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By *onko the Sane OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I'm making a 400 mile round trip today to visit a grave that I've only visited once some 40+ years ago

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By *ellhungvweMan
16 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If it is meaningful then any journey is a good thing. Hope you get what you need from it.

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By *earditallWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancaster

If it means something to you and you feel the need then no.

I have you have a safe journey...and don't forget the bbq sauce

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By *ust browsing 79Man
16 weeks ago

hayes

Context?

If its because you are bored... probably.

If its a parent but youve been out the country for 40+ years.. no.

And as others say... its what it means to you

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By *onko the Sane OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I lost my dad just over two years ago now and he was cremated. The grave is of his younger brother who passed at aged 6.

I have been struggling with a few things recently and just feel that it's something I need to do

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By *hesubtlegentMan
16 weeks ago

surrey

You’re not mad OP. I lost my Dad over 6 years ago. I visit his grave often as he’s buried near me but I go especially when I want some quiet time and to think things over.

This day is for you to do that. The journey there, the visit to the grave… will be emotional… but I imagine very rewarding. I hope it gives you peace. 🙏🏼

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By *earditallWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancaster


"I lost my dad just over two years ago now and he was cremated. The grave is of his younger brother who passed at aged 6.

I have been struggling with a few things recently and just feel that it's something I need to do "

Then do it and i hope it brings you the peace you want ❤️

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By *ellhungvweMan
16 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I lost my dad just over two years ago now and he was cremated. The grave is of his younger brother who passed at aged 6.

I have been struggling with a few things recently and just feel that it's something I need to do "

It’s a journey you need to make.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
16 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

No you are not mad. Follow your gut , follow your heart. It's the only way to get close to what is calling you and eventually feel release.

Enjoy the day xx

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By *obilebottomMan
16 weeks ago

All over


"I lost my dad just over two years ago now and he was cremated. The grave is of his younger brother who passed at aged 6.

I have been struggling with a few things recently and just feel that it's something I need to do "

In that case then you should and hope it brings peace to you. We often forget that these things do matter for our well being. All the best

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By *ad NannaWoman
16 weeks ago

East London

If it's a celebrity in an area you can have some nice food and a mooch around, or a relative or friend then it's not a waste of time and money.

I can't see any other reason you would want to visit a grave.

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By *ad NannaWoman
16 weeks ago

East London


"I lost my dad just over two years ago now and he was cremated. The grave is of his younger brother who passed at aged 6.

I have been struggling with a few things recently and just feel that it's something I need to do "

If it gives you comfort it's a worthwhile journey.

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By *onko the Sane OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Well that's about right I just had a message saying this is made up bulllshit.

Way to help someone struggling with life

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By *obilebottomMan
16 weeks ago

All over


"Well that's about right I just had a message saying this is made up bulllshit.

Way to help someone struggling with life "

Ignore that, not worth paying attention to it. You do what you need to do for yourself

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By *earditallWoman
16 weeks ago

Lancaster


"Well that's about right I just had a message saying this is made up bulllshit.

Way to help someone struggling with life "

Fuck them,someone will always have a whinge about what others say ignoring it helps

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By *tannersMan
16 weeks ago

stanley

Nobody’s else’s opinion matters in this OP only yours. If you feel it will help then do it.

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By *kphooey43Man
16 weeks ago

Barnet


"Well that's about right I just had a message saying this is made up bulllshit.

Way to help someone struggling with life "

Do it. Weather looks good, bit chilly, wrap up warm, take a thermos (probably not a hip flask given the drive). Sit, have a think, and talk to your lost relatives.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
16 weeks ago

London

You do what feels right for you. Fuck anyone else. I do something similar myself to visit a resting place.

Be well, be safe, and don't forget the bbq sauce.

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By *carlettsWoman
16 weeks ago

Harpenden


"Well that's about right I just had a message saying this is made up bulllshit.

Way to help someone struggling with life "

Block that idiot and move on. You do what is right for you doesn't matter what others think. If it helps you then do it. I hope that you are OK tho and always here if you need to vent to some random stranger. Life can be so very tough.

Do something nice for yourself too tho maybe half way have a nice lunch or find somewhere scenic to just enjoy. Take care

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Round the bend

Not mad at all. If it brings you some comfort or peace of mind, it's worth it 🫶🏼

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By *orba69Man
16 weeks ago

Doncaster

My father died 7 years 2morrow alone in Tullahomma Tennessee.. roughly 4600 miles away & I’d happily do the round trip , I will b in Vegas late February for a few days where he lived 4 a couple of years. I’ve already got his old address out & I’m gonna do a drive by in a cab if it’s possible.

But go 4 OP

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By *007ManMan
16 weeks ago

Worthing

Nice thought op. Hope the visit goes well.

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
16 weeks ago

Essex

It’s not a journey of miles.

I hope it brings you peace x

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
16 weeks ago

Swansea


"Well that's about right I just had a message saying this is made up bulllshit.

Way to help someone struggling with life "

The purpose for your trip and the personal meaning is for you, and I do hope it gives you comfort and helps you to move forward in life.

Now as for the troll, fuck'em! When you look up from your phone screen you see the room you're sat in, they are not there. These people are not in your real life, they present themselves online in a negative manner that masks their own vulnerabilities. Don't feed their ego by responding to them, you hurt these people more by ignoring their demands for attention.

Have a safe journey today, be yourself and let yourself feel whatever you need to.

Mrs S&N

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By *laytime_13Woman
16 weeks ago

Lincs


"I lost my dad just over two years ago now and he was cremated. The grave is of his younger brother who passed at aged 6.

I have been struggling with a few things recently and just feel that it's something I need to do "

Not mad, take the time, make the trip. I hope it brings you some peace

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
16 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I lost my dad just over two years ago now and he was cremated. The grave is of his younger brother who passed at aged 6.

I have been struggling with a few things recently and just feel that it's something I need to do "

Not mad NTM I hope it brings you peace

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
16 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

If its something you need to do for your own peace then no not mad at all x

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By *earded vikingXXXMan
16 weeks ago

hillingdon

Not at all, i want to drive to belgium to visit my nans grave who passed away just over 25 years ago!

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By *ampireLoveMan
16 weeks ago

Essex

Hope it goes well and it helps OP.

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By *onin25Man
16 weeks ago

Durham

Do what you want to or need to do. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks about it.

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