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By *appytojoinin OP   Man
15 weeks ago

derby

So for those who choose to show your face on here. Have you had any backlash from vanilla friends or people you know, work colleagues?

This always scares me.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what?

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By *ENW coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

west lancs

Nothing as yet

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
15 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

If they can recognise me with makeup and a wig then I'm a pretty fuckin useless trannie.. 😹

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By *ABflirtyWoman
15 weeks ago

Norfolk

I am my own person and only thing that worry me is getting a stalker . But can get that in normal life too .

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By *he milf next doorWoman
15 weeks ago

bluebell woods


"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? "
this

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By *hunderaceMan
15 weeks ago

Dudley

People who live in fab greenhouses can cast no stones...

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By *hisIsMe58Man
15 weeks ago

Winchester

No recognition from friends, but they might be putting people off. Still better than chatting and then getting ghosted or blocked.

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By *vonne5exMan
15 weeks ago

Doncaster


"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? "
I bet 50 to 60 percent are just here for the frill of trying to see someone they know with no intentions of ever swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Nope, because 1) my friends do not know I’m on here and 2) my profile won’t show up in Google searches.

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By *lectrictouchMan
15 weeks ago

inverarary

I wouldn’t do it these days and was burnt before

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By *kibirdWoman
15 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)

None whatsoever, they’d have to explain why they were here too.

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By *eyeYCouple
15 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Applaud those who show their faces here!

We volunteer ours early in any interaction, but withhold from public view purely in the belief our choices shouldn't impact the people we love 😘

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
15 weeks ago

middlesbrough

I use to show face pics , never had any backlash of that type , for me it’s the fact it brings so much attention and traffic to your account ( great if that’s what you’re looking for ) , but did end up with a stalker from it , so I now try to have a pic of myself instead of the usual stamp headshot, occasionally I slip and add it publicly but then soon remove it when the messages come flooding in

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? I bet 50 to 60 percent are just here for the frill of trying to see someone they know with no intentions of ever swinging."

Really ??? I don't think anyone goes on fab to see if anyone they know is on here.

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By *pectorMan
15 weeks ago

Hook


"So for those who choose to show your face on here. Have you had any backlash from vanilla friends or people you know, work colleagues?

This always scares me. "

Nothing so far and wouldn’t necessarily care either being honest.

Having woman/couples able to see a face pic of a guy they want to potentially meet would be important for many factors. Can fully understand and respect why most couples and especially woman would want to hide their faces with the fact of stalkers etc.

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By *orphia2003Woman
15 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I couldn't give a shit personally. If people don't like what I choose to do in my private life, with other consenting adults, then it's Thier problem.

Also, it's very hard to be outed, when you are already out.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? this "

I think this is quite a naive approach.

Just because someone who knows you is also on here doesn't mean it can't still cause you trouble.

That's putting a little too much faith in other people.

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By *hinstrapMan
15 weeks ago

sheffield

I think I'd still prefer to have no face pics unless I'm happy with the connection. Saves the worry of any backlash etc.

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By *inkShyWoman
15 weeks ago

near Windsor

No backlash from people I know.

Started getting stalked by someone I didn't know, who lives maybe 2 miles from me, so no longer show full face unless I choose to send a photo.

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By *ockchickCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I saw my sons next door neighbour the other week so not a chance .

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By *weetSmellingSamTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Blaxkpool

No backlash from anyone as it’s no one’s business.

I think face pics as essential as it’s the first point of attraction for me. Also by me showing loads of face pics it helps let guys know if I’m they’re type and if I’m right for them.

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By *rchie300Man
15 weeks ago

Hamworthy

I have shown my face to people on here … but backlash from friends …..no ….as none of them know I’m on here ….i keep my private life and fab life separate

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By *earditallWoman
15 weeks ago

Lancaster

Absolutely not I see people who have messaged me with facepics in shops,one in the school yard and other people local who have them on their profiles.

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By *earditallWoman
15 weeks ago

Lancaster

Ive not had backlash from people I know who know I'm though.

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By *riel13Woman
15 weeks ago

Northampton

No... I don't hide that I am on here... People that matter don't mind n people that mind don't matter... I'm past caring what others think of me

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I put my face pic public often and have had no issues... also i am single so don't really care if anyone notices me.

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By *appytojoinin OP   Man
15 weeks ago

derby

Things that bother me the most is in the work place and damaging my job. Second is small minded people, who don’t necessarily need to admit to being on here but could say a friend seen them on here. And the thought that those that do know you’re on here thinking they can rock up to your home or work.

I prefer to stay anonymous until I find a meet then share, as they say don’t shit on your own door step so looking for meets no to close to home.

I guess if in a different job I might not care so much

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By *ambiThistleCouple
15 weeks ago

Coulston

I (Thistle) used to show mine on my single page when I had one here - but now I’m with Bambi, her work dictates that we have to be a little more discreet, pretty simple for us really.

Face pics are generally shared quickly with people we’d be looking to meet with socially or otherwise.

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By *appytojoinin OP   Man
15 weeks ago

derby

If only life was simpler and not so judgmental, live and let live

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By *hat.coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Kent

Never had anything happen because I showed my face on here. Everyone in the lifestyle is in the same boat so if someone recognises you then guess what?, They are in the lifestyle too, im sure they want to be discreet too so they'll keep quiet too. Besides that I couldn't care less if people know, I'm an adult and dont care what people think of me. My favourite saying is "those mind dont matter, those who matter dont mind"

Mrs x

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
15 weeks ago

Niche


"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? "

Well they could be a hidden profile here for a perv and hide behind 'a friend told me you xyz amd sent pics...'

People like to cause trouble for sport and spite

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds


"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what?

Well they could be a hidden profile here for a perv and hide behind 'a friend told me you xyz amd sent pics...'

People like to cause trouble for sport and spite"

Easily dealt with:

‘Your “friend”. Alright mate. The police can talk to you and you can tell them how they contact this “friend”.’

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By *hat.coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Kent


"I couldn't give a shit personally. If people don't like what I choose to do in my private life, with other consenting adults, then it's Thier problem.

Also, it's very hard to be outed, when you are already out."

Exactly this xx

Mrs x

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
15 weeks ago

Niche


"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what?

Well they could be a hidden profile here for a perv and hide behind 'a friend told me you xyz amd sent pics...'

People like to cause trouble for sport and spite

Easily dealt with:

‘Your “friend”. Alright mate. The police can talk to you and you can tell them how they contact this “friend”.’"

Yeah, but whether they get punished or not, you still have to live with the damage they've already done to your life.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, but if anyone can recognise me from my face on here in glam mode, then I'd worry that I'm very bad at this whole trans thing

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