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"no think everyones aware of it and choose to take that risk. regular GUM clinic visits will pick up something. touch wood ive never caught anything.. but if i did then id know the gents to inform. " 
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"It's a calculated risk for me. My GUM nurse tells me that the risk of catching something orally is lower than that of penetrative sex. Although risk factors increase with mouth ulcers, bleeding gums etc. I choose to cross a busy A road everyday without using the correct crossing 5 minutes up the road. This is a calculated risk, I assess before I cross the road, much the same as I assess the risk of unprotected oral." We aint stupid and know there is a slight risk. 
To me it's like having a gun and having a gun loaded; the same but so very different | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette!" No its not ive had a health professional tell me its a lower risk and even lower if your mouth is healthy....most of us get regular checks but you enjoy your wrapped up bjs and no touching or kissing as there are risks in everything...each to their own n all that | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette!" Before you post ridiculous scaremongering ignorant posts you really need to do some research or at least back up the claim with some decent evidence | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette!" You need to get yer fact right actually. That statement is bollocks | |||
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"I wouldn't take the risk and no offence you have to be plain silly to take a risk like that! It's ok saying all this , lower risk and what happens when some one contracts HIV are you all going to say lower risk then? Just my opinion, I would rather be safe than sorry and using common sence and protecting your self and others is just a no brainier!" Can i ask you....do you wash your hands after touching a lady or do you ever give a lady oral....and also have you actually read anything about hiv and how its contracted.....im sure the risks of other things are way higher even tho they are very slim.....and also are you planning on many meets after this thread?  | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette!" So no blow jobs, kissing, licking or oral for you then | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette! So no blow jobs, kissing, licking or oral for you then "Yet in his profile he says he likes 'Dirty' ?? | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette! So no blow jobs, kissing, licking or oral for you then "Or touching lol why not bring back gas masks | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette! So no blow jobs, kissing, licking or oral for you then "Get thee to a nunnery!! | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette!" it's not as dangerous at all.. and I've probably had more than my fair share of cocks in my mouth, but not caught anything. I keep myself regularly checked and informed. | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette! So no blow jobs, kissing, licking or oral for you then
Or touching lol why not bring back gas masks "Full hazmat suits... Erotic  | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette! So no blow jobs, kissing, licking or oral for you then
Get thee to a nunnery!!
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette! it's not as dangerous at all.. and I've probably had more than my fair share of cocks in my mouth, but not caught anything. I keep myself regularly checked and informed. " As opposed to the 'uninformed' | |||
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"Hi all, just a quick on for you all, I know sex is a fantastic pleasure and fun , but are we forgetting to protect ourselves, I protect myself when having sex who wouldn't , but have noticed that some people are clumsy and it could be costly,I am no means a critic but my observations,are as such It defeats the object giving a guy a blow job with no condom on and then getting him to put one on after you bj him and have sex, seriously you have already had unprotected oral sex so could already be infected with an std but you think your safe because during sex you used a condom! And visa versa with the guys you can catch some std,s by giving oral sex with out protection so think before you play guy and girls play safe! Am I the only one that see,s this?" So do you insist on wearing a condom before you get a bj then? | |||
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" As opposed to the 'uninformed' " yup... My clinic and I have some great chats... and although they advise because of the high numbers of partners that I consider condoms for oral. They say that the risk is considered lower. However it is very hard to say how something is contracted as normally someone does both oral and penetrative sex too. I had first guy ever last week that insisted on a condom. It was horrible to suck and put me right off. And to those not swallowing. I was told it's actually safer than facials as there is a risk of getting it in the eyes.. and that is the most direct route to the bloodstream. | |||
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Foreplay and good ol finger play is my favorite bit!!!
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" As opposed to the 'uninformed' yup... My clinic and I have some great chats... and although they advise because of the high numbers of partners that I consider condoms for oral. They say that the risk is considered lower. However it is very hard to say how something is contracted as normally someone does both oral and penetrative sex too. I had first guy ever last week that insisted on a condom. It was horrible to suck and put me right off. And to those not swallowing. I was told it's actually safer than facials as there is a risk of getting it in the eyes.. and that is the most direct route to the bloodstream. " getting it in you're eye! lol brilliant. | |||
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" getting it in you're eye! lol brilliant. "it sounds funny but it's rare people seem to realise the risk... Many porn stars wear glasses for this reason when doing facials. | |||
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" I had first guy ever last week that insisted on a condom. It was horrible to suck and put me right off. " Tbh I probably would have said no to him. I hate the taste of condoms so much that I don't even like it if he takes it off after penetration to cum in my mouth. The taste is just bleurgh  | |||
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"Unprotected oral is just as dangerous as unprotected sex, some people on here love playing Russian roulette! No its not ive had a health professional tell me its a lower risk and even lower if your mouth is healthy....most of us get regular checks but you enjoy your wrapped up bjs and no touching or kissing as there are risks in everything...each to their own n all that "Yes , my GUM Dr has told me risk is much lower .. And regular check ups is the key  | |||
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"Sorry...but who the f**** doesnt like foreplay??..
Foreplay and good ol finger play is my favorite bit!!!
"That's why you and I are on this site
but I now cant work out why the op is here, if that's his real mindset?
I guess fun and games means different things to different people..
Scrabble anyone? I will of course put the tiles through the dishwasher 1st, Dont want anyone touching anything dirty | |||
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"If people are so paranoid why are they having casual sex with strangers?!! No one is putting a gun to our heads. I'm not going to wear a full haz mat suit for sex: the day I become OCD with playmates I'll sell my house, call myself Sister Margaret Ignatius and live a celibate life in the name of Jesus! Can I get an amen?!! " AMEN | |||
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" getting it in you're eye! lol brilliant.
it sounds funny but it's rare people seem to realise the risk... Many porn stars wear glasses for this reason when doing facials."Wouldn't know, never watch the stuff...  | |||
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"If people are so paranoid why are they having casual sex with strangers?!! No one is putting a gun to our heads. I'm not going to wear a full haz mat suit for sex: the day I become OCD with playmates I'll sell my house, call myself Sister Margaret Ignatius and live a celibate life in the name of Jesus! Can I get an amen?!! " Can it wait until the end of the year, only I've kind of got plans | |||
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"I wouldn't take the risk and no offence you have to be plain silly to take a risk like that! It's ok saying all this , lower risk and what happens when some one contracts HIV are you all going to say lower risk then? Just my opinion, I would rather be safe than sorry and using common sence and protecting your self and others is just a no brainier!" Are you married? I ask because you paronia and scaremongering would then make sense. | |||
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"Are you married? I ask because you paronia and scaremongering would then make sense." Just because someone is married doesn't automatically mean that they are going to be paranoid. | |||
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"If people are so paranoid why are they having casual sex with strangers?!! No one is putting a gun to our heads. I'm not going to wear a full haz mat suit for sex: the day I become OCD with playmates I'll sell my house, call myself Sister Margaret Ignatius and live a celibate life in the name of Jesus! Can I get an amen?!! AMEN "Thank you sister! | |||
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"If people are so paranoid why are they having casual sex with strangers?!! No one is putting a gun to our heads. I'm not going to wear a full haz mat suit for sex: the day I become OCD with playmates I'll sell my house, call myself Sister Margaret Ignatius and live a celibate life in the name of Jesus! Can I get an amen?!! Can it wait until the end of the year, only I've kind of got plans "If you're sucking cock without a condom your mouth is going to be puss filled and your tongue blackened, so now while you can talk yeah! | |||
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"Are you married? I ask because you paronia and scaremongering would then make sense. Just because someone is married doesn't automatically mean that they are going to be paranoid. " Of course not, but the ops paronia is extreme and he reminds me of the married man who came to my house with his wife's soap and perfume for me to use! Needless to say... | |||
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"Full hazmat suits... Erotic "But the new ones have a black lace trim
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checked regularly and never had an std yet
life is full of risks .. Only you can choose to take them
If I had to perform oral on protected penis ,. I'd give up !
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"How many people actually know about the risks of STIs? * How different ones can be caught? * What harm they can do to you? * Can and how can they be treated? I know there are many websites on the subject, but I do feel that a swinging site should have a section on it. I mean there are sections on Clubs, Toys, new photos etc, why not STIs? " Honestly?!! People don't read profiles, men openly write on threads they will fuck anything with a pulse (optional) and you think they'll give a monkies about what sti's will give them knob rot, blue waffle etc?!! How much molly colliding do people need?!! I despair! | |||
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"Calculating the number of people on here who really meet I think the risks are very low. "Saucer of milk at table 2 meeooww | |||
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"Calculating the number of people on here who really meet I think the risks are very low.
Saucer of milk at table 2 meeooww"ouch. | |||
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" As opposed to the 'uninformed' yup... My clinic and I have some great chats... and although they advise because of the high numbers of partners that I consider condoms for oral. They say that the risk is considered lower. However it is very hard to say how something is contracted as normally someone does both oral and penetrative sex too. I had first guy ever last week that insisted on a condom. It was horrible to suck and put me right off. And to those not swallowing. I was told it's actually safer than facials as there is a risk of getting it in the eyes.. and that is the most direct route to the bloodstream. " So true....ive had it in my eye and nevermind the risks it doesn't half sting | |||
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" As opposed to the 'uninformed' yup... My clinic and I have some great chats... and although they advise because of the high numbers of partners that I consider condoms for oral. They say that the risk is considered lower. However it is very hard to say how something is contracted as normally someone does both oral and penetrative sex too. I had first guy ever last week that insisted on a condom. It was horrible to suck and put me right off. And to those not swallowing. I was told it's actually safer than facials as there is a risk of getting it in the eyes.. and that is the most direct route to the bloodstream. So true....ive had it in my eye and nevermind the risks it doesn't half sting "a woman after my own heart | |||
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"here's my slant And I'm a sexual health nurse in a gum clinic Yes , obviously you can catch an std through oral sex . This is however a "low risk" Having unprotected penetrative sex is "high risk" If you are having anal this heightens the risk as the skin in your anus is very thin and tears easy Swallowing cum is a higher risk than giving a bj where no cum is involved Having sores in mouth / ulcers /bleeding gums my advice would to be refrain from oral , Once again contracting an std from oral sex is possible but very low risk Been swinging for 15 years , love blow jobs checked regularly and never had an std yet
life is full of risks .. Only you can choose to take them
If I had to perform oral on protected penis ,. I'd give up !
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"How many people actually know about the risks of STIs? * How different ones can be caught? * What harm they can do to you? * Can and how can they be treated? I know there are many websites on the subject, but I do feel that a swinging site should have a section on it. I mean there are sections on Clubs, Toys, new photos etc, why not STIs? Honestly?!! People don't read profiles, men openly write on threads they will fuck anything with a pulse (optional) and you think they'll give a monkies about what sti's will give them knob rot, blue waffle etc?!! How much molly colliding do people need?!! I despair! " You beat me to it, but pony and 1 trick comes to mind as I've said the very same on the threads yesterday | |||
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"You rotters....you chased him off the site "He just realised where he has been going wrong  | |||
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"You're not the only one that sees this but the day I perform oral with the guy wearing a condom is the day I move into a sterile bubble for the rest of my life " | |||
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"Hey it's true, you're eye is really red!" It was post cum shot what can i say | |||
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"Just wondering why OP is actually on a swing site .. "So was he by the look of it! | |||
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"I think he was doing "gods work" and trying to save us from Hell. " We're obviously beyond redemption so he's off to tackle something easier like setting up a GUM clinic in Kabul! | |||
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"I think he was doing "gods work" and trying to save us from Hell. We're obviously beyond redemption so he's off to tackle something easier like setting up a GUM clinic in Kabul! "Pmsl | |||
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"Just wondering why OP is actually on a swing site .. "somewhere to 'self flagulate', preach to the 'unclean' in a modern way perhaps.. who knows, shouty and ranty is cool.. shouty and ranty talking bollocks is tosh.. | |||
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"I think he was doing "gods work" and trying to save us from Hell. " Might be more to that than you think. It's Friday and that's when the bible bashers come out of their hiding holes on here...  | |||
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