FabSwingers.com forum: Normalise rimming and fingering men

By (user no longer on site) OP
14 weeks ago

I'm a straight lad but them two things are just wild and make sex so much better. Who ever is not trying is missing out big time!

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
14 weeks ago

Lancaster

Ive known plenty of straight men who like this.

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
14 weeks ago

isle of munters

I think normalise is right. Why does it have to be defined with straight or bi or gay. Can't it be 'Hey I'm John and I like this and this'

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
14 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I think it is normalised. I always get a lot of push back because I don’t enjoy rimming

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
14 weeks ago

Niche

Is it not normalised already?

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By *uckbiMan
14 weeks ago

Lowestoft

"I'm a straight lad but them two things are just wild and make sex so much better. Who ever is not trying is missing out big time!"

I’m sure either helps for you to encounter that dildo in your pics too 🤔🤔😉😁

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By (user no longer on site) OP
14 weeks ago

"I'm a straight lad but them two things are just wild and make sex so much better. Who ever is not trying is missing out big time!

I’m sure either helps for you to encounter that dildo in your pics too 🤔🤔😉😁"

Ye thats not for my personal use 😂😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP
14 weeks ago

Had few instances where girls found it odd x

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By *eeltherhythm001Man
14 weeks ago

Pudsey/Manchester

Rimming as is become more accepted has the experience is to good to not share when are the taboo of sexuality hasn’t allowed for people to admit fingering

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
14 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Had few instances where girls found it odd x"

You're meeting the wrong girls then I think people here don't find it odd at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I love eating ass an having mine eaten. Sends me to whole new levels

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By *og and MuseCouple
14 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not for us - poo is not something we want to experience with people here !

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By *artorialMan
14 weeks ago

weymouth

I can't comment as I've experienced neither - open to offers though

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By *ust want fun 888Man
14 weeks ago

nearby

What do you mean, normalise? I thought it was, definitely part of your session.

Not yours, I mean in general, I thought it was part of the foreplay and stuff

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By *dible_KinkCouple
14 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It seems pretty run of the mill these days - porn is certainly flying the flag for it if it hasnt been normalised already. Unfortunately, it's usually in the same scenes as nasty degrading stuff to the females, which frankly is uncalled for. The fingering and rimming on the other hand is more than welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

This isn’t normal ? 👀

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

If they're hot I love to tease them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
14 weeks ago

Poo is a no no but when youre clean its all good x

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By *ongjohnson99Man
14 weeks ago

Nearby to you

Only had a cheeky finger once and I think my jizz nearly painted the ceiling

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
14 weeks ago

Frodsham

Plenty of straight men like a strap on in the arse. I’ve pegged plenty of them already 😏

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By *ocialablechapMan
14 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK

"Only had a cheeky finger once and I think my jizz nearly painted the ceiling "

That made me nearly spit out my coffee

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By *og and MuseCouple
14 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Poo is a no no but when youre clean its all good x"

Love giving anal sex but it's taught me if you were to go around sticking your tongue up peoples bum holes, you will get some before long.

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By *ongjohnson99Man
14 weeks ago

Nearby to you

"Only had a cheeky finger once and I think my jizz nearly painted the ceiling

That made me nearly spit out my coffee"

I have a way with words or so I’ve heard

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By *obynsissyglaTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

What about sissy boys like me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
14 weeks ago

Not tried that I must admit... yet?

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
14 weeks ago

Bristol

I’m a bi guy and I don’t like either performed on me, either by women or other guys. It’s like my ass offers me no pleasurable sensations. It’s all round the front lol.

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By *ing8435Man
14 weeks ago

Worcestershire

I'm straight, and never been rimmed.

but I don't mind a bit of fingering everyone and then

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

After a mind blowing experience where a lady put a finger up me I’ve mentioned it to a few other women, they looked at me like I’d shat on their cat! One partner even accused me of being gay. Little minds.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
14 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it's good to be non judgemental about what people like (legal and consensual) but I don't think anyone is missing out if they haven't tried it

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
14 weeks ago

My personal opinion is any guy who has said a finger up the bum isn’t enjoyable has never had a finger up their bum !

I totally understand the hang up about it being gay and no straight man would ever let it happen bla bla bla!

My advice to you is drop the macho bs and try it

You can thank me later

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By *ensualBlokeMan
14 weeks ago

London / Colchester

There was me thinking it WAS normal...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
14 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

There's nothing to normalise. Some people like it and some dont i was rimming my exhusband over 30 years ago just didnt have a name for it.

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By *ing8435Man
14 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"There's nothing to normalise. Some people like it and some dont i was rimming my exhusband over 30 years ago just didnt have a name for it.

your ex-husband didn't have a name???? 😜

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By *uckbiMan
14 weeks ago

Lowestoft

"I love eating ass an having mine eaten. Sends me to whole new levels "

I can relate to that 🤔😁😁😁😇

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By *uckbiMan
14 weeks ago

Lowestoft

"I'm a straight lad but them two things are just wild and make sex so much better. Who ever is not trying is missing out big time!

I’m sure either helps for you to encounter that dildo in your pics too 🤔🤔😉😁

Who am I to judge 😉

Ye thats not for my personal use 😂😂"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
14 weeks ago

Central

I didn't know that it might not have been normalised for any type of me en not to enjoy it, long before any of us were born. Has there been a ruptured Space-Time Continuum?

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By *F25Man
14 weeks ago

kent

agree

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By *ayHaychMan
13 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Men who have never have never had a prostate massage really have no idea what they’re missing.

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton

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By *lwayslooking22Man
13 weeks ago

newcastle

I got fingered off an ex while she sucked my cock! She called me her little twink! I ended up going to gay sauna when I left hers that night!!!

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
13 weeks ago

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Love to give but not take!

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
13 weeks ago

Debauchery

I think men are more open to it now than they’ve ever been

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By *ncognitoGirlWoman
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

I’d like to normalise ass play being negotiated along with anything else. All the men in my inbox seem to expect it as given. Both ways

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By *aramel.desiresMan
13 weeks ago

Surrey

I would class ass play is sexual pleasure rather than relating it to sexual orientation.

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By *vaRoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Anal play is pretty normalised, and not linked to sexual orientation

It’s just as acceptable to enjoy it as it is to not. People who don’t enjoy something aren’t weird, and neither are those who do

Can’t we just let people enjoy what they like?

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By *ettySwollox87Man
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

Hell yeah

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By *otfunx1Man
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Normal act for us more often than not she goes for my tight little hole first. Gets me leaking pre cum

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By *aughty Rick200Man
13 weeks ago

NORTHAMPTON

I love it both. Defo makes me harder and hornier

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By *oomerangboyMan
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I’m 95% straight but love getting rimmed and fingered 🤷‍♂️

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By *ewtfaceMan
13 weeks ago

Bracknell

I've met women who love to be rimmed, but don't like returning the compliment. Fingering and prostate massage is still unusual in my experience. Yes, I think a lot of men enjoy it, but I'm not sure many women are up for it. I've only ever met a couple of willing partners. Maybe I need to get around more!

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By *onto888Man
13 weeks ago

basildon

Love to do this to a couple next to each other

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
13 weeks ago

South East

"I'm a straight lad but them two things are just wild and make sex so much better. Who ever is not trying is missing out big time!"

Is this not normal then?

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
13 weeks ago

South East

"I would class ass play is sexual pleasure rather than relating it to sexual orientation. "

Agreed don’t understand why enjoy arse play and being straight are mentioned in the same sentence

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By *elvetNeuronWoman
13 weeks ago

Risa, Beta Quadrant

I feel like I'm late to the game with this one. I like to give pleasure but the though of there being poop puts me right off.

It's not something I like to receive which may have also played on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Lately I’ve really been wanting to experience it

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By *arriedfun69Man
13 weeks ago

Bedford

Incredibly sexy

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By *F25Man
13 weeks ago

kent

do whatever makes you happy no judgement

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By *or allMan
13 weeks ago

this town

Love being rimmed fingered and fucked

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By *cgmcgMan
13 weeks ago

kingston

"Poo is a no no but when youre clean its all good x

Love giving anal sex but it's taught me if you were to go around sticking your tongue up peoples bum holes, you will get some before long.

Rimming a recently showered ass is never gonna get that.

Anal goes a lot deeper.

Unless you got an unbelievably long and strong tongue

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By *ed FlameWoman
13 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire

Always enjoyed giving & receiving fingers.

I never thought I would like rimming but I have started too enjoy giving it but do not enjoy receiving it.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I must be the only man who would never want this to happen. Ever.

And for reasons of equality, I wouldn't do it to a lady either.

Mr.

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By *he shamMan
12 weeks ago

Galway

100% agreed

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
12 weeks ago

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"I must be the only man who would never want this to happen. Ever.

And for reasons of equality, I wouldn't do it to a lady either.

Mr. "

Not for me to receive but love giving! Cleanliness is a must obviously

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By *F25Man
11 weeks ago

kent

rimming is fun

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By *eorge AtazderMan
11 weeks ago

Exeter

Tried it and don’t like it so very happy not to get involved. I’m not missing out on anything

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By *insBadMan
11 weeks ago

& around

"I'm a straight lad but them two things are just wild and make sex so much better. Who ever is not trying is missing out big time!"

Not into fingers up there, but I like a bit of pressure on it, think of it more like turning on or off a laptop. I adore being rimmed

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By *URHAMBOY2012Man
2 weeks ago

Hexham

"Only had a cheeky finger once and I think my jizz nearly painted the ceiling "

fuck. I'd love to try that with you. Your smoking hot lad.

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By *enchCoachDriverMan
2 weeks ago

west mosley

Never had it done - don’t think I’d enjoy it either

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By *avyBlueManMan
2 weeks ago

Old Town

Not for me. Blimey,my arse looks like a sea urchin.

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle - Scotland

I like.....

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

I’m not a fan of the olfactory and gustatory notes down there 🤣

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By *F25Man
1 week ago

kent

love it

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

I thought it was normalised 🤷‍♀️

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By *ongandthick888Man
1 week ago

Leeds

"I'm a straight lad but them two things are just wild and make sex so much better. Who ever is not trying is missing out big time!"

First men need to normalise good hygiene down there.

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By *ongandthick888Man
1 week ago

Leeds

"Never had it done - don’t think I’d enjoy it either "

I think you would

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

Normalise communication and consent

Not every guy wants a finger up the arse.

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"Normalise communication and consent

Not every guy wants a finger up the arse. "

Nor every woman.

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"I’m not a fan of the olfactory and gustatory notes down there 🤣"

Has Nero sub leased his account to you?

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

To anyone that ever considers meeting me.

Pleaseeeeeee don't do, or even ask to do this.

Thanks.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts

"Normalise communication and consent

Not every guy wants a finger up the arse.

Nor every woman."

This! ^^^^^

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By *.hrisMan
1 week ago

Bath

No fingers up my bum thanks 😬

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