FabSwingers.com forum: Things that seem to be a norm now

By *parrow77 OP Man
9 weeks ago

halton

Met someone yew weeks ago through another app the meet/date went great and few days later met up again and it ended up in a night of hot fun.

Anyways my question is when did the whole daddy thing become so popular had few ladies do a say it off here and now seems even more acceptable.

I don’t know why it puts me off the moment esp if just about climax poof the mood has gone.

Does anyone else find this or do ppl love it.

I get in a sub dom role ppl use it but seems more norm now

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By *pinningfasterWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

I HATE it.

I love D/s stuff too. I have a Master, I'm obedient-ish.

But it just gives nonce vibes to me.

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By *con7Man
9 weeks ago

BARNET

It’s a massive put off.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
9 weeks ago

halton

"I HATE it.

I love D/s stuff too. I have a Master, I'm obedient-ish.

But it just gives nonce vibes to me."

That’s what makes me stop cos my brain thinks eeew or why they say that esp if someone lots younger just stops the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Pornification.

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By *pinningfasterWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

Men who try and impose it are awful too (rather than talking about it as a mutual decision to use those terms).

"I'm your Daddy" 🤢 I mean no you're not and if my Father was acting like this I'd be calling the police, so no, just no.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
9 weeks ago

halton

"Pornification."

Yeah this is where come from but just now a norm

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By *parrow77 OP Man
9 weeks ago

halton

"Men who try and impose it are awful too (rather than talking about it as a mutual decision to use those terms).

"I'm your Daddy" 🤢 I mean no you're not and if my Father was acting like this I'd be calling the police, so no, just no."
that’s what freaks me especially if someone half my age just makes me think eeew

I get ppl use as a role play or stuff just the term makes me think too many questions

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By *uriousCouple20224Couple
9 weeks ago

nottingham

Tbf I think most people see it as a cute / sexy way off calling someone the boss not actually some kind of age play fetish.

I personally don't like it and it hits totally different when you have kids 😷

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By *rafter69Man
9 weeks ago

upminster

Its not for me I must say. Each to their own tho!

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By *ellhungvweMan
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I have never heard anyone say it/ask for it. I think it is very much a niche thing.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I had a man recently mail me calling me mummy, it made me shudder, especially as he was about 4 years younger than me.

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

Wales

I think use should be agreed between parties BUT If two grown adults decide between themselves that a word is affectionate, then that’s what it is. It doesn’t need a public vote or a cultural committee to approve it. Meaning is shaped in the relationship, not by whatever the internet has decided this week.

The term has been around for many, many years as a term of endearment for a husband (granted, usually amongst the upper classes). It’s even used in Gone with the Wind.

The icky erotic use is a more recent thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"I think use should be agreed between parties BUT If two grown adults decide between themselves that a word is affectionate, then that’s what it is. It doesn’t need a public vote or a cultural committee to approve it. Meaning is shaped in the relationship, not by whatever the internet has decided this week.

The term has been around for many, many years as a term of endearment for a husband (granted, usually amongst the upper classes). It’s even used in Gone with the Wind.

The icky erotic use is a more recent thing.

Frankly Daddy, I don't give a damn !

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By *ittylover123Man
9 weeks ago

donegal

Chick's with dicks

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

Wales

The term has been around for many, many years as a term of endearment for a husband (granted, usually amongst the upper classes). It’s even used in Gone with the Wind.

The icky erotic use is a more recent thing.

Frankly Daddy, I don't give a damn ! "

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

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By *007ManMan
9 weeks ago

Worthing

I doubt I'd want to meet someone who called me 'daddy'.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

I prefer subtitles to a voiceover.

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By *itty FelouWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle

I wouldn't entertain anyone who wanted me to reference them as Daddy. Makes me gip to be honest and the whole Big Daddy and Little Girl concept is utterly vile.

Not for me in any capacity. Yuk.

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

Wales

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

You mean like “here is Scottish Guy about to put his cock in Pauline’s pussy, Trevor and Steve are furiously wanking their cocks….oh! Steve has just prematurely shot a load into Pauline’s eye! Nevermind Steve, always next time..”

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By *ibblepilotMan
9 weeks ago

Preston

I can't stand it. Bit bizarre to me quite frankly

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By *og and MuseCouple
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

I find this v weird happened a few times and it's always a woman doing the narrating, like a running commentary of what's happening but with loads of extra adjectives...

Fine with the Daddy/Zaddy thing,

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By *og and MuseCouple
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

More like:

“here is Scottish Guy about to put his thick long gorgeous cock in Pauline’s glistening wide open pussy, Trevor and Steve are furiously wanking their stiff cocks….oh! Steve has just prematurely shot a warm thick load of lovely tasty cum into Pauline’s eye! Nevermind Steve, always next time..”

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By *hams123Man
9 weeks ago

London

Not into it myself. Only my future children should call me that. Even then, it should be father, babba, man who fixes things, ATM, huggy bear and daddy. In that order.

Disclaimer: may contain sarcasm.

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By *igan1974Man
9 weeks ago

wigan

I get messages saying hi daddy but not for me I have kids older than them lol . I like a mature woman or older , being 51 now it's harder to find older but I love in hope I guess

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

More like:

Not quite a running commentary. More like a late night dj repeating shit over and over.

'Ooh, that pussy is wet. Ooh, she likes that on her wet pussy. Keep doing that licking of her wet pussy.'

Ffs shut up.

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

Wales

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

More like:

Yeah that is a mood killer

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

Wales

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

More like:

Not quite a running commentary. More like a late night dj repeating shit over and over.

'Ooh, that pussy is wet. Ooh, she likes that on her wet pussy. Keep doing that licking of her wet pussy.'

Ffs shut up.

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By *hams123Man
9 weeks ago

London

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

More like:

Not quite a running commentary. More like a late night dj repeating shit over and over.

'Ooh, that pussy is wet. Ooh, she likes that on her wet pussy. Keep doing that licking of her wet pussy.'

Ffs shut up.

They think it's all over. It is now.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
9 weeks ago

halton

The term has been around for many, many years as a term of endearment for a husband (granted, usually amongst the upper classes). It’s even used in Gone with the Wind.

The icky erotic use is a more recent thing.

Yeah I know what mean it’s been around long time and class thing etc but just feels more doing as a kink so was curious.

As for the narrating thing that’s crazy and would be so off putting lol someone saying what to do.

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By *ylvieMWoman
9 weeks ago

Aylesbury

I do like the Daddy thing with certain partners, but if its not pre discussed im unlikely to spring it on someone.

Narrating (and directing) are both very annoying.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
9 weeks ago

wonderland.

If its not for you just move on. It works for plenty of people.

Cali

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By *egnMaxCouple
9 weeks ago

East Midlands

"In a similar vein, I was in a group play situation and one of the guys was narrating the whole way through it.

I'm not sure what the ladies thought of it but I found it quite off putting.

Some of the crowd are on the bed. They think it’s all over … it is now!

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I have no idea how anyone can connect the word “daddy” with anything sexual.

It’s an instant block if we see that it’s in someone’s repertoire

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
9 weeks ago

I think the 1and only male to ever demand the right to be called daddy was/is Ray Winston in the film scum !

I the fucking daddy round ere !

Other than that it gives me the ick

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

"I think the 1and only male to ever demand the right to be called daddy was/is Ray Winston in the film scum !

I the fucking daddy round ere !

Other than that it gives me the ick "

Where's your tool?

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
9 weeks ago

"I think the 1and only male to ever demand the right to be called daddy was/is Ray Winston in the film scum !

I the fucking daddy round ere !

Other than that it gives me the ick

Where's your tool?

Wot fucking tool ?

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
9 weeks ago

Worcestershire

It's not for us

It's a major turn off

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By *elightfulDuo01Couple
9 weeks ago

South West

Not for us at all. We find it off putting

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

"I think the 1and only male to ever demand the right to be called daddy was/is Ray Winston in the film scum !

I the fucking daddy round ere !

Other than that it gives me the ick

Where's your tool?

Wot fucking tool ? "

This fucking tool 🔧

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By *onko the SaneMan
9 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Fake lips

The most off putting fashion trend ever

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

carluke

Daddy + good girl = ❌

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Turns me right off but each to their own.

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By *dible_KinkCouple
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It's definitely a porn thing - Who's your daddy??? Fkng bollocks.

As for the running commentary during a meet, it's absolutely infuriating and very off putting. Funnily enough usually from the kind of clown that spouts that infuriating daddy nonsense. Next time there's one of those Syd Wadell wannabes at one of my meets they'll be told, with no wriggle room, to shut the front door or go out the front door pronto!!!

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Round the bend

Id rather never have sex again than ever calling anyone that. 🤢

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By *ynamicnatureMan
9 weeks ago

Doncaster

I had a partner that loved calling me daddy, it sort of freaked me out a bit until she explained that she was referring to me as "the" daddy and not her daddy.

So I didn't mind it at all, 😊

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

I don't use it myself when it comes to actual sex.

I do know a bit about various lifestyles.

As with most lifestyle things, it's all down to the individuals involved. People live as they need.

It's not always ddlg age play.

It seems now to be more commonly used as a dominance and discipline, 'brat' kind of thing and nothing familial, roleplay or age related.

But it seems to be impossible for people to understand that it's got zero to do with inappropriate things.

Or maybe it's just more fun to be scandalised and purposely ignore facts and lived experiences.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
9 weeks ago

Leicester

The daddy thing, it's already borderline annoying with couples who are the same age, but with age gap couples it gives us the proper ick.

As a man, I'm surprised to see choking being so common. I've said this to my partner who also enjoys it. Many women we've played with have actively put my hand around their throat unprompted. People like what they like I guess!

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
9 weeks ago

"The daddy thing, it's already borderline annoying with couples who are the same age, but with age gap couples it gives us the proper ick.

The choking thing is very easy to explain

So if you reduce the oxygen into the brain temporarily when it is reintroduced it will give you a head rush

If combined with orgasm i would expect it to be pretty epic

Not done it myself nor will I be participating in it either

It’s along the lines of the asphyxi wank that is not good if you get it wrong

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Chichester

Girl cock is very much enshrined as a normal thing in reality

Much to the loud noise of the naysayers that go full tropic thunder moment over it

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By *ools and the brainCouple
9 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Girl cock is very much enshrined as a normal thing in reality

Much to the loud noise of the naysayers that go full tropic thunder moment over it

Full tropic thunder??

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
9 weeks ago

Niche

"Girl cock is very much enshrined as a normal thing in reality

Much to the loud noise of the naysayers that go full tropic thunder moment over it

Full tropic thunder??

Confused.com

I can't suspend reality. Can people call things what they are maybe?

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