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Who think married / taken women are sexier ?

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By *hitelotus OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Farnborough

Do you find married women more attractive ?

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By *hitelotus OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Farnborough

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod

4 weeks ago

Central

No

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By *hitelotus OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Farnborough

Why not

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By *otwife Happy LifeMan
4 weeks ago

plymouth

Yep. I do. Especially if their husbands enjoy them letting off steam with a lucky man or two.

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By *lackchiefMan
4 weeks ago

Yeovil

A lot sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Well that's good to know x

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By *ew2buryMan
4 weeks ago

Newbury

Sexier is the wrong word. But there is a thrill from a wedding ring.

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By *arpe_diem36Man
4 weeks ago

york

Married women are the best in every shape

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

No more, no less than the unmarried ones.

Perhaps I'm viewing them from different optics but they always appear anatomically similar.

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By *engali DelightMan
4 weeks ago

Camden

Short answer: Yes

Long answer: Yes

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By *hitelotus OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Farnborough

I agree . More exciting is a better word

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
4 weeks ago

Norwich

Most definitely

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"I agree . More exciting is a better word "

More exciting or just more freedom from responsibility for you ?

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By *lectrictouchMan
4 weeks ago

inverarary

Some definitely are for sure

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By *elightfulMan
4 weeks ago

Ipswich /Colchester

Yes, I encourage my wife to meet guys without me

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Jarrow

Yes

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By *arc PolarisMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Interesting thread but can't help but feel if this was reversed...

Any way, the answer is no they aren't. The rate attractiveness based on a circumstance or a category is not something I do

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By *earditallWoman
4 weeks ago

Lancaster

Interesting

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By *rl444Man
4 weeks ago

sliema

I do

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By *lectrictouchMan
4 weeks ago

inverarary


"Interesting "

Always an added attraction for me

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By *ackagain2025321Man
4 weeks ago

stockton

Yeah it’s hot having something you know you shouldn’t

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By *heelerMan
4 weeks ago

Northants

Yes and more discrete

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By *hehighlander88Man
4 weeks ago

inverness

Love the idea, I’ve flirted with a few married women

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By *he MinionMan
4 weeks ago

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Married women are not sexier than single women. If the lady in question is sexy, she is just sexy. Her marital status doesnt factor into it.

Take Emeralds above for example. She is an extremly sexy woman, her being married does not elevate her sexiness in my opinion. She is just flipping sexy. She'd still be sexy if she was single.

In my opinion.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

No, they’re just the same as any other bird.

The mr

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By *exy gentMan
4 weeks ago

Midlothian

The forbidden fruit

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I would say it’s not about being more attractive, I think it’s about chatting and being with a married woman seems abit more naughty and daring. X

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Absolutely love it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Someone being married doesn't heighten my attraction to them 💜

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By *onin25Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

In terms of pure attractiveness/looks, it makes zero difference to me. In terms of whether the circumstance makes them more attractive, if its behind the husbands back then that makes them a less attractive proposition to me.

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By *partharmonyCouple
4 weeks ago

Tonbridge

I don't see how being married or not makes any difference to how sexy a woman is.

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By *reolush98Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester


"Do you find married women more attractive ?"

Do you mean more attractive as In physical? So you find women who are married to be more attractive than those that aren't married? Or the idea of fucking married women is more attractive than fucking those who aren't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

For some people it makes them feel as if they're better than the spouse.

If I know a guy's married it makes him less attractive to me in sexual terms. I can still appreciate his looks but that's all

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By *kphooey43Man
4 weeks ago

Barnet


"Short answer: Yes

Long answer: Yes"

Your long answer has 14 characters, whereas your short answer has 15.

Shurley, shome, mishtake

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By *omeotherguyMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire


"Do you find married women more attractive ?"

It definitely adds a certain edge… that spark of the forbidden can be intoxicating. I don’t judge how people choose to play or connect, that’s always personal to them. And I don't chase or promote cheating.

But I won’t pretend there isn’t a primal side to me that enjoys the dynamic of taking another mans wife, with permission or otherwise.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair


"No more, no less than the unmarried ones.

Perhaps I'm viewing them from different optics but they always appear anatomically similar."

ㅤㅤ

Some further musings on this polarising matter:

Sexy unmarried woman (betrothed) walks into a Registry Office and ten mins later she walks out. Hey presto! She's married, ergo sexier!

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By *ifelover999Man
4 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Yes deff esp if hubby knows whats going on

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"No more, no less than the unmarried ones.

Perhaps I'm viewing them from different optics but they always appear anatomically similar.

ㅤㅤ

Some further musings on this polarising matter:

Sexy unmarried woman (betrothed) walks into a Registry Office and ten mins later she walks out. Hey presto! She's married, ergo sexier!"

Simple innit!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"No more, no less than the unmarried ones.

Perhaps I'm viewing them from different optics but they always appear anatomically similar.

ㅤㅤ

Some further musings on this polarising matter:

Sexy unmarried woman (betrothed) walks into a Registry Office and ten mins later she walks out. Hey presto! She's married, ergo sexier!"

I think it’s the forbidden thing. Someone else’s wife is hot. I really don’t get it at all. I meet people because I really like them and there’s a connection. I’m not bothered if they’re married but the fact that they are married wouldn’t turn me on at all. I don’t really like this dynamic where it’s so hot because you’re married. That’s not for me at all

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

This is interesting as I mostly play alone and my husband is perfectly fine with it. Obviously we communicate boundaries etc

I personally find it extremely unattractive if someone is married and the wife/husband isn't aware they are playing. That's a hard no for me.

If everyone is happy, then it's all good.

(Mrs) X

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I don’t think it makes them more sexy, I mean sexy is sexy right, I think it’s probably the feeling of risk that makes it feel more sexy , quickies in the car, secret afternoon sessions when hubby thinks your working all makes for very horny experience.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 weeks ago

Niche

The mindset and characteristics that drive this in a person are a huge turn off. Imho it's a tad immature to think that way.

1. A married woman swinging with consent and in love with her hubby will not think you're a better option. You're just variety for the duration of the sex.

And 2. for those who actively seek it out and are getting off from cheating, it's not just immature, it's a wantonly destructive way to behave and a huge red flag character-wise to think it's super duper coolio.

But that's just my own opinion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I don’t think it makes them more sexy, I mean sexy is sexy right, I think it’s probably the feeling of risk that makes it feel more sexy , quickies in the car, secret afternoon sessions when hubby thinks your working all makes for very horny experience."

For me the discomfort of a car and the brevity of a 'quickie' couldn't be less sexy but that's probably because I'm old and like comfort and a lot of attention

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By *yprusdreamWoman
4 weeks ago

Cyprus


"For some people it makes them feel as if they're better than the spouse.

If I know a guy's married it makes him less attractive to me in sexual terms. I can still appreciate his looks but that's all "

☝️ this

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By *ew2buryMan
4 weeks ago

Newbury


"I agree . More exciting is a better word

More exciting or just more freedom from responsibility for you ?"

exciting. I'm not talking cheating here. And I have an OH who also dates (equally exciting).

I don't think HWing removes the risk of anyone catching unintended feels. But maybe it is lower risk than meeting single gals who are also on the look out for dates. Not really though about it until now. It's not the appeal. But maybe there is a safety element of being on the same page.

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By *omeotherguyMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire


"The mindset and characteristics that drive this in a person are a huge turn off. Imho it's a tad immature to think that way.

1. A married woman swinging with consent and in love with her hubby will not think you're a better option. You're just variety for the duration of the sex.

And 2. for those who actively seek it out and are getting off from cheating, it's not just immature, it's a wantonly destructive way to behave and a huge red flag character-wise to think it's super duper coolio.

But that's just my own opinion."

I think people have their own reasons for the choices they make, and those reasons are valid to them, even if we don’t fully understand them. Sometimes people stay in relationships for things like children or stability, but that doesn’t mean they’re fulfilled as individuals.

I’ve been in that position myself. Staying for the children, but I didn’t cross that line because it’s not who I am. I’d struggle with that personally. That said, I don’t judge others because I don’t know their situation and I don't take responsibility for their choices.

Of course, some people are just selfish, that exists everywhere. But if I’m honest, I probably do see things a bit through a gender lens. I tend to assume women have more emotional reasoning behind their choices, whether that’s fair or not. It might be bias, but it’s how it comes across to me.

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By *hisIsMe58Man
4 weeks ago

Winchester

Being married has no bearing on whether a woman is sexier. They are either sexy or not.

Some people might find this dynamic more thrilling, but personally I don't want to meet someone who is going behind their partners back. If they have consent, then I don't see there being much difference than meeting someone who is single.

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By *eorgesdad69Man
4 weeks ago

Long Eaton

I like married men, they are so horny xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
4 weeks ago

Penrith

I find a woman who knows what she wants, sexiest of all.

Her being married/attached has no bearing on that, her sensuality exceeds everything else…

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By *olo180Man
4 weeks ago

Greater London


"Do you find married women more attractive ?"

Some of my mates wives are 🐕 😂

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By *hitelotus OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Farnborough

Wife mates are usually the hottest

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Round the bend

With their husbands permission, and the husband involved, is a sexy dynamic.

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I've been fortunate enough to have lovely experiences with both married and single ladies.

I can't say one felt better than the other though.

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By *unover40Couple
4 weeks ago

yeovil

Fortunately lots of guys do

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Anatomically they're the same.

Otherwise if you get off on potentially helping to wreck a relationship, it's a red flag to me.

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By *007ManMan
4 weeks ago

Worthing

No...unless the gent is there watching us.

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