FabSwingers.com forum: Changing sexuality

By *ustplayfullwife OP Couple
24 weeks ago

Shapwick

What’s peoples views on changing your profile sexuality to suit the person that you are chatting to or the meet they’re trying to arrange?

My personal opinion is there should be some aspects of your profile that you shouldn’t be able to change without creating a new account, sexuality being one of them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

What's the difference? Why be straight on one profile and Bi on another ?

Doesn't worry me either way ...... there's bread to bake.

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By *offiacoolWoman
24 weeks ago

Alsager

"What's the difference? Why be straight on one profile and Bi on another ?

Doesn't worry me either way ...... there's bread to bake."

Oooh, it's not you that left then. Someone flounced off and left a thread, there was some debate if it was you

The thread was fuck it, im off (their grammar not mine). It's about 3 or 4 pages back if you click the back button on lounge forum threads.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Blimey Renata !

I don't flounce.

I'll try to peek at it.

Bit shocked people would think i'm a flouncer - that breaks my little heart.

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Mayfair

The only way Grånny will leave this site will be via a cryogenic chamber.

The bicentennial gran.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think it's possible for someone to go through a journey of self discovery here - it's not like birthdays, it can change.

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I think it is duplicitous to have multiple profiles with different sexualities on them OP. Own what you are and don’t pretend to be something else.

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By *ornLee86Man
24 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

my mates always do this when d*unk

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

My opinion is it depends on the specifics of why it's changed & if it was done to be deceptive or not.

If they suddenly become straight because someone doesn't meet anyone that's bi, that's wrong.

Similarly, if say a couple changed it because they want to attract a woman to play with, for his benefit, again not good.

If someone has tried to play straight or bi and decided it wasn't for them, then I think hays ok to change it back again.

Depends on the specifics of the situation really.

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Just to add. I don't think you should be able to change your age either. Mostly as it's to get round filters.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

Central

"Blimey Renata !

I don't flounce.

I'll try to peek at it.

Bit shocked people would think i'm a flouncer - that breaks my little heart."

I'd have been shocked if you'd flounce

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By *ustplayfullwife OP Couple
24 weeks ago

Shapwick

"What’s peoples views on changing your profile sexuality to suit the person that you are chatting to or the meet they’re trying to arrange?

My personal opinion is there should be some aspects of your profile that you shouldn’t be able to change without creating a new account, sexuality being one of them. "
the issue is the person or persons that you may chat to change aspects of their profile to suit their needs like changing their age, smoking or non smoking and sexuality.

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Just to add. I don't think you should be able to change your age either. Mostly as it's to get round filters. "

My age changes every year but if you had a way to stop that then I would up for it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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24 weeks ago

Central

I dislike people who would try to manipulate by deception, of things that some find very dear to their preferences in others. Some straight people go to Birmingham events, pretending to be bi, so they can get closer to women - it's a comparable measure.

Sexuality can vary over time. But this is different from wilful adoption of camouflage..

I think most people would value the honesty but loathe the dishonesty.

Some people apparently do have several profiles., branding themselves of various sexual types.

Profiles could perhaps list the changes that users have made. People might prefer them, to status updates

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Just to add. I don't think you should be able to change your age either. Mostly as it's to get round filters.

My age changes every year but if you had a way to stop that then I would up for it."

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By *ittlebirdWoman
24 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"What’s peoples views on changing your profile sexuality to suit the person that you are chatting to or the meet they’re trying to arrange?

My personal opinion is there should be some aspects of your profile that you shouldn’t be able to change without creating a new account, sexuality being one of them. the issue is the person or persons that you may chat to change aspects of their profile to suit their needs like changing their age, smoking or non smoking and sexuality. "

Both smoking habits and sexual preference may change over time. Age should only go upwards.

That’s the joy of fab and online interactions really. What they put on their profile - only they know if it’s right. It’s really up to the person interacting with them to do their own due diligence on what is important to you.

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By *ustplayfullwife OP Couple
24 weeks ago

Shapwick

yes in life but not every ten minutes or with every message

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By *ittlebirdWoman
24 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"yes in life but not every ten minutes or with every message"

Even if those kind of things were locked on a profile those kind of profiles would find a way to do the same.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
24 weeks ago

Leicester

I think if you're changing it to accomodate other people, that's wrong and feels deceitful to yourself and to the person you're meeting.

But if you are changing it as you no long feel the way you once did, then go ahead. Sexuality is a spectrum as we know.

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