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By *aughty Nat 1989 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Rasen

I an still new to this but I am not stupid. Why do people chat and make nice then just cut u off. Its worse than been on an dating site.

And how hard is it for peeps to reply no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two meets in two weeks and you think you're doing something wrong?

No, you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only thing you need to do differently is lower your expectations. Tjis isn't a site where you are guaranteed sex on a daily basis from a choice of hundreds of willing partners specifically looking for you.

If you've really had 2 meets since you've been here and they aren't just lies then you're doing pretty well so be content with what you have.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I agree what you are saying, happens all the time, one minute they are chatting to you then just stop and you don't even know why.

Child like behaviour is all I can think of as an explaination.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I agree what you are saying, happens all the time, one minute they are chatting to you then just stop and you don't even know why.

Child like behaviour is all I can think of as an explaination."

I chat with people quite intensively for periods of time, then go quiet for a while, and maybe chat more then stop for a while. It varies. I don't think it's childish, it reflects real life where you meet up with friends for a weekend then not see them for 6 months or so.

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By *aughty Nat 1989 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Rasen

If u notice one does say we met over 6 months ago. And the other is from a guywho I met an age ago too.

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By *aughty Nat 1989 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Rasen

Yes I get that. Its the ones who say they want to meet. And when u try to arrange. They say will let u know but they don't. Its just rude.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Normally people you meet for real would say see you later or bye for now or maybe you are not for me but not just cut you off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I agree what you are saying, happens all the time, one minute they are chatting to you then just stop and you don't even know why.

Child like behaviour is all I can think of as an explaination."

This is something I do. If I'm asked, when can I tie you up, when can I come to yours, do you want to see my cock, or as soon as I log on "hi, how are you?" I break contact.

Sometimes, conversation just dries up.

Bottom line, there's always a reason, people are allowed to change their mind, and the sense of entitlement portrayed by some is truly staggering!

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By *aughty Nat 1989 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Rasen

U have no problem with people who change their minds. Just don't get why people can't be honest. U should treat people how u want to ge treated.

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