FabSwingers.com forum: How do I become more successful on Fab?

By *xonJay OP Man
8 weeks ago

abingdon

I have been on fab for a few years now and have never had a successful meeting, admittedly I’m not on here all the time, but I do come on most weekend evenings, I try to keep my search to a local distance and message women who I think I could have a spark with, I don’t have a specific type and am attracted to a woman’s interests and vibe as much as looks.

I just can’t seem to get a meet up sorted! Where am I going wrong?

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By *issmorganWoman
8 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, your profile tells us absolutely nothing about what you want, are into or offer anyone who meets you.

All we know is that you were here before

So maybe write about what you're here for and why someone should take a chance meeting you.

Also do you still smoke? If not I'd take the last pic off as you've stated you're a non smoker.

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By *xonJay OP Man
8 weeks ago

abingdon

That’s a great bit of advice! Thank you, I’ll definitely get that sorted

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By *ex HolesMan
8 weeks ago

Up North

Get yer cock out dude

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By *issmorganWoman
8 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"That’s a great bit of advice! Thank you, I’ll definitely get that sorted "

No worries, also make your age match as on me says 41 and the other 49.

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By *007ManMan
8 weeks ago

Worthing

Do you partake in forum/cam room chat op? Make friends and enjoy the online social side first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
8 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You have a photo of you smoking but your profile says you’re a non smoker. That can put people off.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

A profile that gives people a clear indication of attraction and potential compatibility is one of the first steps.

Your most recent photo is years out of date.

Your profile indicates screening for availability rather than compatibility. There’s no hobbies, no humour, no values, no personality traits, no emotional depth.

Right now the profile simply age, location, sex preferences and logistics

That’s not compelling 💜

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By *ude LawMan
8 weeks ago

Harrogate

You need a theme tune.

🎶OxonJay

He's straight, not gay

Sometimes he likes to smoke

And in you, he'd like to poke

He'll cook for you

And bathe you too

He's got his own new place

On his profile is his face🎶

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By *cLovin2Man
8 weeks ago

London

OP fab is not the place to meet women if you're a single bloke.

There's like 2000 guys and a handful of women, some of whom are also men pretending to be women.

If you want to get your leg over you have more chance at a singles event

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Central

If you only, for example smoke a day or so a week, I'd put that, as it outlines someone who's different from a full smoker..

I'd encourage you to get to Fab socials and also to clubs, as a way to improve your circle of contacts. Plus the forum

Take a look at posts in the forum, made by other single men who struggle and see if any ideas and advice could be relevant to you.

Good luck X

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By *rightonsteveMan
8 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Hmmmm

There was a guy called Oxenjay

Who posted in the forum one day

Wanting to to meet, to laugh, to play

Forumites advice, he did not thank

So had to have a lonely wank

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