FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By *rody407 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Oldbury

Does there seem to be more people than ever arranging meets and then not bothering to reply to messages or just ignoring?

Let me know what you think.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

I think this place is full of time investors and authentic people.

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By *mily36CWoman
6 weeks ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Depends if you have a scattergun approach or if you hone in on one target ...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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6 weeks ago

Central

Some people seem reportedly to be disproportionately affected by such allegations and I don't personally experience it. All reports of people who don't show up for meetings, are always investigated, if you report them to Admin

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By *ssexLad85Man
6 weeks ago

Near You

Touch wood I've been lucky so far. You can tell genuine people from the gwt go I feel.

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By *iablo soloWoman
6 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Does there seem to be more people than ever arranging meets and then not bothering to reply to messages or just ignoring?

Let me know what you think."

Agreed! it's unbelievable how many times I've had single blokes (only ever single blokes regarding my experience) that have made plans and then ghosted me. Puts me right off them

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Slough

I think that good communication is key and best not to jump to conclusions, etc. Sometimes there can be a simple misunderstanding and before one gets a chance to explain themselves the other has blocked without gaining a real understanding.

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By *ssexLad85Man
6 weeks ago

Near You

"Does there seem to be more people than ever arranging meets and then not bothering to reply to messages or just ignoring?

Let me know what you think.

Agreed! it's unbelievable how many times I've had single blokes (only ever single blokes regarding my experience) that have made plans and then ghosted me. Puts me right off them "

*looks at profile* definitely wouldn't waste your time 😋

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By *rody407 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Oldbury

"Does there seem to be more people than ever arranging meets and then not bothering to reply to messages or just ignoring?

Let me know what you think.

Agreed! it's unbelievable how many times I've had single blokes (only ever single blokes regarding my experience) that have made plans and then ghosted me. Puts me right off them

*looks at profile* definitely wouldn't waste your time 😋"

Totally agree 🔥🤣🔥

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By *iablo soloWoman
6 weeks ago

ecstasy

Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜

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By *ssexLad85Man
6 weeks ago

Near You

"Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜"

I don't scare easy 😋

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By *rs BxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Chippenham, Wiltshire.

Yep, it seems to be getting worse. Guys complain that they can't get a reply let alone a meet then just stop chatting once the day gets nearer.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜"

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No, I think you should just come across to London. 😈

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By *oldmilkMan
6 weeks ago

Trouble, apparently…

Weird. If I set up a meeting after a lot of chatting, there’s no way I’d throw that away.

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By *eelight2525Woman
6 weeks ago

Anywhere

Yep. Totally agree so many timewasters and jokers. Kinda sad rhey waste their own time as much as ours.

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By *iablo soloWoman
6 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜

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No, I think you should just come across to London. 😈"

I was only there Saturday 😜

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By *iablo soloWoman
6 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Yep, it seems to be getting worse. Guys complain that they can't get a reply let alone a meet then just stop chatting once the day gets nearer. "

Exactly this!

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By *lrightthenMan
6 weeks ago

Bradford

Yeah. Exactly why I never bother. Hard enough getting a reply then when you finally find someone who replies and arrange to meet, suddenly they're unavailable on the day with no explanation

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜

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No, I think you should just come across to London. 😈

I was only there Saturday 😜"

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What a travesty!

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By *iablo soloWoman
6 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜

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No, I think you should just come across to London. 😈

I was only there Saturday 😜

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What a travesty!"

It is because it was for a meet too but as mentioned above....ghosted🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *rody407 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Oldbury

"Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜"

I saw come across, and thought yes please 🤪

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By *iablo soloWoman
6 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Awww thank you both. Maybe I come across as scary or something thou!😜

I saw come across, and thought yes please 🤪"

🤣🤣

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By *atiekisskissWoman
6 weeks ago

London

I've had 6 cancel/ignore me after arranging a meet in the last few weeks. Two even had the nerve to message asking to meet again.

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By *adbod451000Man
6 weeks ago

cardiff

"I've had 6 cancel/ignore me after arranging a meet in the last few weeks. Two even had the nerve to message asking to meet again.

Why do people do that why waste the person's time

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
6 weeks ago

Telford

It happens, someone actually just arranged with me then poof haha.

At least it wasn't a no show on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Some people treat fab like a porn site, which is fair enough perv and leave, fab was initially set up for like minded people to chat socialise and meet, and unfortunately people who solely cum to perv now also get off on the idea, hence the time wasters and fantasists

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By *rightonsteveMan
6 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I say I’m going to meet then I do unless I give prior notice (as much as possible) that I can’t. Peoples time is valuable.

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By *he MinionMan
6 weeks ago

In my experience, when I was here as part of a couple. Those that let us down were just chancers. Liked the thrill of the chase but going through with the actual meet was too much. It didnt happen often to us but it happened.

That was quite awhile ago though now and as a single on here, so far it hasnt happened.

If I say i'm gonna be there. I'll be there. But I tend to meet more at clubs now

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By *iablo soloWoman
6 weeks ago

ecstasy

"Some people treat fab like a porn site, which is fair enough perv and leave, fab was initially set up for like minded people to chat socialise and meet, and unfortunately people who solely cum to perv now also get off on the idea, hence the time wasters and fantasists "

Yeap, this is it exactly. They have the horn on them, and once it's gone, their intentions are gone too! I won't meet anyone anymore from fab I'll only meet if I've met at an event or social previously.

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By *attledogMan
6 weeks ago

Hull

Yeah, starting to get them, especially fakes asking for money

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By *rs BxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Chippenham, Wiltshire.

I think you have hit the nail on the head there. There's no pattern to it either, it's both the verified and unverified that are the keyboard wankers.

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By *ornyguy666Man
6 weeks ago

Nottingham

Sadly been ghost a few times so annoying n fustrating

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
6 weeks ago

Chester

"Does there seem to be more people than ever arranging meets and then not bothering to reply to messages or just ignoring?

Let me know what you think."

I can only answer for myself. I don't class myself as a time waster but my reason for not replying is because I've got bored of the conversation, feels like it's going nowhere so I stop replying 🤷🏼

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By *ercuryMikeMan
6 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

How about ‘3 strikes and you’re out’

3 failed meets, one’s that have been arranged and they just fail to show up without a good reason, in 12 months and your then suspended for 6 months.

Not really a serious suggestion as would be to hard to manage, just trying to thin out the competition, lol.

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By *rs BxxWoman
6 weeks ago

Chippenham, Wiltshire.

"Does there seem to be more people than ever arranging meets and then not bothering to reply to messages or just ignoring?

Let me know what you think.

So if a meet has been arranged as far as date, time and place and then you get bored of conversation you would just stop talking rather than say that you have changed your mind or make an excuse?

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By *ames-54Man
3 weeks ago

bromsgrove

Lots of time wasters on this site do they get there kicks by leading people on they do spoil it for genuine people

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Like all sites you’re going to get good and bad .

I think they could alter the site so you do a official meet which you both agree to , and shows on your profile if you attended or not and do it on a strike basis if you don’t attend

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I spoke and whatsapped a potential Mistress for 3 months , then drove 70 miles to meet her, parked up got my phone out to find i was blocked on here and WhatsApp.

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By *ynecplCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The timewasters and dreamers have always been here but as always if you take time to investigate and ask the right questions they are easy to identify and avoid.

What we have noticed in recent years is the number of couples who are only interested in fuck and go meets. Not wanting to take time to get to know one another. Plus in the last year we have chatted to three or four couples about meeting who have suddenly announced they are only interested in bareback.

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By *ilbert777Woman
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Some people seem reportedly to be disproportionately affected by such allegations and I don't personally experience it. All reports of people who don't show up for meetings, are always investigated, if you report them to Admin "

That's good to know.

I've only had one no show and I'd walked 100m out of my way and bought a drink in a wetherspoons so it didn't matter. I did wonder was he there and didn't like the look of me, but there didn't seem to be anyone matching his photo. No further messages, so no excuses. My first meeting I nearly bottled and I have adhd so I ghost people by just forgetting about that, so I guess it's bound to happen. In the main I've had some very positive experiences with meet ups, although there seem to be some time wasting keyboard warriors who don't arrange to meet, and people have been at least nice and much less scary than I feared

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By *azmar62Couple
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

It’s a mission impossible. We try our best to out all the shit bags. But, unfortunately they still get in. We’ve had our fair share of disappointment. When we arrange meets, we always host and still nobody turns up. People have know idea what they’re missing out on.

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I do think I live in a different fab world to most people. I don’t tend to see time wasters. I can think of one incident in my entire time on here where someone has properly mucked me around.

I think people are too willing to let their good judgement be overruled for the thrill of the chase.

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By *atch0101Man
3 weeks ago

The wrong place

Should be one strike and you're out of you are unable to contact beforehand.

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By *ayBeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Winchester

The best is when the one u met b4 do the same! 😆

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By *rasshopper201Man
3 weeks ago

kendal

"It’s a mission impossible. We try our best to out all the shit bags. But, unfortunately they still get in. We’ve had our fair share of disappointment. When we arrange meets, we always host and still nobody turns up. People have know idea what they’re missing out on. "
id turn up even from the lakes if invited

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