FabSwingers.com forum: That awkward moment

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you are at a festival and you bump into the guy from the club you might have turned down the night before... And his missus.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't give it a second thought and enjoy the rest of your day...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its actually really funny. He keeps looking over at me and Evie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why is that awkward if you turned him down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't give it a second thought and enjoy the rest of your day...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'd imagine it's more awkward for him lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Its actually really funny. He keeps looking over at me and Evie! "

I think he is more worried that you are going to say something when his missus is there...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why is that awkward if you turned him down? "

Because yesterday I saw him fairly undressed and he was asking me to suck his cock in cupids. Today he is all over his missus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

It's more embarrassing when you get chatting in a club and after a while you swap fab names and it dawns on you that you've blocked them.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't his wife there

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

No need for awkwardness.

You're not going to rush over there and confront him and it's unlikely he'll confront you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wankhead "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wankhead

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him "

Oooo nasty

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"why is that awkward if you turned him down?

Because yesterday I saw him fairly undressed and he was asking me to suck his cock in cupids. Today he is all over his missus. "

I am not sure what you expect, I imagine a lot of married men lead double lives and most will say they are in love with their wives.

I would say it is probaly more awkward for him and if it was me I would avoid him and any eye contact.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him "

Discrete and classy...not!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's more embarrassing when you get chatting in a club and after a while you swap fab names and it dawns on you that you've blocked them.

Dave"

Oh dear lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't find it awkward at all. I'd just smile and carry on with what I'm doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I never had any intention of doing anything to make the situation anything other than discrete. I've been doing this long enough to know what discretion is.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

At least, you'll know to avoid him next you see him at Cupids...

Keep enjoying the festival, the burnt burgers, nasty ketchup and flat beer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is that awkward if you turned him down?

Because yesterday I saw him fairly undressed and he was asking me to suck his cock in cupids. Today he is all over his missus.

I am not sure what you expect, I imagine a lot of married men lead

double lives and most will say they are in love with their wives.

I would say it is probaly more awkward for him and if it was me I would avoid him and any eye contact."

Also alot of married women too, just in the interest of balance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Keep enjoying the festival, the burnt burgers, nasty ketchup and flat beer!!

Pulled pork, I pulled and cold cider!! Had a great day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"why is that awkward if you turned him down?

Because yesterday I saw him fairly undressed and he was asking me to suck his cock in cupids. Today he is all over his missus.

I am not sure what you expect, I imagine a lot of married men lead

double lives and most will say they are in love with their wives.

I would say it is probaly more awkward for him and if it was me I would avoid him and any eye contact.

Also alot of married women too, just in the interest of balance

I was commenting on the subject of the thread which was married men.

If the subject was a married woman I would have said the same yes.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I wouldn't find it awkward at all. I'd just smile and carry on with what I'm doing

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"At least, you'll know to avoid him next you see him at Cupids...

Keep enjoying the festival, the burnt burgers, nasty ketchup and flat beer!!

You have obviously never been to grillstock my dear, no ketchup in sight!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"At least, you'll know to avoid him next you see him at Cupids...

Keep enjoying the festival, the burnt burgers, nasty ketchup and flat beer!!

You have obviously never been to grillstock my dear, no ketchup in sight! "

I've been rumbled!!! I admit...I have not! Hope you are both having a great time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"It's more embarrassing when you get chatting in a club and after a while you swap fab names and it dawns on you that you've blocked them.

Dave"

Nahhhh.... if anyone tells me their fab name in a club I just give them another forum user's name and then call them a spazzy twat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour. "

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx"

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

I will give gorgeous Mr letsbe the biggest cuddle and smooch at Chams, he can have a little squeeze too

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

I will give gorgeous Mr letsbe the biggest cuddle and smooch at Chams, he can have a little squeeze too

Ruby honey...he is all yours!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

I will give gorgeous Mr letsbe the biggest cuddle and smooch at Chams, he can have a little squeeze too

Ruby honey...he is all yours!!

He's Evie's actually lol.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour. "

It doesn't sound like a joke to be fair as you are saying on this post "I didn't say she had to say where from?"

I think even approaching the man is a big no no.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I think even approaching the man is a big no no.

Too right! Approach the wife instead, she'll have less of a punch on her.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think even approaching the man is a big no no.

Too right! Approach the wife instead, she'll have less of a punch on her."

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

I will give gorgeous Mr letsbe the biggest cuddle and smooch at Chams, he can have a little squeeze too

Ruby honey...he is all yours!!

He's Evie's actually lol. "

Oooooops! my bad...sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think even approaching the man is a big no no.

Too right! Approach the wife instead, she'll have less of a punch on her."

woah woah woah, no punches on Ruby please...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

I will give gorgeous Mr letsbe the biggest cuddle and smooch at Chams, he can have a little squeeze too

Ruby honey...he is all yours!!

He's Evie's actually lol.

Oooooops! my bad...sorry!"

It's alright, I'll loan him out for special occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite worrying when these kind of threads appear ie 'I saw someone from fab or from a club at (insert whatever venue you like) and there is always many comments relating to what people would do, ie go over and speak, keep looking over, etc. It does make you wonder at the level and understanding of discretion.

It doesn't matter where people have been or what they've done, if they aren't in a swinging situation when you see them, mind your own and just carry on with your own fun. It doesn't matter who they are with and how they are acting. I expect this man is all over his girlfriend because he finds her attractive. So what if he visits swinging clubs.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

I will give gorgeous Mr letsbe the biggest cuddle and smooch at Chams, he can have a little squeeze too

Ruby honey...he is all yours!!

He's Evie's actually lol.

Oooooops! my bad...sorry!

It's alright, I'll loan him out for special occasions

Does he have a say or (as I hope) he does not????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should only have been awkward for him. You should have made him sweat a little

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It should only have been awkward for him. You should have made him sweat a little

See I'm not the type of person to do that, and actually Evie and I moved shortly after realising it was him so as not to make anything uncomfortable.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"It should only have been awkward for him. You should have made him sweat a little

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Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

It doesn't sound like a joke to be fair as you are saying on this post "I didn't say she had to say where from?"

I think even approaching the man is a big no no.

However people who know me would know that actually I'm pretty laid back and don't hey involved in confrontation.

Again another case of words on a screen being misinterpreted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not walk over and ask him if you know him

Discrete and classy...not!

I didn't say she had to say where from? And it may just may have been a joke. Although some seem to not have a sense of humour.

I know you well enough to know it was a joke xxx

Men!!!! they need hugs and re-assurance

I will give gorgeous Mr letsbe the biggest cuddle and smooch at Chams, he can have a little squeeze too

Ruby honey...he is all yours!!

He's Evie's actually lol.

Oooooops! my bad...sorry!

It's alright, I'll loan him out for special occasions

Does he have a say or (as I hope) he does not????

I do as I'm told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should only have been awkward for him. You should have made him sweat a little

Why?

Why to which part?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do we know if it was his wife/missus/girlfriend. It could have been a meet off here or another site, a FB or FWB. He might have been very comfortable in the situation and not been worried at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too right! Approach the wife instead, she'll have less of a punch on her."

Some woman can hit...and hit hard.

Cough, cough my ex has given me many a dead arm, even if she was just "messing about".

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