FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers code word/phrase

By *llday2006 OP Man
15 weeks ago

Pershore

Is there a secret phrase swingers use in vanilla situations to identify themselves as swingers to others they suspect are also swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

What like a Masonic hand shake if you will?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
15 weeks ago

Walsall

Gobble gobble

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By *jslookingforfunMan
15 weeks ago

liverpool

"Gobble gobble"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *llday2006 OP Man
15 weeks ago

Pershore

Yes, similar idea. I met a couple today in a totally vanilla situation and I just got a “feeling” they may have been in the lifestyle.

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By *iz78Woman
15 weeks ago

wirral

Pampas grass in the front garden. Or if they walk round carrying a pineapple upside down you're on to a winner

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By *llday2006 OP Man
15 weeks ago

Pershore

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Sharesys

Twos up

😂

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By *jslookingforfunMan
15 weeks ago

liverpool

It could be pink flamingoes

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By *hedark_knightMan
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

“How do you like your pineapples?”

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By *artorialMan
15 weeks ago

weymouth

"Pampas grass in the front garden. Or if they walk round carrying a pineapple upside down you're on to a winner "

But what if you move after planting pampas grass and the new owners are not - could be embarrassing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

If people want you to know they'll find a way.

Even if you get a 'feeling' someone might be a swinger it doesn't mean they carry it into their every day life

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By *ustus5555Woman
15 weeks ago

Nottingham

Sainsburys had loads of pineapples yesterday so I'm guessing it was a quiet day 🤣

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By *ohn 66Man
15 weeks ago

South Birmingham

When shopping in Sainsbury's, if they use a nectar card they're definite swingers.

Lots of us about.

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By *enk15Man
15 weeks ago

Evesham

I have a "Lets shag each others wives" t-shirt.

Probably a little on the subtle side though.

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By *offiacoolWoman
15 weeks ago

Alsager

"Yes, similar idea. I met a couple today in a totally vanilla situation and I just got a “feeling” they may have been in the lifestyle. "

I suspect it was just wishful thinking on your behalf.

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By *layfullsamMan
15 weeks ago

Solihull

Swingers innocently say “The milk has been poured”

And any interested fellow swingers must reply “My weetabix are getting soggy”

I should kill you now it’s top secret 🤫

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By *earditallWoman
15 weeks ago

Lancaster

Hawk tuah

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By *ertiBMan
15 weeks ago

Shaftesbury

"Pampas grass in the front garden. Or if they walk round carrying a pineapple upside down you're on to a winner "

Does carrying a supermarket Hawaiian Pizza upside down count?

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By *linyMan
15 weeks ago

Manchester/London

"Pampas grass in the front garden. Or if they walk round carrying a pineapple upside down you're on to a winner

But what if you move after planting pampas grass and the new owners are not - could be embarrassing

I remember this happening to Sadie Frost as her and Jude Law moved into an apartment in London which had pampas grass on the window ledges. Someone knocked on thinking they were part of our community but were sadly mistaken.

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By *ertiBMan
15 weeks ago

Shaftesbury

Hmm… maybe not part of the community but wasn’t their that gossip about them and the drummer from Supergrass and his wife?

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By *llday2006 OP Man
15 weeks ago

Pershore

"Yes, similar idea. I met a couple today in a totally vanilla situation and I just got a “feeling” they may have been in the lifestyle.

I suspect it was just wishful thinking on your behalf."

Hmmm maybe a little bit but it did get this thought process running

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By *ertcoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

Had someone tell us once that something was 'fab', they looked at us to see if we reacted, we didn't

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
15 weeks ago

Niche

Oooooft

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By *rchie300Man
15 weeks ago

Hamworthy

“Want one “ 🤷‍♂️

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
15 weeks ago

London

My favourite clock is a grandfather clock. Because it swings.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
15 weeks ago

Coventry

I think you just throw in a few key words in to conversation. Because one key word could just be coincidence. Maybe something like:

"Good morning. It's Fab to meet you both too. We've just spent the weekend swinging on the golf course discussing our favourite animals. Mrs favourite is a Chameleon and I'm fan of a unicorn. Are you guys fans of a unicorn and/or do you play doubles by any chance? Happy to share balls and/or swap partners."

I figure they'll either look at you totally bemused

or look at you knowingly

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By *partharmonyCouple
15 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Sometimes it's as subtle as an item of clothing, such as an ankle bracelet, or a T-shirt that says "It's not cheating if my husband watches".

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By *hisIsMe58Man
15 weeks ago

Winchester

Upside down pineapple cake anyone.

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By *ndycoinsMan
15 weeks ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Any reference to three,triangles,five,five senses,seven,arts,candelabra,winding staircase,ladders(Jacob) and sitting in the East.

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
15 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire

"Pampas grass in the front garden. Or if they walk round carrying a pineapple upside down you're on to a winner "

I have got a small enamel pineapple badge that they gave out at a gathering that I went to, so I suppose that I should wear it when I go out, but I am sure that I would forget which way up it was meant to go.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
15 weeks ago

West Dublin

If someone you know goes to Gran Canaria at least twice a year, every year, they are swingers.

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