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By *ddyerdsThickCockBeast OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Erdington

What does everyone think of smokers? Is it a bother or not too bothered? I smoke socially but since i dont go out much these days, i can say im not a smoker but ill take one if offered.

Also keen to hear from people who have quit but may have had some last long term effects from it from their younger years.

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By *heelerMan
13 weeks ago

Northants

Not 4 me

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm asthmatic, so deffo not for me.

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By *oe up northMan
13 weeks ago

Blackpool

Up until 2 years ago was a heavy smoker since I was about 12, now consider myself a social smokers with the help of vapes, only like a certain flavour of vape liquid though, and definitely not cigarette flavour, love how I smell now 😊

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It’s a no from me to both smokers and vapers who in my opinion are the same

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By *hitelotusMan
13 weeks ago

Farnborough

Naaa

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
13 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We have met them at clubs or in the past but it’s less likely we will kiss them or want any intimacy because stale smoke on breath or clothes isn’t attractive to us.

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By *evlishduncMan
13 weeks ago

north suffolk south norfolk

Never been a smoker/vaper. Will meet smokers/vapers but would not want them to smoke/vape whilst we met. Kissing depends on when last cigarette/vape was had.

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By *rafter69Man
13 weeks ago

upminster

Not for me

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By *ungle JesusMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool


"What does everyone think of smokers? Is it a bother or not too bothered? I smoke socially but since i dont go out much these days, i can say im not a smoker but ill take one if offered.

Also keen to hear from people who have quit but may have had some last long term effects from it from their younger years."

I'm a smoker, it doesn't bother me if you do or not because of that, but completely understand why people really dont like it. It does stink, it does stain your hands and teeth, but its also an addiction

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

As a smoker, totally no offence taken if rejected because of that. It is a rotten habit!

I do always carry perfume, mints etc in my handbag as I am aware of how bad it is

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By *erfectpair18Woman
13 weeks ago

lytham

No not for me...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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13 weeks ago

Central

Smoking inside isn't permitted by many landlords, so people would have to use outside, where available. Obviously a lot of smokers aren't smoking every couple of minutes, so it's not going to be a major issue.

Some people dislike the smell and taste on someone. I'm generally fine with this but also rather like seeing some guys smoking, when not done for observation pleasures.

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By *GIncubusMan
13 weeks ago

Harrietsham

I managed to quit vaping after 4 years of it last year. Was honestly the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I did the maths and realised I was consuming the same amount of nicotine as 49 cigarettes every single day.

Still crave it whenever I smell tobacco and have had the odd bit on occasion but I try to treat it more as a luxury than something I have to do every day

But everyone's experience of quitting will be different, every smoker/vapes has their own relationship with it that they have to grapple with.

Also nicotine replacement therapy is a waste of time and money, you have to cold turkey it, the gums and patches etc only extend the amount of time you're in withdrawal which increases the chances you'll go back to it.

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By *rchie300Man
13 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Not for me but wouldn’t mind if a meet / fab friend did smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Nope. We wont meet smokers at all. We hate the smell, and the after smell on there breath

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By *ornyrich666Man
13 weeks ago

skelmersdale


"As a smoker, totally no offence taken if rejected because of that. It is a rotten habit!

I do always carry perfume, mints etc in my handbag as I am aware of how bad it is "

I love sexy women smoking!

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm an ex smoker but it doesn't bother me if others smoke

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By *abulincsCouple
13 weeks ago

pe129 area

It appears to us you may as well have a dose of sexually transmitted disease lol most we look at won’t meet smokers

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By *heshireguy69Man
13 weeks ago

saddleworth

It’s a no from me

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By *ornucopiaMan
13 weeks ago

Bexley


"Not for me but wouldn’t mind if a meet / fab friend did smoke "

I would mind.

It's not just the smell but the addiction, which inevitably means having to stop and satisfy the craving at regular intervals.

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By *sum_funWoman
13 weeks ago

close

It's a big no from me.

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By *ornucopiaMan
13 weeks ago

Bexley


"It appears to us you may as well have a dose of sexually transmitted disease lol most we look at won’t meet smokers "

Oddly, I'm astounded by how many non smokers say that they will meet smokers.

Are they that desperate for sex and happy to wait while the smokers keep going through their rigmarole?

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton


"It appears to us you may as well have a dose of sexually transmitted disease lol most we look at won’t meet smokers

Oddly, I'm astounded by how many non smokers say that they will meet smokers.

Are they that desperate for sex and happy to wait while the smokers keep going through their rigmarole?"

Why does it matter to you, what others will or won't do? They can have a smoke while I make the tea

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton


"It appears to us you may as well have a dose of sexually transmitted disease lol most we look at won’t meet smokers

Oddly, I'm astounded by how many non smokers say that they will meet smokers.

Are they that desperate for sex and happy to wait while the smokers keep going through their rigmarole?

Why does it matter to you, what others will or won't do? They can have a smoke while I make the tea"

Also, I understand their addiction...

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By *one_wolf.Man
13 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Not bothered but fresh breath before kissing

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By *acky RacersCouple
13 weeks ago

Lincoln

Not for us ....

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By *rectus HumongusMan
13 weeks ago

Dark side of ths moon

There is nothing sociable about smoking and therefore no such thing as a social smoke.

Just touching on the vape thing as most will know no vaping in any government building and shops etc this because in years to come as we are aware of no one knows what is in the chemicals, esp corner shops etc.

So over time when folk start getting very ill and sadly folk will get cancer etc.And therefore council offices etc cannot have claims against them.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

There is little that dries my vagina quicker, than that awful sound of a vape.

Also a no to smokers.

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
13 weeks ago

paisley

I gave up 30 years ago. There is no good reason for anyone to smoke ever.

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By *alandNitaCouple
13 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I'm confused by the concept of a "social smoker" it always seem like quite an antisocial activity to me, you go and stand outside in the cold for a few minutes and make yourselves smell...

Cal

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By *ornucopiaMan
13 weeks ago

Bexley


"I gave up 30 years ago. There is no good reason for anyone to smoke ever."

Furthermore,it is one of the most dumb arsed activities invented by mankind.

As the comedian quipped:

"So you get some leaves, you roll them up in paper, you set fire to them, you breathe the fumes... and it makes you feel good".

Where he got it wrong was when he continued "It'll never catch on" ...

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By *ornucopiaMan
13 weeks ago

Bexley


"It appears to us you may as well have a dose of sexually transmitted disease lol most we look at won’t meet smokers

Oddly, I'm astounded by how many non smokers say that they will meet smokers.

Are they that desperate for sex and happy to wait while the smokers keep going through their rigmarole?

Why does it matter to you, what others will or won't do? They can have a smoke while I make the tea

Also, I understand their addiction... "

Oh, I understand it but I don't tolerate it!

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By *viatrixWoman
13 weeks ago

Gatwick

I was brought up by chain smokers. They both died of smoking-related cancers.

Walls in my home were covered in nicotine.

I was basically a passive smoker for the first 20 years of my life against my will.

I despise smoking so, so much.

However, I have loved ones who smoke. I tolerate it. I do tell them my views but I inderstand it is not my life nor my health so leave them to it.

In terms of Fab, if someone lies on their profile and it is clear that they smoke- I can tell from a mile away, it is a giarantee that it will never go anywhere with me. And will probably end the social as the smell is the most disgusting thing on earth for me.

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By *ookingFor.....Man
13 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley

I’m ok with smoking and occasionally smoke myself.

It’s a fetish for some, especially gay guys, to see smoking as a sexual thing. That’s why I’m totally ok with meeting smokers.

It can add a ‘bad lad ruggedness’ to a man and the smell is actually part of the attraction.

Few would understand why though. It’s a psychiatrist’s dream to unpack I’d imagine.

Think I’m making it up?

Search online for ‘capnolagnia‘.

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By *ustus5555Woman
13 weeks ago

Nottingham


"As a smoker, totally no offence taken if rejected because of that. It is a rotten habit!

I do always carry perfume, mints etc in my handbag as I am aware of how bad it is "

Totally this. Xx

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By *ustus5555Woman
13 weeks ago

Nottingham


"It appears to us you may as well have a dose of sexually transmitted disease lol most we look at won’t meet smokers "

See you in the smoking shelter 🤣🤣

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

I vape so smoking doesn't really bother me Especially as I used to smoke very heavily pre vaping.

(Mrs)

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By *impson63guyCouple
13 weeks ago

pontefract


"There is nothing sociable about smoking and therefore no such thing as a social smoke.

Just touching on the vape thing as most will know no vaping in any government building and shops etc this because in years to come as we are aware of no one knows what is in the chemicals, esp corner shops etc.

So over time when folk start getting very ill and sadly

folk will get cancer etc.And therefore council offices etc cannot have claims against them."

Curious to know if you had the covid vaccination and boosters

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
13 weeks ago

paisley


"I gave up 30 years ago. There is no good reason for anyone to smoke ever.

Furthermore,it is one of the most dumb arsed activities invented by mankind.

As the comedian quipped:

"So you get some leaves, you roll them up in paper, you set fire to them, you breathe the fumes... and it makes you feel good".

Where he got it wrong was when he continued "It'll never catch on" ..."

Bob Newhart.... I had that routine on vinyl. He didn't "get it wrong" he was using irony for comic effect.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I'm not sure if I should mention this but Semen really concentrates Nicotine and turns it into a really foul tasting brew.

Sorry smokers but having tasted smokers semen I have to say it is yuck.

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By *awpleasureMan
13 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I'm not sure if I should mention this but Semen really concentrates Nicotine and turns it into a really foul tasting brew.

Sorry smokers but having tasted smokers semen I have to say it is yuck."

I think the same when a woman who smokes squirts. It tastes rank.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
13 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Gave up 26 years ago when it tried to give me up. Don't crave one no problem if you smoke but I ain't gonna kiss you.

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By *ookingFor.....Man
13 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley


"I'm not sure if I should mention this but Semen really concentrates Nicotine and turns it into a really foul tasting brew.

Sorry smokers but having tasted smokers semen I have to say it is yuck."

I’ve heard similar, but, for me anyway, I can safely say having swallowed a hefty amount of smokers’ cum over the years that it tastes fine.

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By *atersideBoy80Man
13 weeks ago

Southampton

I have a smoking fetish. Love women smoking infront of me, blowing it on me, in my mouth

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By *ermite12ukMan
13 weeks ago

Solihull and Romford

Partner died, aged 81, from pneumonia. But having packed up smoking over 20 years ago. After being told she would probably need her legs amputating. One of the other conditions that led to her death, was COPD.

In addition my mother has smoked all her life. She's had 2x mastectomy because of cancer. One set of lymp nodes removed because of cancer. She has COPD a lot worse than my partner now.

Now the kicker. My grandma, smoked all her life. Died aged 94 of old age I think. Certainly not cancer.

So, thinking somewhere between when my grandma started smoking and when my mother started. The tobacco companies may have possibly added a chemical to the tobacco. Which affects a person's DNA and the gene is passed on.

I've never smoked, nor never will. But I'm ok with smokers because I was brought up by two parents who smoked....going shopping in the car with both of them smoking, was a trip not to be missed.

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By *ayKellyMan
13 weeks ago

Kinross

I used to smoke in the early to mid 1990s then went from 40 - 60 a day, to none. Fully stopped

Took about 10 years to stop sniffing the cigarette smoke of someone smoking but now happily can say I will never smoke again.

I've kissed female smokers and don't mind, how can I criticise someone for something I once done myself

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By *uenevereWoman
13 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Smoking is a disgusting habit and a huge turn off for me.

It baffles me that anyone would choose to make themselves smell horrible, not to mention the harmful effects of smoking.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Severe asthma and other breathing issues here.... I don't entirely say no, just be respectful and don't smoke around me.

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By *tiffycockMan
13 weeks ago

mold

Hated the smell of smokers and most of my family were. Never hugged parents as they smelt of it and in car if they smoked I put my coat over my head and got down on back seat. Dad had lung problems before death, mother breast cancer . Paying to kill yourself a bullet is cheaper. I think I have a life long hate of it and vapers I see as magic dragons puffing out fumes of who knows what. Big dislike is parents doing it around kids and even kids in prams. I would not want a meet with smokers but its rare I get a meet nowadays due to life being chaotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Nay. The smell and taste of smoke permeates throughout a persons entire body.

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By *ndyman 201Man
13 weeks ago

hereford


"Smoking is a disgusting habit and a huge turn off for me.

It baffles me that anyone would choose to make themselves smell horrible, not to mention the harmful effects of smoking.

I agree with you there,vaping is not much better,

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"What does everyone think of smokers? Is it a bother or not too bothered? I smoke socially but since i dont go out much these days, i can say im not a smoker but ill take one if offered.

Also keen to hear from people who have quit but may have had some last long term effects from it from their younger years."

I met with a non smoker a while back…. They were definitely not a non smoker. You can taste it and smell it. I won’t be meeting them again. Just awful.

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By *usty Hotwife 1977Couple
13 weeks ago

Hudds

Not for us thanks.

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By *eralDeviantWoman
13 weeks ago

Hull

I'm a smoker for pain relief and I need to quit for a major health reason.

Anaphylactic to vapes.

But I don't smoke on meets or before. The day of if not a day or two before. I usually fast before a meet and I don't smoke when I'm fasting.

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By *ubzero116Man
13 weeks ago

London

I’ve always found smoking a turn on as weird as it is

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By *iscreetfunin24Man
13 weeks ago

Halesowen

Not a fan unless unless it's someone on top riding me

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
13 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Hated the smell of smokers and most of my family were. Never hugged parents as they smelt of it and in car if they smoked I put my coat over my head and got down on back seat. Dad had lung problems before death, mother breast cancer . Paying to kill yourself a bullet is cheaper. I think I have a life long hate of it and vapers I see as magic dragons puffing out fumes of who knows what. Big dislike is parents doing it around kids and even kids in prams. I would not want a meet with smokers but its rare I get a meet nowadays due to life being chaotic."

Yet your profiles says you will meet smokers 🤣🤣🤣

Amazes us how many men's profiles state they won't meet smokers then change thier minds when they know we smoke. 🤣🤣🤣

Usual excuse is "Oh, I do meet smokers, didn't know I set it as that" 🤣🤣🤣

So many untruths in profiles now

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By *lossie 42Couple
13 weeks ago

Near Andover / Near Prestatyn

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By *tiffycockMan
13 weeks ago

mold


"Hated the smell of smokers and most of my family were. Never hugged parents as they smelt of it and in car if they smoked I put my coat over my head and got down on back seat. Dad had lung problems before death, mother breast cancer . Paying to kill yourself a bullet is cheaper. I think I have a life long hate of it and vapers I see as magic dragons puffing out fumes of who knows what. Big dislike is parents doing it around kids and even kids in prams. I would not want a meet with smokers but its rare I get a meet nowadays due to life being chaotic.

Yet your profiles says you will meet smokers 🤣🤣🤣

Amazes us how many men's profiles state they won't meet smokers then change thier minds when they know we smoke. 🤣🤣🤣

Usual excuse is "Oh, I do meet smokers, didn't know I set it as that" 🤣🤣🤣

So many untruths in profiles now

I didn't even know that was on my profile but will be changing it now you pointed it out. I do not go on my own profile so missed it by mistake.

Thanks for pointing it out.

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By *ustus5555Woman
13 weeks ago

Nottingham


"Hated the smell of smokers and most of my family were. Never hugged parents as they smelt of it and in car if they smoked I put my coat over my head and got down on back seat. Dad had lung problems before death, mother breast cancer . Paying to kill yourself a bullet is cheaper. I think I have a life long hate of it and vapers I see as magic dragons puffing out fumes of who knows what. Big dislike is parents doing it around kids and even kids in prams. I would not want a meet with smokers but its rare I get a meet nowadays due to life being chaotic.

Yet your profiles says you will meet smokers 🤣🤣🤣

Amazes us how many men's profiles state they won't meet smokers then change thier minds when they know we smoke. 🤣🤣🤣

Usual excuse is "Oh, I do meet smokers, didn't know I set it as that" 🤣🤣🤣

So many untruths in profiles now

"

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By *ackformore100Man
13 weeks ago

Tin town


"What does everyone think of smokers? Is it a bother or not too bothered? I smoke socially but since i dont go out much these days, i can say im not a smoker but ill take one if offered.

Also keen to hear from people who have quit but may have had some last long term effects from it from their younger years."

No not for me. But for now it remains a personal choice. A lot of smokers however are pretty disgusting where they dispose of their dog ends and where they choose to smoke.. In front of doorways to pubs and restaurants so you have to enter and exit through a plume of smoke is pretty selfish. If they choose to do it and not impact on non smokers... Good luck to them.

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By *en_Dover79Man
13 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

Horrible stinking habit

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By *irm40Man
13 weeks ago

Birmingham

Women smoking turns me on so much

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By *es_ivebeen_hereb4Man
13 weeks ago

I'm always around here


"What does everyone think of smokers? Is it a bother or not too bothered? I smoke socially but since i dont go out much these days, i can say im not a smoker but ill take one if offered.

Also keen to hear from people who have quit but may have had some last long term effects from it from their younger years."

Having never smoked.....

But have met one or two and I must say the efforts they have gone to have made a difference so depends how deepntheir habit is of smoking.

I think heavy persistent smokers its a no but very light occasional every now and then well... lets see

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By *artorialMan
13 weeks ago

weymouth

I suppose it depends on a: are they doing it in my vicinity

B: will I be expected to snog them

If yes to either then it's a no from me

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By *asualandFeistyCouple
13 weeks ago

Ruislip

Depends on frequency. I don't enjoy being around it, but could tolerate the occasional one.

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By *ornucopiaMan
13 weeks ago

Bexley

So far,this thread really makes me wonder whether the apparent willingness in profiles for non smokers to meet smokers has something more to do with desperation to have sex than much else..

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By *ssexfun4twoCouple
13 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Disgusting habit from an ex 40 a day person

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By *ineapple13Couple
12 weeks ago

Nearby

Not for us either

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By *otstuff77Woman
12 weeks ago

Newtown

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By *otstuff77Woman
12 weeks ago

Newtown

I'm a smoker but always take the upmost care to make sure I'm not smelling or tasting like ash,when meeting. I've met 3 guys off here. All non smokers and I've not had any complaints.

I'll always check out a profile of someone that messages.

I'll reply saying "I'm sorry but I smoke" if they state they won't meet smokers..

Guess how many have said, "Thanks,but no thanks"

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By *dfabMan
12 weeks ago

Dunboyne

40+ years smoking and wishing to get off them for at least 10yrs.

Horrible fuckers and stupidly expensive

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By *otstuff77Woman
12 weeks ago

Newtown


"40+ years smoking and wishing to get off them for at least 10yrs.

Horrible fuckers and stupidly expensive "

Only 10

It's about 20 for me 🙄

But I've decided I'm going on a big fitness mission. IAM GOUNG TO QUIT THIS TIME 💪 Soon 😂

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By *otstuff77Woman
12 weeks ago

Newtown


"40+ years smoking and wishing to get off them for at least 10yrs.

Horrible fuckers and stupidly expensive

Only 10

It's about 20 for me 🙄

But I've decided I'm going on a big fitness mission. IAM GOUNG TO QUIT THIS TIME 💪 Soon 😂"

Excuse the spelling errors 😅

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By *ondiego85Man
12 weeks ago

nottingham

Absolutely no, and I can smell the stale smoke from a mile away. Vapes are not better, especially the stupid flavours. It’s a bit no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Smoked for 25 years, born into a smokers family.

Had to travel abroad and sign in to a clinic for trial medicines to alter cells for some weeks.

100 tablets in 25 days for trials to the US market. It was my only chance.

The meds worked, I haven't smoked for 10 years, can't abide it, and considering I was a lost cause at 44 with the possibility of losing a lung or both at worst and COPD at best, so it was something I knew I had to do or I wouldn't be here today the way I am. I was able to repair my lung health but it was some journey.

I value my health now and take less bullshit.

If you smoke, you smoke. I'm not going to judge, but it wouldn't be something I'd welcome in a partner or in my life again.

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By *ornyrich666Man
12 weeks ago

skelmersdale


"40+ years smoking and wishing to get off them for at least 10yrs.

Horrible fuckers and stupidly expensive

Only 10

It's about 20 for me 🙄

But I've decided I'm going on a big fitness mission. IAM GOUNG TO QUIT THIS TIME 💪 Soon 😂"

Well done for trying to quit, it’s hard, but worth it even though I love sexy women smoking.

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
12 weeks ago

bolton

Definitely a no from us

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chichester

Nope it stinks. Not for me

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By *hristopherd999Man
12 weeks ago

Brentwood

I was a smoker, I gave up 20 years ago, besides anything else I don't know how people can afford it nowadays

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By *ortheastguy99Man
12 weeks ago

Sunderland

I dont but dont mind if someone does, but if comming to mine they cannot smoke inside due to my landlords rules.

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By *inglelady2022Woman
12 weeks ago

inverness

Theres nothing social about smoking imo. It stinks and the smell lingers. I'm baffled as to why people take it up these days now that we are educated on the impact on health

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By *rx1Couple
12 weeks ago

Devon

One of us has never smoked, the other gave up over 20 years ago and has never looked back.

We cant stand the smell of it, especially on peoples clothes.

Each to their own, but it certainly isn't for us

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By *lofeldMan
12 weeks ago

Redhill

Doesn't bother me at all, unless they smell like an ash tray.

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By *oucancallmeAlMan
12 weeks ago

east anglia

Its the stale house smell that gets me and ask for massive no. Dont mind so much if its at a party or club.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Not bothered by people smoking. I quit 4 months ago and can't believe how much money I've now got to spend.

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By *andB130Couple
12 weeks ago

northampton

A big no no for us

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By *uriouscouple105Couple
12 weeks ago

Fife

Big no no for us. Especially mr🤢

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
12 weeks ago

fairy land

I don't like meeting non-smokers

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By *an1978Woman
12 weeks ago

Wales

Definite no.

And no point pretending... We know even if you change your clothes and scrub your teeth.

Even the vapers.

That weird sweet chemical will be coming out of you for longer than you think.

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By *inkyfuncouple69Couple
12 weeks ago

travels around.

Its a no from us too.

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By *ezandyCouple
12 weeks ago

chester

Sadly no, ex smoker for over 10 years and I cant stand the smell of it

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By *shford_5Man
12 weeks ago

Ashford

Massive turn on sometimes, either going down as they smoke or their smoky lips on me. Had one very exciting time once with an, chatting to her father on phone and while listening sucking me in between drags and sips of wine.

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By *ilfandmr2.0Couple
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

Yes we like it

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By *onin25Man
12 weeks ago

Durham

It depends on how much the smoker smokes for me and when they do it. Someone who smokes a little but not while they're with you unless outside is fine, a chain smoker who wants to smoke almost constantly while you're together, particularly indoors is not.

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By *evonrobMan
12 weeks ago

Kingsbridge


"As a smoker, totally no offence taken if rejected because of that. It is a rotten habit!

I do always carry perfume, mints etc in my handbag as I am aware of how bad it is "

My best sex ever was with a smoker but it would still be my preference for a non-smoker. Having said that I’d find it very hard to take offence to you!!

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By *illowendMan
12 weeks ago

Southwold

Repulsive

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By *rincessfuckerMan
12 weeks ago

all about Emids

If the sexy slag is smoking whilst riding, sucking, wanking me then hell yeah!

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By *ikeExMan
12 weeks ago

Near Alfreton, Derbyshire

Not for me..

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By *yr 48Man
12 weeks ago

ayrshire

Definitely no

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By *arleycplWoman
12 weeks ago

Frodsham

Not for me, pubs and other places are much nicer to be in not there's not the stench of tabbaco

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
12 weeks ago

Barnsley

It's a definite no, we don't meet smokers

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By *ssex-coupleCouple
12 weeks ago

clacton on sea

Smokers breath is a bit much for us personally but each to their own. Life is stressful so if you’ve got to smoke then smoke lol

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By *ornucopiaMan
12 weeks ago

Bexley


"Not for me, pubs and other places are much nicer to be in not there's not the stench of tabbaco "

Except that pub gardens are no longer pleasant to visit because the smokers have been driven out of doors.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
12 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"Not for me, pubs and other places are much nicer to be in not there's not the stench of tabbaco

Except that pub gardens are no longer pleasant to visit because the smokers have been driven out of doors. "

Yes and the ones who stand right by the front doors so you have no choice but to walk past them and inhale their smoke, I try and hold my breath but it’s not always easy. I find it very rude.

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By *ornucopiaMan
12 weeks ago

Bexley


"Not for me, pubs and other places are much nicer to be in not there's not the stench of tabbaco

Except that pub gardens are no longer pleasant to visit because the smokers have been driven out of doors.

Yes and the ones who stand right by the front doors so you have no choice but to walk past them and inhale their smoke, I try and hold my breath but it’s not always easy. I find it very rude. "

If they are not going to be considerate to their own body why would they be considerate towards you or me?

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By *lexxx65Couple
12 weeks ago

Newport. IOW.

No

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Disgusting. Even vaping.

I remember quitting 28yrs ago when serving in the Falklands. Blokes were like 'its cheap, why give up?'

Duh.

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By *hisIsMe58Man
12 weeks ago

Winchester

I don't smoke and glad I don't smoke. How do people afford it these days?

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By *izandpaulCouple
12 weeks ago

merseyside

Not for us thanks.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Nope. Smokers go nose blind to the smell, while stinking like ashtrays to everyone else.

Not for us. 🚭

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By *aulupforitMan
12 weeks ago

Corbridge

Nope,Have COPD because of smokers and was on a packet of lockets a day when running pubs,cafes etc and best thing they did was ban it.I was about to leave my job because of it until the government banned smoking.One smoker told me to find another job if I did not like peeps smoking.

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By *mizhereMan
12 weeks ago

thame ans surrounds

As an ex smoker - long time stopped - I'm not a fan.

Maybe I'm over sensitive but can taste it when kissing and oral

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By *lofeldMan
12 weeks ago

Redhill

Doesn't especially bother me, unless they smell like an ash tray.

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By *onnie 90Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"In terms of Fab, if someone lies on their profile and it is clear that they smoke- I can tell from a mile away, it is a giarantee that it will never go anywhere with me. And will probably end the social as the smell is the most disgusting thing on earth for me. "

This.

I've been accused of being a timewaster when a "non smoker" turns up absolutely reeking of smoke (sometimes too) and I cancel. They should learn that honesty is the best policy. Mint and stale cigarette smoke is such a foul odour.

So, as people will have guessed, I won't meet smokers and I've never been in a relationship with one either. Of course, it's entirely up to others what they do with their lives (and to their health). But I don't want it anywhere near me.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

I don't smoke but I do like the occasional spliff with sex ,so I don't mind meeting smokers as long as they are not chain smokers and blow it all over me I am fine with it. Mx 😈

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By *naswingdressWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nay.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
12 weeks ago

Ipswich

Was a 25 day not any more due to health

Changed to vape to try give up permanently

Wouldn’t mind if someone smoked or vaped or not at all

Horses for courses as they say

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By *ittylover123Man
12 weeks ago

donegal

Yay for sum nay for others like everything else.

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By *nSTemptations11Couple
12 weeks ago

lincs

Not goin for them heavy chain smokers

We don’t smoke and we only vape if we’re drinking. So if we met someone who had one or two whilst out or were caping we’re good with that! Just don’t want to be having to stop conversation (or physical) because Smokey joe is coughing up a lung !

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By *eveninchguyMan
12 weeks ago

mids

gross ,not for me

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By *EAT..85Woman
12 weeks ago

Nottingham

I've dated a couple of smokers, they've been very considerate and limited their smoking around me and always have chewing gum to hand. I would actively avoid people with smoking listed on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Don't smoke but smokers are quite sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Lot of preaching and lecturing, lot of ex-smokers climbing on high horses.

I've smoked on and off since I was 14, stopped a few times (never felt the need to lecture anyone who smoked though) then started again.

Someone above said its antisocial. Bollocks is it, they've obviously never sat with a group of friends drinking and smoking whilst putting the world to rights.

I smoke, I drink, I eat fatty foods. Am I shortening my life...maybe, but thats my choice and no-one has the right to lecture me otherwise.

At least however long I live it'll be doing things that I enjoy. Dont care if you dont like them, its my life.

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By *r_Tickle_OGMan
12 weeks ago

Stafford

I don't like the smoke or the smell on clothes, but used to love kissing my ex after she'd had a cigarette.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

East Lincs

It’s not for us.

There should be a section about vapers too as the amount of non smokers who vape is not right! They consider themselves non smokers but if anything they are worse than a smoker.

They constantly hold the vape and take a drag on it every 30 seconds and then you are in a cloud of flavoured scent.

They also think vaping is allowed indoors too 😱

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By *onnie 90Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"Lot of preaching and lecturing, lot of ex-smokers climbing on high horses.

I've smoked on and off since I was 14, stopped a few times (never felt the need to lecture anyone who smoked though) then started again.

Someone above said its antisocial. Bollocks is it, they've obviously never sat with a group of friends drinking and smoking whilst putting the world to rights.

I smoke, I drink, I eat fatty foods. Am I shortening my life...maybe, but thats my choice and no-one has the right to lecture me otherwise.

At least however long I live it'll be doing things that I enjoy. Dont care if you dont like them, its my life."

Opinions and personal preferences aren't "preaching and lecturing". But I am sorry if these things offend you.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

East Lincs


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Amazes us how many men's profiles state they won't meet smokers then change thier minds when they know we smoke. 🤣🤣🤣

Usual excuse is "Oh, I do meet smokers, didn't know I set it as that" 🤣🤣🤣

So many untruths in profiles now

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Also amazing how many guys have just quit recently and forget to change their profile, when we say we won’t meet smokers

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By *mmakinkycdTV/TS
12 weeks ago

South Birmingham

I love to smoke when I’m dressed. Really turns me on but don’t really bother at other times

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

I refuse to meet a Lådy if she smokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

As a smoker , I totally understand why people wouldn’t want to meet, also how many people message us and clearly haven’t read profile that says me (f) is a smoker and they have in bold they won’t meet smokers.

I do like to let people know just in case they don’t care and then it’s their choice.

My partner is a non smoker and I’m very aware/continuous so carry mints, perfume and am not a chain smoker, so far none of the non smokers have complained XXX

If we all liked or wanted the same life would be boring .

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Ryde

Read a few depressing articles which show that cigarettes are now being embraced by Gen-Z, with the "outsider appeal" hitting the right notes with them. It seems vaping is passé, and that the cool, film-noir vibe is in.

It's even spawned the bloody awful label "Cigfluencers" for those really pushing the habit on social media.

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By *ane Doe1000Woman
12 weeks ago

Bedford

I’m a smoker and it’s on my bio - if I get a message from a Won’t meet smokers I message them that I am - mostly they say they are fine with it !!

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By *onnie 90Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"

Amazes us how many men's profiles state they won't meet smokers then change thier minds when they know we smoke. 🤣🤣🤣

Usual excuse is "Oh, I do meet smokers, didn't know I set it as that" 🤣🤣🤣

So many untruths in profiles now

Also amazing how many guys have just quit recently and forget to change their profile, when we say we won’t meet smokers "

I get that all the time. It's like yeah yeah, of course you have.

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By *ricksydemonMan
11 weeks ago

llandudno

I have a smoking fetish AND smoking helps me relax.

I wont smoke on a meet or before a meet if im meeting a non smoker. But like u say the amount of profiles that say smoker and wont meet smokers. Or vice versa

If i message they always say oh i didnt know. Must have clicked by accident.

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By *ricksydemonMan
11 weeks ago

llandudno


"Yes we like it "

Then why are you both listed as non smokers?

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
11 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

It's a no from me.

Not only do I hate the smell and taste of smokers (and despite what some say, just 'not smoking before a meet' does NOT stop the lingering aroma and taste), it's the unsociable aspect of a smoker having to step outside whilst I'm left inside on my own. It's different in a group, but has a huge impact on a 1-1 basis.

So the unsociable aspect and the smell/taste means I'm not willing to meet smokers (and I include vapers in the same bracket).

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By *007ManMan
11 weeks ago

Worthing

If she smokes, I'll slow down.

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By *alibra57Man
11 weeks ago

Southampton

The sight of a sexy women red nails red lipstick is such a turn on for me. But cannot stand the smell and taste. So i guess i will just have to look at you sexy smokers on video and pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

No not for me …

However .. I have to say I love the smell of cigar smoke

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By *uriousKouplingCouple
11 weeks ago

Rushden

I personally can't stand it but the Mrs only has the odd one when we're out, socialising.

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By *uriousKouplingCouple
11 weeks ago

Rushden

As a non smoker I do actually prefer the smell of cigars

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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11 weeks ago

Central

I like seeing some men smoke.

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By *ornyrich666Man
11 weeks ago

skelmersdale


"I personally can't stand it but the Mrs only has the odd one when we're out, socialising. "

Ex smoker, but do love watching sexy women smoke!!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

A guy I fancy smoking....hot!

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
11 weeks ago

belfast

In the old days it never bothered me. Now fucking hate smokers. The stench is revolting.

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By *hristopherd999Man
11 weeks ago

Brentwood

I gave up smoking 25 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I’ve been quit 20 years and the Mrs quit 6 months ago nearly.

I dislike the smell, we do meet smokers but most of our meets are cum and go. Prefer non smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Massive no from me. Probably my number one turn off.

Each to their own however

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By *inWithLZCouple
11 weeks ago

Bradford

Couldn't care less if you do or don't as long as you don't stink like stale smoke.

I vape and the Mrs doesn't. If someone doesn't like it. Sounds like a them problem. 😁

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By *ornyrich666Man
11 weeks ago

skelmersdale


"A guy I fancy smoking....hot! "

Given your profile text, is that a small hint of sarcasm??

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By *ornucopiaMan
10 weeks ago

Bexley

One thing which really bugs me about smokers is the multitude of them who don't regard smoking related debris as being litter, particularly via their car window. Not just butts but also, frequently, packaging.

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By *ustdee12Woman
10 weeks ago

Chester

Not for me nor the smell

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By *LINCSLOVERMan
10 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I have never smoked

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By *hams123Man
10 weeks ago

London

Never smoked. Not for me. I don't like the smell. Most of my uncles smoked around me when I was younger. I'm not a fan of vaping either. Each to their own. As long as it's not in my face I don't mind it.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

It’s all good as long as you don’t inhale Miss Monica lewinsky

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By *he MinionMan
10 weeks ago

.

What Shams said really except i am an ex smoker. I'll meet smokers, i'll meet non smokers.

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By *inkShyWoman
10 weeks ago

near Windsor

Absolutely detest it. The smell is revolting. If someone turned up to a meet obviously a smoker, I'd leave 🤷🏼‍♀️

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By *inky_RagnarCouple
10 weeks ago

Peterborough

420

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
10 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"420 "

Even worse than normal smoke it absolutely stinks and you can smell it from quite far away! It would be an instant turn off and a no from us.

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By *inkydarkness90Man
10 weeks ago

North West

Not for me I'm afraid

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By *rincessfuckerMan
8 weeks ago

all about Emids

Love a smoking seductress, height of arousal for me

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By *ub_BDSM_GirlWoman
8 weeks ago

Wirral

Good question, I think for the meets that are planned for me, smoking is not a preference, but as eating cum is not a thing, I don't have to deal with the bitter, pungent, sour, or like stale cigarettes taste.

Plus I avoid the kissing so never need to run my tongue along the inside of an ash tray.

Vaping has just become the new sucking a dummy oral fixation, each to their own but I would like to avoid 'popcorn lung' lol

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By *orcsmatMan
8 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Dirty, smelly, deadly. Don't want it anywhere near me.

I'll suck a smoker's cock but I ask for them not to have indulged for at least 20 minutes.

Vaping equally as bad. If you think that's safe, think again. I cannot believe that passing a solvent over a heated element does not produce carcinogens. Only time will show.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
8 weeks ago

andover

Personally we enjoy lots of kissing while playing, but don’t enjoy the taste of a smoker, so we wouldn’t meet to play, but a vapour does have that smell or taste so it wouldn’t bother us.

It would be good if fab had the “I would meet Vapor’s” option as well

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By *ray_BTWMan
8 weeks ago

Worcester


"It’s a no from me to both smokers and vapers who in my opinion are the same "

Ditto

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By *napologeticallyUS55Couple
8 weeks ago

Ipswich

No smoking for us but we don’t mind vapes. X

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By *estinysswingersCouple
8 weeks ago

Worsley

Absolutely disgusting.

Smells bad. Makes you took at least ten year older.

Not to mention half of all smokers will die from a smoking related disease.

Also OP. You’re a smoker if you take one if offered.

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By *ornucopiaMan
8 weeks ago

Bexley

Both smoking and vaping, besides being addictive, encourage mouth breathing, which is not a very clever idea.

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By *onko the SaneMan
8 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I only smoke when I'm on fire

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By *ornyguy666Man
8 weeks ago

Nottingham


"What does everyone think of smokers? Is it a bother or not too bothered? I smoke socially but since i dont go out much these days, i can say im not a smoker but ill take one if offered.

Also keen to hear from people who have quit but may have had some last long term effects from it from their younger years."

don't mind meeting smokers Is there choice they want to smoke long as they don't smoke when we meeting i am good

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I won't meet them. Kissing a smoker is just horrible.

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By *rumfellaukMan
8 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield, Birmingham

Don't mind a bit of 420, but other than that I don't smoke cigarettes anymore. Mostly vape. There's nothing worse than fag ash lil breath though. If I'm meeting someone, kissing is off agenda completely if they’re smoking

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never smoked for the same reasons that I've never tasted alcohol.

Just never appealed to me and possibly because all my friends smoked and drank I always tended to do my own thing.

My parents were not strict and didn't influence my decision not to drink but my mum always advised against smoking even though my dad was a heavy smoker.

Smoking and a poor diet ended his life at a young age so I have never been keen on it at all.

What others do is none of my business but I wouldn't be compatible with anyone who needed it.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
8 weeks ago

Chatham

To each there own.

But I won't meet smokers the smell makes me feel sick.

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