but it is very tempting when remembering the good times

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

London

Chasing women... not getting what I want from them. Making up for it by chasing another woman 🤦🏽‍♂️😂

I'm not sure there's a way to break this cycle?

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By *rincess_Peach1992Woman
4 weeks ago

Newport

I overthink things, believe in other too much and a lot of self doubt 🙃

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I overthink things, believe in other too much and a lot of self doubt 🙃"

This is very common. Its all about finding someone who can communicate clearly and understands your mindset.

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
4 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

Trusting people I shouldn't.

Not sure I'm ever going to break that cycle. Nor would I want to if it will make me cynical and bitter.

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By *nnCeeWoman
4 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Keep coming to work...

Although, I suspect, if I don't turn up, they might stop putting the money in my bank account, and I kinda need that!!

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

The mistakes I usually make stem from old mindset and patterns that can sometimes resurface with old wounds. Sometimes the only way to break the cycle is through personal growth but other times its just being human so I allow myself a little grace when it happens.

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Oh gosh, I was out all afternoon but some of these posts are actually heartbreaking. Thank you all for being so open to sharing ❤️

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By *orkshire biMan
4 weeks ago

where I lay my head

Breathing

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By *arpe_diem36Man
4 weeks ago

york

Getting back to fab after I said this will be the last time

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By *hams123Man
4 weeks ago

London

I trust too easily. I'm trying to be more reserved these days.

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By *elvetNeuronWoman
4 weeks ago

Risa, Beta Quadrant

Too hard on myself and taking people at face value.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I made many mistakes when I was younger but it was a learning curve.

Ive tried not to make as many mistakes in later years.

I us3d to always say to my son its not about the mistakes youve made but what youve learnt from them

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By *DAnnette3TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Brighton

Thinking everyone on Fab is genuine x

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By *atch0101Man
4 weeks ago

The wrong place

Coming on here. Glutton for punishment and only make myself bitter

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By *og and MuseCouple
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Over or underpacking not sure how to break the cycle....do you plan for every eventually or stick to a specific agenda & travel super light? and how many lenses is too many

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By *ergus1622Man
4 weeks ago

Dundee

Speaking to the wrong people! Need to find the right ones! Thanks the hard part.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
4 weeks ago

South Wales

I can’t judge rice or pasta and get it wrong every time because I always add a little bit more just in case! Xx 😄

Also I’m very trusting and think everyone is nice and that’s sometimes a mistake. I could break the cycle by being more suspicious of people but that’s just not me! Xx

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I mean, where do I start!

Eating bad things and getting fatter.

Impulse spending for a dopamine hit.

Not being organised.

Self doubt and negative self talk that then leads to a spiral.

Being too afraid to ask for what I need, want or say how I feel because deep down I don't believe I'm worthy.

Running the bath too hot then adding too much cold!

Accidentally buying M&S Chocolate button shortbread and eating it all on the way home!

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By *ature-Gent-73Man
4 weeks ago

NN1

Ok where do we start…

Trusting People Too Soon

Over sharing (because of trusting too soon)

Lack of Confidence

Self Doubt

Imposter Syndrome

Body Image

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By *orders-cplCouple
4 weeks ago

middx cpl

Trusting guys to soon

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By *ontyboi76Man
4 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Buying nonsense to feel good

Being self destructive, knowing I am and not fixing it.

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By *coobyABCMan
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Not really a mistake in my opinion but I have zero filter and I often offend people. Too many snowflakes in my opinion need to lighten up

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Leeting the aytraction I have for someone override the flashing red flags I know I am the one who will be hurt by it in the end but can't stop myself.

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

I buy too many clothes. Every single month. And I tell myself next month it'll be different... And it never is 🤦‍♀️ same with books but I justify it by going to charity shops 😅

Mrs x

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

London

"I mean, where do I start!

Eating bad things and getting fatter.

Impulse spending for a dopamine hit.

Not being organised.

Self doubt and negative self talk that then leads to a spiral.

Being too afraid to ask for what I need, want or say how I feel because deep down I don't believe I'm worthy.

Running the bath too hot then adding too much cold!

Accidentally buying M&S Chocolate button shortbread and eating it all on the way home!

Remind me to "accidentally run into you" on your way home from m&s 😂

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
4 weeks ago

Reading

"Leeting the aytraction I have for someone override the flashing red flags I know I am the one who will be hurt by it in the end but can't stop myself.

Posting before double checking the spelling in my posts 😂

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By *3dwoodMan
4 weeks ago

London

Working too hard to get minimal results and stressing myself out in the process damaging my health

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’m a people pleaser and take it to extremes in relationships. It’s meant I’ve kept quiet when views have been expressed that have been downright unpalatable instead of challenging them, I’ve put myself out to the point of doormat and stayed far longer than I should. It’s something I’m working hard on though.

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By *homas400Man
4 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

Having quick look on here before going to sleep..... three hours later 🙄

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By *uddlefuckleMan
4 weeks ago

Boston

Uncorking the bottle and believing I can put it back in.

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Northumberland

I often overthink, so in order to break that, I overthink about over thinking, therefore over thinking more then send my mind into a state of over thinking about everything more.

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By *ink vixenCouple
4 weeks ago

Medway

Still lift my head occasionally when I roll.

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Reading

❤️ you're all being so open

I realised I didn't share my own mistake. Which is that even though I 'ended' things with the person who hurts me with his inconsistency and poor communication, the first opportunity he gave me to reverse that decision, I took it.

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

London

"❤️ you're all being so open

You deserve better darling, I hope you learn your own value soon.

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By *herry77Woman
4 weeks ago

North West

"Eating my feelings when I’m dysregulated 😩

Sorry, I don’t even know what this means ?

Turning to food when I’m struggling with emotions (comfort eating)

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By *bby1110Woman
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Another over thinker.

Also, despite being rather cynical, I can also be too trusting and give people the benefit of the doubt rather than speaking my mind and calling them out on their shit

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By *estructionDollyWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

I keep having sex with men, when will I ever learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Overthinking

Liking someone who is never going to give me what I want and kidding myself that I dont want him when I actually do

Telling myself every week I'm going to take food to work and end up eating naughty food on the go

Perving....constantly

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Northumberland

"Another over thinker.

Also, despite being rather cynical, I can also be too trusting and give people the benefit of the doubt rather than speaking my mind and calling them out on their shit "

Im the polar opposite, even though I overthink, I struggle with trust. I dont share feelings (very rare i so) never give a 2nd chance and open my mouth far to fast and easy, leading to stuff being said which always leads to upsetting someone, then me not giving a fuck ehat I just did. Partially my background is to blame, but im very defencive of my trust. So if I trust someone theyve done well to get it!.

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Northumberland

"I keep having sex with men, when will I ever learn. "

Have sex with me, I'll put you off and break the cycle... that or will be the best 59 seconds ever and make the cycle worse 🤣🤣

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By *bby1110Woman
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

"Another over thinker.

Also, despite being rather cynical, I can also be too trusting and give people the benefit of the doubt rather than speaking my mind and calling them out on their shit

Ah I keep a lot of what I think/feel in my head. Not a great talker about those kind of things.

I am an excellent chunterer though 😂

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

London

"I keep having sex with men, when will I ever learn.

Have sex with me, I'll put you off and break the cycle... that or will be the best 59 seconds ever and make the cycle worse 🤣🤣"

59 seconds? You're going to do it twice? 😳

Randy bastard...

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
4 weeks ago

Northumberland

"I keep having sex with men, when will I ever learn.

Have sex with me, I'll put you off and break the cycle... that or will be the best 59 seconds ever and make the cycle worse 🤣🤣

59 seconds? You're going to do it twice? 😳

Randy bastard...

That includes the time it takes to get my socks off 😂

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By *hilly1515Man
4 weeks ago

I dont make mistakes I am perfect....

instead I choose high risk decisions to see what I can learn from them.

Although there was that one time as a choir boy , when the priest said just gently blow on it , it's like having a hotline to heaven.... pwah pwah pwah... lying bastard...

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By *agic.MMan
4 weeks ago

Orpington

Eating the whole jar of Nutella at once 🥴

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"Eating the whole jar of Nutella at once 🥴"

I can quite easily make this mistake time and time again 😜

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By *ex HolesMan
4 weeks ago

Up North

No, not at all.

I’ve only ever been wrong once in my life Howe I don’t talk about that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

Central

Thinking I can realistically do more than I do

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By *hortieWoman
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I never make mitsakes.

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By *ing8435Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

not opening up to the right people....

opening up to the wrong people

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By *eralDeviantWoman
4 weeks ago

Hull

Keep agreeing to speak off platform because we talk about a social walking and taking time to trust.

Only to leave platform to discover nothing they said on it was true 😅

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By *osunMan
4 weeks ago

Larkhall

Keep logging on here

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Reading verifications. I really need to stop it.

Graphic ones are like the ultimate turn off.

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By *verageHoesCouple
4 weeks ago

Bessacarr

Holding myself to "normal" standards, then feeling inadequate when I don't meet them. I'm getting a lot better at stepping back and recognising it, but often only after a day or two of self-recrimination. Not being able to work full-time is the big one. My particular flavour of autism + parenting + full-time work = burnout. I need to just accept it.

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

London

"I keep having sex with men, when will I ever learn.

Have sex with me, I'll put you off and break the cycle... that or will be the best 59 seconds ever and make the cycle worse 🤣🤣

59 seconds? You're going to do it twice? 😳

Randy bastard...

That includes the time it takes to get my socks off 😂"

... And a cigarette break in between... 😂

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Northumberland

"Are there mistakes that you just keep making? How do you break that cycle?"

My mistake is, I keep believing women on here are women and not men!

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!

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By *oelMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"Are there mistakes that you just keep making? How do you break that cycle?"

Needing another more than I need myself

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
4 weeks ago

Carlisle

My mistake is not being kind to myself.

I'm told on a regular basis, I need to start listening to the part of self that is crying out for my own kindness.

I'm trying to change, I have strategies but I keep forgetting them or I'm too far down the rabbit hole before I know it.

It's a working progress 🫤

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By *issBellaWoman
4 weeks ago

Flintshire

I overshare, overspend, and overthink and I'm not sure I'll ever break the cycle

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
4 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire

"I buy too many clothes. Every single month. And I tell myself next month it'll be different... And it never is 🤦‍♀️ same with books but I justify it by going to charity shops 😅

Mrs x "

I buy too many clothes (and hats, and jewellery), and books as well which is my worst addiction, even though I know that I don’t have any room for either and I can’t really afford them, and don’t need them anyhow.

I shop for clothes etc. almost entirely in charity shops and pretend that I am not really shopping, but giving to charity, which I don’t really believe but gives me just enough of an excuse to carry on.

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By *kphooey43Man
4 weeks ago

Barnet

"What mistakes do you keep making?"

Returning to Fab time and time again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Breaking a cycle is really hard work. I had to break one in my early 20s and God was it hard. But you have to work out why you do what you do if you really need to change but a lot of things dont cause you a problem. But seriously if it is you need to dig deep

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

Overthinking every situation.

Reading too much into what people say - was that a dig at me, have I upset them, why did they say that, what did it mean, why did I say that, did it upset them, why why why...

Still learning not to do that, not overly successfully.

Baby's steps

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By *moothdickMan
4 weeks ago

stoke

Thinking I’m going to find an fwb

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

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"Overthinking every situation.

Reading too much into what people say - was that a dig at me, have I upset them, why did they say that, what did it mean, why did I say that, did it upset them, why why why...

Still learning not to do that, not overly successfully.

Baby's steps

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trust me you can do it, I did but you might need outside help. But dont be scared to ask for it. You can even find it online

Honestly it wont be easy but you can do it

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