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The great wink debate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No its not a spell check error.

Often see threads droning on about winks and the various perspectives, but has anyone ever had a positive result from simply sending a wink ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

Yes

Oui

Smitten

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

not from sending one but met a lovely guy after receiving one and then messaging each other

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes.

But I don't always check them and if I've got loads I sometimes just delete the whole shebang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes! I have had many a good thing come from a wink! I fully support them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup

Yes

Oui

Smitten"

theres that word smitten again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many a great adventure started with a wink... So a yes from meFx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many a great adventure started with a wink... So a yes from meFx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many a great adventure started with a wink... So a yes from meFx

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete all without checking out the senders from Day 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" No its not a spell check error.

Often see threads droning on about winks and the various perspectives, but has anyone ever had a positive result from simply sending a wink ? "

Yes, both from sending and from receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they catch our eye, other times lost in all of the other winks and messages but certainly don't see them as a negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks and if we get one from someone we like the look of, we either wink back or send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are good. Saves a lot of wasted time, and is probably easier for the single guys to accept any rejections too.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

wink away ladies and gents ... all winks gratefully received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep , I don't wink often but have winked back and have meet some great guys through it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

outside the age range moody but consider yourself winked at xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really wink a lot but if i ever do it basically mean i wouldn't mind a bit of that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"outside the age range moody but consider yourself winked at xx"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" No its not a spell check error.

Often see threads droning on about winks and the various perspectives, but has anyone ever had a positive result from simply sending a wink ? "

I don't think I have ever sent one and don't really look at those received as i am too busy reading messages so no for me.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I've got to know some great guys, through them winking at me. But also find a downside as some think just beacause they have winked they can send a friends request lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got to know some great guys, through them winking at me. But also find a downside as some think just beacause they have winked they can send a friends request lol"

Surely this isn't a problem?......you don't have to accept? Just ignore?

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"I've got to know some great guys, through them winking at me. But also find a downside as some think just beacause they have winked they can send a friends request lol

Surely this isn't a problem?......you don't have to accept? Just ignore? "

sorry should of put because some wink, they then text want a fuck. I do delete

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

i was winked the other day i winked back and got blocked hay ho shit happens put smile on my face strange lot us swingers hehehehe

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I simply delete on mass: never look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

James,I think his bottle must of gone.Probably the first response he has ever got back from a wink.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I'm terrible for winking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first line of my profile - yes, the one in BLOCK CAPITALS, makes my thoughts on winking very clear, and yet I still get winks aplenty, particularly from couples. I've had to block some gorgeous ladies as a result, but ultimately if they can't be bothered to write me a nice message and get in contact properly then I've no time for them.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It's not something I really use. Saying that I don't go throwing a hissy if I get one.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Think iv only ever had em from blokes. I keep saying im not that kinda biker but well if it makes em feel good who cares. Be nice to get at least 1 from a lady though but I dont really send em myself so cant really comment

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Yes. We see it as an expression of interest.

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By *andyshanksMan
over a year ago

derby

I'm often on at work so sometimes send a cheeky quick wink but not had anything positive back yet, however a wink followed later by a message however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" No its not a spell check error.

Often see threads droning on about winks and the various perspectives, but has anyone ever had a positive result from simply sending a wink ? "

Send them the worst they can do is send you an abusive message or block you.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

No, not as far as I'm aware - but I continue to live in the hope that I might, one day, chance upon someone kind enough to wink or say hello back ... and, in all fairness, it has only been a couple of years of trying so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are a good way to get the ball rolling, the fab equivalent of a flirty look across a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer them to messages, I don't feel guilty if I ignore them,ill respond if I like a profile

Problem is I get messages telling me they have just sent me a wink,or messages asking if I received the wink as they hav'nt heard back

No helping some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first line of my profile - yes, the one in BLOCK CAPITALS, makes my thoughts on winking very clear, and yet I still get winks aplenty, particularly from couples. I've had to block some gorgeous ladies as a result, but ultimately if they can't be bothered to write me a nice message and get in contact properly then I've no time for them."

I must not wink I must not wink , oh it's like been told not to touch the electric fence but you just have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some right winkers on here, but seriously its all harmless fun and I often wink at people I like in day to day life, a cheeky wink and a smile never did no harm

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