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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you've not blocked single men contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They think you are hot !!!

Its a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because you've not blocked single men contacting you "
i don't mind single men messaging me I know a couple that I meet up with for 3sums it's the ones that won't me to fuck them I don't want lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They think you are hot !!!

Its a compliment"
i didn't think of it that way lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because so many bi guys say they're straight on their profiles that they'll just take the chance by messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

Oh c'mon... imagine how gutted you'd feel if you went in a gay friendy-bar and no blokes hit on you…

Sheeesh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

Oh c'mon... imagine how gutted you'd feel if you went in a gay friendy-bar and no blokes hit on you…

Sheeesh..

After going to LBGT bars in Brighton and receiving lots of attention from men/T Girls, gutted was not the feeling at the end of the night

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

"Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

Mibby ye jist look like yer inty a bit o bummage ? .... lol ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

Oh c'mon... imagine how gutted you'd feel if you went in a gay friendy-bar and no blokes hit on you…

Sheeesh..

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yeaci see what you mean thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They think you are hot !!!

Its a complimenti didn't think of it that way lol xxx

Why ? Surely someone thinking you are attractive is a compliment

They can't jump out and pat you on the arse you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They think you are hot !!!

Its a complimenti didn't think of it that way lol xxx

Why ? Surely someone thinking you are attractive is a compliment

They can't jump out and pat you on the arse you know"

that's a shame sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They think you are hot !!!

Its a complimenti didn't think of it that way lol xxx

Why ? Surely someone thinking you are attractive is a compliment

They can't jump out and pat you on the arse you know"
i know lol but if I read a profile and it says no men I don't message them i fab there pics so if thay like the looks of me thay can message me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They think you are hot !!!

Its a complimenti didn't think of it that way lol xxx

Why ? Surely someone thinking you are attractive is a compliment

They can't jump out and pat you on the arse you know

that's a shame sometimes

Aint that the truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because so many bi guys say they're straight on their profiles that they'll just take the chance by messaging

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i see maybe I've bin a bit harsh

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I get a lot of messages of men, I guess their is no harm in trying your luck lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your message filters and that will put a stop to any unwanted mail...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get a lot of messages of men, I guess their is no harm in trying your luck lol, "
true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They think you are hot !!!

Its a complimenti didn't think of it that way lol xxx

Why ? Surely someone thinking you are attractive is a compliment

They can't jump out and pat you on the arse you know

that's a shame sometimes

Aint that the truth

Prefer more than a pat tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the checked shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone admires a tryer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone admires a tryer

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if they messaged and sead hi and was nice I wouldn't mind but asking me do I want to fuck them and can I suck your cock and sending me pics of there cocks its to much lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

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what makes me look gay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you look like a whoopsie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read the mail then delete, or dont read and delete the mail..simple as

I honestly dont know, can u imagine the very few mails u would be getting compared to women/cpls?-from people who arent in their interests?...I'd say its incomparable really

its nothing to pop a vein over

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

No mate, it's the ghey whey you're leaning against the fence - it suggests 'I'm on this side of the fence but am leaning against it which means I might hop over to the other side"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it is because you have local bi guys on your friends list ?

Maybe it is because you were until very recently listed as bi curious ?

Maybe it is because your profile previously said something along the lines of you weren't gay but you would let a guy suck you off

Just a thought !

Or maybe, like others have said, it is purely because you haven't set your filters properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it is because you have local bi guys on your friends list ?

Maybe it is because you were until very recently listed as bi curious ?

Maybe it is because your profile previously said something along the lines of you weren't gay but you would let a guy suck you off

Just a thought !

Or maybe, like others have said, it is purely because you haven't set your filters properly "

Go Miss Marple!!!

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By *ickloverMan
over a year ago

Devizes

Christ !! I'd be just glad to receive a message !! Lol. 3 days my inbox has been empty !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

You do realise checked shirts are code for "men, check me out" and for "I like crossing lines" don't you? As for creases, well....don't catch anyones eye is my advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe it is because you have local bi guys on your friends list ?

Maybe it is because you were until very recently listed as bi curious ?

Maybe it is because your profile previously said something along the lines of you weren't gay but you would let a guy suck you off

Just a thought !

Or maybe, like others have said, it is purely because you haven't set your filters properly "
what I can't have bi friends? They didn't send me crude messages and pics of there cocks and my profile sead if I met a bi mf couple I would let the male suck my cock I don't have on my profile send me crude messages and pics of my cock do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

You do realise checked shirts are code for "men, check me out" and for "I like crossing lines" don't you? As for creases, well....don't catch anyones eye is my advice

I know a man that likes checked shirts....

Actually I know a few and they are all gay or bi. Ooh I cracked the secret man code!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think you have the big aura about you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

You do realise checked shirts are code for "men, check me out" and for "I like crossing lines" don't you? As for creases, well....don't catch anyones eye is my advice

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lol I didn't know any of that am I ok with plain shirts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

You do realise checked shirts are code for "men, check me out" and for "I like crossing lines" don't you? As for creases, well....don't catch anyones eye is my advice

lol I didn't know any of that am I ok with plain shirts?

Yep. As long as you don't wear it with a tutu.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you have the big aura about you

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now that is interesting tell me more xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

Oh dear

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Depends what colour. What colour plain shirts have you got?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

You do realise checked shirts are code for "men, check me out" and for "I like crossing lines" don't you? As for creases, well....don't catch anyones eye is my advice

lol I didn't know any of that am I ok with plain shirts?

Yep. As long as you don't wear it with a tutu.

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dam I've go two of them a pink one and a blue one what am I going to do now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll just have to learn to live with the messages if you don't want to filter people out - just see them as a joke, laugh it off and delete the messages

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I think you have the big aura about you

now that is interesting tell me more xxx

Kia Ora.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends what colour. What colour plain shirts have you got? "
blue pink and white

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I think you have the big aura about you

now that is interesting tell me more xxx

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it was meant to say gay aura lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See them as a compliment I do, I just give a polite refusal, no harm done

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The pink one means you're def gay cos it's a girl colour. Blue is a traditional male colour an it means you like men. Do you button your shirts up to the top or leave any undone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you'll just have to learn to live with the messages if you don't want to filter people out - just see them as a joke, laugh it off and delete the messages

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i will thanks xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Depends what colour. What colour plain shirts have you got? blue pink and white

Oh, the white ones mean 'don't worry if you cum on my white shirt cos it will blend in'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The pink one means you're def gay cos it's a girl colour. Blue is a traditional male colour an it means you like men. Do you button your shirts up to the top or leave any undone? "
i usually leve the top two buttons open and sometimes the bottom one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some bi guys say they're straight on their profiles that they'll just take the chance by messaging

half my meets have been wiv men who have messaged me n it says straight' on their profile!!!! I rarely message anyone (due to my age i let em find me! ) but, personally, I wouldn't consider messaging a profile that says 'straight' - as mine does say BI I don't find it a problem. No doubt if guys c u haven't blocked out single males they may think there is a chance. Er.......incidentally WHY ain't ya blocked single males???? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends what colour. What colour plain shirts have you got? blue pink and white

Oh, the white ones mean 'don't worry if you cum on my white shirt cos it will blend in' "
lol that came in handy last time I was on a 18-30 holiday a girl wanked me off and I came over my self lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"The pink one means you're def gay cos it's a girl colour. Blue is a traditional male colour an it means you like men. Do you button your shirts up to the top or leave any undone? i usually leve the top two buttons open and sometimes the bottom one

Omg what do you think "I've left the bottom hole unfilled" means? Do the bottom button up!!!!! As for the top two, one is ok but two is saying "look men, at my hairy chest - it's only 2 buttons now but could be all"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Depends what colour. What colour plain shirts have you got? blue pink and white

Oh, the white ones mean 'don't worry if you cum on my white shirt cos it will blend in' lol that came in handy last time I was on a 18-30 holiday a girl wanked me off and I came over my self lol

There you go then. Proves my point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it is because you have local bi guys on your friends list ?

Maybe it is because you were until very recently listed as bi curious ?

Maybe it is because your profile previously said something along the lines of you weren't gay but you would let a guy suck you off

Just a thought !

Or maybe, like others have said, it is purely because you haven't set your filters properly what I can't have bi friends? They didn't send me crude messages and pics of there cocks and my profile sead if I met a bi mf couple I would let the male suck my cock I don't have on my profile send me crude messages and pics of my cock do I

No but neither can you have it both ways

People WILL make assumptions about your sexuality based on profile content, past or present.

If you don't want guys contacting you block em, it is that simple.

Til you do that your bleating shall fall on many deaf ears.

Read the threads about ever changing sexualities too

If you let guys suck you off, as part of a couple or not you are, at the very least bi curious if bi sexual

Situationally bi will only wear with those who think in similar terms about their own sexuality

To the main stream it will read bi and in denial or just altering sexuality to get more meets.

If you like it say so, it will attract as many as it puts off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because some bi guys say they're straight on their profiles that they'll just take the chance by messaging

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because there are a few single that message me if that get a meet with a girl around my airea and the girl can't accommodate for a prise or a 3sum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends what colour. What colour plain shirts have you got? blue pink and white

Oh, the white ones mean 'don't worry if you cum on my white shirt cos it will blend in' lol that came in handy last time I was on a 18-30 holiday a girl wanked me off and I came over my self lol

There you go then. Proves my point. "
yes it dose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

You must want them because if you didn't you would block single males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

Lol join the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why is it I keep getting sent messages from bi and gay men when my profile clearly says I'm straight lol

You must want them because if you didn't you would block single males. "

I dont block single males???- how would i get to some of the parties/gangbangs if I did?(I dont drive)...and I certainly dont want to play with men

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i had one the other day send me a message . we chatted and i teased him a bit .. cyber fun can be gay or straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because gay guys think every guy is gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the checked shirt.

what makes me look gay lol

Just finished ironing my shirts for the week and 33% were checked shirts

Oh dear

Don't worry ... never wear check at weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because gay guys think every guy is gay"

That is just not true

Most gay guys prefer to think that the guys they sleep with are straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"because gay guys think every guy is gay

That is just not true

Most gay guys prefer to think that the guys they sleep with are straight

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why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because gay guys think every guy is gay

That is just not true

Most gay guys prefer to think that the guys they sleep with are straight

why? "

Numerous reasons

Kudos

It feels more taboo than another gay guy

The whole 'i converted him' syndrome

Because it is a challenge

Plus a few more

I have been on more than a few gay/bi sites over the years and the whole scenario of having a straight guy is a massive scene in itself.

If they are married even better

I have never understood it, but for many it is the golden chalice - the thing to be aimed for and strived for

Of the bi guys listed on here Manchester, I could point you in the direction of various profiles where the are out and out gay.

Fact is being listed as bi on here attracts bi or curious men to look them up because they feel less threatened than by a profile that says gay.

So I dare say that that happens straight across the country.

Top tip : Say you are gay, the women will love ya and the men won't wanna know ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"because gay guys think every guy is gay

That is just not true

Most gay guys prefer to think that the guys they sleep with are straight

why?

Numerous reasons

Kudos

It feels more taboo than another gay guy

The whole 'i converted him' syndrome

Because it is a challenge

Plus a few more

I have been on more than a few gay/bi sites over the years and the whole scenario of having a straight guy is a massive scene in itself.

If they are married even better

I have never understood it, but for many it is the golden chalice - the thing to be aimed for and strived for

Of the bi guys listed on here Manchester, I could point you in the direction of various profiles where the are out and out gay.

Fact is being listed as bi on here attracts bi or curious men to look them up because they feel less threatened than by a profile that says gay.

So I dare say that that happens straight across the country.

Top tip : Say you are gay, the women will love ya and the men won't wanna know ya

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lol sounds like good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God loves a trier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God loves a trier

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no I don't I mean he dosnt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God loves a trier

no I don't I mean he dosnt lol

Haha you love the attention really. It's ok, I won't tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God loves a trier

no I don't I mean he dosnt lol

Haha you love the attention really. It's ok, I won't tell anyone

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corse I do lol

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