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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever had a meet that you were a bit unsure about... The when you got there it freaked you out and you wanted to leave?

What did you do?!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Have you ever had a meet that you were a bit unsure about... The when you got there it freaked you out and you wanted to leave?

What did you do?! "

No but had a couple I asked to leave without playing as they were not what they purported to be.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I walked out...

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

Sat with my arms crossed in the coffee shop...he said 'you look uncomfortable'

I was and went home

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

just be honest and polite..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ... When I was on here before. I was honest and he called me shallow

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

This is one of the reasons I changed my profile name - they can't complain if I get bitchy if the warning is up there!

*nb: First reply is courteous eg: thanks but you're not my type (type is clearly stated in profile). But if they want to know why all bets are off and it's time for some brutal honesty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once, we met in a bar and I just couldn't talk to him, I'm usually very talkative but when I not comfortable with someone it's a case of very stilted conversation.

My OH told him that he wasn't right for us. He did start to say 'oh I've come a long way and I was looking forward to it', but he did accept it without a lot

of fuss. I did feel bad even though the pictures he sent us were obviously not of him and he could have saved us all the embarrassment

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *e nicerWoman
over a year ago

Costa del Medway

left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went for a social meet, lady in question was nothing like her pic, she was hard to talk to so I made my excuses and left. Didn't feel bad, there was just no chemistry at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

went for a social the guy expected more I wasn't interested but he wasn't listening so I stood up and told him exactly what I thought - all guns blazing ....... and then walked out head held high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever had a meet that you were a bit unsure about... The when you got there it freaked you out and you wanted to leave?

What did you do?! "

Hid and erm let someone else deal with it lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a few times but i was sort of worried about hurting their feelings, god knows why i am more careful now about who i meet thats for sure.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

once I did yes and got up and left, he became very apologetic and started to beg for me to stay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a couple which we thought were nice how wrong we were had to run for the door

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thankfully no everyone I've met from here has been great. I did run the length of Leicester up to the train station many years ago from someone but thats a different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am not using meet today again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I exchanged cakes, talked nervously for an hour and then made a quick exit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy at his hotel once, stupidly, should have known better but there we go, anyway, got there and he forgot that I needed a key card to get in, receptionist at the premier in must have thought me a working girl, anyway I should have left then but didn't, he came got me, pics must have been 10 years out of date, he was clean and smelt nice but I just couldn't, we sat and chatted for a bit and I explained then that I couldn't go any further, he was very understanding but a little miffed, lucky I managed a quick ring me text and escaped soon after! It's horrible saying no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always do my homework, so never had to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a meet that I was panicking about for over a week. In the end it was great and they said I didn't show myself up by being a jibbering wreck.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

No I've never had a problem.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are a lot of times when I think 'I can't be arsed' but make myself go and things turn out well. However I met one guy at the pub, had told him no play as I was unsure, and also it was time of the month. He kept bugging me to go home with him, and I kept saying no. After the 4th time he said it I told him that if he didn't respect the word 'no' on a social meet then I would have to assume he wouldn't respect it during a sex meet and I would prefer him to leave. He did.

A couple of other times I have met socially and decided they weren't for me I've been a bit of a chicken and waited til I got home to message them. I hope I am getting a bit braver there though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple of times but never past a social... latest he looked nothing like his pic didn't fancy him had a coffee bit of a chat and I said i need to go .. He messaged me saying i left abrubtly but would like to meet again ... I replied it was only a social and I don't want to see you again ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say it as it is...'Not feeling it sorry'. He did send a whole lot of abusive texts after then sent me a message on Fab to say can you verify me as genuine FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me recently....... i just couldnt. So made some feeble excuse and left. Never happened before. Its put me off new meets now

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Just say it as it is...'Not feeling it sorry'. He did send a whole lot of abusive texts after then sent me a message on Fab to say can you verify me as genuine FFS "

Think he got those the wrong way round lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever had a meet that you were a bit unsure about... The when you got there it freaked you out and you wanted to leave?

What did you do?!

No but had a couple I asked to leave without playing as they were not what they purported to be."

If not rude care to share? I am nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

details that is, not names

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I once had to kick a guy out of a hotel room because he blatantly refused to use a condom. He then got all nasty with me via text and messaging and had to report him to admin (on another site though).

Luckily I had booked the hotel in my name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and i left him in the bar we met in after one drink.

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