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By *ontyboi76 OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Pontypridd

My other half was called a good girl amongst other weird crap spouted at her to repel her. Do people think that's OK or a little Epstein. Mood killer for her

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By *orphia2003Woman
8 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Bloody hate it. Detest being told I look naughty too, amongst a myriad of other shite like that.

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By *inWithLZCouple
8 weeks ago

Bradford

Without being in an intimate/sexual setting. Calling a woman a good girl is indeed a bit weird.

I call my wife a good girl a lot when she responds in a submissive way or clearly does something flirtatious.

Nothing wrong with a bit of praise but if random out of nowhere. Then yeah, a bit weird.

Can only imagine some guy said it to her on a night out. That's one way to sleep city. 🤣

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play.

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By *vaRoseWoman
8 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

From a partner in the right context and mood? Hot

From anyone else? He’s about to be given a lesson he won’t soon forget.

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By *earditallWoman
8 weeks ago

Lancaster

Depends on how its said in a kore spicy kind of setting shall we say I don't mind it.

In general patronising as hell

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By *infullyObedientWoman
8 weeks ago

Woodley

Depends on from who and the conversation. I love it but then im submissive and have a praise kink 😉

Randomly from someone I haven't got a connection with, doesnt do anything for me.

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By *ontyboi76 OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Pontypridd


"Bloody hate it. Detest being told I look naughty too, amongst a myriad of other shite like that."

Glad to hear it. I would never now after yrs together use such weird crap on her. Tend to use kinder words, she ain't a dog lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's not something that I would ever enjoy. I'm 69 years old for goodness sake.

I understand that other people like it though and that's ok by me

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By *ad NannaWoman
8 weeks ago

East London

Not as bad as being called baby girl at my age.

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By *emorefridaCouple
8 weeks ago

La la land

Generally anyone calling me girl is going to get a mouthful.

However, the other half praising me mid way through a scene, is always well received.

As with most things communication beforehand is important

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Not as bad as being called baby girl at my age.

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I don't even like being called a girl. I was out for coffee with several other women recently and one of them referred to us as 'girls' none of us was under 60

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By *uliette500Woman
8 weeks ago

Hull

I am in a D/s relationship and my Dom often calls me a good girl which I love.

BUT when it comes from anyone else, especially someone I have never met or spoken to it totally creeps me out.

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By *ortySwitchMan
8 weeks ago

london


"Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play."

Utter bollocks! "Most" language fro men is from por? really? Most? Do you even hear youtself?

And I suppose women never watch porn or use langauge from porn either then?

do feel free to fuck all the way off with your sexist, feminist man-hating bullshit.

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By *kphooey43Man
8 weeks ago

Barnet


"Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play.

Utter bollocks! "Most" language fro men is from por? really? Most? Do you even hear youtself?

And I suppose women never watch porn or use langauge from porn either then?

do feel free to fuck all the way off with your sexist, feminist man-hating bullshit. "

Well hello. Maybe a slight over reaction.

Besides, I speak utter bollocks most of the time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I dislike most pet names from people I don't know well. They're often presumptuous, infantilising, and overly intimate.

Good girl assumes I'm a subordinate looking for someone's approval. It's not my favourite at the best of times, but from a stranger it particularly makes my skin crawl.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
8 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Context is all, situation and with whom etc..

Like many other words or acts in this aspect..

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play."

Possibly you need to hang out with different men if that's really the case !

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
8 weeks ago

belfast


"Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play.

Utter bollocks! "Most" language fro men is from por? really? Most? Do you even hear youtself?

And I suppose women never watch porn or use langauge from porn either then?

do feel free to fuck all the way off with your sexist, feminist man-hating bullshit.

Well hello. Maybe a slight over reaction.

Besides, I speak utter bollocks most of the time."

Hardly an overreaction.

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By *oodmessMan
8 weeks ago

yumsville

It's nothing to do with Epstein for me, it's more to do with belittlement and misogyny. It does make your dick shrink a it hearing it though.

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By *ontyboi76 OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Pontypridd


"Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play."

People have the sound on in porn? I don't it the off putting part

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play.

Utter bollocks! "Most" language fro men is from por? really? Most? Do you even hear youtself?

And I suppose women never watch porn or use langauge from porn either then?

do feel free to fuck all the way off with your sexist, feminist man-hating bullshit.

Well hello. Maybe a slight over reaction.

Besides, I speak utter bollocks most of the time."

I actually meant any derogatory language during sex not the whole life story of each man. But good to know there are adults in the room.

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By *uliette500Woman
8 weeks ago

Hull


"Most of the language that comes out a mans mouth is learnt from porn and is no reflection of what women actually like in the real world. Same as men who like to be called daddy, its odd and nothing more than power play.

Utter bollocks! "Most" language fro men is from por? really? Most? Do you even hear youtself?

And I suppose women never watch porn or use langauge from porn either then?

do feel free to fuck all the way off with your sexist, feminist man-hating bullshit. "

Wow!

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