FabSwingers.com forum: Do you state you physical aspect preferences on your profile?

By *errywild OP Woman
24 weeks ago

Close, watch your back!

Do you put up what type of people you are attracted to or not on your profile?

Or do you think it a bit insensitive, impolite, others' confidence affecting?

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By *estructionDollyWoman
24 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

No because I'm attracted to a plethora of different types physically. There are certain "types" I am drawn to but the actual people I've connected with are so varied, the chemistry and personality are equally as important as physical attraction.

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

No. I like all shapes, sizes, hair colours, whatever. Not being polite, but out of the thought process that you can see things you fancy in anyone, just maybe not at the same time 🤓🥷

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

No because I am not necessarily looking for a particular physical thing. I am looking for a dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I don't, it's more about attitude for me. I like confidence. And also someone who likes heels and lingerie

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By *viatrixWoman
24 weeks ago

Gatwick

I have a very specific type, but I have enjoyed meets with people who are not that specific type, so I don’t mention it any more on my profile. Casting a net wider and all that 🤣🤣🤣

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think it's fine to say what you're attracted to, as long as its not derogatory in anyway towards others.

I don't have a set type really. It's more I'd know if u saw it sort of thing.

So, I just say there has to be a mutual attraction. I do say no big beards though, as that's just not for me.

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By *kibirdWoman
24 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)

I think that in a site that’s mainly for physical interactions, stating physical preferences is pretty much accepted. I might have features that I find more attractive than others but they’re not “must have” items

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By *og and MuseCouple
24 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We don’t, but we’re more interested in the type of person and their mind than a certain physical shape or aesthetic.

But if you specifically want something like slim , muscular, min height, then I think it’s absolutely fine to say that.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
24 weeks ago

East Lincs

We are attracted to the same attributes but they might be different on different peoples.

Filthy eyes, a relaxed confidence about them, a physique which we find attractive, good conversationalist…they will look and be different for each person.

I think as well if you list your type - you’ll then get ‘I know I’ve only got 2 of your list of 17 types but I think I’m the exception’. 😬

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By *oeBeansMan
24 weeks ago

Derby

No, not really. I don't really have hard and fast rules in terms of a type (which doesn't mean I'll shag anyone!) so I only know if I find someone attractive once I see them and if I listed a set of physical preferences, I wouldn't want someone I could be attracted to to think that rules them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I just want guys that aren't complete morons. I may add that.

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
24 weeks ago

Cardiff

My profile says I don't really have a physical type, and I really don't. There is something attractive about everyone

It also definitely puts me off someone's profile if they are specific about their physical type, no judgement, I'm just not looking for people who value that above all else

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
24 weeks ago

Reading

I didn't think I had a type until I actually looked at my most recent encounters. Intelligent, funny, caring and looks that were the total opposite to my ex. I'm not sure that would work in my profile 😀

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By *SharedAdventureCouple
24 weeks ago

Edinburgh

No..attraction varies for us both. Sometimes it's not about physical attributes, it is just something that makes someone appealing.

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
24 weeks ago

chester

I do have a type, but I don't state it a)in case it reads insensitively and b) there is a chance someone outside what I think I prefer engages me and j find it intriguing

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By *hilloutMan
24 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

No. I know what I like when I see it, and that can often differ.

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By *ynamite500Man
24 weeks ago

Angus

No, it's humour and intelligence that I'm attracted to ☺️

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I just want guys that aren't complete morons. I may add that. "

"Look, look, I strung a sentence together once in 1984. I'm brilliant, me"

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By *arc PolarisMan
24 weeks ago

Birmingham

Physically no though there are certain physical attributes that I am attracted too more than others.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
24 weeks ago

Telford

I do yes, I have likes not must haves though.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
24 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Do you put up what type of people you are attracted to or not on your profile?

Or do you think it a bit insensitive, impolite, others' confidence affecting?

I don’t OP no as I don’t have a physical type.

But.. it’s their profile. If someone reading it has their confidence affected then you would question if the reader should really be on Fab 🌈

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Do you put up what type of people you are attracted to or not on your profile?

Or do you think it a bit insensitive, impolite, others' confidence affecting?

We used to when we had our meeting profile up.

It isn't insensitive or impolite to state a preference respectfully and if someone's confidence is so low that it's affected by us stating what we like then I'd say they have bigger issues

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By *007ManMan
24 weeks ago

Worthing

No, I am currently very, very attacted to someone and "type" does not even come into it. She is not on here by the way.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
24 weeks ago

Maidstone

I don't but then I don't really have a type!!

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
24 weeks ago

Chester

I made the bold move of stating my preferences for age and height, this was met with a fair bit of criticism, so now every message/encounter is bespoke

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"I don't but then I don't really have a type!!"

Same here

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
24 weeks ago

Norwich

Yes as I have a specific type.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
24 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
24 weeks ago

Chester

"Yes as I have a specific type. "

Would it be in your user name? 🤔 😉

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
24 weeks ago

North West

I’ve been attracted to a wide variety of men and women. That said, tall men with a short beard and piercing eyes will always get my attention 😍

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By *tormQueenWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester

"Do you put up what type of people you are attracted to or not on your profile?

Or do you think it a bit insensitive, impolite, others' confidence affecting?

I have one very specific physical requirement i am clear about

Its normally either completely ignored or taken as some sort of negotiation🙄

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By *ora the explorerWoman
24 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them. "

Actually the height thing I think I do mention, I can’t remember! 🤦‍♀️. Have to be taller than me

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
24 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We don’t. I do have a niche preference in men although it’s not a hard and fast rule. I tend to like a man with a big face. I know, it’s weird

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

No. I am attracted to a vibe, an aura. Chemistry. Humour. Sure a fella can be good looking (to me) and that helps. But body wise? height? Means nothing to me.

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By *hilloutMan
24 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them.

Actually the height thing I think I do mention, I can’t remember! 🤦‍♀️. Have to be taller than me "

With our without 👠? Or both? 😂

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By *ora the explorerWoman
24 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them.

Actually the height thing I think I do mention, I can’t remember! 🤦‍♀️. Have to be taller than me

With our without 👠? Or both? 😂"

I’d probably settle without as I’m about 6ft 2 in heels and it limits my choices even more 🤣

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By *hovskolMan
24 weeks ago

South Manchester

Physical attraction is a thing, but not the be all. That said it can be a bit of a sliding scale, and I think body can be a reflection of personality. For me I'm interested in someone who looks after themselves and cares about their body.

I think being fit shouldn't make you entitled or a dickhead, not something that's always shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I’m 6ft 2 barefoot. It’s never limited me, it just s out the ones who can’t handle a tall woman. Which works in my favour really.

Guess we’re all different 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"I’m 6ft 2 barefoot. It’s never limited me, it just s out the ones who can’t handle a tall woman. Which works in my favour really.

Guess we’re all different 🤷🏻‍♀️"

we*ds out

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By *tormQueenWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester

"Not really. I have loads of preferences but don’t state them.

Actually the height thing I think I do mention, I can’t remember! 🤦‍♀️. Have to be taller than me

With our without 👠? Or both? 😂

I’d probably settle without as I’m about 6ft 2 in heels and it limits my choices even more 🤣"

This ⬆️⬆️⬆️

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

No because most people have something different to offer and don’t want to but people off by naming one specific type

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