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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok after reading a fair few discussions on here and mainly hiding...

What in your eyes makes someone an experienced swinger...

I was totally green and very straight when I joined but am I still a newbie ?

What stage in your eyes is someone no longer a newbie

.. im sure everyones views are different on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is

When YOU feel relaxed in the knowledge that this life style choice you made makes you happy and have no qualms or guilt in the fun you are having.

You need to decide in your mind what it is you like more etc

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Errr Hmmmm ehhhhh well ohhhhh nope dont no sorry

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Ok after reading a fair few discussions on here and mainly hiding...

What in your eyes makes someone an experienced swinger...

I was totally green and very straight when I joined but am I still a newbie ?

What stage in your eyes is someone no longer a newbie

.. im sure everyones views are different on this "

on here for over a year and lots of veris from meets

definately not a newbie i would say your a fully fledged 5 star swinger

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Seriously I think when it doesn't matter who sees what in any1s eyes. I stopped worrying what any1 thinks of me I can't remember how long ago what I see matters much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I became an experienced swinger when I realised sex and all the kinks that comes with it are who we are.. And not what we hide, the newbie feeling wears off when you start living your deepest darkest fantasies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok after reading a fair few discussions on here and mainly hiding...

What in your eyes makes someone an experienced swinger...

I was totally green and very straight when I joined but am I still a newbie ?

What stage in your eyes is someone no longer a newbie

.. im sure everyones views are different on this

on here for over a year and lots of veris from meets

definately not a newbie i would say your a fully fledged 5 star swinger "

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say I became an experienced swinger when I realised sex and all the kinks that comes with it are who we are.. And not what we hide, the newbie feeling wears off when you start living your deepest darkest fantasies! "

That makes so much sense..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an experienced newbie

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

My view is youre still a newbie if you have only had a handful of meets. It doesnt matter how long you have been swinging but the number of partners you have had, absolutely does.

Having said that, you could have been on (say this site) 15 days, and had 15 meets and not be experienced about what you do or what others want, so its probably part and part.

In numbers??

noob... 0-20

moderate 20-40

expereienced 40+

I think these are reasonable esitmates. Its a good question in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they need a reduction or enlargement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having not had a meet I'm still a n00b.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I would say I became an experienced swinger when I realised sex and all the kinks that comes with it are who we are.. And not what we hide, the newbie feeling wears off when you start living your deepest darkest fantasies! "

or relaxed enough to just know what you like/want but yes totally agree

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I class experienced swingers as those people who actually turn up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When they need a reduction or enlargement "

LOL. .. oh I need an enlargement do bad

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