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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That last topic about ' last text message' has made me ponder ...

Do I expect too much from the men who message me on my phone with regards to conversation ???

Are men more ' blunt' for the want of a better word and say it how it is with no frills ??/

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Some are and some go around the houses in saying what they want...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the gent based on personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some are and some go around the houses in saying what they want... "

Its an individual thing ... some men are so blunt I think they aren't interested but when you meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on the gent based on personal experience.

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Yes ... see I shouldn't class it as a male thing should I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message should give some clues to the other members standard of conversation

Although I admit I am more articulate when writing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message should give some clues to the other members standard of conversation

Although I admit I am more articulate when writing "

This is true also .. I think my expectations are too high

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context... "

Oh don't confuse me .. its either frills or no bloody frills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message should give some clues to the other members standard of conversation

Although I admit I am more articulate when writing

This is true also .. I think my expectations are too high"

Then I have no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message should give some clues to the other members standard of conversation

Although I admit I am more articulate when writing

This is true also .. I think my expectations are too high"

Then I have no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context...

Oh don't confuse me .. its either frills or no bloody frills "

Fancy a f*ck...???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message should give some clues to the other members standard of conversation

Although I admit I am more articulate when writing

This is true also .. I think my expectations are too high

Then I have no chance "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context...

Oh don't confuse me .. its either frills or no bloody frills

Fancy a f*ck...??? "

Er ... can I think about it .. er er er er

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message should give some clues to the other members standard of conversation

Although I admit I am more articulate when writing

This is true also .. I think my expectations are too high

Then I have no chance

Hahahaha"

It's cruel to mock the afflicted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message should give some clues to the other members standard of conversation

Although I admit I am more articulate when writing

This is true also .. I think my expectations are too high

Then I have no chance

Hahahaha

It's cruel to mock the afflicted "

Oh Im sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context...

Oh don't confuse me .. its either frills or no bloody frills

Fancy a f*ck...???

Er ... can I think about it .. er er er er "

Are you in the process of pondering a positive response.... Or purely procrastinating to postpone the innevitable refusal of my passionate proposal....???

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

Are men more ' blunt' for the want of a better word and say it how it is with no frills ??/

"

Yup

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

Well you are HOT I (j) would be blunt and naughty and tell you in detail what I'd like to do to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are men more ' blunt' for the want of a better word and say it how it is with no frills ??/

Yup"

Und ze Germans are even more so.... "Ja..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context...

Oh don't confuse me .. its either frills or no bloody frills

Fancy a f*ck...???

Er ... can I think about it .. er er er er

Are you in the process of pondering a positive response.... Or purely procrastinating to postpone the innevitable refusal of my passionate proposal....??? "

See that puts me on the spot ... can I refuse but still be a nice person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Are men more ' blunt' for the want of a better word and say it how it is with no frills ??/

Yup"

Ah there you go - typical

Thank you Ryan - YUP

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

Are men more ' blunt' for the want of a better word and say it how it is with no frills ??/

Yup

Ah there you go - typical

Thank you Ryan - YUP "

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context...

Oh don't confuse me .. its either frills or no bloody frills

Fancy a f*ck...???

Er ... can I think about it .. er er er er

Are you in the process of pondering a positive response.... Or purely procrastinating to postpone the innevitable refusal of my passionate proposal....???

See that puts me on the spot ... can I refuse but still be a nice person "

To quote another forumite.... "Yup.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I have a question... I will ask it....

How many "frills" depends on context...

Oh don't confuse me .. its either frills or no bloody frills

Fancy a f*ck...???

Er ... can I think about it .. er er er er

Are you in the process of pondering a positive response.... Or purely procrastinating to postpone the innevitable refusal of my passionate proposal....???

See that puts me on the spot ... can I refuse but still be a nice person

To quote another forumite.... "Yup..""

Phewwwwwww

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm too old fashioned to be a texter people are very unlikely to get more than a one sentence reply from me. I prefer a normal conversation on the telephone. In fact most of my texts just ask if I'm free for a chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm too old fashioned to be a texter people are very unlikely to get more than a one sentence reply from me. I prefer a normal conversation on the telephone. In fact most of my texts just ask if I'm free for a chat"

Not many ask for chats anymore ... I think when I say I cant chat till after 9 it puts people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say it as it is.. And I expect the same back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its too much to expect anything from men. They say they will do something and they dont. I thought I was getting a text today basically a noshow. Knew I shouldnt have given my no out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think its too much to expect anything from men. They say they will do something and they dont. I thought I was getting a text today basically a noshow. Knew I shouldnt have given my no out"
you get upset by not getting a text? There's still half the day to go yet.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

One guy could only write a couple of words...I met him and he was very eloquent...we have regular picnics!

One could write and speak! He had all my attention!

It is not always how much is said/written...very often the content has far more interest and holds more intrigue! One man is very good at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words are really important to me. Sometimes I get emails from J and its like he's swallowed a dictionary! Its one of the things about him that I love!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So basically

All men are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its too much to expect anything from men. They say they will do something and they dont. I thought I was getting a text today basically a noshow. Knew I shouldnt have given my no outyou get upset by not getting a text? There's still half the day to go yet."
I never got upset, more a bit annoyed because when we chatted he sounded like a genuine guy and he was asking to meet me today. More than half the day gone now nothing on phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm too old fashioned to be a texter people are very unlikely to get more than a one sentence reply from me. I prefer a normal conversation on the telephone. In fact most of my texts just ask if I'm free for a chat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text messaging is overrated! Meeting is the future!

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