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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

oxfordshire

Hello lovelies

I was just curiously pondering …

When it comes to fab do you think you’re good at keeping it simple ? Able to keep it casual (in some cases im aware others want more ) or do you overthink things?

Is wanting to interact / message / flow seen as too keen?

I love the build up part of it all too …

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It only needs to be as complicated as you make it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

I am excellent at keeping it simple. This can be misinterpreted as lack of interest sometimes but the vast majority of people we have met have no interest in anything more than superficial relationships.

I don't overthink either if they stop talking or don't ask for another meet I might wonder why for a very short period but I know that it's because they don't want to see or speak to us again for some reason or another and that's fine. You can't be liked by everyone

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"I am excellent at keeping it simple. This can be misinterpreted as lack of interest sometimes but the vast majority of people we have met have no interest in anything more than superficial relationships.

I don't overthink either if they stop talking or don't ask for another meet I might wonder why for a very short period but I know that it's because they don't want to see or speak to us again for some reason or another and that's fine. You can't be liked by everyone "

That’s very true …. Can’t be everyone’s cup of tea

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"It only needs to be as complicated as you make it "

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By *ellhungvweMan
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Simple is best. People often take this place way too seriously and then get themselves in a tizzy over really mundane stuff. Just do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Do I overthink things? Always

Do I want more? Rarely

I'm good at keeping people at a distance.

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

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Yeah as in terms of what works for me/what doesn't. I don't really overthink things, I've never wanted more from someone who doesn't want more from me, never spent time complaining on the forums about things. Longing for another who sees me as needy etc. Never been ghosted or cancelled on last minute. So my form of simple works for me. 😊 Doesn't mean I don't get it wrong but yeah... Fab is a small part of my life that brings me a lot of joy.

I like talking. Wanting to message/interact with someone isn't in itself keen. It might be that you're not compatible with another though.

Enjoying the build up isn't a bad thing, OP.

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