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"In my case it's the tendency of younger men to assume certain things about me that stops me from being interested. " That’s fair enough and very valid. I know there’s an immaturity aspect that will put people off and for some younger males, there is a certain immaturity. | |||
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"In my case it's the tendency of younger men to assume certain things about me that stops me from being interested. That’s fair enough and very valid. I know there’s an immaturity aspect that will put people off and for some younger males, there is a certain immaturity. " I don't even know if it's immaturity but the stereotype that's often applied can be summed up in the phrase 'they know what they want and how to get it'. I have absolutely nothing against younger men and socially enjoy the company of all ages | |||
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"In my case it's the tendency of younger men to assume certain things about me that stops me from being interested. That’s fair enough and very valid. I know there’s an immaturity aspect that will put people off and for some younger males, there is a certain immaturity. I don't even know if it's immaturity but the stereotype that's often applied can be summed up in the phrase 'they know what they want and how to get it'. I have absolutely nothing against younger men and socially enjoy the company of all ages " I understand where you are coming from, unfortunately I think some therefore tarnish us all with that same brush whilst not all of us do come under that stereotype. | |||
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"In my case it's the tendency of younger men to assume certain things about me that stops me from being interested. That’s fair enough and very valid. I know there’s an immaturity aspect that will put people off and for some younger males, there is a certain immaturity. I don't even know if it's immaturity but the stereotype that's often applied can be summed up in the phrase 'they know what they want and how to get it'. I have absolutely nothing against younger men and socially enjoy the company of all ages I understand where you are coming from, unfortunately I think some therefore tarnish us all with that same brush whilst not all of us do come under that stereotype. " I guess that on a swinging web site we all have to apply stereotypes to an extent | |||
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"I wouldnt call myself a cougar. I am not specifically looking for younger men. Im looking for a good connection. Their age is only relevant in that I have a minimum age i would meet. Younger than that is too close to my sons age which is just 🤢 But I tend to have better connections with men closer to my age anyway " Completely fair enough and everyone has their preferences. Just think this site is so male dominated that there’s many males looking for females around this age, just not the opposite.. unfortunately for us lads into mature women! Haha | |||
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"I’ve always noticed (in life and on this site) that there are plenty of males interested in younger women. However, I’ve not noticed or been fortunate to come across many women interested in younger males, like myself. Although I’m aware this is a very male dominated site these days, are there many ‘cougars’ out there that I unfortunately haven’t come across yet… Or is there just not an appeal for younger fit males that there once was? " These wild creatures can be quite elusive, you would think they would gather in large numbers around the Fabswingers watering hole but better hunting would be found in dating website environs. The felines on this website like their meat a little more aged. Tempt them with profile treats so they know you’re friendly and your intentions are clear. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve captured a couple of these older cats out in the wilds (well Derbyshire mostly) as a result of them gathering at dusk to search Fab updates, hunkered down in their overgrown inboxes and with great patience, teasing them out with tempting message morsels. Wild they were, sometimes even gathering as a lusty pack under a full moon at a Cubs and Cougars event at a club where the really wild ones come together to mate. Happy hunting | |||
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"I would never be interested in anyone that called me a 'cougar'... I just find it a bit🤢...I don't mind a bit younger than me though, but I have a minimum age" Apologies for using that term. | |||
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"I would never be interested in anyone that called me a 'cougar'... I just find it a bit🤢...I don't mind a bit younger than me though, but I have a minimum age Apologies for using that term. " Oh don't apologise. Lots don't mind it, I do. | |||
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"I would never be interested in anyone that called me a 'cougar'... I just find it a bit🤢...I don't mind a bit younger than me though, but I have a minimum age Apologies for using that term. Oh don't apologise. Lots don't mind it, I do." I know haha. I just didn’t know how else to put it without coming across as offensive. | |||
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