FabSwingers.com forum: ORALLY BI

By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

What is that all about? In my book, bi is bi and straight is fucking straight(pardon the pun)(and pardon my french, for fuck sake)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys like sucking cock but not say anal or kissing with another guy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I guess it means they don't mind sucking but don't want fucking. But then I only think of others' preferences when I am arranging to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 12/06/13 20:06:52]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is also something of a phalacy that all gay guys like bum sex

Loads don't

I know quite a few gay guys and couples that don't indulge in penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - Really?

It's pretty self explanatory, I thought.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It is also something of a phalacy that all gay guys like bum sex"

Or phallusy hur hur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet on the thread entitled "lesbians" if a woman is a lesbian but endulges in cock then that's her business according to most on there

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"OP - Really?

It's pretty self explanatory, I thought."

Dont take it to heart. Just enjoy the freedom of speech on here.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

What's the fascination with labels? Whatever a person labels themself is entirely up to them and extremely personal. They most probably just use one that fits their preferences best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the others; it's self explainatory. The reasons for that will vary from person to person so it's hard to using a sweeping generalisation.

From what I've seen though, most people who are bi curious/orally bi don't necessarily find the same sex attractive or crave intimacy with them.

I consider someone bi if they find members of the same sex attractive and would actively pursue a relationship with someone of either sex.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"OP - Really?

It's pretty self explanatory, I thought."

Dont take it to heart. Just enjoy the freedom of speech on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is something niggling you op ?

Have you been excluded from meeting cos you are cock averse ?

Your update of 2 hours ago plus this thread suggests that something has bugged you and that something is revolving round the bi 'issue'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm orally bi n my interpretation for me is that I'll happily do anything EXCEPT anal i.e sucking, kissing rimming bla bla bla. Anal is a psychological/physical problem for me due to a traumatic incident 48 years ago!

Everybody likes to play at all sorts of different levels. So I hope THIS answers yr question wot the fuck orally bi is all about

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Is something niggling you op ?

Have you been excluded from meeting cos you are cock averse ?

Your update of 2 hours ago plus this thread suggests that something has bugged you and that something is revolving round the bi 'issue'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's betterthan Colgate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is that all about? In my book, bi is bi and straight is fucking straight(pardon the pun)(and pardon my french, for fuck sake)

Wow why so angry about it?? The above opinion is yours. So why can't other people be entitled to have their own opinions on it too!! ...

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question for the masses......If bi is bi, and straight is straight...... where does a little bit of cock appreciation fit in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to the drawing board.

Bi, pie, Sky +

I though all oral sex was just dirty talk.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

"What is that all about? In my book, bi is bi and straight is fucking straight(pardon the pun)(and pardon my french, for fuck sake)

Give us a kiss and I'll tell you.

Jenny.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"A question for the masses......If bi is bi, and straight is straight...... where does a little bit of cock appreciation fit in?

My fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A label is a label...means something different to all.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"What is that all about? In my book, bi is bi and straight is fucking straight(pardon the pun)(and pardon my french, for fuck sake)

Give us a kiss and I'll tell you.

Jenny.

mwah, mwah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think bisexual folk are just greedy.

I think it makes things twice as feckin' difficult.

Double the nutters.

Count your blessings, thread starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men like sucking beautiful cocks on ocassion and thats all

I can see why as I like doing that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" where does a little bit of cock appreciation fit in?

The mouth?

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

" where does a little bit of cock appreciation fit in?

The mouth?

WICKED!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being orally bi myself, I'm sure my vote doesn't count

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Not being orally bi myself, I'm sure my vote doesn't count

Nor mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not keen on labels but honesty with yourself is important.

For me, saying that you'll do this but not that is irrelevant because a straight guy would even consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the fascination with labels? Whatever a person labels themself is entirely up to them and extremely personal. They most probably just use one that fits their preferences best. "

The labeling is frustrating

Im quite open minded so whilst I have never felt attracted to blokes the idea of getting sucked by one turned me on. I therefore tried it and enjoyed it. I often now meet blokes just to suck me. I have gone further but not necessarily enjoyed it. I have never kissed a bloke as dont have the attraction.

I can be on occasion a 'nervous' person in terms of sex but found that I had less trouble getting it up with blokes than women. I dont know whether its the technique or whether it was because with a woman I try to be respectful and show them a good time and with blokes I am less respectful and know its just a suck and but whatever the reason it works for me.

Does this make me bi? I dont know. Am I bothered? No. Am I open about the subject? Absolutely not. Rightly or wrongly I wouldn't admit to this in public arguably for fear of perception amongst less educated friends and society generally. In any event I dont think there is a need to come out as I dont think I will ever have a relationship with a bloke.

Perhaps I should just be classed as greedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness, the labels (in this case) are self applied in general.... so it's hard to critique their application

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"What's the fascination with labels? Whatever a person labels themself is entirely up to them and extremely personal. They most probably just use one that fits their preferences best.

The labeling is frustrating

Perhaps I should just be classed as greedy!"

This is DEEP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men like sucking beautiful cocks on ocassion and thats all

I can see why as I like doing that too

I often find that men compliment me on my cock more than anything else. Not sure whether that is good or bad!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, does it matter how others see themselves and their preferences play wise..?

end of the day if your not meeting 'orally bi' or whatever lable folks use why worry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the fascination with labels? Whatever a person labels themself is entirely up to them and extremely personal. They most probably just use one that fits their preferences best.

The labeling is frustrating

Perhaps I should just be classed as greedy!

This is DEEP

Just honesty. I appreciate others input and am not sat crying into a tissue whilst writing it. Tissues are for other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men like sucking beautiful cocks on ocassion and thats all

I can see why as I like doing that too

I often find that men compliment me on my cock more than anything else. Not sure whether that is good or bad!"

Its a compliment,the same as if I complimented another womans boobs,if you read all the threads about cocks on here there seem to be more men obssessed with cock than women.....lots of cock envy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you read all the threads about cocks on here there seem to be more men obssessed with cock than women.....lots of cock envy

Men often see sex differently from women. I know guys from years ago at school who wanked together yet stated they weren't gay or even interested in men. I know guys today who regularly meet men for sex but don't kiss and don't see it as anything to do with love, just a horny way of getting off. I often see beautiful cocks in porn that turn me on, and don't see anything wrong with that. It's not cock envy, more cock interest. I've seen a lot of women who turn me off, that doesn't make me anti-women... just choosy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels seems to be very emotive to some people.

Each to their own, call yourself what you like BUT if you label yourself incorrectly then you might miss out on fun. eg we wouldnt dream of approaching straight guys for bi fun despite the majority of messages we receive being from "straight guys" wanting bi fun. If they can't be bothered to label themselves honestly then we can't be bothered meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooooh.... Somebody needs a 'Snicker' .. !! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.

Their own!

As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"It's betterthan Colgate....

Pmsfl !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men like sucking beautiful cocks on ocassion and thats all

I can see why as I like doing that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.

Their own!

As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.

yeah but I still wouldnt self suck if I could lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know quite a few straight men that suck cock. I'm currently trying to persuade one of them to take the next step

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Some guys like sucking cock but not say anal or kissing with another guy"

What user no longer on site said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.

Their own!

As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.

yeah but I still wouldnt self suck if I could lol"

Jeeeeez i'd never leave the house if I could self suck!!!

Not for the want of trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.

Their own!

As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.

yeah but I still wouldnt self suck if I could lol

Jeeeeez i'd never leave the house if I could self suck!!!

Not for the want of trying

Yeah I'm with you on that one, although I must say I do find a nice stiff cock a turn on and after my first time of sucking a guy off I now find myself wanting more

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By *hee gardenerMan
over a year ago

SLIGO

"A question for the masses......If bi is bi, and straight is straight...... where does a little bit of cock appreciation fit in?

between the cheeks of their ass...lol

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

it is easier for bifems to declare their 'status' and they are readily accepted butt what about a bimale? I wonder why it is so.

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By *estEndGentMan
over a year ago

London

Having read this thread I'm glad there are so many open minded people in here. I'd class myself as straight but recently I've been fantasising about having a threesome with a couple and sucking the guys cock. Never thought of myself as bi though. We'll see if it ever happens...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having read this thread I'm glad there are so many open minded people in here. I'd class myself as straight but recently I've been fantasising about having a threesome with a couple and sucking the guys cock. Never thought of myself as bi though. We'll see if it ever happens..."

My profile says straight but like the above have been thinking about it but don't want to put people off me by putting bi curious but why cant we have a tab saying orally bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im orally b and i use oral b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says straight but like the above have been thinking about it but don't want to put people off me by putting bi curious but why cant we have a tab saying orally bi?"

I've never experienced any negative issues - and just make sure my view is clear in my text.

Be honest - and don't worry about those that are put off - you probably wouldn't want to meet them anyway!

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