FabSwingers.com forum: Fingering a lost art form

By *dventurous fella OP Man
16 weeks ago

where

Just seen a thread about handjobs and it’s got me thinking about fingering. I love doing it, have a woman initially lay back as i explore their body with my hands, before eventually teasing an organs from her over an extended period of time. In not talking all this super fast stuff we see in porn, though it can be worked up to! Anyone else a fan or have thoughts

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By *om_38Man
16 weeks ago

stoke

Huge fan of fingering teasing and foreplay.. best why to build up

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Just a shame most men are terrible at it, even those that think they aren't.

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By *rdenites2Couple
16 weeks ago

Leicestershire

I always keep my hand it at fingering.

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By *andybeachWoman
16 weeks ago

In the middle

I have said the same thing for years!! it is quite an art form when done correctly, not the fast n furious method show on most porn sites/films but the intense sensual type that brings the most pleasurable orgasms

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By *ellowshipOfTheSwingCouple
16 weeks ago

Manchester

Indiana Jones and the Touched Up Statue

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By *earditallWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancaster

I said something about this some time ago...guys have lost the art of a good fingering

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By *ensuallover1000Man
16 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I absolutely love to ‘finger’ 🥰 - It drives me sexually, absolutely wild!

The feel of her internal heat, the feel of her sexual lubrication coating my finger and the contours of her cunt (both externally and internally)

It is…..positively divine! 😍😍

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By *heelerMan
16 weeks ago

Northants

I'm a big fan of fingerings and taste the juices

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By *jslookingforfunMan
16 weeks ago

liverpool

It’s definitely an art form, but just needs care taken and no rushing it

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
16 weeks ago

Tamworth

Unfortunately so many men are too rough or worse, determined to get a woman to squirt.

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By *earditallWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Unfortunately so many men are too rough or worse, determined to get a woman to squirt. "

This its like pulling bloody teeth when they are intent on doing something thats not going to happen and put me off

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By *jslookingforfunMan
16 weeks ago

liverpool

Absolutely this, and I think this comes from what guys see in porn films

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By *eliWoman
16 weeks ago

Great when there's an element of sensuality to it. When they really enjoy the response their fingers elicit from me. When they find out how aroused I am and their pupils dilate. I don't always want to be laying back thinking of England - fingers exploring as we're kissing and I'm pressed against a wall? Yes.

Less so if I'm being cervix bashed. Or they do that awful fast rubbing of my clit which makes it retract in to my very soul. Or I end up bleeding over their hand because they've been too aggressive and brought my period on early. And I don't get an orgasm from it (it's very easy for me to come).

I've found women (minus the scarily taloned) to be better at the style I enjoy.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
16 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Dya know what I miss?

Dry Fucking

Ain’t done that in over 20yrs

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By *sWyldWoman
16 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I adore touch. Gentle skilled fingers, wandering hands, all combined with kisses, eye contact or being wrapped up in someone.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
16 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Finger blasting is the worst!

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By *dventurous fella OP Man
16 weeks ago

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"Just a shame most men are terrible at it, even those that think they aren't."

I think many men perhaps tend to rush it as an end goal. I prefer to build up slowly and I’m always willing to take direction and guidance.

I just find it such a turn on

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By *dventurous fella OP Man
16 weeks ago

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
16 weeks ago

Next Door

"Unfortunately so many men are too rough or worse, determined to get a woman to squirt. "

This.

Its a turn off rather than a turn on

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By *jslookingforfunMan
16 weeks ago

liverpool

If your being sensual then you can react to how the woman is responding, it’s not difficult really

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By *dventurous fella OP Man
16 weeks ago

where

"Great when there's an element of sensuality to it. When they really enjoy the response their fingers elicit from me. When they find out how aroused I am and their pupils dilate. I don't always want to be laying back thinking of England - fingers exploring as we're kissing and I'm pressed against a wall? Yes.

I've found women (minus the scarily taloned) to be better at the style I enjoy.

I agree with this too. In the bedroom a start point might be lay back, but I like to reposition as we go and move around against a wall

Is always good as is a woman standing and me on my knees or reaching from behind as she faces a mirror

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By *dventurous fella OP Man
16 weeks ago

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"I adore touch. Gentle skilled fingers, wandering hands, all combined with kisses, eye contact or being wrapped up in someone. "

Exactly what I’m talking about it sure is the whole experience

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By *infullyObedientWoman
16 weeks ago

Woodley

"Just seen a thread about handjobs and it’s got me thinking about fingering. I love doing it, have a woman initially lay back as i explore their body with my hands, before eventually teasing an organs from her over an extended period of time. In not talking all this super fast stuff we see in porn, though it can be worked up to! Anyone else a fan or have thoughts "

If you're teasing organs from her you gone too far!🤣🤣 sorry, made me giggle

Agree with lots of whats been said, love a skilled fingering but not finger blasting or trying to make me squirt - just not enjoyable at all.

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By *2thomMan
16 weeks ago

Campaign to bring back fingering.

Agenda 1: No longer acceptable in pubs/clubs?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
16 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I blame porn for many chaps rough/robotic techniques.

Strumming at the clitoris like Yngwie Malmsteen speedily sweep picking his Fender or else finger blasting as though trying to unblock a drain! 😵‍💫

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I’m a handsy pervert…

Love it with the right person who’s into it

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Huge fan of this being done to me.

Exploring with hands and fingers. Yummo

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By *earditallWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Campaign to bring back fingering.

Agenda 1: No longer acceptable in pubs/clubs?"

Or behind bike sheds

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By *et and WillingCouple
16 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Hubby is very good with his fingers always works for me

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By *2thomMan
16 weeks ago

"Campaign to bring back fingering.

Agenda 1: No longer acceptable in pubs/clubs?

Or behind bike sheds "

Okay, well volunteered for the bike sheds haha

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By *onin25Man
16 weeks ago

Durham

"Indiana Jones and the Touched Up Statue"

🤣🤣

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By *reysweatzzMan
16 weeks ago

Nearby

Ladies give the guys some pointers for the best fingering experience. I know every woman is different but id like to hear what makes fingering enjoyable for you all

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I think porn films must take the blame for poor fingering technique . Most younger guys grow up on thinking its all about cramming as many fingers in and ramming them in like your stuffing a Turkey.

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By *tannersMan
16 weeks ago

stanley

Was it ever an art? Could it have been a science or a humanity?

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By *ugarbearCouple
16 weeks ago

Tredegar

Always loved having a hand up skirt and being finged

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By *onyHoveMan
16 weeks ago

North East

It's a lost art. Take time, be gentle, listen to responses (verbal and response from body) and learn what people like.

There's no 'one way' to do it.

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By *Silver-Man
16 weeks ago

Mold

Its not a lost art, what are you guys on😂

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By *immy 1968Man
16 weeks ago

Hessle

#bringbackfingering

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By *T2022Man
16 weeks ago

Manchester

totally agree love fingering . especially slow and long and fast too

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I’m more worried about my organs

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
16 weeks ago

Sussex

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
16 weeks ago

Sussex

I like an old school, standing up, hands up skirt, hands down the knickers, knuckles deep fingering more than anything else. See vids

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
16 weeks ago

Sussex

"Campaign to bring back fingering.

Agenda 1: No longer acceptable in pubs/clubs?"

Ir most certainly is acceptable

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By *dventurous fella OP Man
16 weeks ago

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If you're teasing organs from her you gone too far!🤣🤣 sorry, made me giggle

Agree with lots of whats been said, love a skilled fingering but not finger blasting or trying to make me squirt - just not enjoyable at all. "

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By *dventurous fella OP Man
16 weeks ago

where

I meant orgasms lol

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By *iddle ManMan
16 weeks ago

Walsall

I love it, and if the lady is accepting it can lead to some great fun.

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