FabSwingers.com forum: sex life is over 😔

By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!

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By *illybeachboyMan
22 weeks ago

Guernsey

Why do you say that, partner lost interest or just a lack of interest from Fabbers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

living a single life , lost confidence i guess

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By *illybeachboyMan
22 weeks ago

Guernsey

As I've aged i have sex less often which is a normal part of life. On apps such as Fab interest in older guys isn't what it would be for a 35 year old sadly. Get messaging and push yourself rather than bemoan the lack of sex, if you make the effort you'll get the rewards.....eventually.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
22 weeks ago

Chatham

Ger yourself out there you'd be surprised.

Try some clubs and get chatting to people

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Mrs is 35. Begin to think about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

i will remain positive 👍

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By *ilva69Man
22 weeks ago

stockport

It’s great you’re on here and still looking for some fun

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By *ude LawMan
22 weeks ago

I hope you had fun.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Unlucky.

The mr

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Central

Get to clubs like The Attic in Derby, to be around similar people. And put no pressure on yourself

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
22 weeks ago

London

Mate, I've seen more than a handful of profiles where the person or even couple are looking for someone older. 50 and above. You just have to search for them. Like others have already said, put yourself out there.

Also be careful. There are scammers and fakes on here unfortunately. Safety first. Have fun. 👍🏾☺️

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
22 weeks ago

Prestwich

It's quiet few years for me also but don't give up, there is somebody out there willing to fuck one of us mate 🤣😂

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

If you can still wank, who cares !

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By *stoppMan
22 weeks ago

Durham

That’s me knackered then at 67

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Coventry

Look more exciting than just women. Men / tgirls etc. thus is one the main reasons I hear from older guys why they get into cock fun or into tgirls

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By *eesside52Man
22 weeks ago

Stockton

I find myself wanking regularly as I get nothing else at the moment.

Still like to think ive got it though when needed xx

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By *akedMMan
22 weeks ago

Witney

That me had it then at 70

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

Is fab the only place you look for companionship of any kind?

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By *ewLife65Man
22 weeks ago

All Over!

Im 65 and it hasn’t

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By *a LunaWoman
22 weeks ago

Wales

Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!

Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club?

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By *heekyCharmMan
22 weeks ago

Colne

"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!

Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club? "

I’m sensing sex life here also means love life. Companionship. It makes me sad!

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By *avexxMan
22 weeks ago

cheshire

i can honestly say my sex life isnt over

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By *a LunaWoman
22 weeks ago

Wales

"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!

Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club?

I’m sensing sex life here also means love life. Companionship. It makes me sad!"

Well then I’d add join a local hobby group, join an over 60’s dating site - anything that gets you out of the house and likely to meet people. It’s not easy but it’s a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!

Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club?

I’m sensing sex life here also means love life. Companionship. It makes me sad!

Well then I’d add join a local hobby group, join an over 60’s dating site - anything that gets you out of the house and likely to meet people. It’s not easy but it’s a start."

There's also some right goers at the WI.

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By *tormQueenWoman
22 weeks ago

All over the place

"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!"

The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s

While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!

The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s

While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷‍♀️

Aren't they just more likely to forget about condoms ? I'm only 55 but am always losing my glasses!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!

The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s

While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷‍♀️

Are you sure they don’t just think Herpes is delivering their parcels?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!

The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s

While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷‍♀️

It's because they didn't have the sex education that younger generations have and they think STIs only happen to 'dirty' people

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By *a LunaWoman
22 weeks ago

Wales

"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!

The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s

While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷‍♀️

Aren't they just more likely to forget about condoms ? I'm only 55 but am always losing my glasses!"

Try using binoculars

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!

The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s

While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷‍♀️

Are you sure they don’t just think Herpes is delivering their parcels? "

Bravo ! 👏 🤣

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

managed to drag myself out of than bleak attitude ,

looking forward to The Attic this saturday

, thanks for your encouragement and positive vibes

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By *ornucopiaMan
22 weeks ago

Bexley

I'm 80 and I recently unsubscribed from the extremely resourceful dating site which I was using long before I became a fab member.

I have got more than enough contacts remaining in my little book of colour to see me through for the foreseeable...

You are giving up far too easily, OP. Still a youngster.

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By *oewiththeflowMan
22 weeks ago

West Coast

"living a single life , lost confidence i guess "

Living the dream. Do what you want when you want

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
22 weeks ago

wonderland.

"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has

come to an end ,pardon the pun !!"

Absolutely rubbish. My father was still having a bloody good time until he passed away in his late 80s. He had been attending kestrels until about 2 years before he passed.. his partner ( well one of them) was only a few years older than me...

When I had to clear his place out I found letters and photos ladies had sent him ( therapy was almost required)

He just got out there and mingled... in his 60s I know he had several partners and was clubbing on a semi regular basis.

( I found this out later on)

He would have said life is what you make of it, go out and find what tickles your fancy..

Cali.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!

Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club?

That's the kind of spirit that gave us victory in two world wars.. I salute you!"

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Never say never, just need the spark reigniting, and that’s the beauty of fab you can find someone to do that

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By *tu.xMan
22 weeks ago

around

What would your mick say go on a walk about see whats out there

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
22 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

Come to France and see the nudist beaches in the summer, they're roven out with people enjoying the third life. Le cap dagde has loads of people your age.

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
22 weeks ago

IRVINE

Am 64 and still enjoying a great sex life.get out there and enjoy what the world has to offer you mrs

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By *.hrisMan
22 weeks ago

Visiting Swindon

Get down a swingers club, who knows what that may spark!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

Hi , i’m on an even keel again , looking o the attic thursday 29th (tomorrow) , should be an eye opener

thanks for all your support x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

cheers cali x

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By *layfullsamMan
22 weeks ago

Solihull

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By *kaPeterMan
22 weeks ago

Guildford

I am 76, and it certainly isn't over.

Yes, the opportunities are fewer, and even when they do occur, rather more stimulation and foreplay are required to get a good rise to attention, so satisfying sex is now more like once a week or so than the 3 times a day I could manage 50 years ago!

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