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By *ertiB OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Shaftesbury

Something that’s always intrigued me, particularly with couples - what led to you first dipping in your toe into the lifestyle?

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By *he Desired EffectMan
15 weeks ago

London

Curiosity, tends to be the most logical reasons, it then turns to fantasy then to real life.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
15 weeks ago

Swansea

We met via Fab, and so communicating openly and honestly about sex and sexual fantasies has been there from day 1. We both have very open minds and we enjoy exploring them together.

We did step away from Fab for the first year of our relationship but frequently spoke of it, and how we could return as a couple. That idea brought out a new level of conversation and discussion around boundaries etc.

We have been here as a couple for 9 years. We have a very secure relationship and have navigated the highs & lows of swinging together extremely well.

Mrs S&N

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By *histle79Man
15 weeks ago

Guildford

I joined a different site years ago as I knew it was the only way to try something’s I always wanted to - basically to meet couples. It was a good decision!

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15 weeks ago

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15 weeks ago


"Something that’s always intrigued me, particularly with couples - what led to you first dipping in your toe into the lifestyle?"

I was out with my ex years ago (at that time, my partner), and an Italian woman came onto me hard and was all over me. I went off the dance floor and apologised to my other half, and I said I was trying to get rid of her.

But to my surprise my partner didn’t mind and told me to carry on. So I did, and I brought that woman back home.

And from there I started being more open minded. Though we never became officially “swingers”, that was a one off. But it set the ball in motion in my mind.

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By *arknatCouple
15 weeks ago

New forest

Pissed after a night out and letting my best mate loose on my wife never looked back

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By *annaPlayABCCouple
15 weeks ago

Bacup

Always wanted to try it for years but never had the courage to ask any partner until about 5 years ago and after many,many glasses of dutch courage I just came out with it and asked..shockingly she was interested !

Never regretted it since

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By *kphooey43Man
15 weeks ago

Barnet

Invited to the site by a friend - she's no longer here, but I seem to have become addicted.

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By *entlegent65Man
15 weeks ago

Helston

I got chatting to a couple in a country park they invited me back to their camper for "a cup of rea" and soon realised there was more to this she kept flashing various body parts at me. After the fun they gave me some pointers for the future.

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By *ENW coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

west lancs

I (Phil) had said one of the things I’d like to do is try a swingers club. Them ages down the line it came up in a conversation one night and decided life’s to short and give it a go

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By *layfullsamMan
15 weeks ago

Solihull

Had to post a letter to a P.O. Box number lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

From the fetish scene I met couples who swung and I decided to join.

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By *earditallWoman
15 weeks ago

Lancaster

Ladies it was all down to wanting ladies

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By *ertcoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

We started by trying dogging

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

He'd always fancied two women around his cock and I'd always fancied women - simple really.

Mrs

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
15 weeks ago

Coventry

We met on Fab, so no mystery how we got started as a couple. But same we love to hear how couples got started, especially when they've been together as a vanilla couple for so long. It one thing we normally ask when we get chatting to couples. Love hearing the stories and there's been some great and funny ones over the years. Also a couple of like accidental ones, more like swinging found them rather than them found swing.

Love all these stories. And a lot of them are proper love stories. Love the bravery, honesty and trust in a relationship to bring this idea up in the first place. It's also funny how often the most reluctant partner turns out to be the one loving it the most.

Great stuff, keep the stories going.

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By *easeRyanCouple
15 weeks ago

Close

We met on Fab about 13 years ago. Was a different place then

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
15 weeks ago

Chester


"HOW DID YOU GET STARTED - Something that’s always intrigued me, particularly with couples - what led to you first dipping in your toe into the lifestyle?"

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Me and TheHusband have been together 25yrs, we're solid, very happy and secure

We started talking about being with the same person for the rest of our lives

Hubby said he likes it when other men pay me attention and that he'd love me to have a relationship with another man and for me to tell him all about

To take photos and videos of me with the other man and send them to hubby

So we joined here and I got myself a BF 😈 we've been seeing each other for over a year now and everyone involved is happy

💖🩶💖💜

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By *awtybikerMan
15 weeks ago

Barnoldswick

Met a local couple via twitter, and had my very first threesome, wanted to try exploring more, and found my way onto here (also after mentions on twitter)

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