FabSwingers.com forum: Fabs gone down hill?

Halifax

Has this site gone down hill? It seems so difficult to get a message back let alone a meet. Ive been on and off since 09 and definitely noticed a decline. Also same couples and singles in here too. Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I'm fully booked up till 2027, good for me!

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By *naswingdressWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been here six years, and I've noticed a steady stream of "this site sucks/used to be better, I can't get a meet" that seems unchanged in that time.

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By *obilebottomMan
11 weeks ago

All over

It's full of knobs and knockers

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've got "C.Ugly" and "_naswingdress" booked for 2028. I would say patience has been my 'upfall'. 💌

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By *ineteen89Man
11 weeks ago

Swindon

I don't think it's stated enough just how many messages some users can get each day. Imagine the message you might send to a prospective user, then multiply that one hundred-fold. Then double that. Add in all the single word messages on top of that, and you might be halfway to getting an idea of the volume of messages some accounts receive

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By *naswingdressWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've got "C.Ugly" and "_naswingdress" booked for 2028. I would say patience has been my 'upfall'. 💌"

I'd like a couple of days off, please. Whatever happened to labour rights?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

I’ve got more pussy in my box than a pet cemetery.

The mr

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By *naswingdressWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don't think it's stated enough just how many messages some users can get each day. Imagine the message you might send to a prospective user, then multiply that one hundred-fold. Then double that. Add in all the single word messages on top of that, and you might be halfway to getting an idea of the volume of messages some accounts receive"

Also, some of us have enough of this shit, and block the demographics who send that crap

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By *tormQueenWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Nero persists in chasing me, but this isnt new so i dont think its fabs fault 🤷‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Nero persists in chasing me, but this isnt new so i dont think its fabs fault 🤷‍♀️"

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My perseverance is just a Storm in a QueenCup. 🫖

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By *tormQueenWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

"Nero persists in chasing me, but this isnt new so i dont think its fabs fault 🤷‍♀️

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My perseverance is just a Storm in a QueenCup. 🫖"

10 points 😘

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By *ongandharderMan
11 weeks ago

Rotherham

Yes and no

It's not an instant gratification there's a lot of work and for some it may not happen

As far as the messages are concerned there's a lot of unhealthiness on here and definitely a need of respect and understanding from all people

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
11 weeks ago

Sussex

Man finds that he got more interest for sexual hookups when he was 16 years younger shocker. In other news. Water is wet

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By *ools and the brainCouple
11 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

You should watch the slalom in the skiing, that's really gone down hill.

Thank you I'm here all week

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By *offiacoolWoman
11 weeks ago

Alsager

You had 4 meets in 4 weeks in December. That's not enough ?

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By *orkshire Gent78 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Halifax

"You had 4 meets in 4 weeks in December. That's not enough ?"

Only 2 the others were yrs ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You had 4 meets in 4 weeks in December. That's not enough ?

Only 2 the others were yrs ago "

Imagine a single guy with a new profile thinking two meets in a month isn't a lot.

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
11 weeks ago

"You had 4 meets in 4 weeks in December. That's not enough ?

Only 2 the others were yrs ago "

It says all your veris were in 2025, you get so many that you lose count and still have a moan

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By *ou only live onceMan
11 weeks ago

London

Maybe you've just got less appealing since 2009?

#toughlove

(I'm only kidding, OP)

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By *parkle1974Woman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Seems a lot more under 30's on here than there used to be

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By *hunderaceMan
11 weeks ago

Dudley

Just had almost 18 months off having had a profile for 8yrs previous. It was often criticised for being a bit clicky in the lounge but I genuinely feel that the humerus banter has in large part gone. Old friends & forum stalwarts have gone or rarely online, perhaps because I know so few I'm biased, or maybe I'm too old and jaded..?

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By *tannersMan
11 weeks ago

stanley

My milkshakes bring all the fab ladies to my place. That or the stotties, I barely have the energy to please them all😉

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By *ools and the brainCouple
11 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Just had almost 18 months off having had a profile for 8yrs previous. It was often criticised for being a bit clicky in the lounge but I genuinely feel that the humerus banter has in large part gone. Old friends & forum stalwarts have gone or rarely online, perhaps because I know so few I'm biased, or maybe I'm too old and jaded..?"

Some of us old guard are still here, I'm funny as fuck.

Unfortunately I'm the only one who knows that 😒🥴😂

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By *hunderaceMan
11 weeks ago

Dudley

Some of us old guard are still here, I'm funny as fuck.

Unfortunately I'm the only one who knows that 😒🥴😂"

Big up the old guard, they don't like it up 'em Cpt Mainwearing...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Has this site gone down hill? It seems so difficult to get a message back let alone a meet. Ive been on and off since 09 and definitely noticed a decline. Also same couples and singles in here too. Discuss"

No. Not in my experience. Same old kind of people, some who moan and some who actually enjoy being here and getting to know people. Plus have the sex.

It’s always as it has been… but now with more moaning people 🤷‍♂️

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By *tormQueenWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

No. Not in my experience. Same old kind of people, some who moan and some who actually enjoy being here and getting to know people. Plus have the sex.

It’s always as it has been… but now with more moaning people 🤷‍♂️"

There are moaning people 😳😳

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

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By * L RipleyWoman
11 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I originally joined Fab on my first account in 2013. I get a lot less interest these days and just assumed that a lot more men want to fuck a 33 year old than a 46 year old.

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By *iddlesticksMan
11 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

If it’s gone downhill it’s probably a Winter Olympics thing.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"If it’s gone downhill it’s probably a Winter Olympics thing. "

With one of those oven trays?

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By *ew2buryMan
11 weeks ago

Newbury

"I'm fully booked up till 2027, good for me! "
I'm fully booked until 20:27.

Then in gonna mass message "free now?" to half of fab.

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By *iddlesticksMan
11 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"If it’s gone downhill it’s probably a Winter Olympics thing.

With one of those oven trays? "

Teflon coated.

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By *orphia2003Woman
11 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes

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By *eyeYCouple
11 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"I’ve got more pussy in my box than a pet cemetery.

The mr "

Pmsl!!...

Read a simple supply and demand explanation OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Hello fellow Fabbers.

I don't know if this is the right forum in which to ask this question but I'm going to ask it anyway 😂. I joined this site 3 weeks ago and I will say now that I'm very new to this world, which my profile bio will confirm. However, I am beginning to wonder why most female profiles that I've viewed have an age cut off for men of 55 years old?

As a 56 year old man it is very fucking frustrating 😂. Can I just reassure any ladies that might read this, we do not all of sudden become impotent when we turn 56.

If this is not the right place for this please ignore/delete.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Helps when you message people looking for men.

Mrs.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

Central

It's natural that people will see changes in how attractive they are to other people, including being subject to different people's age restrictions. What people want also changes.

You could find the same trend in the real world. The site has certainly had an increase in users, so there's increased competition too. The others may be better at selling themselves here, based on how it is today

If you get to socials and clubs, then you can increase the amount of people who you know

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

Central

"Hello fellow Fabbers.

As a 56 year old man it is very fucking frustrating 😂. Can I just reassure any ladies that might read this, we do not all of sudden become impotent when we turn 56.

If this is not the right place for this please ignore/delete.

Report"

People generally know what they like and want. It's better to focus your attention on the people who include you within the demographics they seek

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By *ick272000Man
11 weeks ago

Barnsley

Fully booked up? Are you a prostitut£?

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By *inkShyWoman
11 weeks ago

near Windsor

"Fully booked up? Are you a prostitut£?"

That's a bit rude 😳

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By *ave o500Man
11 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I think it’s getting better I’m getting more meet’s

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By *con7Man
11 weeks ago

BARNET

It can be quite brutal with many more rude people nowadays. However there are loads of gems on fab too.

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By *rmister25Man
11 weeks ago

Dudley

I get replies to messages so no complaining but I do think Fab is different now, the quality of messages used to be much better. People seemed more inclined to have a conversation and a laugh. The site seems to have lost something. I stay for the forums though, there’s some good threads that hold my interest and make me chuckle too. I’m not too fussed about DM’s and meeting people now, I get better conversation elsewhere. There are still some gems on Fab though.

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By *abulincsCouple
11 weeks ago

pe129 area

We only been around on and off for 20 ish years lol certainly seems more difficult to find genuine people to get a meet but live in hope maybe don’t help we can’t accommodate

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it the same as ever.

Ie, when you're not available you get 40 messages asking to meet you, then when you're free everyone else is doing something

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By *y_CinnamonWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire

Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore.

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By *ustme34Man
11 weeks ago

bradford16

"I'm fully booked up till 2027, good for me! "
can i be penciled in march 2028 please

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By *ustme34Man
11 weeks ago

bradford16

"I've been here six years, and I've noticed a steady stream of "this site sucks/used to be better, I can't get a meet" that seems unchanged in that time. "
6..? surely its longer..

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By *ew2buryMan
11 weeks ago

Newbury

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore."
😂 this is why god invented paper bags.

(I almost wrote plastic then. Harsh).

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By *iddlesticksMan
11 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

On the plus side there seems to be much more fabbing of penis pictures than there ever was.

By guys mostly granted but eh, beggars and choosers.

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By *y_CinnamonWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore. 😂 this is why god invented paper bags.

(I almost wrote plastic then. Harsh). "

Some people like that kind of thing 🛍️

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By *ust_us999Couple
11 weeks ago

Somewhere

Getting enough offers from single men 😂.

But no, no complaints really

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Hello fellow Fabbers.

As a 56 year old man it is very fucking frustrating 😂. Can I just reassure any ladies that might read this, we do not all of sudden become impotent when we turn 56.

If this is not the right place for this please ignore/delete.

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It’s called a preference 🤷‍♂️

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore."

Another 12 months and then I'm fucked

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By *rasshopper201Man
11 weeks ago

kendal

When I was on here with my wife over 10 years ago we got massages everyday but I would agree most were late at night some guy pissed just back from the pub one line even that was spelt wrong as well most were polite and when we declined they were respectful but if your a women it’s nature that you will get more interest than a man that’s the way of the world

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore.

Another 12 months and then I'm fucked "
,, im doubled fucked

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

It is just an up hill battle for us blokes on here.

Thanks everyone. Here all week

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"It is just an up hill battle for us blokes on here.

Thanks everyone. Here all week "

It’s the crocs 🤷‍♂️

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore.

Another 12 months and then I'm fucked "

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12 months? Goodness, even I'm a slow burn but that's some protracted chatting before your first 'meet'.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore.

Another 12 months and then I'm fucked

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12 months? Goodness, even I'm a slow burn but that's some protracted chatting before your first 'meet'."

^^ Sassy AF

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By *ellhungvweMan
11 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore."

Must have missed that memo.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore.

Another 12 months and then I'm fucked

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12 months? Goodness, even I'm a slow burn but that's some protracted chatting before your first 'meet'."

I'm on a mission before I hit 35 and hit rock bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore."

Depends if you want boys or men.

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By *lackadderMan
11 weeks ago

Eastbourne

It's always been like this in my time, which is a fair bit now.......

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By *partharmonyCouple
11 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Are your messages worth responding to? Most of the messages we get from single men are utter garbage and don't warrant a reply.

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By *elly1012Woman
11 weeks ago

houston

there are probably 100 men on here to every 1 woman, so messages can get lost in the pile.

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By *obra 327Man
11 weeks ago

Bromley

I saw that two

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

Derby

Can something that's already at the bottom of the hill go down hill? 🤔

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

Derby

I originally joined Fab on my first account in 2013. I get a lot less interest these days and just assumed that a lot more men want to fuck a 33 year old than a 46 year old."

*Ahem* ...Some may not be in that majority 👀

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Can something that's already at the bottom of the hill go down hill? 🤔"

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Joe, beneath those hills are the catacombs, labyrinthine passageways and caverns of hopelessness and 'unfanciables'.

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By *imiTheSweetMan
11 weeks ago

Halesowen

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

If I’m not enjoying a site I leave. Moaning about it don’t change anything.

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

Derby

"Can something that's already at the bottom of the hill go down hill? 🤔

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Joe, beneath those hills are the catacombs, labyrinthine passageways and caverns of hopelessness and 'unfanciables'."

Ahhh so things CAN be worse. Excellent 😂

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
11 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

No it hasnt changed, its up to you to entice people in by photos and profile. Yours needs work

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By *aulupforitMan
11 weeks ago

Corbridge

I can take it or leave it.Have to admit am not on here as much as I used to be or the chat rooms.

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11 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

If you want quantity over quality, just go to a red light area.

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By *DAnnette3TV/TS
10 weeks ago

Brighton

It's always been the same for me, some genuine people but too many time wasters still.

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore."

Some of us have crashed straight through that wall

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

Anyway there's great fun to be had from going downhill.

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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By *lackmarcusMan
10 weeks ago

london

Very easy. The ratio of men compared to women is so high that women get so many messages that they can pick the best of the best for them. So the 10% so if your 6ft 3, good looking with a big enough dick muscles and can chat well you're probably in the 10%. You probably have more chance of meets on tinder because its abit more even. Best things to do is try find parties I think people are more open there.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
10 weeks ago

East Lincs

The gents who state fab has gone downhill all have the same type of profile.

No effort in, less rewards out.

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By *oonbath89Man
10 weeks ago

radstock

In terms of meets I have had more action on dating sites , however I don’t fill its got any worse I still chat to people , few meets and made friends so I don’t think it’s getting worse , all depends on what you’re expecting, just because it’s a sex site doesn't mean everyone woman drops their knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I’ve only been here 5 months and I knew there would be a lot more men on here than females, but for a swing site with singles and couples looking for sexual fun, I wasn’t expecting it to be so difficult to be noticed lol - feels like I’m the last person waiting for a female to come up to me for a dance at the school disco 🤣😂🤣😂

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By *immers123Woman
10 weeks ago

South Molton

Yes, I've found there are a lot of idiots on here that just enjoy sending stupid messages. Had one the other day asking if it would be pregnant play obviously having a dig calling me fat, the cat fight troll, one who regularly sets new accounts asking if I want to see him and his step mother. I call it fab fatigue. Then when you think you have a meet organised they get cold feet and ghost me. In an ideal world I would love a regular meet but it never happens for me.

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By *immers123Woman
10 weeks ago

South Molton

"In terms of meets I have had more action on dating sites , however I don’t fill its got any worse I still chat to people , few meets and made friends so I don’t think it’s getting worse , all depends on what you’re expecting, just because it’s a sex site doesn't mean everyone woman drops their knickers "

As long as you are honest with the women on dating apps that you only want a shag that's fine. But women on there are generally looking for a partner.

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By *y_CinnamonWoman
10 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore.

Another 12 months and then I'm fucked "

Or not... 😂

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By *ost SockMan
10 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

In joined in 2010, and there were loads of people being critical about the site back then too

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By *ositiveVibesJBxMan
10 weeks ago

Birmingham/Wigan

There will always be people that think it’s changed or has become shit. For me personally if you are looking for a quick shag and not put the effort in to get to know someone then you won’t get any joy. I use fab to make that connection and then meet at a party or a club. Gives me a chance to chat to them properly and then take it from there. It’s all about your expectations too. There’s more to this lifestyle than just sex

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By *onyHoveMan
10 weeks ago

North East

It isn't getting 'worse' at all. There are still plenty of people who reply/chat/meet.

There's always been people who are clearly fake or too pushy or whatever.

I get a fair few 'hey' messages though, so it's easy to imagine how many couples and single women get.

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By *ick272000Man
9 weeks ago

Barnsley

Nah it's absolutely terrible for single guys, but I suppose it is fabSWINGERS, so made for couples

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By *hil most chillMan
9 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

Maybe the site has stayed the same, and it's just you that's gone downhill?

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By *007ManMan
9 weeks ago

Worthing

Just say you are a dodgy character op. Like a criminal in that soap or film.

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By *WB85Man
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I get a really different perspective of fab to others. I'm married and we just prefer to play solo.

So I get to see the messages and general bullshit that my wife gets, and its no wonder so many messages are ignored.

95% of messages she gets are from looking at her pics and don't read her profile.

There's also the male to female ratio to consider.

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By *um n raisinWoman
9 weeks ago

taunton

been here since fab was born as alot of us jumpped from a then well kmown site and fab as a swingers site has always been by far the best online swinger site..

it provides all the tools needed for swingers the only problem with fab and this applies to all online swingers/kink sites is the percentages of men compared to couples and womem is massive therefore making this online scene nearly impossible for most men

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By *aven haired minxWoman
9 weeks ago

London

I think for women it's definitely a different experience. I get so many new messages daily and then the earlier ones get pushed to the bottom of the pile. It's not possible to answer them all, and unfortunately alot don't get seen.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Chester

I've been here 15mths and it's going very well. If I wanted to I could be out with someone each week

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By *artorialMan
9 weeks ago

weymouth

Perspective, works reasonably well for me.

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By *ustAnotherMan
9 weeks ago

Tamworth

It's what you want to get out of it. If I defined success as how many meets or how much sex I got I'd not say it was great, but I have chatted with loads of great people. I HAVE had meets and the ones I've had have been QUALITY meets. The number of crap ones has been zero here, compared to say, apps.

I've gained people in my life I'll see over and again, and not just physically. So success

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By *aughty But nice..Man
9 weeks ago

Staffs

No change from the day I joined you reap what you sow

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By *um n raisinWoman
9 weeks ago

taunton

fab gives you the tools they are not here to get you meets as others have said it can work very well for most women and couples from the very picky to the less so...

sadly due to the very few couples and women compared to men means most men will find it very hard thats not the fault of fab that just down to simple maths .. even before the internet way back in 1988/89 there were always high numbers of men that use to get turned away but now days its very high numbers of men ..

its not impossible some guys do very well and it not all six packs n big dicks in fact far from most are just normal every day sty[e guys who dont put all their eggs in one basket and understand the scene ...a huge number of guys are here just to empty balls and very entitled and they are the ones who find the scene very hard or impossible..

this is a scene where for guys there is NOT repeat NOT someone for everyone and theres nothing any one ccan do about that...

fab is by far the best if you use ft correctly

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By *aked beachMan
9 weeks ago

small cave, behind the big cave.

For a moment there I thought we had entered a team in the Winter Olympics!

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By *d mirerMan
9 weeks ago

lost

Not really

I find it rather fun actually

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Central

People are more experienced in how to use Fab better for themselves. They have learned and adapted how they use it. If you see some of the same people on, it's unlikely that they use it just the same as they used to.

Some people will potentially increase or decrease in the demand for them over time.

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By *mf123Man
8 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

No idea im barely here its over 6 years since i was at my prolific so called best i was like catnip now im content to be one of them high pitched beeping things to stop pussy shitting on the lawn

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By *ilver_ServiceMan
8 weeks ago

Lincolnish.....

I've been here on and off for about 15 years.

The site is pretty much the same.

The only thing that's changed are the people.

Therefore......

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"I've been here on and off for about 15 years.

The site is pretty much the same.

The only thing that's changed are the people.

Therefore......"

We shall blame the people!!

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
8 weeks ago

Merseyside

Issue is may guys say great profile when they haven’t read it and just looked at the pics. Makes it difficult to reply To such messages

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By *DAnnette3TV/TS
8 weeks ago

Brighton

If guys read our profiles before sending some inane message, then that would be a good starting point. As it is I get bearded guys messaging me for a meet, when a quick scan of my profile would reveal that that is a waste of their time.

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By *ick272000Man
8 weeks ago

Barnsley

Want to fuck?

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's gone uphill. There are many who will attest to this fåçt.

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By *abulincsCouple
8 weeks ago

pe129 area

"If guys read our profiles before sending some inane message, then that would be a good starting point. As it is I get bearded guys messaging me for a meet, when a quick scan of my profile would reveal that that is a waste of their time. "

We get it all time like today had meet posted guys asking us to meet yesterday tomorrow and one today asking when we’re available to meet lol

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By *ongue n Cheek69Man
8 weeks ago

cleethorpes

"Seems a lot more under 30's on here than there used to be"

I hear the hook up apps have gotten way more expensive of late...

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By *naswingdressWoman
7 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Want to fuck? "

If you use quote and reply, people will know who you're talking to

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By *ohn8210tCouple
7 weeks ago

Warwick

We’ve tried unsuccessfully to renew our gold membership. It’s been like this since November. Despite messaging the site- we can’t seem to renew our monthly subscription.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
7 weeks ago

andover

"Want to fuck? "

Exactly these messages that let’s it down for us 😂

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By *ardnutsMan
7 weeks ago

pensby

"It's full of knobs and knockers

But I'm a bi guy, I love knobs and knockers in equal measure

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By *ardnutsMan
7 weeks ago

pensby

"Want to fuck?

Exactly these messages that let’s it down for us 😂"

How about. "Want to fuck , please" will that work

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
7 weeks ago

Telford

I've been on fab on and off for about 16 years and it used to be quite niche, since it gained in popularity it's definitely a little more frustrating to find quality People. I stay because it mostly works it's just more time consuming to find what I'm looking for.

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By *elloWoman
7 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Want to fuck?

Exactly these messages that let’s it down for us 😂

How about. "Want to fuck , please" will that work

You got to give a compliment too,

Try: 'Hi sugar tits / honey nuts, smashing blouse/shirt you've got on, want to fuck? Please and thank you'

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By *moothdickMan
7 weeks ago

stoke

Downhill faster than head first on yr mothers baking tray on the creata run

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By *avidNPMan
7 weeks ago

manchester

Seems good to me have no trouble

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By *ittlemisshotbotCouple
7 weeks ago

near you

Back in the day ( lol ) circa 2008 swinging was still pretty niche and taboo to a degree, hence more like minded people.

Now with social media, swinging become more widespread in the press not jus ‘ car keys in a pot wife swap parties ‘ you’ll always get more influx of people, good and bad.

On the whole, yes I think it’s gone down hill, but there’s still diamonds in the rough.

Personally, I think they should just add like a £100 / £200 sign up membership to keep non serious people out, but that’s also what the block button is for

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By *avidNPMan
7 weeks ago

manchester

"Back in the day ( lol ) circa 2008 swinging was still pretty niche and taboo to a degree, hence more like minded people.

Now with social media, swinging become more widespread in the press not jus ‘ car keys in a pot wife swap parties ‘ you’ll always get more influx of people, good and bad.

On the whole, yes I think it’s gone down hill, but there’s still diamonds in the rough.

Personally, I think they should just add like a £100 / £200 sign up membership to keep non serious people out, but that’s also what the block button is for

You make a lot of sense with that statement.

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By *ustincider888Man
7 weeks ago

Chorley

The one thing I've noticed is there's a lot more content creators who have zero interest in meeting.

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By *ornyguy666Man
7 weeks ago

Nottingham

"The one thing I've noticed is there's a lot more content creators who have zero interest in meeting."
yes agreed also lots of offering sex for money

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By *rhugesMan
7 weeks ago

Cardiff

Needs to start charging,This would get rid of the fakes and wan a bes

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By *azmar62Couple
7 weeks ago

Hinckley

I’m having the best time on here. You’ve gotta handle the crap. The good is worth waiting for.

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By *D_LucyTV/TS
7 weeks ago

southampton (can host)

There are still plenty of gems here, just have to sort through the time wasters, fatasists, 'straighties' and 'couples' that are actualy single men 😂

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By *aked beachMan
7 weeks ago

small cave, behind the big cave.

I don’t think it’s gone downhill, seems lots having plenty of fun although maybe at clubs more than before.

10 years ago I was having a great time on here, since I’ve been back, not so much but I think that’s because of my age and general look now. Certainly seems like there is a sweet spot for ages etc, if you’re the right age it’s probably still good fun.

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By *aulupforitMan
7 weeks ago

Corbridge

Just think it has become a wankers site but peeps still do meet.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
7 weeks ago

Utero

“I’ve aged 17 years”

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
7 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

s Love your confidence and HUMONGOUS self belief......... Yeah .... FAB's has changed. Everything else remains the same.

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By *igblue70Man
7 weeks ago

Bootle

I’ve been on the site for about 2 months, and so far I’ve enjoyed it

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By *asha86Couple
7 weeks ago

walsall

There seems to be an influx of posts like this at times....we usually chat to people through forums as its a great way to meet like minded people and members come and go depending on their moods and whats going on in their personal lives. xT

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By *oiluvfunMan
7 weeks ago

Penrith

"I've been here 15mths and it's going very well. If I wanted to I could be out with someone each week

You're a single woman, with a pulse, on a site with a ratio of; way too many men : 1 woman. Of course it's going very well for you....

Fab hasn't changed in the 13+ years I've been using it. The 'customers' have, and in simple terms;

A) This is a swingers' site, aimed primarily at couples looking to meet other couples.

And;

B) There just aren't enough single ladies in here compared to the amount of single men.

OP; enjoy the fact that Fab is THE ONLY contact app on the internet, that single guys can use completely free of charge, at all times.

And before anyone fires out the "Just go to a club" line, name me a swinger club which allows single guys in free of charge.....

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By *aomilatteCouple
7 weeks ago

Midlands

It's exactly the same for us as it was 9 years ago. We plead guilty to not replying to 95% of messages as their profiles don't appeal, any we reply to lead to nothing. Any fun we have is in a club.

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By *erald 1999Man
7 weeks ago

carmarthen

I feel it has its ups and downs ......but thats life especially for swingers ha ha

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It is hard work yes, but when it works its very rewarding.

I (Mr) pop in and out of using my solo account as its really disheartening at times.

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By *layfullsamMan
7 weeks ago

Solihull

It is what it is, but yes I got meets in the early days but as I get older I suspect it will get harder and harder.

A % of guys see it as instashag and I doubt theres any thought about swinging it’s just after easy sex

So that throws the men to women % totally out of proportion.

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By *eeman1200Man
7 weeks ago

Paulton Nr Bristol

It’s a bit difficult when people who are friends with you delete every message you sent to them other people do not reply and then there are people who start talking to you and suddenly disappear

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By *ew2buryMan
7 weeks ago

Newbury

I originally joined 12 years ago. I didn't find it that hard to get local meets.

I've not really tried in this reincarnation but have found it just as easy to get convos going without making the same effort and despite being 12 years older.

However ... That is more based on being on the forum. My sense is that the there is a lot more junk to wade through ir(fab)l. More men messaging women, but also more fakes to message (if you aren't aware of the signs).

So if you scatter gun, it's probably harder. If you are more astute, probably the same.

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By *izandpaulCouple
7 weeks ago

merseyside

"I've got "C.Ugly" and "_naswingdress" booked for 2028. I would say patience has been my 'upfall'. 💌"

Never mind, your day will come.

Liz. X

🤣🤣

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By *izandpaulCouple
7 weeks ago

merseyside

"I've been here 15mths and it's going very well. If I wanted to I could be out with someone each week

You're a single woman, with a pulse, on a site with a ratio of; way too many men : 1 woman. Of course it's going very well for you....

Fab hasn't changed in the 13+ years I've been using it. The 'customers' have, and in simple terms;

A) This is a swingers' site, aimed primarily at couples looking to meet other couples.

And;

B) There just aren't enough single ladies in here compared to the amount of single men.

OP; enjoy the fact that Fab is THE ONLY contact app on the internet, that single guys can use completely free of charge, at all times.

And before anyone fires out the "Just go to a club" line, name me a swinger club which allows single guys in free of charge.....

Even if I could name one that let single guys in free of charge, they'd be bankrupt before you got there.🤣

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By *oiluvfunMan
7 weeks ago

Penrith

"I've been here 15mths and it's going very well. If I wanted to I could be out with someone each week

You're a single woman, with a pulse, on a site with a ratio of; way too many men : 1 woman. Of course it's going very well for you....

Fab hasn't changed in the 13+ years I've been using it. The 'customers' have, and in simple terms;

A) This is a swingers' site, aimed primarily at couples looking to meet other couples.

And;

B) There just aren't enough single ladies in here compared to the amount of single men.

OP; enjoy the fact that Fab is THE ONLY contact app on the internet, that single guys can use completely free of charge, at all times.

And before anyone fires out the "Just go to a club" line, name me a swinger club which allows single guys in free of charge.....

Even if I could name one that let single guys in free of charge, they'd be bankrupt before you got there.🤣

Oh, haven't you heard? Couples-only nights are where the money is apparently, because they spend more behind the bar than single guys. The clubs would be fine; single guys aren't the cash cows everyone thinks they are.....

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By *izandpaulCouple
7 weeks ago

merseyside

"I've been here 15mths and it's going very well. If I wanted to I could be out with someone each week

You're a single woman, with a pulse, on a site with a ratio of; way too many men : 1 woman. Of course it's going very well for you....

Fab hasn't changed in the 13+ years I've been using it. The 'customers' have, and in simple terms;

A) This is a swingers' site, aimed primarily at couples looking to meet other couples.

And;

B) There just aren't enough single ladies in here compared to the amount of single men.

OP; enjoy the fact that Fab is THE ONLY contact app on the internet, that single guys can use completely free of charge, at all times.

And before anyone fires out the "Just go to a club" line, name me a swinger club which allows single guys in free of charge.....

Even if I could name one that let single guys in free of charge, they'd be bankrupt before you got there.🤣

They must be cash cows with the amount they pay to get in.🤣🤣

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By *rightonsteveMan
7 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like fab and I’ve found it to be a good site to be on. It works for me.

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
7 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

It works for me, I had my 7000th meet today.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore."

Ouch …. That hurt !

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By *asha86Couple
3 weeks ago

walsall

Its full of people that want to have sex

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By *am450Man
3 weeks ago

Sidcup/Bexley

"Men over 35 have hit the wall, they're just not as attractive anymore."

Ouch! (Speaking for a friend of course)

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By *ichelleclassycdTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Shaw

Sometimes I get quite a few time wasters unfortunately so just block them but I've met some lovely respectful guys that's for sure who respect me and not treat me like a piece of meat xxx

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By *ools and the brainCouple
3 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I must admit the forum has turned into the equivalent of a bunch of lads sitting around in a park drinking cider bragging about how many wanks they have had and how many hours they can "eat" pussy for.

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
3 weeks ago

SA3

"I must admit the forum has turned into the equivalent of a bunch of lads sitting around in a park drinking cider bragging about how many wanks they have had and how many hours they can "eat" pussy for."

Great description

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By *avidNPMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Couldn’t agree more. But there are some great people on here it just takes a lot of time to find them.

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By *oiluvfunMan
3 weeks ago

Penrith

"I've been here 15mths and it's going very well. If I wanted to I could be out with someone each week

You're a single woman, with a pulse, on a site with a ratio of; way too many men : 1 woman. Of course it's going very well for you....

Fab hasn't changed in the 13+ years I've been using it. The 'customers' have, and in simple terms;

A) This is a swingers' site, aimed primarily at couples looking to meet other couples.

And;

B) There just aren't enough single ladies in here compared to the amount of single men.

OP; enjoy the fact that Fab is THE ONLY contact app on the internet, that single guys can use completely free of charge, at all times.

And before anyone fires out the "Just go to a club" line, name me a swinger club which allows single guys in free of charge.....

Even if I could name one that let single guys in free of charge, they'd be bankrupt before you got there.🤣

They must be cash cows with the amount they pay to get in.🤣🤣

Yep! It cost me £90 to get in to Xtasia last year....

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By *avidNPMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Can you be a swinger if you are single?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Can't say it's gone downhill with the current No1 on hot pics 🥵🥵🥵

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Dont know what your moaning at op. You've plenty of verifications

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By *laterMan
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"they don't like it up 'em"

Speak for yourself!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Op, apologies if im wrong, but wasn't it you that was going to have a party

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By *recticWoman
3 weeks ago

taunton

I’m not a veteran but I have been on and off a fair few years and this has always been said about here.

My guess is that over time an idealised memory is your comparison for the current reality, not what it was actually like. But I guess there are more casual users now and long term users often feel a sense of ownership and that newbs don’t get it. Curious newcomers arrive without understanding the etiquette and what was a tightly vetted circle becomes a place that’s maybe a bit more chaotic and hit and miss. I’m probably just as ignorant as I was then tbh it’s not intentional I’ve just never been in it for the lifestyle

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"Can you be a swinger if you are single? "

Just a bit of a slut really

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By *oiluvfunMan
3 weeks ago

Penrith

"Can you be a swinger if you are single?

Just a bit of a slut really"

I have been called a male tart. How do I get to slut level?

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By *avidNPMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

"I’m not a veteran but I have been on and off a fair few years and this has always been said about here.

Not everyone here is for the lifestyle. Loads on here to jerk off over fantasies they haven’t the balls to act out.

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By *avidNPMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

"Can you be a swinger if you are single?

Just a bit of a slut really"
m

Sorry was a genuine question as I am rather new tho all this.

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