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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Just a random question to everyone out there do age gap relationships work a friend of mine asked me to marry her but she’s only 25 and I’m 59 x

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By *parkle1974Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Some do, some dont.

Mine didnt and he was 21 years older than me.

Have you asked her why she wants to marry you?

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By *ray_BTWMan
12 weeks ago

Worcester

I was seeing a young woman who was 26 years younger than me.....wow they were a great 18 months

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By *hams123Man
12 weeks ago

London

Relationships require effort from both people regardless of age gap. I suggest you get a lawyer before you get married. Just in case. It's strange for a young person to propose to an older person. Seems suspicious to me. Be careful mate.

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By *ookingFor.....Man
12 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley


"Just a random question to everyone out there do age gap relationships work a friend of mine asked me to marry her but she’s only 25 and I’m 59 x "

A friend (as oppose to a lover) of yours proposed?

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By *unguy2429Man
12 weeks ago

worthing

Age is only a number.

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By *rG81Man
12 weeks ago

near Manchester and Halifax

I love a big gap. Preferably older but younger is hot too

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By *lackadderMan
12 weeks ago

Eastbourne

I'm seriously thinking about going younger. I generate no interest on fab but in the real world most women who show any interest tend to be quite a bit younger than me. I have shied away in the past as they are often ages with my own kids or a bit older, and that feels a bit strange. Then I think, if they are up for it, why not?

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By *ampireLoveMan
12 weeks ago

Essex


"Just a random question to everyone out there do age gap relationships work a friend of mine asked me to marry her but she’s only 25 and I’m 59 x "

Don’t leave us hanging! Did you say yes!?!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
12 weeks ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

19 years between P and myself and today is 21 years since she decided to chat me up in a club so I guess sometimes the answer is yes, they do work.

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By *ookingFor.....Man
12 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley


"I'm seriously thinking about going younger. I generate no interest on fab but in the real world most women who show any interest tend to be quite a bit younger than me. I have shied away in the past as they are often ages with my own kids or a bit older, and that feels a bit strange. Then I think, if they are up for it, why not?"

If you can pull a younger woman, go for it.

As a gay man I’m often pursued by younger guys. Love it!

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By *ellinever70Woman
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"I'm seriously thinking about going younger. I generate no interest on fab but in the real world most women who show any interest tend to be quite a bit younger than me. I have shied away in the past as they are often ages with my own kids or a bit older, and that feels a bit strange. Then I think, if they are up for it, why not?"

Are you absolutely sure their interest means they see you the way you think they do?

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By *elvetgazeCouple
12 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I'm seriously thinking about going younger. I generate no interest on fab but in the real world most women who show any interest tend to be quite a bit younger than me. I have shied away in the past as they are often ages with my own kids or a bit older, and that feels a bit strange. Then I think, if they are up for it, why not?"

Same for me only interest I receive when I’m out are from much younger guys, I prefer older x

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By *lackadderMan
12 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"I'm seriously thinking about going younger. I generate no interest on fab but in the real world most women who show any interest tend to be quite a bit younger than me. I have shied away in the past as they are often ages with my own kids or a bit older, and that feels a bit strange. Then I think, if they are up for it, why not?

Are you absolutely sure their interest means they see you the way you think they do?"

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By *lackadderMan
12 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"I'm seriously thinking about going younger. I generate no interest on fab but in the real world most women who show any interest tend to be quite a bit younger than me. I have shied away in the past as they are often ages with my own kids or a bit older, and that feels a bit strange. Then I think, if they are up for it, why not?

Are you absolutely sure their interest means they see you the way you think they do?"

Some are quite openly flirty so I don’t think I’m misreading the signs. I can’t think why they might otherwise be interested as I am more of an introvert?

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By *he Desired EffectMan
12 weeks ago

London

All relationships take work and effort. Age is just a number, right. So longs both parties are realistic of sais age gap and the constraints of it...

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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Lowestoft

An up date for those interested getting married in April x

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By *hams123Man
12 weeks ago

London


"An up date for those interested getting married in April x "

Congratulations. Get a pre nup if you want to. Just in case. Don't be fooled by your emotions.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Sounds like she is more than a friend of yours

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By *ustus5555Woman
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

16yrs between me and hubby.

When it's right it's right. 🤷

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By *leanandkeenMan
12 weeks ago

jarrow

Look at the wording your using a friend of yours. You haven’t said your girlfriend who you have been with for x amount of time. This has more red flags than the Soviet Union

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
12 weeks ago

North West

Would do my head in tbh.

Don’t get me wrong, I might be very attracted to a 25 year old & can see the upsides in terms of purely physical attraction in a short term sexual situation…

…but when I’m trying to explain to her who the Phantom Flan Flinger was, or anything else she won’t have a clue about because she’s way too young, I feel it could get tedious pretty quickly.

Mr.

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By *verageHoesCouple
12 weeks ago

Bessacarr

My initial thought was that she may be after your money.

However, I don't know your situation or relationship. I'm sure there will be similar relationships that have worked and others that haven't. Just be smart about it and seek legal advice as someone has mentioned above.

I wish you all the best, and congratulations 🎊

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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Thanks for the concerns but tbh she earns more money than me and Is financially independent x

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By *izandpaulCouple
12 weeks ago

merseyside


"Just a random question to everyone out there do age gap relationships work a friend of mine asked me to marry her but she’s only 25 and I’m 59 x "

Do you love her with every fibre of your body and move heaven and earth for her.

If not, don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Just a random question to everyone out there do age gap relationships work a friend of mine asked me to marry her but she’s only 25 and I’m 59 x "

Why would a friend ask you to marry? Are you seeing each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"An up date for those interested getting married in April x "

Where is she from?

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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Lives in the same town as myself and met her on here x

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By *izandpaulCouple
12 weeks ago

merseyside


"Lives in the same town as myself and met her on here x "

How long gave you been a couple?

If she is just some random from FAB and you've had a rush of blood from your brain to your cock, I'd be very, very wary.

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By *ookingFor.....Man
12 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley

Be careful, get some legal advice and a pre-nup!

Good luck!

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By *ilithnyxWoman
12 weeks ago

A vast cosmic void

You can never really come here and ask for the advice you can give yourself because there are so many different takes on what an age gap should or shouldn't be and whether or not you 'should' have a long-term relationship (or even marriage) with someone you've met here.

If it feels right to you both and isn't harming anyone, then go for it!

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By *ABflirtyWoman
12 weeks ago

Norfolk

If you care for each other get on age is just a number .

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

I can say yes I have had 3 where 2 I was younger than the lady and 1 where I was the older, it's fun and exciting relationships or at least they were. Mx 👿

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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Lowestoft


"If you care for each other get on age is just a number . "
thanks much appreciated x she really likes how you look xx

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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Any ladies out there care to be a bridesmaid ? X

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By *una_RaineCouple
12 weeks ago

worcester

Of course they can work like any other relationship

My partner and I have 19 years between us, the only issues I’ve encountered on occasion is his stamina isn’t as high as mine, he has knee problems, he gets tired earlier than me. Oh and because his friends and family are much older than me I have nothing to bond with them over, often left out of conversations about the past like old music or tv shows and stuff

Then the funny bits; my dentist still thinks he’s my dad so he tells him about cutting out sugary drinks rather than telling me off XD they expect him to be in the room when I’m having check ups XD my doctors were the same until recently lol

I’ve been out to restaurants and got free dessert because they thought I was his child XD I could probably got a kids bus ticket if we went on the bus together 🤣

Other than all that and the occasional “oh she’s just with him for the money” which isn’t the case because we both aren’t earning great money

We’ve always made it work happily together 7 days this year and it started as a one night stand

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By *lackadderMan
12 weeks ago

Eastbourne


"Of course they can work like any other relationship

My partner and I have 19 years between us, the only issues I’ve encountered on occasion is his stamina isn’t as high as mine, he has knee problems, he gets tired earlier than me. Oh and because his friends and family are much older than me I have nothing to bond with them over, often left out of conversations about the past like old music or tv shows and stuff

Then the funny bits; my dentist still thinks he’s my dad so he tells him about cutting out sugary drinks rather than telling me off XD they expect him to be in the room when I’m having check ups XD my doctors were the same until recently lol

I’ve been out to restaurants and got free dessert because they thought I was his child XD I could probably got a kids bus ticket if we went on the bus together 🤣

Other than all that and the occasional “oh she’s just with him for the money” which isn’t the case because we both aren’t earning great money

We’ve always made it work happily together 7 days this year and it started as a one night stand "

Sin is a lucky guy. Interesting take on the tactical pics though…

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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Lowestoft

In need of a bridesmaid and maid of honour all applications considered m or f xx

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By *he milf next doorWoman
12 weeks ago

bluebell woods

I’ve never been a bridesmaid

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By *atural_born_thriller_x OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Offer is still open for bridesmaids x

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By *tlanshiaWoman
11 weeks ago

Chatham

Relationships work depending onto he effort, love and trust put in.

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
11 weeks ago

Chichester


"In need of a bridesmaid and maid of honour all applications considered m or f xx "
not Maid of Honour material any longer

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By *ctionSandwichCouple
11 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

When you divorce the starting point will be a 50:50 split on assets. Same goes for debt potentially too. Regardless of age always look at a person's attitude to debt and money before marriage.

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By *ctionSandwichCouple
11 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

On second thought, if you have no kids and don't want the government getting your assets, marrying a much younger foreign woman is one way to keep them out of the Crown's clutches.

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
11 weeks ago

DUBLIN


"Just a random question to everyone out there do age gap relationships work a friend of mine asked me to marry her but she’s only 25 and I’m 59 x "

You'll be dead by 80 and she will inherit everything at 45. Then she can really start living, without you!

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By *absFrenchGentMan
8 weeks ago

stafford/Coalville

Congratulations and good on you for enjoying life and what it offered you . It’d be a shame not to embrace happiness when it knocks on your door

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By *urry BlokeMan
8 weeks ago

There is 24 years between myself & my OH

13 years in now, so I'd say it's worked for us at least

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By *ilva69Man
8 weeks ago

stockport

Only speaking from an experience, I had a customer I didn’t presume, I just thought it was father and daughter, they seem to get on perfectly well

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By *ocialablechapMan
8 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK

How long does a relationship of this type last before you deem it a success, when poster said they had a great 18 months, is it 5 years, 20 years, or till death us to part, with the younger knowing that they (likely) will have time without you.

When do people considering themselves or others to be an 'age gap' couple? Is it 10years plus?

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By *ikerbitch777TV/TS
8 weeks ago

thirsk

Biggest age gap for me was an older guy I saw regularly f 15yrs he was 40 yrs older than me. He introduced me to sex with a fellow males.

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By *ts good to share xCouple
8 weeks ago

market bosworth

Ours works xx

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By *oelMan
8 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

Go for it, but be ready for the impact in later life. I know an age gap couple, she was 30 years older, and now she is in her late 80s and he is 50s. They love each other, but she is deteriorating fast.

When you are closer in age you have more time together, and one side won't experience as much loss whilst being alive

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By *Kshybuteager87Man
8 weeks ago

Milton Keynes


"I'm seriously thinking about going younger. I generate no interest on fab but in the real world most women who show any interest tend to be quite a bit younger than me. I have shied away in the past as they are often ages with my own kids or a bit older, and that feels a bit strange. Then I think, if they are up for it, why not?

Are you absolutely sure their interest means they see you the way you think they do?

Some are quite openly flirty so I don’t think I’m misreading the signs. I can’t think why they might otherwise be interested as I am more of an introvert?"

Would love to hear more about this

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

When's the divorce ?

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By *absFrenchGentMan
8 weeks ago

stafford/Coalville

It’s scheduled for the week after the wedding

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"It’s scheduled for the week after the wedding "

Rude ! 😅

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By *ace400Man
8 weeks ago

my back yard

I was married for 20 years to a woman 12 years younger she left me for an even older man

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By *F25Man
8 weeks ago

kent

if both are happy then be happy and dont worry what others say

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By *ocialablechapMan
8 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK

Sub question or those that have had an age gap relationship (say 8 yrs or more difference). Was your next full relationship, not just a fab shag, with someone closer in age?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

21 years between us, been together for decades and very happy !

Chazz xx

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