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By *ot Girlfriend OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Crayford

Keep looking at it thinking it’s too long but it’s says exactly what we are looking for, should I condense it hoping some guys will read in full for a change

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By *aventdecidedyetMan
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

No it’s not too long it gets all across that you want, the problem you’ll have is that people don’t read them anyway and will still message you even when they aren’t what your looking for

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By *onin25Man
9 weeks ago

Durham

It's not too long, if someone wants to meet you they should easily be able to make the effort to read that

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By *he MinionMan
9 weeks ago

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It says what you do and dont want.

Its impossible to make people read or even not read a profile.

Some will, some wont

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's a little weighty

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By *eauNaturelMan
9 weeks ago

Mortonhampstead for a few days

Not too long at all. It's very precise, if so what boring; you guys come across as quite matter of fact.

Your pictures on the other hand, now they aren't boring one bit - I loved them.

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By *ellhungvweMan
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I zoned out after reading all your demands.

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I got to hung seven inches and I was out😬🥷

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Chester

Mine goes on and on and on but it's got everything I'm looking for so I won't condense it. If readers are serious they'll take the time to read the profile and message accordingly

I can tell by the messages I receive most don't read the profile at all

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By *CExeCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

Looks fine to us. No nonsense about putting magic words into messages or daft legal terms and conditions. If people can't take a minute or two to read a profile, then it's their loss. We get put off profiles with just one or two lines of text, it tells us nothing.

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By *alm_one4Man
9 weeks ago

Close To The Edge, Down Bi The River

Slightly on the long side, some would think I feel, but not overly. The fact that you have your minimum requirements at the start is good, I generally read a profile until I find I’m not a fit then stop so it wouldn’t worry me so much.

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By *ophiecross217TV/TS
9 weeks ago

wales

No, it’s not too long at all and if it explains everything you want and do t want then don’t change it based on other people not being arsed to read it properly

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By *ynamicnatureMan
9 weeks ago

Doncaster

I think it will only help filter out non compatible people.

So as long as it's read.

No, it's not to long at all

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By *tlanshiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Chatham

Your profile is a good length. I find most won't read them if they're only a few lines and if they do most seem to think it doesn't apply to them anyway, that they can be the exception.

One point of clarification, your cuckquean part. Does that mean you won't engage with the woman?? So no threesomes, just watching. Might be worth clarifying.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's not too long, but it sounds quite entitled tbh op,with the must be this, must send proof.

If it works for you op,that's what's important.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

If it suits you and you're attracting the people you want it's fine

My personal opinion is that it's too long but I'm not who you're after

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Seems fine to me. It's no longer than mine

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By *aandLoCouple
9 weeks ago

Southampton


"It's not too long, but it sounds quite entitled tbh op,with the must be this, must send proof.

If it works for you op,that's what's important. "

⬆️ I can see where you're coming from on sounding entitled, but on the other hand there's no point in pretending they will settle for anything less. Saves everyone's time ultimately.

OP, it's not just fluffy blurb, it's laying out your terms. People can accept or decline.

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