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Am I too old for a 'cougar'

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By * friend in need OP   Man
20 weeks ago

bl2

Maybe I'm misunderstanding the terminology, but I often favour the company of an older woman than myself, however does this put me in the age bracket of seeking a cougar myself just because the lady is older than me? Thankyou x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
20 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Nope. You’re still a cub 😘

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By *earditallWoman
20 weeks ago

Lancaster

Nope your a cub

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, when I look for women to befriend, to become acquainted with and to seek whatever else may blossom beyond that - I avoid the 'age attributed' terminologies and labels, labels which can sometimes unnecessarily restrict my options.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your preferences: just look for women that fit your mutual criteria and compatibilities. Personally I would focus less on these labels (probably because I'm old). But that's just me. 🩶

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By *ittlebirdWoman
20 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"OP, when I look for women to befriend, to become acquainted with and to seek whatever else may blossom beyond that - I avoid the 'age attributed' terminologies and labels, labels which can sometimes unnecessarily restrict my options.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your preferences: just look for women that fit your mutual criteria and compatibilities. Personally I would focus less on these labels (probably because I'm old). But that's just me. 🩶"

^^ tart

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Hope not OP cus then I would be too 🤣

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
20 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Maybe I'm misunderstanding the terminology, but I often favour the company of an older woman than myself, however does this put me in the age bracket of seeking a cougar myself just because the lady is older than me? Thankyou x"

Nope not at all

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
20 weeks ago

South Wales

No you’re not too old at all! Xx 😘

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By * friend in need OP   Man
20 weeks ago

bl2

Well that's good to know x

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By * friend in need OP   Man
20 weeks ago

bl2


"Nope. You’re still a cub 😘"

Well that's good to know x

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By *dam1971Man
20 weeks ago

Bedford


"OP, when I look for women to befriend, to become acquainted with and to seek whatever else may blossom beyond that - I avoid the 'age attributed' terminologies and labels, labels which can sometimes unnecessarily restrict my options.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your preferences: just look for women that fit your mutual criteria and compatibilities. Personally I would focus less on these labels (probably because I'm old). But that's just me. 🩶

^^ tart"

You say that like it’s a bad thing

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By *kphooey43Man
20 weeks ago

Barnet


"OP, when I look for women to befriend, to become acquainted with and to seek whatever else may blossom beyond that - I avoid the 'age attributed' terminologies and labels, labels which can sometimes unnecessarily restrict my options.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your preferences: just look for women that fit your mutual criteria and compatibilities. Personally I would focus less on these labels (probably because I'm old). But that's just me. 🩶

^^ tart

You say that like it’s a bad thing "

you don't want to be on a scolding from LB. However, I would expect Nero to give an erudite response to the accusation of being a "tart" involving the use of sophisticated language, wit, and perhaps a touch of condescension to expose the insult's triviality or LB's lack of imagination, maybe along the lines of:

"How quaint. It seems your lexicon is somewhat constrained if 'tart' is the most articulate term you can muster for disapprobation."

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By *rEman4uMan
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think I maybe too old

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair


"OP, when I look for women to befriend, to become acquainted with and to seek whatever else may blossom beyond that - I avoid the 'age attributed' terminologies and labels, labels which can sometimes unnecessarily restrict my options.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your preferences: just look for women that fit your mutual criteria and compatibilities. Personally I would focus less on these labels (probably because I'm old). But that's just me. 🩶

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^^ tart

You say that like it’s a bad thing "

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It's just LB being her usual sassy self. I dare not contradict her. It's not worth the damage to my epididymis.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
20 weeks ago

cardiff

All this cougar, cub terminology just makes me🤢, just focus on the people who you like, quite simple

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

North West


"Nope your a cub "

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?

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By *earditallWoman
20 weeks ago

Lancaster


"Nope your a cub

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?"

I have 35 on my settings to limit messages but I've been known to go younger but not really under 30 as im then old enough to be their mum I think each person's different.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
20 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Nope your a cub

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?"

For me I go on age difference especially if 10 years or more

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

North West


"Nope your a cub

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?

I have 35 on my settings to limit messages but I've been known to go younger but not really under 30 as im then old enough to be their mum I think each person's different."

Yeah that makes sense. Thank you and I understand. I think most ladies on here would find it a bit weird to go with lads who are the same age as their son.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

North West


"Nope your a cub

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?

For me I go on age difference especially if 10 years or more "

Makes sense. Is that your limit then 10 years or more?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
20 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Nope your a cub

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?

For me I go on age difference especially if 10 years or more

Makes sense. Is that your limit then 10 years or more? "

It's a ball park figure as it were , if I like them and they like me then hurrah

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By *earditallWoman
20 weeks ago

Lancaster


"Nope your a cub

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?

I have 35 on my settings to limit messages but I've been known to go younger but not really under 30 as im then old enough to be their mum I think each person's different.

Yeah that makes sense. Thank you and I understand. I think most ladies on here would find it a bit weird to go with lads who are the same age as their son."

Yeah I've boys who are 28 so seems a bit strange

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

North West


"Nope your a cub

I'm curious. Is there an age limit or does it just depend on age difference really?

I have 35 on my settings to limit messages but I've been known to go younger but not really under 30 as im then old enough to be their mum I think each person's different.

Yeah that makes sense. Thank you and I understand. I think most ladies on here would find it a bit weird to go with lads who are the same age as their son.

Yeah I've boys who are 28 so seems a bit strange "

I'm just glad I'm a bit older. So I won't get rejected as much due to being younger haha

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By *yrealname26234Man
20 weeks ago

Haslemere

Ah ha a good question one im mulling over a lot myself ( but I do know my answer really just refusing to belive im suddenly old)

Yeah number one desire since desires started happening the older confident Lady !

Never has this played out ( was a decade or two when all desires had to be kept at bay no straying)

All of a sudden I find this site then fund the perfect Lady's a few ticking all the boxes !

But then reality hits when wanting to send a message ! SORRY YOUR WAY TOO OLD aghhh

Blinking roll play i suppose but ain't my thing !

I rekon OP you be fine but don't dordle !!

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
20 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap


"OP, when I look for women to befriend, to become acquainted with and to seek whatever else may blossom beyond that - I avoid the 'age attributed' terminologies and labels, labels which can sometimes unnecessarily restrict my options.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your preferences: just look for women that fit your mutual criteria and compatibilities. Personally I would focus less on these labels (probably because I'm old). But that's just me. 🩶"

I'm going to side with Nero here.

As someone who presumably would fit right into that 'cougar' definition, it irks me incredibly that I would be given such a label.

I'm a woman... A woman of maturity in both years and mind, and my preference is for meeting someone of similar maturity of mind. So anyone who wants to label me would, I'm afraid, be judged as demonstrating a level of immaturity I don't want to be associated with.

That's just me though, I can't, and won't, speak for all women.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
20 weeks ago

Debauchery

No I don’t think so. I wouldn’t go for anyone under 30 now

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By * Young BuckMan
20 weeks ago

home

I need a cougar

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
20 weeks ago

Bot Farm

OP, I think you should state on your profile that, instead of your 18-year-old girl's preferences. For me a big turn-off. I like mature men but when I chat with/ meet a younger guy (30 to 40), I check first if he states clearly he likes older women and if he has mature women verifications from.

I don't like to be the last chance for anybody.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
20 weeks ago

Debauchery


"OP, I think you should state on your profile that, instead of your 18-year-old girl's preferences. For me a big turn-off. I like mature men but when I chat with/ meet a younger guy (30 to 40), I check first if he states clearly he likes older women and if he has mature women verifications from.

I don't like to be the last chance for anybody. "

Actually that’s a very fair point.

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