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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like most single guys, I often look through the most fabbed portion of the gallery, and see many lovely looking ladies, but its very rare I come across anyones pics or profile that actually makes me feel genuinely excited, like 'I really, really want to get in touch with this person, they turn me on so much'.

How often do others get that feeling of excitement when looking at someones profile on here?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They're the ones who tend to delete my messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say never really

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Not very often but generally it's people from the forums who seem to have the best profiles. Typically they're miles away but I sometimes send a message just to say they have a cool profile all the same. I've never actually looked through the fab'd pics... maybe I'll rectify that and see if I get excited...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Maybe mine might tempt you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often go through the most fabbed gallery and fab the pics we like.

Most of them tend be miles away from us but if they were quite near then we would try to contact them.

You never know what might happen

Silk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe mine might tempt you?? "

You have lovely lips and I do like petit women Foxy, but as is so often the case with women I like the look of on here, you're miles upon miles away x

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We've never looked through the most fabbed section tbh. We fab the pics we like the look of rather than 'we want sex' with those in the pics. They can be old, young, fat or thin, it doesn't matter, a good pic is a good pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 times in more than 4 years

It is that rare I remember each of them fondly. All profiles I had stumbled across. 3 of those 4 definitely made my mouth a little wetter the 4th had my jaw

Alas I rarely go into hot right now or newest pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so much wow, I tend to give people the woah factor

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I only tend to look at pics when they are attached to a profile rather than the various photo gallery's. Don't think I've ever fabbed one lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every now and then I'll see one and think "wow".....normally they are blimmin' miles away though (but I will add them to my hotlist - for research purposes, obviously!! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get very excited looking at most of the pictures on here, i do sometimes get messages from people, or people who have fabbed my pics who sound very nice, you dont know till you meet them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah your just far to fussy

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Maybe mine might tempt you??

You have lovely lips and I do like petit women Foxy, but as is so often the case with women I like the look of on here, you're miles upon miles away x"

I'm in the Midlands next week Any good? (oh and yes my geography is shite)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe mine might tempt you??

You have lovely lips and I do like petit women Foxy, but as is so often the case with women I like the look of on here, you're miles upon miles away x

I'm in the Midlands next week Any good? (oh and yes my geography is shite) "

Ooh, whereabouts in the Midlands? (my geography is great as long as I have a map, though of course that's rather like saying I'm great at maths as long as I have a calculator)

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Maybe mine might tempt you??

You have lovely lips and I do like petit women Foxy, but as is so often the case with women I like the look of on here, you're miles upon miles away x

I'm in the Midlands next week Any good? (oh and yes my geography is shite)

Ooh, whereabouts in the Midlands? (my geography is great as long as I have a map, though of course that's rather like saying I'm great at maths as long as I have a calculator)"

West Midlands and visiting Chams next Friday

My first club visit as well!

And I can do your maths homework for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap"

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're the ones who tend to delete my messages. "

I hear you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe mine might tempt you??

You have lovely lips and I do like petit women Foxy, but as is so often the case with women I like the look of on here, you're miles upon miles away x

I'm in the Midlands next week Any good? (oh and yes my geography is shite)

Ooh, whereabouts in the Midlands? (my geography is great as long as I have a map, though of course that's rather like saying I'm great at maths as long as I have a calculator)

West Midlands and visiting Chams next Friday

My first club visit as well!

And I can do your maths homework for you "

Then you'll have to let me know when and where you'll be passing through

And hands off my abacus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic "

have you not noticed yet that everyone on here is a desperate saddo except for the person commenting, yet oddly their still here for the same reason as the rest of us

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Once in 13 years I've been tempted to message a guy first regards a meet and I saw him for 6 years

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic "

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe mine might tempt you??

You have lovely lips and I do like petit women Foxy, but as is so often the case with women I like the look of on here, you're miles upon miles away x

I'm in the Midlands next week Any good? (oh and yes my geography is shite)

Ooh, whereabouts in the Midlands? (my geography is great as long as I have a map, though of course that's rather like saying I'm great at maths as long as I have a calculator)

West Midlands and visiting Chams next Friday

My first club visit as well!

And I can do your maths homework for you

Then you'll have to let me know when and where you'll be passing through

And hands off my abacus!"

20 mins from Tamworth

Landing in Birmingham next week

ps foxy you've had half a year to look on google maps god job I'm driving

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Like most single guys, I often look through the most fabbed portion of the gallery, and see many lovely looking ladies, but its very rare I come across anyones pics or profile that actually makes me feel genuinely excited, like 'I really, really want to get in touch with this person, they turn me on so much'.

How often do others get that feeling of excitement when looking at someones profile on here?"

I have men people from here that were the total opposite of what I thought my criteria were. Those were the best encounters so far. I am not interested in what I want...I am interested in discovering what I do not know I want or need!

I have often been excited by someone's profile even when there were no or little pics. Talking to the person, the chase, the anticipation, the game, the sexual inuendos...that gets me hot...that makes me want them! Not a six pack on a child's look-alike smooth chest, not a raised hard cock thats trying to burst out of the the frame to impress me, no gimmick...just a person who has something to say!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow "

So how do you decide to get in touch with someone? Genuine question by the way. Obviously if the pic is mouthwatering but the profile shocking then I would agree with you, but some pics of men on here are just so yummy!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow

So how do you decide to get in touch with someone? Genuine question by the way. Obviously if the pic is mouthwatering but the profile shocking then I would agree with you, but some pics of men on here are just so yummy!"

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they are not the main reason for contacting them. What I'm saying is a pic would not make me think - I have to meet that person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow "

You say 'shallow', I say 'instinctive'

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Maybe mine might tempt you??

You have lovely lips and I do like petit women Foxy, but as is so often the case with women I like the look of on here, you're miles upon miles away x

I'm in the Midlands next week Any good? (oh and yes my geography is shite)

Ooh, whereabouts in the Midlands? (my geography is great as long as I have a map, though of course that's rather like saying I'm great at maths as long as I have a calculator)

West Midlands and visiting Chams next Friday

My first club visit as well!

And I can do your maths homework for you

Then you'll have to let me know when and where you'll be passing through

And hands off my abacus!

20 mins from Tamworth

Landing in Birmingham next week

ps foxy you've had half a year to look on google maps god job I'm driving "

Thanks Kinky! But you know I am a lazy biatch!

And sexy, hope that helped clarify matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a man with no picture as such but he got me with his words ...

Luckily for me hes a studmuffin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There was a man with no picture as such but he got me with his words ...

Luckily for me hes a studmuffin "

I'm well aware of the importance of a good personality, but you need to get a persons attention first before you can woo them, like a peacock with a good set'o plumes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once felt like that over someones pics i was instantly in lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow

So how do you decide to get in touch with someone? Genuine question by the way. Obviously if the pic is mouthwatering but the profile shocking then I would agree with you, but some pics of men on here are just so yummy!

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they are not the main reason for contacting them. What I'm saying is a pic would not make me think - I have to meet that person"

i must be shallow then cause ive looked at a few pics and thought, id love to shag him

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow "

no1/your on a swingers site.how shallow do you think it gets.

no2/why is shallow bad.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"There was a man with no picture as such but he got me with his words ...

Luckily for me hes a studmuffin

I'm well aware of the importance of a good personality, but you need to get a persons attention first before you can woo them, like a peacock with a good set'o plumes."

I totally and completely disagree! You do not need plumage to get someone's attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow

So how do you decide to get in touch with someone? Genuine question by the way. Obviously if the pic is mouthwatering but the profile shocking then I would agree with you, but some pics of men on here are just so yummy!

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they are not the main reason for contacting them. What I'm saying is a pic would not make me think - I have to meet that person

i must be shallow then cause ive looked at a few pics and thought, id love to shag him "

I'm confused, I like to get to know people but I can also have a similar reaction.

Am I shallow?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Never! There are people I admire from their posts and I'd love to share a drink or three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm confused, I like to get to know people but I can also have a similar reaction.

Am I shallow? "

I'm not talking about not getting to know them i mean that initial reaction of when you see a pic and the first thing that comes to mind is ....wow i want you, not aww i wonder if he helps old ladies over the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm confused, I like to get to know people but I can also have a similar reaction.

Am I shallow?

I'm not talking about not getting to know them i mean that initial reaction of when you see a pic and the first thing that comes to mind is ....wow i want you, not aww i wonder if he helps old ladies over the road "

know what you're saying, I'm still confused. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm confused, I like to get to know people but I can also have a similar reaction.

Am I shallow?

I'm not talking about not getting to know them i mean that initial reaction of when you see a pic and the first thing that comes to mind is ....wow i want you, not aww i wonder if he helps old ladies over the road

know what you're saying, I'm still confused. lol"

yes your shallow

don't mention it, happy to help

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow

So how do you decide to get in touch with someone? Genuine question by the way. Obviously if the pic is mouthwatering but the profile shocking then I would agree with you, but some pics of men on here are just so yummy!

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they are not the main reason for contacting them. What I'm saying is a pic would not make me think - I have to meet that person

i must be shallow then cause ive looked at a few pics and thought, id love to shag him "

That's not the point I'm trying to make. Of course you will see profile pics that make you think, I would love to shag that. However, to me there is more to a person than what they look like. I may be on my own with this but it won't be the first time

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow

So how do you decide to get in touch with someone? Genuine question by the way. Obviously if the pic is mouthwatering but the profile shocking then I would agree with you, but some pics of men on here are just so yummy!

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they are not the main reason for contacting them. What I'm saying is a pic would not make me think - I have to meet that person

i must be shallow then cause ive looked at a few pics and thought, id love to shag him

That's not the point I'm trying to make. Of course you will see profile pics that make you think, I would love to shag that. However, to me there is more to a person than what they look like. I may be on my own with this but it won't be the first time "

There is more to a person than what they look like, but I have to like what they look like to shag them. Possibly very shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here first time round, it happened a lot, but I have a wide taste in women.

However now, since I pretty much just use it for the forums, I don't see a lot with that wow factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shallow and proud!!

Maybe it's because we're a couple and already have our connection. We can base meeting someone purely on if we are attracted to them or not. Obviously if there is an attraction we'll then see if we click, but we both can honestly say that what first draws us in is the pics....

I have no qualms with people thinking I'm shallow

-Mrs. Edel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I say that there has to be an attraction for me if Im going to meet them and do intimate things with them

Saying that someone can have the ' wow' factor in many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a single strangers pic had that effect on me. I would worry that I had become a desperate sad sap

Because being excited by people you like the look of is certainly the mark of a loser - great logic

No but a pic that actually made me feel genuinely excited, like I really, really wanted to get in touch with that person who I didn't even know, would in my mind be extremely shallow

So how do you decide to get in touch with someone? Genuine question by the way. Obviously if the pic is mouthwatering but the profile shocking then I would agree with you, but some pics of men on here are just so yummy!

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they are not the main reason for contacting them. What I'm saying is a pic would not make me think - I have to meet that person

i must be shallow then cause ive looked at a few pics and thought, id love to shag him

That's not the point I'm trying to make. Of course you will see profile pics that make you think, I would love to shag that. However, to me there is more to a person than what they look like. I may be on my own with this but it won't be the first time "

I get what you mean ive in the past looked at pics n thought ok but nothing special...yet when spoken to them they have been ace....

And looked at some and thought pwhoar but then spoke the they bored the shit out of me...

Im shallow tho as some i look at the pics they dont do it and i dont even talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has only been one profile on here that's made me tingle.. I even went stealth because I perve'd it so often. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has only been one profile on here that's made me tingle.. I even went stealth because I perve'd it so often. lol "

Lol same with the one that got me wasnt so bad tho i ended up making my own pics ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth might have to try tht

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course, the trouble is that when seeking people with that WOW factor, often you need to have some degree of it yourself, which is of course the hard part!

It was years ago that I messaged a fairly local lady from here, who didn't have any pics but I liked her profile, we got chatting and swapped face pics, and it was pretty much the swinging equivalent of a lottery jackpot - her initial reply was 'wow you're gorgeous!' and I thought the same of her, she was a tall, slim, elegant redhead and I knew we had to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has only been one profile on here that's made me tingle.. I even went stealth because I perve'd it so often. lol

Lol same with the one that got me wasnt so bad tho i ended up making my own pics ha ha "

Oooh now i never thought of that lol

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