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"Ok so clearly I cannot get luck on here, after being here for half a year and no meets, so tell me, how can I get laid elsewhere? Bearing in mind I don't go to clubs/parties or drink." Wrong attitude unfortunately. Joining just to get "laid" it's a swinging site and any experienced swinger will tell you the social aspects are as important particularly if you are looking to join a couple or hotwife, this means earning trust by showing respect and patience . This can only happen if you are willing to build the foundations by working hard and being prepared to put yourself outthere and understanding that s3x is generally the last thing to happen and don't expect it just because you want it. Good luck elsewhere  | |||
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"Ok so clearly I cannot get luck on here, after being here for half a year and no meets, so tell me, how can I get laid elsewhere? Bearing in mind I don't go to clubs/parties or drink. Wrong attitude unfortunately. Joining just to get "laid" it's a swinging site and any experienced swinger will tell you the social aspects are as important particularly if you are looking to join a couple or hotwife, this means earning trust by showing respect and patience . This can only happen if you are willing to build the foundations by working hard and being prepared to put yourself outthere and understanding that s3x is generally the last thing to happen and don't expect it just because you want it. Good luck elsewhere "This 100 percent | |||
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"Yeah, I was asking how to get laid OFF the site, because clearly this site isn't for me." Tap reply+quote so we know who you're answering  .
It's true to say that in most things in life you get out what you put in. Getting laid was never easy for mist people, it required a certain effort and putting yourself out there. The more people you meet the more likely you are to find someone who is also looking to get laid.
In my younger days, admittedly pre internet I met men at bus stops, on the train, in bars, cafes, at work, at friend's houses etc. We dated a couple of times before the getting laid happened though and both made a bit of an effort | |||
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"Lol, well I even have problems with that believe it or not " If you use the reply and quote option, from the post you're replying to, people will understand who/what your comment relates to | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties." • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly? | |||
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"Ok so clearly I cannot get luck on here, after being here for half a year and no meets, so tell me, how can I get laid elsewhere? Bearing in mind I don't go to clubs/parties or drink." Dating apps, meet with mates. Don't try to get laid, cut your hair etc? | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly?" Which club is this please? 👀😋 | |||
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"Ok so clearly I cannot get luck on here, after being here for half a year and no meets, so tell me, how can I get laid elsewhere? Bearing in mind I don't go to clubs/parties or drink. Dating apps, meet with mates. Don't try to get laid, cut your hair etc? " What's his hair got to do with it? 🤣 | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly? · Which club is this please? 👀😋" • It's the Famous Five⁵ Club. Are you in?  | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly? · Which club is this please? 👀😋 • It's the Famous Five⁵ Club. Are you in? "Do they have Dick? | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly?" 🤣 | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly? · Which club is this please? 👀😋 • It's the Famous Five⁵ Club. Are you in?
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Do they have Dick?"• It's Dick'ensian and offers its own type of nostalgic charm. I'll show you when you're next sauntering the cobbled streets of ye olde London Towne. | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly? · Which club is this please? 👀😋 • It's the Famous Five⁵ Club. Are you in?
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It's Dick'ensian and offers its own type of nostalgic charm. I'll show you when you're next sauntering the cobbled streets of ye olde London Towne."🤗 | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties." Ah, you've rather queered your own pitch then. If you don't make connections, you're unlikely to succeed 🤓🥷 | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties." Based on your comments so far I am not surprised you not getting laid, you say you will not do clubs/parties etc the comments people make giving you helpful tips and your negative responses to them is quite disrespectful. Most folk who look at your profile and read this thread would give you a wide berth in my opinion. It could be that you are not suited for swinging and fact you ask where can you get laid is very poor and off putting to most people | |||
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"Women are so simple creatures, all you need to do is learn how to operate one, then you’ll be laughing. The mr " Yeah just make sure you put the batteries in the right way round otherwise they are a bugger to operate.  | |||
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"Women are so simple creatures, all you need to do is learn how to operate one, then you’ll be laughing. The mr Yeah just make sure you put the batteries in the right way round otherwise they are a bugger to operate. "I fitting a solar panel to mine, saves me so much money. The mr | |||
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"Ok so clearly I cannot get luck on here, after being here for half a year and no meets, so tell me, how can I get laid elsewhere? Bearing in mind I don't go to clubs/parties or drink. Dating apps, meet with mates. Don't try to get laid, cut your hair etc? What's his hair got to do with it? 🤣" That was feedback from another poster on a previous thread. I think it was good feedback so repeating it  | |||
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"Ok so clearly I cannot get luck on here, after being here for half a year and no meets, so tell me, how can I get laid elsewhere? Bearing in mind I don't go to clubs/parties or drink." You’re a grown man. You need to work it out yourself. | |||
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"Green arrow people, green arrow" Good move Poirot 🙌🤓🥷 | |||
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"Green arrow people, green arrow Good move Poirot 🙌🤓🥷" Can I be the larger on in Rosemary and thyme | |||
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"Green arrow people, green arrow Good move Poirot 🙌🤓🥷 Can I be the larger on in Rosemary and thyme" You can, of course 😘🤓🥷 | |||
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"Green arrow people, green arrow" Good move pudding, good move | |||
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"Have you tried dating apps OP?" Yeah bro I have, absolutely no luck, what's weird is that gay guys are way too into me, but I'm straight so yeah. | |||
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"I'm curious about how you met your sexual partners before Fab OP? I think the ideas that people have posted, such as exploring some of your interests, are great, as you'll share something in common with the people there. Volunteering is something that I've done since school days and still do. People who volunteer for others are generally decent people to get to know. The big plus, is that you're doing something for the benefits of others. If you choose people or concerns that you're interested in investing a little time to, it's a worthwhile endeavour. It might be befriending, helping people who are less able than you, improving wildlife or helping to care for animals, etc. There's massive scope for what you could give a few hours a month to. And it can give you good experience to add to your CV. It's also something of interest to talk with others about. When you help, you tend to get more passionate about something, which is attractive in its own right. " I basically didn't, all my sexual partners was from when before I was an adult for some reason, I've had sex a few times as an adult, one time I got lucky on Badoo and met a black woman in Manchester lol | |||
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"Have you thought about going to a social instead? They are usually in a pub and not a club. Everyone is there to meet people. Maybe try that instead 🤷🏼♀️ Mrs x" Heya, that's decent advice actually, I used to go to pubs a lot, not to drink but to sing in Open Mics since I'm a singer, or even play some pool, I love pool, don't know about any socials though | |||
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"Tinder mate" Doesn't work for me mate. | |||
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"Your a woman, much easier to get laid." How to win friends and influence people. | |||
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"Tinder mate Doesn't work for me mate." It's pointless asking on here most of the men have the same problem, and the ones that don't and the women can't give you any useful advice. Maybe you are trying to solve the wrong problem | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly?" Sounds like my kind of party, count me in x | |||
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"Your a woman, much easier to get laid. How to win friends and influence people." By telling the truth? Tell me I'm wrong? | |||
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"Tinder mate Doesn't work for me mate. It's pointless asking on here most of the men have the same problem, and the ones that don't and the women can't give you any useful advice. Maybe you are trying to solve the wrong problem " Yeah probably though, is prostitution legal in the UK, maybe if I still haven't gotten laid again in 5 years I'll try that one lol | |||
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"Your a woman, much easier to get laid. How to win friends and influence people. By telling the truth? Tell me I'm wrong? " You're wrong. Well, no. If I removed all of my standards, and any sense of self preservation, I could have sex with ten guys tonight. Even with my parsnip as a profile picture. However, I have standards, and I'd like to survive the night without visiting the hospital or the police. Finding men who rise to a standard where I'm reasonably confident I'll be safe, and who have even the slightest chance of attracting me? That's much harder. If I open my filters I'll be bombarded with semi-literate bilge, pleading, and threats, most of which will be oblivious to the fact that I am also a person rather than a talking self cleaning sex toy. Rarely, among all that mess, there are people worth talking to and getting to know. It's a different problem, but it is *also* a problem. I don't whine about it, make out like I'm owed something. I fill my life with other things, and work on other methods to get what I want. I suggest you'll find happiness doing that, rather than complaining that life isn't fair. | |||
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"Ok so clearly I cannot get luck on here, after being here for half a year and no meets, so tell me, how can I get laid elsewhere? Bearing in mind I don't go to clubs/parties or drink." Pay a h ook er | |||
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"Tinder does NOT work lol" As you've noticed. You will only get mostly attacked on here. That said, leave the pub talk behind. This isn't a site for quick shags. They rarely exist. Find an paid girl. if you are that desperate. That isnt a dig. A suggestion. You have to remember this is a swinging site. That derives from couples. Singles are just an addition but will mostly be hampered Also take on board what somebody said earlier. Go to the chatroom and have a laugh. Get noticed. You've got a face pic. You have a huge advantage on others with dick pics. Get yourself noticed. | |||
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"Go to socials. Go out with your friends. Find some new hobbies. Interact in the real world. Online dating is finished. Be patient, be yourself and don't overthink. This takes time. Be happy with your own company before you spend time with someone else. Be kind to yourself. All the best OP. 👍🏾☺️" Hey mate thanks so much for the kind words and thoughtful advice, I agree with it and will try to heed to it | |||
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"You’re a decent looking guy. How are your social skills?" Yeah man, idk, sometimes they can be decent, I'm a bit shy at first, and nervous about meeting | |||
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"I will never go to clubs/parties. • Even if they offer tutti-frutti ice cream, lashings of ginger beer, marshmallow puffs, lemon sorbet and lime jelly?" Where are these parties you describe?? | |||
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"Your a woman, much easier to get laid. How to win friends and influence people. By telling the truth? Tell me I'm wrong? You're wrong. Well, no. If I removed all of my standards, and any sense of self preservation, I could have sex with ten guys tonight. Even with my parsnip as a profile picture. However, I have standards, and I'd like to survive the night without visiting the hospital or the police. Finding men who rise to a standard where I'm reasonably confident I'll be safe, and who have even the slightest chance of attracting me? That's much harder. If I open my filters I'll be bombarded with semi-literate bilge, pleading, and threats, most of which will be oblivious to the fact that I am also a person rather than a talking self cleaning sex toy. Rarely, among all that mess, there are people worth talking to and getting to know. It's a different problem, but it is *also* a problem. I don't whine about it, make out like I'm owed something. I fill my life with other things, and work on other methods to get what I want. I suggest you'll find happiness doing that, rather than complaining that life isn't fair." Ohh wow so only Women are in any danger on this site!! Interesting. | |||
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"Your a woman, much easier to get laid. How to win friends and influence people. By telling the truth? Tell me I'm wrong? You're wrong. Well, no. If I removed all of my standards, and any sense of self preservation, I could have sex with ten guys tonight. Even with my parsnip as a profile picture. However, I have standards, and I'd like to survive the night without visiting the hospital or the police. Finding men who rise to a standard where I'm reasonably confident I'll be safe, and who have even the slightest chance of attracting me? That's much harder. If I open my filters I'll be bombarded with semi-literate bilge, pleading, and threats, most of which will be oblivious to the fact that I am also a person rather than a talking self cleaning sex toy. Rarely, among all that mess, there are people worth talking to and getting to know. It's a different problem, but it is *also* a problem. I don't whine about it, make out like I'm owed something. I fill my life with other things, and work on other methods to get what I want. I suggest you'll find happiness doing that, rather than complaining that life isn't fair. Ohh wow so only Women are in any danger on this site!! Interesting. " Point out where I said that. Go on. You've got my words right there, and given how long ago I wrote them, you've clearly thought about them more than I ever did. | |||
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