FabSwingers.com forum: How far would you travel for a meet?

Cheshire

I’m often torn between 30 and 40miles on the fab search bar. I’d say that’s an hours drive, I’m thinking thats my limit.

How far would you be willing to travel for a meet? Using the metric of time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

About an hour (public transport) unless there's a pre-existing relationship. Where there's a pre-existing relationship, further.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
26 weeks ago

Round the bend

We don't tend to travel much at all, but if we really clicked with someone, we would.

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By *layfullsamMan
26 weeks ago

Solihull

Pretty much anywhere if I knew it was genuine etc

Probably plan something else to do just incase of ghosting etc

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don't like to drive longer than 45 minutes

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By *onyHoveMan
26 weeks ago

North East

I'm happy with longish travel if im sure people are genuine etc. A couple of hours is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

An hour max now. Done the long distance thing, had some great experiences, but not really sustainable long term with a busy life and generally being skint.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
26 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I don't travel as I don't drive.

When looking to meet anyone they have to be within 30 miles.

If it's more than that it's going to be at a club.

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By *sm265Woman
26 weeks ago

Perthshire

Definitely no more than an hour, any longer and I'm likely to spend longer travelling than at the actual meet .

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By *onin25Man
26 weeks ago

Durham

I'd travel across the country if I was sure they were genuine (and I really liked them but that would go for someone who was close by), logistics makes it difficult to arrange though.

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By *earditallWoman
26 weeks ago

Lancaster

Depends how much i liked someone

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By *lue morphoCouple
26 weeks ago

north west

We love a road trip when we can fit one in

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

Not long. I think an hour is the maximum for me. But preferably under 30 minutes.

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By *anielpiercedMan
26 weeks ago

I travel up and down the country for work and also 98 miles to my favourite club so I'd say a hundred mile radius. That would vary if it's someone I've met in a club previously as I'd be prepared to travel further. If it was someone new I was speaking to I'd have to be talking a long time to travel far due to timewaster potential though

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By *aptainphoenixxx OP Man
26 weeks ago

Cheshire

The potential for a time waster is probably the overriding factor for me. I think that’s why I’ve limited myself to an hour.

I guess visiting clubs and making new trusty friends might be the answer to that one.

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By *uke02Man
26 weeks ago

Waterford City

An hour to 2 hours on public transport

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By *awtybikerMan
26 weeks ago

Barnoldswick

An hour or so, maybe a bit more depending on the person

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd say a hour drive although I did drive two hours to meet a lovely lady however we'd met previously.

Mrs

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By *arc PolarisMan
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

If it was genuine then distance isn't really an issue

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By *ust_us999Couple
26 weeks ago

Somewhere

2 hours was furthest, but that is with a couple we see regularly

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By *rchie300Man
26 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Any distance within the Uk if there was a connection

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By *arleycplWoman
26 weeks ago

Frodsham

Less than 20 miles or about 45 mins drive

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By *endmeyour.wifeMan
26 weeks ago

Warrington

I I’ve driven a couple of hours in the past. What put me off was when I drove nearly an hour, and when I arrived and rang, she got cold feet and blocked my number

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By *BWHunterMan
26 weeks ago

Central Bedfordshire

I’ve got on a train from Luton and gone to Birmingham twice and also gone from Luton to Bristol to meet someone. So I’d say 3 or 4 hours.

Can get pricey as I paid for travel, hotel and got dinner for us both. The connection was there prior so it was worth it x

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've travelled to Manchester a few times; Birmingham, Sheffield and the West Country. Every time an overnight stay.

The women I met were either based from the aforementioned plates or had travelled equidistant for the date (e.g. Scotland).

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
26 weeks ago

South Wales

We’ve travelled a good 2-3 hours for a meet xx 😘

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By *ypersoonMan
26 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Happy to travel 1 to 1.5 hours so that would be around 40 miles

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I don't like to drive longer than 45 minutes"

On the flip side.

I wouldn't want anyone to travel longer than 45 minutes to meet me either.

What if they turn up and the attraction or spark isn't there, I don't want to feel bad or be pressured into doing anything just because they had travel x amount of time to meet me

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By *ocketman20Man
26 weeks ago

Douglas

Being in the Isle of Man, it’s usually miles because nobody wants to meet over here!

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By *kphooey43Man
26 weeks ago

Barnet

For FWBs it has been anything from 30 minutes (15 miles) to 2.75 hours (115 miles) - but they are friends and well worth it.

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By *lder.Woman
26 weeks ago

Not Local

Anything above two hours on a motorway and I begin to regret my life choices, I did drive to the tippiest bit of Cornwall once and back in a day though. I was crazy

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By *hilloutMan
26 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I have to ✈️ everywhere, meaning distance isn't an issue where the right people are concerned.

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By *tormQueenWoman
26 weeks ago

All over the place

An awful further than i thought I would at the moment 🤣

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By *kphooey43Man
26 weeks ago

Barnet

"Anything above two hours on a motorway and I begin to regret my life choices, I did drive to the tippiest bit of Cornwall once and back in a day though. I was crazy

Surely not for a meet!

I just came back from there and it took 10 hours (most of that was spent on the A39 and M5) - I had lost the will to live by the time I got home.

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By *lder.Woman
26 weeks ago

Not Local

"Anything above two hours on a motorway and I begin to regret my life choices, I did drive to the tippiest bit of Cornwall once and back in a day though. I was crazy

Surely not for a meet!

I just came back from there and it took 10 hours (most of that was spent on the A39 and M5) - I had lost the will to live by the time I got home."

Oh good heavens, that was all the holiday traffic I bet

I really cant face the motorway anymore, but love Cornwall. I used to fly down in my little speedy car in about 4 hrs one way. Mad, I know

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

Used to travel 225 miles each way every couple of weeks.

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Schlepping across the country to meet for sex just wouldn't factor into my regular life

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
26 weeks ago

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33 minute drive, tops.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Drive time = Meet time.

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By *obert 323Man
26 weeks ago

Romford

No more than an hour's drive.

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
26 weeks ago

Anglesey

Honestly, if they're worth it, distance doesn't matter. It just sucks because we won't be able to meet up that often. Meeting half way is always an option though

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By *a1970Man
26 weeks ago

East cork

Next door

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By *abulincsCouple
26 weeks ago

near a bridge

Due to our location 11/2 hours

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
26 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm fed up with doing the run around all the time. 10 mins. Max.

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By *a1970Man
26 weeks ago

East cork

I'm moving to kingslynn

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By *ature male OldhamMan
26 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

An hour unless it's to meet someone really special

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

It depends, a quick meet around 30mins.

A hotel meet around 3 hours.

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By *exy RexyMan
26 weeks ago

Up North

8 inches

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
26 weeks ago

Didsbury

Typically within 40 mins drive is my limit. Further if I have friends or family I might be stopping with. There is one exception I have, a friend I have made off these forums who lives in Ireland. I really hope to meet her in the flesh if only for coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

As i live in the west midlands, travelling is not an issue either north or south... if I like someone enough i will travel most places

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By *infullyObedientWoman
26 weeks ago

Woodley

For a first meet probably an hour tops. For a repeat or regular then distance not an issue if I already know it's worth it.

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By *ookiewarrior24Man
26 weeks ago

scotland

Being semi rural traveling can get far

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
26 weeks ago

London

An hour and a half in London. So zone 1-6 😂. 4 hours anywhere else. Hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

If it was to meet the pornstar Violette Blakk, probably Neptune or Pluto 👍

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
26 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

If they are worth it and the connection is there the distance is figured out

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By *unnyandthebookkeeperCouple
26 weeks ago

bristol

Really depends on the people.

I think ifnthw dynamic is there then it can be a destination. But not for a random meet.

We do love adventure though.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Coventry

Tend to mostly use the hour ish travel by car from what ever area I am in at time of month

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By *ature male OldhamMan
26 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

"Tend to mostly use the hour ish travel by car from what ever area I am in at time of month "

I would definitely travel long distance if you were the destination

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By *antra MassageMan
26 weeks ago

Glastonbury

For a first meet, about 30 mins up or down the motorway. For a lovely FWB probably to Paris or Prague.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
26 weeks ago

Chester

Ideally no more than an hour's drive

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By *othicslaveCouple
26 weeks ago

Norfolk

15-20miles or 30mins radius for us.

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By *laytime_13Woman
26 weeks ago

Lincs

"I'd say a hour drive although I did drive two hours to meet a lovely lady however we'd met previously.

Mrs "

And I'm sure that lady is very glad you did make that drive

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By *laytime_13Woman
26 weeks ago

Lincs

If it was a regular meet, 30-45 minutes would be ideal, but up to an hour would be manageable/has been known to happen.

Equally I travel for work occasionally and so sometimes meet in other parts of the country several hours away, I'm not sure if that strictly speaking counts.

I will say Fabs law is well and truly alive, and I do on occasion wish I had more work related trips to justify further travels

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Mayfair

"If it was a regular meet, 30-45 minutes would be ideal, but up to an hour would be manageable/has been known to happen.

Equally I travel for work occasionally and so sometimes meet in other parts of the country several hours away, I'm not sure if that strictly speaking counts.

I will say Fabs law is well and truly alive, and I do on occasion wish I had more work related trips to justify further travels

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I would be immensely grateful if you could kindly fill me in on this so-called "Fabs law". I'm aware of The Fåb Curse™ - a spectre that I have to live with, but this Fab's law is a new one on me. 🙂

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By *laytime_13Woman
26 weeks ago

Lincs

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By *laytime_13Woman
26 weeks ago

Lincs

"If it was a regular meet, 30-45 minutes would be ideal, but up to an hour would be manageable/has been known to happen.

Equally I travel for work occasionally and so sometimes meet in other parts of the country several hours away, I'm not sure if that strictly speaking counts.

I will say Fabs law is well and truly alive, and I do on occasion wish I had more work related trips to justify further travels

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Isn't filling me in your job

However, fabs law (in place of sods law) / fab curse, one and the same

and quite possibly just my own variation so apologies

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By *hortieWoman
26 weeks ago

Northampton/south coast

Within striking distance of town centre. I can walk that far.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No more than 40 minutes. Actually, more like 30. Last year I drove 40 minutes to a very lacklustre meet, so now I'm wary of it.

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By *agichands25Man
26 weeks ago

south east

Happy to travel across the country, if they are genuine and reliable.

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By *oltruckMan
26 weeks ago

Buxton

No more than an hour there and back. Its a long way home after a meet in the early hours.

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By *olalee1Woman
26 weeks ago

middle of nowhere. Ireland

Depends on attraction

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By *aramel.desiresMan
26 weeks ago

Reigate.

I once did 4 hour coach trip to Plymouth, then they drove 40 minutes they their town. It was one of my first meets and I was young! When it had ended I was dropped off at the coach station at 5am, and remembered feeling very vulnerable.

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By *pthillMan
26 weeks ago

st shithole

I wouldn’t

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
26 weeks ago

Swansea

We don't mind a little road trip. On Saturday we're going to travel 3.5 hours (each way) to meet a couple.

Mrs S&N

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Coventry

If I have met someone before / know they are actually genuine then I’ll travel further afield but as most meets seem to be one off deals I keep it as stated x

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By *eliWoman
26 weeks ago

Depends on how interested I am. How interested I think they are. If we've met before. How well we get along.

If it's combined with work/theatre etc, a few hours. A mini adventure with someone I know well (have met before), I'm more than happy to travel for, distance irrelevant.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
26 weeks ago

surrey

For a first meet I’d want to meet half way if they are far away. If there’s a spark and a want to take things further I’d be willing to travel for about an hour 40-50miles max with women I’ve played with before.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

First time, they can come nearer me. They usually do offer.

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By *hort but sweetMan
26 weeks ago

lurgan

I travel round Northern Ireland a fair bit for work so furthest is a 2 hour drive. Wouldn't travel that far as a one off meet though.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
26 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Went all the way to Wales. But her tits were fantastic

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By *orphia2003Woman
26 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

About 1hr by public transport.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Coventry

"Went all the way to Wales. But her tits were fantastic"

I have meets in wales abit but I stay in wales each month for a few days anyway with work lol.

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By *obilebottomMan
26 weeks ago

All over

Distance always comes into play somewhere between desire and common sense

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By *62GeneralMan
26 weeks ago

Loughton

4 hours and it was and is well worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

- The seven levels of the Candy Cane Forest

- The Sea of Swirly Twirly Gum Drops

- The Lincoln Tunnel

- Anywhere really, for the right person…

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By *aggy dollsCouple
26 weeks ago

bradford

I reckon we could make it as far as the front door at the moment.

We've kinda gone into hibernation and the thought of venturing out into the world really doesn't appeal very much.

Mr H

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By *jslookingforfunMan
26 weeks ago

liverpool

I’d happily travel a few hours, but I think it also depends on the meet as well.

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By *rasshopper201Man
26 weeks ago

kendal

6 hour round trip and it was a hoax

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
26 weeks ago

between Donny/Scunny/Gainsborough

As far as I’m comfortable driving on my own. So about an hour.

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By *dventurous fellaMan
26 weeks ago

where

An hours acceptable I thinkn

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Coventry

"6 hour round trip and it was a hoax "

Ugggggg not good. Did you video call them before arranging to meet ?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Coventry

"As far as I’m comfortable driving on my own. So about an hour. "

You don’t like driving distances on your own in general ?

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By *manteeCouple
26 weeks ago

Manchester

We would travel an hour to an hour and a half

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By *inky fun couple 2027Couple
26 weeks ago

Newby/Scarborough

We are heading north soon to see a new couple its ony a 5 and a half hour drive there, but we have booked a hotel and love going upto Scotland

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By *kphooey43Man
26 weeks ago

Barnet

"33 minute drive, tops. "

Guess you have to check the traffic data before leaving (roadworks around Newport can be hell and don't get me started on what they're doing to Hemmingway Road in Cardiff!)

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By *carlettsWoman
26 weeks ago

Harpenden

When I was meeting maybe an hour but have travelled further for people I used to meet on a regular basis

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By *2thomMan
26 weeks ago

Being from Norwich most meets would need 40mins, at least!

Lucky I get to travel with work though, so has some perks

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By *ister SmoothMan
26 weeks ago

Bramhall

I have a hotel room to myself if the right person wants to travel to Switzerland...

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
26 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

No more than an hour.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Yorkshire

To York and back.

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By *obilebottomMan
26 weeks ago

All over

"I have a hotel room to myself if the right person wants to travel to Switzerland...

Hahaha. It shouldn't but did make me laugh. It will be even funnier if someone takes up the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

For a new person. 20-30mins

Longest drive for someone I had met... 7 hours.

In return for him travelling nearer 12 hours of train bus and taxi to meet me the first time.

That was 25 years go though

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By *incpl40sCouple
26 weeks ago

Aberdeen

From Finland to Ireland

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By *bone.75Man
26 weeks ago

Gateshead

50 miles has to be my furthest trip for a meet which I've done a couple of times

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By *nnCeeWoman
26 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

I regularly drive 100 miles, between 2-4 hours, traffic dependant to see one of my favourite people.

I also go to Birmingham for group socials, and there's a trip yo Manchester (4/5 hours drive) on the cards...

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By *gincourt_againMan
26 weeks ago

in the shadows of a mountain

Heard that Specsavers advert on the radio?

Yeh.

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By *aughty CornishmanMan
26 weeks ago

Newquay

Happy to travel between 10 to 15 miles, I work in different parts of the country so I am pretty flexible.

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By *ammy38Man
26 weeks ago

Hartley Wintney

Normally 30 minutes max, on occasions I’ve travelled further but that would be for a club/house party.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
26 weeks ago

Castlebar

90mins drive if I really want to meet someone. Even just for a social if I'm sure they will show up

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By *cherryblossom-Woman
26 weeks ago

South glos

To my local Travelodge and not a minute more 💅

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By *attledogMan
26 weeks ago

Hull

I would say about an hour, so 70 miles, but have travelled further, and it was sure worth it

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By *eaponisedAutismTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Preston

For a quickie i wouldnt do more than ten miles, if it was something I really wanted like being pegged I'd probably do 50 miles.

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By *andybitches1Couple
26 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Our first ever meet around 20 years ago was 2.5hrs away and but we stayed with the girl overnight and was well worth it.Now an hour is nothing to travel up here even for a quickie of fun.

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By *orbidden eastMan
26 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say an hour more or less . if we get along well who knows even longer.

Of course connection is key. Banter and sarcasm is the best.

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