FabSwingers.com forum: Do some men genuinly like humiliation due to their cock size?

By *errywild OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Close, watch your back!

I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.

So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman?

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By *olfiMan
13 weeks ago

Leeds

There are some people that enjoy it.

Personally it's not for me, I spent enough of my life hating my size and as a by product hating myself because of it.

I can't imagine getting turned on by somebody taking the piss out of it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Some people just genuinely like humiliation. Regardless of their actual physical attributes.

I remember coming across a sub at an event who had SPH on his wants list, but also a cock like a well endowed horse 💜

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By *tlanshiaWoman
13 weeks ago

Chatham

Yes some men really enjoy it.

I'm sure that's why some send unsolicited pics hoping to annoy you into being mean.

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

Some men genuinely enjoy it. If that's their vibe then good luck to them.

Personally, I wouldn't be impressed if a woman made a contemptuous remark about my penis. That's never happened - the women I meet know better.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Some men genuinely enjoy it. If that's their vibe then good luck to them.

Personally, I wouldn't be impressed if a woman made a contemptuous remark about my penis. That's never happened - the women I meet know better."

This is also why I only meet women with tiny hands.👐

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By *eyeYCouple
13 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Not for us (as his is pretty good 😕) but no judgement here if others get something from it 👍😘

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By *avexxMan
13 weeks ago

cheshire

"Some men genuinely enjoy it. If that's their vibe then good luck to them.

Personally, I wouldn't be impressed if a woman made a contemptuous remark about my penis. That's never happened - the women I meet know better.

This is also why I only meet women with tiny hands.👐"

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By *ools and the brainCouple
13 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.

So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman?"

I have a recurring nightmare that I'm naked in a public place with lots of people pointing and laughing at me.

It's a genuine thing thati can't think of too many things that would traumatise me more.

I am genuinely embarrassed by mine and if that happened as you described I can't see me ever getting naked in front of anyone ever again.

Even though we have been together for 40 years I still get embarrassed taking my clothes off in front of Jools.

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By *orphia2003Woman
13 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

It's actually quite a common fetish. I've been asked numerous times to participate in SPH over the years.

Very rarely oblige as it's not really my thing, and when I do, it's not the sort of humiliation they are seeking. I've found the best way to humiliate someone who is trying to draw focus onto Thier cock is to remove it from the equation, by refusing to acknowledge it.

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By *assysaz40Man
13 weeks ago

chorley

I love it

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By *vaRoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Not my kink but yeah lots of guys enjoy it and it really doesn’t seem remotely relevant what size they’re packing. I’ve had messages from guys really hung as well as those more modestly endowed.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
13 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Surely it takes two. I could not humiliate anyone. Not even if he enjoyed it and asked for it.

So.... im assuming that the humiliator has to enjoy that also ... it would bother me psychologically to demean another deliberately and to go further, I know it changes the humiliator.

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By *ife NinjaMan
13 weeks ago

Dunfermline

It's not my idea of a great time 🤓🥷

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By *aitonelMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

Is it really all that unusual?

In a world that people love to put their mouths in areas where shit and piss come from (and some even enjoy the extremes of that - no judgement, you do you) is humiliation on any level really all that unusual?

Some people get highly sexually aroused from pain, fear, being in controlled danger (some even being in genuine danger), helplessness, servitude etc the list goes on.

Do I understand how or why it makes them enjoy it? Not really, but nothing surprises me anymore.

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By *ouble gerraldMan
13 weeks ago

hull

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By *errywild OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Close, watch your back!

I just find it interesting, psychologically. Also it would be interesting to know if there are women who enjoy being told in this kind of disrespectful way they have small breasts, big ass, flappy lips etc

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By *ouble gerraldMan
13 weeks ago

hull

I like to wear women's lingerie, stocking, whatever I can get my hands on really, and one of my fantasies is to be watched in person or on cam wanking while the woman verbally abuses me, taking the piss out of my dick size and whatever else she may think of,I know its not that small, I know im not weird or a freak but I'd like to try the humiliation, just like I'd like to try other fetish's

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By *aitonelMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I just find it interesting, psychologically. Also it would be interesting to know if there are women who enjoy being told in this kind of disrespectful way they have small breasts, big ass, flappy lips etc"

Yes there are women that enjoy it. Likely less, and most definitely not as vocal about it but they exist.

Women as a whole compared to men are less open and forward about revealing the extremes of their fetishes and kinks - not all men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

When you got a small d you can either laugh or cry haha making it a fetish seems to be the laugh option at least lol

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Compliments are my turn on even though I’m self aware enough to know that the person is just being kind..

And far too self conscious about things that I would enjoy having negative/ humiliating messages from someone 🙃

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
13 weeks ago

Niche

Humiliation or degradation is as hard a no as I could ever give.

As much as I understand how the brain can be wired to take pleasure from the experience, that is not how I am wired.

Anyone who dishes that out is not someone I would want to know.

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By *a LunaWoman
13 weeks ago

Wales

Some folk have a praise kink so I suppose there are those that like the opposite of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Humiliation or degradation is as hard a no as I could ever give.

As much as I understand how the brain can be wired to take pleasure from the experience, that is not how I am wired.

Anyone who dishes that out is not someone I would want to know."

💯💯💯

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By *otwifeMancCoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I love it, hence why wifey goes for well hung men

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

i’d be devastated

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By *atiekisskissWoman
11 weeks ago

London

My husband did when we were a cuckold couple.

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By *b1980Man
11 weeks ago

Burnley

I would love to humiliated, better hearing someone fuck wife better than I can

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By *ig for your wifeMan
11 weeks ago

Bicester

Happy to play very hung dominant bull

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By *angermeatMan
8 weeks ago

merthyr

I absolutely adore it 😊

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By *reya73Woman
8 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

Humiliation is fascinating .. I think it can be a way of shedding all responsibility for the person being humiliated, a relief from having to achieve anything and being allowed to be absolutely useless and not needed or wanted.

People I've played power dynamics with and cock humiliation have often been people with big responsibilities or high pressure jobs in life. Enjoy fully surrendering

It's a creative, pleasurable ritual way to take back control over past traumas for some.

Being so vulnerable can bring deep intimacy and trust too.

Psychology of kink is quite interesting.

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By *ound1Man
8 weeks ago

Blackpool

Horses for courses I suppose

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By *ara25xWoman
8 weeks ago

Angus

Well I get get asked daily to abuse them cause size etc so they must get off on it

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By *ornyguy666Man
8 weeks ago

Nottingham

Sadly with my tiny 6 inch cock get lots of laughs

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By *inky PerkyCouple
8 weeks ago

Narnia

Absolutely they do. It's a power exchange kink and definitely not for everyone but it's something that Mr P buzzes on. If I have a partner with a bigger cock, I'll hold both in my hands and make a big deal about comparing them 😈. It's on our video to-do list.

As with any kink, it's all about consent and communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I know I’m small, I stopped producing hormones after radiation treatment due to cancer. So went a long time without testosterone and other hormones, it left me vulnerable to illness and also the lack of testosterone began to shrink my cock, I didn’t have a sex drive either it took me 4 years to diagnose me.

I was married at the time and we agreed my wife could have sex with other men to satisfy her sexual needs but stay with me. I was 6.5 inches before cancer and now much smaller

After seeing an endocrinologist consultant, I was able to take tablets and injection to replace the hormones I couldn’t produce naturally as the radiation treatment had stopped my pituitary gland working.

We began having sex again but i couldn’t feel her when i was inside her, also cum with her wanking and blow jobs, until she read 50 shades of grey and we started anal. My ex wife would comment on my size which I began to enjoy as she compared me to some of the men she had slept with.

I’ve been dealt a bad hand but I’m making the most of it now, I don’t get any complaints about the performance I give , don’t mind a woman joking about my size either. Good lilucknto everyone

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By *ungkinkyMan
8 weeks ago

Northwest

Some men do.

More often as part of a cuck scenario where a hung bull is invited to impose further humiliation as the size contrast is further exaggerated.

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By *ogerroger69Man
8 weeks ago

West Yorks

I love it in and welcome and messages x

Humiliation is such a release x

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By *vonne5exMan
8 weeks ago

Doncaster

"I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.

So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman?"
obviously a mental state possibly from incidents in childhood

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
8 weeks ago

Kingswood

"I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.

So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman?"

I’ve enjoyed some forms of humiliation but my cock isn’t small enough for this type of humiliation

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By *each needs some creamWoman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

SPH Small Penis Humiliation looking up in the forum search.

There are a lot of men that do enjoy it

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By *ewLife65Man
8 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Absolutely. I’ve met women who say awful things ti their husbands when I’m with them. I’ve seen men in tears. Wasn’t for me.

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
8 weeks ago

Northumberland

I dont think it would work with me, im either going to laugh, or im to witty and gobby not to give it back

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By *isswhoreTV/TS
8 weeks ago

ELLESMERE PORT

Yes I do but I am cuckold x

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By *oni AMan
6 weeks ago

Warrington

Yes, I love it, very arousing being ridiculed for my cock size x

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By *andlerMan
6 weeks ago

harrogate

Amongst men there has always been bravado about having a big one!

We make more of it than women are probably bothered about!

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By *wodoswingCouple
6 weeks ago

swindon

My wife has a preference for bigger cocked men and often states this. I Find the fact that she clearly finds my efforts and cock size unsatifactory a big turn, especially during a meet. So I love it .

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By *huntMan
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

I can definitely enjoy it being a smaller guy. 4 inches here.

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
3 weeks ago

Shefford

Mines tiny and yes I do love a bit of SPH

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By *atch0101Man
3 weeks ago

The wrong place

I find it rather weird.

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By *ifesfunCouple
3 weeks ago

North London

We enjoy it but we have been together a long time and its very much role play cuck fun

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By *apua New GuineaMan
3 weeks ago

nearby

Good question op, does it also cause the little nipper to grow, hence rendering the comment void?

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By *intageandginge89Couple
2 weeks ago

Whitefield

Hubby likes to be humiliated for having ginger pubes…. lol x

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By *lueEyeKinksterMan
2 weeks ago

Stratford on Avon

A few years ago, my then mistress told me, a bigger guy was interested in her. Did I mind being the one who would wear the condom going forwards.

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By *endywenchTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Gorseinon

I have a 4 inch sissy cock and know my place often told I'm a sissy who deserves to be used by men and women for their pleasure not mine.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

For the record I am not a naturally mean or dominant person - TheHusband does like a bit of humiliation, nothing too full on... I'll cage him up when I go to see TheBF, when I come home I'll make him clean me up, Ill tell him about the size of TheBF

.... And TheHusband loves it 😈

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
2 weeks ago

rochdale

"It's actually quite a common fetish. I've been asked numerous times to participate in SPH over the years.

As someone who is caged, that would be my ideal!

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By *evonspankMan
2 weeks ago

Tiverton

My wife sometimes mentioned the size of my cock, just thought it was a bit of fun until, one day, I overheard her laughing about it when talking to her sister. I felt physically sick.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
2 weeks ago

rochdale

"My wife sometimes mentioned the size of my cock, just thought it was a bit of fun until, one day, I overheard her laughing about it when talking to her sister. I felt physically sick."

SPH is something my partner & I play with, especially when she arranges a meet for me. She'll tell my how small my cock is & why I need the real thing.

It's a game we play that took some confirmation from me because she was worried about hurting me.

Afterwards she will reassure me.

I can't imagine how you felt overhearing such words, SPH is purely between consenting adults in a role play situation.

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By *ash0000Man
2 weeks ago

Southwest

Love this scenario and game play especially when there is a bit of truth in there somewhere

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By *ykinkyCouple
2 weeks ago

cleethorpes

Paul loves to be by me and bulls

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