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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

"

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

"

No strings attached means to us that you do not want emotional involvement with the person/people you swing with beyond liking them, nothing more or less. It doesn't mean that you can't choose who you play with by any criteria you wish to use.

We have had men who are in relationships say that it shouldn't matter to us, but it does.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person."

Yup - married men let you down too often, insist on no perfume, lipstick, have time limits. That is NOT No Strings Attached!

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person."

I think for us NSA means: we will expect nothing more from you, we will not expect you to call or show undying love.

Howeer, we would not knowingly meet anyone who is married and playing away! I (male) dread the thought of a poor wife sat at home with the kids, whilst he enjoys my wife in a 3sum. Of course, we can never be 100% certain when someone says they are single but we will not knowingly do the dirty with anyones partner....male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes NSA exists, and yes to some who will not entertain the idea of playing with people who are attached and playing away without their partners' knowledge.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Because I would hate to be cheated on, and have too much self respect to be hypocritical and do that to another person.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person.

Yup - married men let you down too often, insist on no perfume, lipstick, have time limits. That is NOT No Strings Attached! "

That's what I found. One married man came into my home with soap he wanted me to shower in as his wife sniffed him for other women smells.

Besides, I don't allow any man in my home that won't invite me to his!

Why do married men always start these threads?!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person.

Yup - married men let you down too often, insist on no perfume, lipstick, have time limits. That is NOT No Strings Attached!

That's what I found. One married man came into my home with soap he wanted me to shower in as his wife sniffed him for other women smells.

Besides, I don't allow any man in my home that won't invite me to his!

Why do married men always start these threads?!! "

To make themselves feel better about cheating on someone they profess to love?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

NSA means no strings attached.

NSA doesn't mean Now Survive the Aftermath.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"NSA means no strings attached.

NSA doesn't mean Now Survive the Aftermath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone puts NSA , honest and genuine .....trust them even less !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm...preference?

I have nsa sex...but then I can be phoned anytime..I can go out having drinks without figuring someone will notice me...etc etc..

some of us like to feel comfortable who we are with, maybe even spend quality time doing something without sex(or have that before or afterwards)

I pride myself on my variety of meets..there are very few attached(lets call them cheats just for the fuck of it)that cant.

simple

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I find it really sad when a man or woman who claims to love the partner who has no knowledge of them being on here puts pictures on their profile of themselves engaged in sexual activity with another person it seems so callous and cruel like rubbing their partners nose in it and humiliating them in front of strangers. I know they don't know about it but the intent is still there

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Having a wife/husband/partner is a pretty big string attached IMO. I want fun, not guilt and recriminations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA no strings attached for me is more than just emotional strings of the person you shag.. a married guy has strings attached to the cheated on partner who may come a knocking if found out.. no thanks.

im here for uncomplicated fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Having a wife/husband/partner is a pretty big string attached IMO. I want fun, not guilt and recriminations."

I agree, the no strings bit seems to only apply to the people they are meeting, not to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person.

Yup - married men let you down too often, insist on no perfume, lipstick, have time limits. That is NOT No Strings Attached!

That's what I found. One married man came into my home with soap he wanted me to shower in as his wife sniffed him for other women smells.

Besides, I don't allow any man in my home that won't invite me to his!

Why do married men always start these threads?!! "

Because they can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This topic is not specifically based on me or my relationship, it was based on some responses on someone else's topic here.

I am not justifying nothing to anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This topic is not specifically based on me or my relationship, it was based on some responses on someone else's topic here.

I am not justifying nothing to anyone...

"

well in reality NSA exists,,, if thats the answer u were looking for OP..

it just so happens actual single people are likely to have more NSA encounters than those who arent...well those without consenting partners

As myself and most have stated..whats better really? a pump n a squirt meet for an hr at best..

or one where the time is unhurried, and perhaps even a breakfast in the morning

how many single attached playing away from home types can do that????

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

NSA also means not having a wife or husband finding your number on their partners phone and boiling your pets

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person.

Yup - married men let you down too often, insist on no perfume, lipstick, have time limits. That is NOT No Strings Attached!

That's what I found. One married man came into my home with soap he wanted me to shower in as his wife sniffed him for other women smells.

Besides, I don't allow any man in my home that won't invite me to his!

Why do married men always start these threads?!!

Because they can "

And why do people react negatively to these threads?

Because they can.

As many have stated, attached people come with too much baggage, rules, limits, strings - call it what you will. And so many simply won't meet them. Arguing on here is not going to change that.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I won't knowly meet anybody who is attached...regardless i am on this site i have morals and would hate to be caught up in the crossfire when the partner finds out. also I will not allow anyone dictate to be what i wear and smell like....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"NSA means no strings attached.

NSA doesn't mean Now Survive the Aftermath.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone puts NSA , honest and genuine .....trust them even less !"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"erm...preference?

I have nsa sex...but then I can be phoned anytime..I can go out having drinks without figuring someone will notice me...etc etc..

some of us like to feel comfortable who we are with, maybe even spend quality time doing something without sex(or have that before or afterwards)

I pride myself on my variety of meets..there are very few attached(lets call them cheats just for the fuck of it)that cant.

simple"

...and that pride brings people on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"NSA also means not having a wife or husband finding your number on their partners phone and boiling your pets "

It depends on the sauce added to the pet...if it's tasty then diner is ready!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won't knowly meet anybody who is attached...regardless i am on this site i have morals and would hate to be caught up in the crossfire when the partner finds out. also I will not allow anyone dictate to be what i wear and smell like...."

Good choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

"
..Its the cheating bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but i would get no pleasure in being a married man's dirty secret..

thats what escorts are for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sorry but i would get no pleasure in being a married man's dirty secret..

thats what escorts are for."

Yeah! Escorts...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

..Its the cheating bit. "

...and what if those bits are cut out?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

..Its the cheating bit.

...and what if those bits are cut out? "

Then that would be a divorced man - not a married man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nsa def exists, but been married and cheating means theres strings there, so its not nsa then is it.

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By *scariMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"erm...preference?

I have nsa sex...but then I can be phoned anytime..I can go out having drinks without figuring someone will notice me...etc etc..

some of us like to feel comfortable who we are with, maybe even spend quality time doing something without sex(or have that before or afterwards)

I pride myself on my variety of meets..there are very few attached(lets call them cheats just for the fuck of it)that cant.

simple"

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

it does but it depends on you, I see you are married so that may limit when you can see someone, you may have to cancel at the last minute and i have been with a married man before and it was ok at first but so many rules. I guess all I can say is try to swing like a single person.

Yup - married men let you down too often, insist on no perfume, lipstick, have time limits. That is NOT No Strings Attached! "
db you can ware perfume with my hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

..Its the cheating bit.

...and what if those bits are cut out?

Then that would be a divorced man -

not a married man."

Or a eunoch xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't do married/attached unless you knew the other half was in the know and happy.

Been cheated on and know how much it hurts so couldn't bring myself to cause that for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't knowingly meet anyone thats attached. I wouldn't do to others that I wouldn't want done to me.

If a guy/girls wants to dick about behind their partners back then that's up to them, but they can leave me out of it.

I don't do drama and baggage! NSA suits me just fine!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

..Its the cheating bit.

...and what if those bits are cut out?

Then that would be a divorced man - not a married man."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I reality, does NSA exist?

If it does, why do people care if you are in a relationship or not?

..Its the cheating bit.

...and what if those bits are cut out?

Then that would be a divorced man -

not a married man.

Or a eunoch xx "

Didn't think of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't knowingly meet anyone thats attached. I wouldn't do to others that I wouldn't want done to me.

If a guy/girls wants to dick about behind their partners back then that's up to them, but they can leave me out of it.

I don't do drama and baggage! NSA suits me just fine!! "

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