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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone have experience of these, how did it come about & wat was the outcome? I have my own personal one. ....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stalking is a criminal offence, contct your local police on 101, they can give advise, mine was an ex b/f and a quiet word from a PC was enough to warn him off.

Good luck and don't let the stalker ruin your life. Be strong & stay safe. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have contacted police & solicitors. Been going on nigh on 2 1/2 years now... Gotta have serious solid evidence to prosecute unfortunately. ...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one

Not pleasant

Blocked all local phone boxes

Eventually called police

All stopped after that

I did move though soon after so that probably helped too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy a few years ago who had seen me on a site...he kept turning up at my work then messaging me on the site....never actually talking to me in person,that was bad enough

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Had one

Not pleasant

Blocked all local phone boxes

Eventually called police

All stopped after that

I did move though soon after so that probably helped too"

A debt collector is not a stalker as such

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Had one

Not pleasant

Blocked all local phone boxes

Eventually called police

All stopped after that

I did move though soon after so that probably helped too

A debt collector is not a stalker as such"

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex had a stalker and we ended up having to get the police it was quite scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one too. It's someone I met on Fab. We've met three times in total, the last time was about 10 months ago. I decided soon after that I wasn't going to meet again as he changed from cheeky to being far too nosey and downright rude.

I've had over 30 texts in the last two weeks - all unanswered. He knows where I live too unfortunately, and I actually sat in the dark one night as he said he was coming over to 'sort things out'. That was the last straw so I then spoken to a good friend about it and feel better.

I answered his text over the weekend telling him I've really had enough and for him to delete my number and never contact me again. I have a back-up plan if he does! He's also started profiles on here, putting up obvious status messages but would delete profile every time I spotted and blocked him. I'm a 48 year old woman for crying out loud, I don't need a 30 yrd old being obsessed with me!

Good luck with sorting yours out but don't wait or hold back. Tel him you'll report him if he carries on and this will usually do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She's got no fear of the cops or authority in general. She's even involved my kids...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's got no fear of the cops or authority in general. She's even involved my kids... "

Oh heck, sorry to hear that. Hope it gets sorted for you. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few stalkers via another swinging site.

If they didnt stop the harresment after i had politly asked them i then contacted the police who had a word with them, they all then stopped

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