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"I've always thought that part time work favoured employers...so I am surprised at the comment....I might be mis-informed! " I find it a dismaying point - women again slagging off other women - basically. Jeez. | |||
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"The Daily Fail being misogynistic? Surely not!! We need more female doctors, seeing as male doctors have decided to wash their hands of female contraception and similar. Being told by a male doctor who has gone through the exact same training as a female doctor that he couldn't help with mine and my daughters menstruation problems was one of the more perplexing visits to my surgery I've had. " I love the Dail Wail - like to see what the enemy has to say! I read it along with a lot of other papers, daily, if I can. Really interesting to see different viewpoints to the same stories. | |||
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"In what way is this placing a burden on the NHS? Did the article say? How strange, but some newspapers like to blame every problem on one of three groups women, immigrants and homosexuals." It's in today's Mail Online - I can't post the link though. | |||
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"What century does this dinosaur live in??? " It's the Health Minister Anna Soubry and she was backed up by another Tory MP, Anne McIntosh. | |||
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"Took this from the start of an article in the Daily Wail....." Sorry you lost me the moment you mentioned the source of your story. What utter idiots work at that stale rag passing itself as a "NEWS"paper Women have proven time and time again that they are just as capable as men in the world of work and if anything they have shown themselves to be better than their male counterparts at times. I thought the NHS and many other public and private sector employers allowed flexible working so whats the point of the article | |||
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"i like being able to see a female doctor sometimes but i think if they are going to keep getting pregnant and taking time off because of their kids then they shouldnt become doctors. " Men do - so why can't women? Simply because, due to their biology, many women need to take more time, they should not be penalised for it. This is the type of thinking we have been fighting for more than 200 years! And now, here we are, in the 21st century with other WOMEN saying what men have been doing for all that time as a means to keep us 'in our place'. | |||
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"Took this from the start of an article in the Daily Wail..... Sorry you lost me the moment you mentioned the source of your story. What utter idiots work at that stale rag passing itself as a "NEWS"paper Women have proven time and time again that they are just as capable as men in the world of work and if anything they have shown themselves to be better than their male counterparts at times. I thought the NHS and many other public and private sector employers allowed flexible working so whats the point of the article " I read the Mail along with a lot of other papers - it does not mean that I agree with what is written. | |||
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"Hmmmm . . . let me see . . . if a man says it, he's an ignorant dinosaur, living in the 12th century. If a woman says it, she should be ashamed but let's blame the paper for what printing what she said. Or maybe we should try to understand what she meant - maybe she was simply airing an inconvenient truth that the NHS is better served by male doctors than female ones. Perhaps she meant because female doctors take more time off because of their kids, or because they are less flexible, or do less overtime, or bring their relationship problems to work more than men do, are actually more likely to make medical mistakes, or who-knows-what . . . I'm not a minister, and therefore don't have access to the information. You probably don't either. Stop carping and get back to those dishes " I didn't call anyone a dinosaur and actually am criticising these women. | |||
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"Hmmmm . . . let me see . . . if a man says it, he's an ignorant dinosaur, living in the 12th century. If a woman says it, she should be ashamed but let's blame the paper for what printing what she said. Or maybe we should try to understand what she meant - maybe she was simply airing an inconvenient truth that the NHS is better served by male doctors than female ones. Perhaps she meant because female doctors take more time off because of their kids, or because they are less flexible, or do less overtime, or bring their relationship problems to work more than men do, are actually more likely to make medical mistakes, or who-knows-what . . . I'm not a minister, and therefore don't have access to the information. You probably don't either. Stop carping and get back to those dishes " | |||
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"I didn't call anyone a dinosaur and actually am criticising these women." I was criticising you or anyone else in particular - I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, and that yelling "we're all equal" from the rooftops doesn't actually make us all equal. I will never make an olympic sprinter even though I've as much right as anyone to try to become one. Same with doctoring - for whatever reason, maybe the simple fact is that women doctors are less efficient tools than male doctors. No offence intended to you or to anyone. | |||
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"i like being able to see a female doctor sometimes but i think if they are going to keep getting pregnant and taking time off because of their kids then they shouldnt become doctors. " How can they possibly know when they opt for medicine as a career that they are going to be taking a lot of time off due to children that aren't even conceived yet? | |||
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"I didn't call anyone a dinosaur and actually am criticising these women. I was criticising you or anyone else in particular - I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, and that yelling "we're all equal" from the rooftops doesn't actually make us all equal. I will never make an olympic sprinter even though I've as much right as anyone to try to become one. Same with doctoring - for whatever reason, maybe the simple fact is that women doctors are less efficient tools than male doctors. No offence intended to you or to anyone." Sorry - completely and utterly disagree. What evidence do you have that men make better doctors? Absolute nonsense. In fact, if we decided to go back and stop women becoming doctors (and so wipe out nearly 100 years of female struggle and emancipation) then what would we do for doctors as 70% of trainees are FEMALE! | |||
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"Took this from the start of an article in the Daily Wail..... Sorry you lost me the moment you mentioned the source of your story. What utter idiots work at that stale rag passing itself as a "NEWS"paper Women have proven time and time again that they are just as capable as men in the world of work and if anything they have shown themselves to be better than their male counterparts at times. I thought the NHS and many other public and private sector employers allowed flexible working so whats the point of the article I read the Mail along with a lot of other papers - it does not mean that I agree with what is written." No reading the Mail & agreeing with them are 2 totally different things & I'm not saying you do It is however nice to see someone with a similar approach to newspapers as mine, read all of them, see what they have to say and then make your own opinion based in getting the whole picture and not just a one sided view | |||
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"Took this from the start of an article in the Daily Wail..... Sorry you lost me the moment you mentioned the source of your story. What utter idiots work at that stale rag passing itself as a "NEWS"paper Women have proven time and time again that they are just as capable as men in the world of work and if anything they have shown themselves to be better than their male counterparts at times. I thought the NHS and many other public and private sector employers allowed flexible working so whats the point of the article I read the Mail along with a lot of other papers - it does not mean that I agree with what is written. No reading the Mail & agreeing with them are 2 totally different things & I'm not saying you do It is however nice to see someone with a similar approach to newspapers as mine, read all of them, see what they have to say and then make your own opinion based in getting the whole picture and not just a one sided view " I like reading the Telegraph and Independent too. I try to read them all but don't always have the time. | |||
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"i like being able to see a female doctor sometimes but i think if they are going to keep getting pregnant and taking time off because of their kids then they shouldnt become doctors. How can they possibly know when they opt for medicine as a career that they are going to be taking a lot of time off due to children that aren't even conceived yet? " | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa," Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all." I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated. | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated." That's just an opinion. There is no evidence to prove such a thing. I know a number of doctors, male and female, and I assure you they are equally able to keep their mind on the job. | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated." Why? Having kids does not mean you're not dedicated to your job. | |||
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"i like being able to see a female doctor sometimes but i think if they are going to keep getting pregnant and taking time off because of their kids then they shouldnt become doctors. How can they possibly know when they opt for medicine as a career that they are going to be taking a lot of time off due to children that aren't even conceived yet? " Thats what they all do though, so they shouldnt become doctors. | |||
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"i like being able to see a female doctor sometimes but i think if they are going to keep getting pregnant and taking time off because of their kids then they shouldnt become doctors. How can they possibly know when they opt for medicine as a career that they are going to be taking a lot of time off due to children that aren't even conceived yet? Thats what they all do though, so they shouldnt become doctors." now I know you're not being serious. | |||
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"Took this from the start of an article in the Daily Wail..... Sorry you lost me the moment you mentioned the source of your story. What utter idiots work at that stale rag passing itself as a "NEWS"paper Women have proven time and time again that they are just as capable as men in the world of work and if anything they have shown themselves to be better than their male counterparts at times. I thought the NHS and many other public and private sector employers allowed flexible working so whats the point of the article I read the Mail along with a lot of other papers - it does not mean that I agree with what is written. No reading the Mail & agreeing with them are 2 totally different things & I'm not saying you do It is however nice to see someone with a similar approach to newspapers as mine, read all of them, see what they have to say and then make your own opinion based in getting the whole picture and not just a one sided view I like reading the Telegraph and Independent too. I try to read them all but don't always have the time." | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated." It's true women are always thinking about what to make their husbands for tea, whether or not they can afford a new hat its a miracle they can even make it to the surgery some mornings for worrying about what colour nail varnish to wear. | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated. Why? Having kids does not mean you're not dedicated to your job." you cant be that dedicated not to be taking time off work all the time. | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated. Why? Having kids does not mean you're not dedicated to your job. you cant be that dedicated not to be taking time off work all the time." Who says they are taking time off all the time?????? | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated." As a man, whos worked in various professions i can assure you we don't always have our mind on the job & we aren't anymore dedicated than women. In my current job my biggest "competition" the one person who can keep up with my work pace & productivity, who's just as calm & quick to resolve problems under pressure is a female & not a male & she is quite possibly the best person i've ever worked with | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated. Why? Having kids does not mean you're not dedicated to your job. you cant be that dedicated not to be taking time off work all the time." No one says that they take time off all the time, all that has been said is that they want to work part time. There is a huge difference between being absent during contracted hours and working part time. | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated. It's true women are always thinking about what to make their husbands for tea, whether or not they can afford a new hat its a miracle they can even make it to the surgery some mornings for worrying about what colour nail varnish to wear." | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated. Why? Having kids does not mean you're not dedicated to your job. you cant be that dedicated not to be taking time off work all the time." Oh dear. So any woman who has a child is not dedicated to her job? That's quite insulting to a huge number of women. And what about men who have children? They don't care about their kids? | |||
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"I just happen to think that it is perfectly reasonable for men to be better than women at some things, & vice versa, Why is it perfectly reasonable? Men and women are actually very similar. There's no reason to believe men make better doctors at all. I dont think that men make better doctors, but men are more likely to have their mind on the job and be more dedicated. Why? Having kids does not mean you're not dedicated to your job. you cant be that dedicated not to be taking time off work all the time. Oh dear. So any woman who has a child is not dedicated to her job? That's quite insulting to a huge number of women. And what about men who have children? They don't care about their kids? " Nice! | |||
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"The NHS doesn't pay for them to go through medical school does it anyway? " I think you'll find that (despite student fees) the government contributes a considerable sum to every degree course, and (presumably) more to a medical degree than to most other courses given its duration. We fund the Government, we fund the NHS - is there a difference. As for attributing a value to experience, that cuts all ways - men with kids, women with kids, those without kids, and so forth. Does lack of life experiences make a new doctor a bad doctor ? I don't think so. To be honest, I imagine that the full repertoire of quantifiable & unquantifiable factors would be considered when considering the relative merits of men/women/dogs/horses within the NHS. | |||
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"The NHS doesn't pay for them to go through medical school does it anyway? I think you'll find that (despite student fees) the government contributes a considerable sum to every degree course, and (presumably) more to a medical degree than to most other courses given its duration. We fund the Government, we fund the NHS - is there a difference. As for attributing a value to experience, that cuts all ways - men with kids, women with kids, those without kids, and so forth. Does lack of life experiences make a new doctor a bad doctor ? I don't think so. To be honest, I imagine that the full repertoire of quantifiable & unquantifiable factors would be considered when considering the relative merits of men/women/dogs/horses within the NHS." The government does contribute significantly to education and we do fund the government, there is a diffeence because it is specifically the NHS and its funding we are discussing in relation to female doctors. | |||
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"Are you lot crazy ? It's not about whether women make better doctors or worse doctors than men - it's about their relative contribution to the NHS. Incidentally, to all those that say women are just as good at doctoring as men and call for evidence to the contrary, why don't you provide evidence to support your assumptions? I'm guessing the Minister's probably quite well informed and didn't just decide that (it being wednesday) she'd have a go at women doctors. Your turn now. As for it being insulting to women - tough doo-doo . . . I'm no good at choosing wallpaper or cooking but I'm pretty cool with a chainsaw and don't mind walking the dog at night - oddly, quite the reverse to most women that I've met . . . and you say we're all equal - absolute bull**** - we're all equally important but certainly not all equal - men might make better doctors, full stop, or they might make better doctors for the NHS, or they might be worse - or they might be equally good as women - but we are not all equal. " say it like it is. | |||
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"there is a diffeence because it is specifically the NHS and its funding we are discussing in relation to female doctors." Fair point but how about the training that is provided by the NHS ? In reality, it isn't free even though it probably isn't billed. As I understand it, if two doctors each work half-days, that's the equivalent to one doctor working a full day. If you have two doctors working half days, they both needed to be taught & trained, at considerable expense, partly to the NHS. | |||
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"there is a diffeence because it is specifically the NHS and its funding we are discussing in relation to female doctors. Fair point but how about the training that is provided by the NHS ? In reality, it isn't free even though it probably isn't billed. As I understand it, if two doctors each work half-days, that's the equivalent to one doctor working a full day. If you have two doctors working half days, they both needed to be taught & trained, at considerable expense, partly to the NHS." Yes and I think this is what the minister was getting at. However women doctors who only work part time are not the only drain on the NHS and for a minister to make this statement in isolation was bound to cause argument which nicely deflects from thh real problem, the NHS is in trouble and the powers that be don't know how to fix it. | |||
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"However women doctors who only work part time are not the only drain on the NHS and for a minister to make this statement in isolation was bound to cause argument which nicely deflects from thh real problem, the NHS is in trouble and the powers that be don't know how to fix it." Agreed again, but maybe the whole "the NHS is in trouble" thing stems from permitting women to become doctors ? OK, I'm only playing Devil's advocate there | |||
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"However women doctors who only work part time are not the only drain on the NHS and for a minister to make this statement in isolation was bound to cause argument which nicely deflects from thh real problem, the NHS is in trouble and the powers that be don't know how to fix it. Agreed again, but maybe the whole "the NHS is in trouble" thing stems from permitting women to become doctors ? OK, I'm only playing Devil's advocate there " I know that you can't believe that just one factor is responsible for what ails the National Health. Taken to it's furthest extreme we could say that patients are a massive drain on the NHS...... | |||
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"Anna Soubry, one of camerons 'shouty spokes people' and the daily hell.. enough said.. yesterdays chip paper.." Oh no! Only good for the cat litter tray. | |||
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"there is a diffeence because it is specifically the NHS and its funding we are discussing in relation to female doctors. Fair point but how about the training that is provided by the NHS ? In reality, it isn't free even though it probably isn't billed. As I understand it, if two doctors each work half-days, that's the equivalent to one doctor working a full day. If you have two doctors working half days, they both needed to be taught & trained, at considerable expense, partly to the NHS." | |||
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"Oh and "permitting" women to become doctors " Odd that 'allowing' women to be doctors has brought the NHS to it's knees. Especially since female doctors pre-date the NHS by more than 50 years... | |||
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