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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Went out on the razz last night and stopped on a friends sofa as has no lifts home.

I hate staying over people's houses because I. Feel so awkward in the morning. I always feel like I am overstating my welcome. I generally wake up before them and feel strange waiting for them to wake up.

I also think I snores a lot!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I hate staying over people's houses because I. Feel so awkward in the morning. I always feel like I am overstating my welcome. I generally wake up before them and feel strange waiting for them to wake up.

"

Ditto

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I don't have that problem hunnie! If I stay overnight, I'll wake up, make coffee and breakfast for all, have a shower give them a kiss and go! Cio x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i hate the whole sleep over thing too.. never do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have that problem hunnie! If I stay overnight, I'll wake up, make coffee and breakfast for all, have a shower give them a kiss and go! Cio x"

wow you can come to ours anytime xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was out the other week in Chester, and too late fur bus etc. so stayed over at friends.

Problem is they're Dinkies and used to sleeping in til past midday on the weekend, whilst I'm an early bird.

So it's tiptoe through the kitchen, coffee, and quietly close the door behind me as I head for the first bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went out on the razz last night and stopped on a friends sofa as has no lifts home.

I hate staying over people's houses because I. Feel so awkward in the morning. I always feel like I am overstating my welcome. I generally wake up before them and feel strange waiting for them to wake up.

I also think I snores a lot!!!! "

don't worry we wont tell you snore so does lyn lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Went out on the razz last night and stopped on a friends sofa as has no lifts home.

I hate staying over people's houses because I. Feel so awkward in the morning. I always feel like I am overstating my welcome. I generally wake up before them and feel strange waiting for them to wake up.

I also think I snores a lot!!!! "

If the situation was the other way around would you wake up thinking "oh god they are still here"... or would you be happy to know you had helped out a friend and pleased to see them?

Would you invite people to stay if you really didn't want them to stay?

Would you feel like you had done something wrong if they felt awkward in the morning and couldn't wait to leave?

Put the telly on, boil the kettle ready and accept the fact they are happy for you to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Canny remember the last time I stayed out, i love my own bed too much, plus im an earlyriser,but id get up make a brew ,shower and potter about till alls up and if they take forever get the bacon going usually wakes em up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I hate staying over people's houses because I. Feel so awkward in the morning. I always feel like I am overstating my welcome. I generally wake up before them and feel strange waiting for them to wake up.

I also think I snores a lot!!!!

If the situation was the other way around would you wake up thinking "oh god they are still here"... or would you be happy to know you had helped out a friend and pleased to see them?

Would you invite people to stay if you really didn't want them to stay?

Would you feel like you had done something wrong if they felt awkward in the morning and couldn't wait to leave?

Put the telly on, boil the kettle ready and accept the fact they are happy for you to be there."

Great point!!!

If it was the other way round..yep I agree with all of that 100%.

But in someone elses house, I just feel awkward.

Its strange I know.

If they were in my house..yeah id be ecpecting them to feel at home and chill out.

But the other way round..would just be awkward for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have that problem hunnie! If I stay overnight, I'll wake up, make coffee and breakfast for all, have a shower give them a kiss and go! Cio x"

We enjoy having visitors too, especially those that make us both brekkie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*ecpecting = expecting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not keen on staying over either, not because of anything our hosts might say or do we are just quite private people and aren't comfortable in someone elses space like that.

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